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Thread: Is it weird to be 30+ male with no kids?

post 1635212293 04-01-2021, 08:04 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
No

40+ never married no kids is weird though.
And you'r exactly that LARPin as a divorced 50+ YO white female whose on dating apps...
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post 1635212733 04-01-2021, 08:10 PM
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post 1635212843 04-01-2021, 08:12 PM
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Yes 100%



If you weren't weird & socially awkward you would've at the very least impregnated someone by 30 from so much sex, but you're not having sex because you're weird
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post 1635212963 04-01-2021, 08:13 PM
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Ok, so married and divorced is normal? Wat.
post 1635214023 04-01-2021, 08:27 PM
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post 1635214663 04-01-2021, 08:36 PM
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post 1635214773 04-01-2021, 08:38 PM
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Originally Posted By LethalGunz34⏩
Ok, so married and divorced is normal? Wat.
Its common not normal. That’s how I see it. (Splitting hairs, I know)

That shouldn’t be normalized. Being single, unattached and kid-less at any age should be
post 1635214833 04-01-2021, 08:39 PM
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Originally Posted By 36yo⏩
To never have kids is a little off to me, but putting a limit on it before 30 is gay. I just want 1 child and I'm good
Why?

All your unlimited down time you have would be eliminated lmfao.

seriously seems like the WOAT.

If I want to sit around and day drink, I can. I can do whatever, whenever I feel like it.

kids destroy that lifestyle.
post 1635215723 04-01-2021, 08:51 PM
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Originally Posted By p7nk⏩
way more of a red flag for a female
This. A single childless woman at that age? It’s basically over for her. Most men don’t even get started until 30. People don’t think gender differences be like they are, but they do.

I’m 29 and still feel like a kid myself most days. Can’t imagine having that kind of responsibility, and don’t want to.
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No just means you’re a loser, ugly, have a disorder or people can’t stand you..
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Originally Posted By blissful88⏩
If you weren't weird & socially awkward you would've at the very least impregnated someone by 30 from so much sex, but you're not having sex because you're weird
Originally Posted By whogotmuhbeers⏩
No just means you’re a loser, ugly, have a disorder or people can’t stand you..
post 1635247253 04-02-2021, 09:23 AM
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shooting blanks huh op ?
post 1635247423 04-02-2021, 09:25 AM
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not really, at least for white people.

the white fertility rate is very low (only group losing in absolute numbers), marriage age is high and fewer people even getting married in the first place, and looking at society (20%+ Gen Z LGBTQIA+, cost of living skyrocketing, feminism/divorce raep, lack of religion, weak family ties/social pressure, no sloot shaming) those numbers arent going to rebound at least for the white population. so it's normal and only going to be more normal to see 30+ whites with no kids
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Originally Posted By HMFIC_BROWSIN⏩
Why?

All your unlimited down time you have would be eliminated lmfao.

seriously seems like the WOAT.

If I want to sit around and day drink, I can. I can do whatever, whenever I feel like it.

kids destroy that lifestyle.
Lol at priorities. Biologically speaking, you have one job on this earth but you’d rather get yucky with the boys. Who tf are you day drinking with when everyone around you has kids? Solo (depressing) or still hanging with college kids (sad)?
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Women are the ones with a biological clock, not men. As a man you should wait until you're ready and have accomplished all your other goals first
post 1635249353 04-02-2021, 09:50 AM
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Originally Posted By whogotmuhbeers⏩
No just means you’re a loser, ugly, have a disorder or people can’t stand you..
Originally Posted By SettingOff⏩
It's more about being socially inept than it is looks, most 3/10 looking men will end up with multiple kids despite their genetic shortcomings, I've seen it a million times

If you're a mentally sound person, you'll sustain relationships long enough to have accidental births

#truthpill
Originally Posted By jofedm⏩
Lol at priorities. Biologically speaking, you have one job on this earth but you’d rather get yucky with the boys. Who tf are you day drinking with when everyone around you has kids? Solo (depressing) or still hanging with college kids (sad)?
People don't want to grow up, partying when you're 25+ is pure cringe in my eyes, you'll notice people that choose that lifestyle haven't and never will amount to much in life and stay financially poor or become addicts
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post 1635249773 04-02-2021, 09:55 AM
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I used to think I'd be married and have kids right after college. I'm 30 now and can't imagine having kids. My girl and I still love to party and just do adult **** because we're not poor lol. Her friends with kids are struggling and occasionally ask us for money. My friends with kids are doing well for the most part, but they're pretty tame. I want kids eventually, but for now I like only being responsible for myself and my girl.
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Won't have kids until I'm 35 crew
How dare you!

Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner.

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If you're still trying to make it in life kids are going to phuck you up, they are expensive and require a lot of time. Also, even being a good parent is no guarantee that your kids won't end up being phuckups or worse.

At 32 I've got zero inclination towards having kids. Many brahs I went to college/grad school with "manned up" and wifed up sloots and had kids are miserable so no thanks Jeff.
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it's not even really about money a lot of the time

for example in my young professional high earning social circle, there's a lot of couples who openly say they're "dual income no kids" for life, despite each partner making $150k+ so $300k+ household income, more than enough for kids. again depends on culture though, but for western born/whites it's mostly about a shift in culture.

kids are seen as a burden and people are more selfish these daus (not saying thats bad, up to you to decide). they just want to travel and enjoy various luxuries (expensive cars, eating out a lot) as a high earning couple with no kids forever, even though they could easily afford kids.
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Nothing about modern life is "normal". The second birth control was invented sexuality changed completely. Now you have the gay revolution, abortion and transexuality mainstream. Yet, weirdos try to call other people weird bc they either do or don't have children? Clowns getting out of tiny cars
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Originally Posted By blissful88⏩
People don't want to grow up, partying when you're 25+ is pure cringe in my eyes, you'll notice people that choose that lifestyle haven't and never will amount to much in life and stay financially poor or become addicts
not "partying"... I'd call it "chillin"

beats the fuark out of driving some kids to a soccer tournament lmfao.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Idk why misc idealizes having kids so much.
Judging by this thread that isn't the case.

IMO kids are the meaning of life. Not without sacrifice but what isn't? Not for everyone and I respect that srs, but nearly everyone in this thread talked about the THINGS they have instead of kids rather than fulfillment from experiences. Most of you will get it when you're older.

That being said, no way should you have kids before 30.

EDIT: Rather than hearing what other guys are telling you about how miserable they are, start thinking for yourself if raising a human being is something you may be down for. You know that feeling when your dog is excited to see you when you get home? Imagine that with a person. Imagine having the privilege to be able to shape a humans life and pass on a legacy. Open your mind.
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Being married and not having kids is weird. How ****ing retarded would you be to do that.

You will lose all your assets eventually in marriage, At least you get some kids out of it. If you have no kids why would u get married when you can work hard and bang sluts non stop, and not have some annoying cum dumpster hanging around.

That's ****ing weird.
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seems like a lot of angry cope in this thread
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99% of people will assume you are closeted by that point
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My daughter was born when I was 30, I don't see any problems.

Just as you get older then your chance to spend time with your possible grandchildren will get shorter I think.

Finding the right partner is the most important thing in your life if you want to have kids.

You can't rush something you want to last for your whole life.

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30 is young for guys nowadays. id say by 40 is when they look at you weird
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
30 is young for guys nowadays. id say by 40 is when they look at you weird
is it really tho? you have a kid and want to goof off when hes 20 and youre almost 60??? the ****. hes gonna have to push you around JUST LOL

i think i ****ed up boyos

whens the point of no return? i better start banging quick. im not sure how much longer i have or is it already to late? single moms? fattys? o **** why did i waste so much time
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