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Thread: What will life actually be like into our 30s and 40s if we don't pursue familiies

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Originally Posted By AgRyan⏩
Turn 33 this year, single, make a good amount of money, save a good amount of money, live by the beach, life is good.

I have thought about finding a girl to settle down with, but every relationship I've been in, I get annoyed with the girl because I'm so used to my freedom, lack of communication, etc. God forbid you wife a girl up and then that happens, would be terrible.It does kinda suck seeing all the girls you've dated get wifed up though and you think if maybe you should have, but then you remember the little stuff and you're like nope.

I'm starting to think I should just get with my long term FWB. Super chill, we both have the same job which is a major perk (understanding odd hours and behaviors), have gotten along for a few years and never been pissed at her, but also because I just didn't give a fuk the whole time. Basically if I want kids though, should have them in the next few years. Being senile when my kids are not even 30 doesn't sound good for them or me.
I believe every relationship has those "little things" and they grate more as time goes by and you accept them or waste time being angry and dissatisfied.

If you are around a couple that has been married for a long time [30 - 40 years] you may find that they still bicker at each other, but that it is generally good natured.
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You’re a fat disgusting cow
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩
There are a few miscers like this who claim they are doing well financially, want children, but either can't find a good woman to marry or are too picky/too scared.

If you want children and feel that strongly that a legal marriage to a woman is worse than Russian roulette then why don't you just get a surrogate and a nanny?
You wanna be my surrogate? I’m in Dallas lmao

Maybe the alternative is if you marry you hire the best damned lawyer money can buy. I just couldn’t live with myself parting with 7 figures of the money I mostly made in a marriage if it fails, and the odds aren’t that great to begin with.
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩
There are a few miscers like this who claim they are doing well financially, want children, but either can't find a good woman to marry or are too picky/too scared.

If you want children and feel that strongly that a legal marriage to a woman is worse than Russian roulette then why don't you just get a surrogate and a nanny?
Stopped reading after that one troll was doing all the weird interracial porn gifs but absolutely based I can't believe I never thought about this biological blood son with no dumb hoooor wife and can still bang baddie 20 years olds faurk. das it mane.
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Originally Posted By x420SwagScopex⏩
Middle aged? Sloot, you are not middle aged. You are a registered, card carrying oldcel.
lmaoo this old bitch on suicide watch
post 1632891733 03-03-2021, 11:00 PM
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Originally Posted By chuandotanmaxx⏩
lmaoo this old bitch on suicide watch
What? Middle aged is between 40-60. Old age is after 60.
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Originally Posted By DoYouEvenNEM⏩
I've lived in Latin America. All I ever saw were really fat women with bad attitudes. The Feminist / Queer thing is almost as bad there as it is in the west now. Girls all got hairy arms too.

I think the reason why Latinas in USA are considered 'good' is because they know they're lower on the racial totem pole and try to be less bitchy than white coutnerparts. Same reason I have an easier time smashing East Asians in North America / UK than in actual East Asia. But a white guy can't really JBW in Latin America like he can in South East Asia. It just doesn't compare. Ofc I'm talking about Spanish Latin America. I haven't done Brazil yet nor digging in the Falevas.
The Falevas are an entirely different animal. They make Southside Chicago look like Beverley Hills.
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Originally Posted By AgRyan⏩
Turn 33 this year, single, make a good amount of money, save a good amount of money, live by the beach, life is good.

I have thought about finding a girl to settle down with, but every relationship I've been in, I get annoyed with the girl because I'm so used to my freedom, lack of communication, etc. God forbid you wife a girl up and then that happens, would be terrible. It does kinda suck seeing all the girls you've dated get wifed up though and you think if maybe you should have, but then you remember the little stuff and you're like nope.

I'm starting to think I should just get with my long term FWB. Super chill, we both have the same job which is a major perk (understanding odd hours and behaviors), have gotten along for a few years and never been pissed at her, but also because I just didn't give a fuk the whole time. Basically if I want kids though, should have them in the next few years. Being senile when my kids are not even 30 doesn't sound good for them or me.
In literally the same boat for the most part but why change anything? I have a main chick who I've been seeing weekly for 7+ years who "loves" me and we get along great. She knows I smash other girls from time to time but doesn't care because I give her all the loving she craves. Most women won't go looking for other dudes if you're providing everything they need. Just have to find the ones who are cool with not getting married and all that. They're out there but pretty rare in my experience. Have other FWBs at the moment that are the same way and have had ones that left for a "real BF" but 9 times out of 10 they come back a year or so later when that inevitably fails.
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Worthless. Life isn't going to get any better for you ***gots. I'd stop worrying about chads on Instagram and lock a good women down while you can. Try not to turn into a cuck like most white husbands and hopefully you turn out alright.
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post 1632907963 03-04-2021, 07:17 AM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
What? Middle aged is between 40-60. Old age is after 60.
Only for men. Women are old at 35. Men are still highly productive between 40-60. Probably their most productive years. Lonely old women are eating cat food.
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Originally Posted By Kev1972⏩
Only for men. Women are old at 35. Men are still highly productive between 40-60. Probably their most productive years. Lonely old women are eating cat food.
Sure they are. I had a baby at 33 and was chasing a toddler at 35 while having my MySpace blown up by young Chads in their early 20s. Just lol at old age.
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You fall in love, get married and have children.

Not the other way around.

Life isn't "chicken or egg dilemma."



Find a worthy chick first and eggs come later.
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Originally Posted By AgRyan⏩
Turn 33 this year, single, make a good amount of money, save a good amount of money, live by the beach, life is good.

I have thought about finding a girl to settle down with, but every relationship I've been in, I get annoyed with the girl because I'm so used to my freedom, lack of communication, etc. God forbid you wife a girl up and then that happens, would be terrible. It does kinda suck seeing all the girls you've dated get wifed up though and you think if maybe you should have, but then you remember the little stuff and you're like nope.
This. I have a FWB, she's got a busy work life and I don't want to be stuck in a relationship so it works out great. We bang when we're both free and in the mood. Otherwise we just do our own things and it works out great
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Originally Posted By Samraiwise⏩
You fall in love, get married and have children.

Not the other way around.

Life isn't "chicken or egg dilemma."



Find a worthy chick first and eggs come later.
you sir, are the sweetest miscer alive. From the way you talk about women and love - so respectfully to how nice and chill you are, one of the greatest poster.

I always get those positive vibes when reading your posts, please never change and may God bless females with men like you.
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Originally Posted By Samraiwise⏩
You fall in love, get married and have children.

Not the other way around.

Life isn't "chicken or egg dilemma."



Find a worthy chick first and eggs come later.
In the west all of the good eggs are gone by the time most start to think about love and children.
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Originally Posted By DizzySmalls⏩
In the west all of the good eggs are gone by the time most start to think about love and children.
Not the case for me and many others. For the average miscers who let and is letting life pass them by? Certainly.
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financial freedom
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If I lost any of these life would kind of suck.
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I had my kids in my late 30s - prior to that I was convinced I wouldn't have kids

I honestly don't even remember what life was like before them
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Originally Posted By Clockbro⏩
I had my kids in my late 30s - prior to that I was convinced I wouldn't have kids

I honestly don't even remember what life was like before them
We have a 4YO right now. Every day this kid has me in hysterics.
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Originally Posted By Clockbro⏩
I had my kids in my late 30s - prior to that I was convinced I wouldn't have kids

I honestly don't even remember what life was like before them
How old are you now, like 90?
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Originally Posted By Clockbro⏩
I had my kids in my late 30s - prior to that I was convinced I wouldn't have kids

I honestly don't even remember what life was like before them
Cause you’ve been drinking so heavily to deal with them??
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Originally Posted By eatmycrackers⏩
You wanna be my surrogate? I’m in Dallas lmao

Maybe the alternative is if you marry you hire the best damned lawyer money can buy. I just couldn’t live with myself parting with 7 figures of the money I mostly made in a marriage if it fails, and the odds aren’t that great to begin with.
Not worth it for me. I was miserable when knocked up.
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Stopped reading after that one troll was doing all the weird interracial porn gifs but absolutely based I can't believe I never thought about this biological blood son with no dumb hoooor wife and can still bang baddie 20 years olds faurk. das it mane.
May you have many healthy sons.
Originally Posted By Kev1972⏩
Only for men. Women are old at 35. Men are still highly productive between 40-60. Probably their most productive years. Lonely old women are eating cat food.
It isn't quite that bad.

Yet.
Originally Posted By DizzySmalls⏩
In the west all of the good eggs are gone by the time most start to think about love and children.
How late are you planning to wait exactly? Really didn't think it was something I wanted until around 30. Maybe because my parent's marriage was bad and they should never have been together IMO.

My ex's best friend is a guy who made a late start. Married spring 2017 and he and his wife have tried for a while. They are expecting now. I think he is 44 and she is 42 or 43.

I had a first marriage that didn't make it. Had my daughter at 35, so a bit late. 27 to 32 could be ideal- have some time single, raise kids, still have some time w/decent health after they are able to make it on their own.
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩
How late are you planning to wait exactly? Really didn't think it was something I wanted until around 30. Maybe because my parent's marriage was bad and they should never have been together IMO.

My ex's best friend is a guy who made a late start. Married spring 2017 and he and his wife have tried for a while. They are expecting now. I think he is 44 and she is 42 or 43.

I had a first marriage that didn't make it. Had my daughter at 35, so a bit late. 27 to 32 could be ideal- have some time single, raise kids, still have some time w/decent health after they are able to make it on their own.
I was just speaking in generalities. I am genuinely hopeless and it's over for me but at least my brothers are popping them out at a rapid pace.

If it were my choice I think 27-28 would have been an ideal time to start.
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