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post 1636057193 04-12-2021, 06:56 PM
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100% agreed - every fking female gets attached hella easily like we havent even met yet and you tryna text me all day...


dont text her 1 day and she says its over like lmao you that soft?
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post 1636057223 04-12-2021, 06:57 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Yes because it sucks to date down financially. So as a woman the more you make the smaller your options pool gets.
i only date up, its easy in NYC even though i make good money im not a baller like 350k+
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post 1636057233 04-12-2021, 06:57 PM
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Originally Posted By kusok
Age is a killa.


As a Chad in my 20s and 30s I used to f*ck really hot women, had a harem, and none of them knew about the others, married women would ask me for sex etc., But the moment you hit your late 30s and get some grey hair, unless you have lots of money, you are done, you are furniture to women, they walk right by, they are such shallow stupid creatures LOL, it’s really fascinating.

They either want a young Chad, or a guy with money in which case they don’t care what he looks like, nothing else matters! Personality etc. none of that sheit matters to them. They don’t care how you treat them, they don’t care wether you are smart or kind or stupid or what your interests are, you either need good looks with young age OR money, it’s all they care about.
Wait, the misc lied?
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Originally Posted By kusok
Age is a killa.


As a Chad in my 20s and 30s I used to f*ck really hot women, had a harem, and none of them knew about the others, married women would ask me for sex etc., But the moment you hit your late 30s and get some grey hair, unless you have lots of money, you are done, you are furniture to women, they walk right by, they are such shallow stupid creatures LOL, it’s really fascinating.

They either want a young Chad, or a guy with money in which case they don’t care what he looks like, nothing else matters! Personality etc. none of that sheit matters to them. They don’t care how you treat them, they don’t care wether you are smart or kind or stupid or what your interests are, you either need good looks with young age OR money, it’s all they care about.
for ONS obviously looks matters the most, i look good rn but im scared of my 30s reading this lol
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Originally Posted By mCheech
Wait, the misc lied?
I still get carded for alcohol and nobody can guess my age right. Outside of South East Asia: can't remember the last time I had a match with a woman under 23 on a dating app. Eastern Europe and Latin America I just get old ladies.


The problem is my 20s were chit. I was either studying or heavily in poverty or I couldn't attract White Stacies.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Btw it’s funny you call women shallow stupid creatures for selecting men on looks when you do the same in selecting women.
There are nuance differences. Allow me to explain:


I have year round visible abs, and still carry some muscle, 6’2 ~205lb, I expect my woman to likewise take care of herself! That’s all! That is a given, one MUST take care of one’s health and fitness. BUT I do not select women based only on that! To me personality is very important, but to women NOTHING matters except these two things:

Guy must either be rich or be a young Chad.

Literally NOTHING else matters to women. Women fall in love with serial killers and go visit them in jail, women tolerate abusive husbands who beat them, women suck 90 year old men’s cawk if he has 50 mil he will leave them when he dies next week, women will let an Arab Prince sheit on them for 50k. You gotta admit men don’t do stuff like that. There are exceptions, and there are of course good women, but in general you know I’m right.
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Originally Posted By spazzin
for ONS obviously looks matters the most, i look good rn but im scared of my 30s reading this lol
Breh,

Dis sheit for realz, let me give you an example that actually happened to me in my life so you know what is coming, and so you are prepared mentally:

I worked abroad in Latin America, and I had a 9/10 who was married and her husband worked with us in the same room daily and was a buddy of mine, this woman asks me out ALONE, I’m shocked the husband is not with her... I proceed to find out she wants my baby because he can’t get her preg... (I didn’t do it) At that same time she knew I was seeing another MARRIED 9/10 who worked in the same place... and I also had a side chick who was a 7/10 but with incredible volleyball ass, you know one of those little asses that sticks out a lot, it was so plump, she would just come to my hotel room for sex. This entire time my USA chick was showing me her pussy on Skype, and another hot Latina woman who saw me at work found out who I was thru management, called me, came over, and had sex with me without a condom right there that day...

Now fast forward a decade...

Total number of times I got hit on in the last several YEARS: 0
Women walk by me like I don’t exist, they look past me like I’m Invisible Man LOL
What changed? Age, some grey on the sides. Not wearing my gold Rolex, not driving my Benz, I don’t give a sheit about stuff like that anymore. And now I’m basically nothing to women, a nobody. LOL

I’m ok with it tho. Had a good run.


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any girl worth being with for the long term has been taken by 26 max. otherwise why would they be single? past 30 they all have serious mental issues.
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Originally Posted By kusok
Breh,

Dis sheit for realz, let me give you an example that actually happened to me in my life so you know what is coming, and so you are prepared mentally:

I worked abroad in Latin America, and I had a 9/10 who was married and her husband worked with us in the same room daily and was a buddy of mine, this woman asks me out ALONE, I’m shocked the husband is not with her... I proceed to find out she wants my baby because he can’t get her preg... (I didn’t do it) At that same time she knew I was seeing another MARRIED 9/10 who worked in the same place... and I also had a side chick who was a 7/10 but with incredible volleyball ass, you know one of those little asses that sticks out a lot, it was so plump, she would just come to my hotel room for sex. This entire time my USA chick was showing me her pussy on Skype, and another hot Latina woman who saw me at work found out who I was thru management, called me, came over, and had sex with me without a condom right there that day...

Now fast forward a decade...

Total number of times I got hit on in the last several YEARS: 0
Women walk by me like I don’t exist, they look past me like I’m Invisible Man LOL
What changed? Age, some grey on the sides. Not wearing my gold Rolex, not driving my Benz, I don’t give a sheit about stuff like that anymore. And now I’m basically nothing to women, a nobody. LOL

I’m ok with it tho. Had a good run.


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post 1636072373 04-12-2021, 10:36 PM
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Originally Posted By kusok
Breh,

Dis sheit for realz, let me give you an example that actually happened to me in my life so you know what is coming, and so you are prepared mentally:

I worked abroad in Latin America, and I had a 9/10 who was married and her husband worked with us in the same room daily and was a buddy of mine, this woman asks me out ALONE, I’m shocked the husband is not with her... I proceed to find out she wants my baby because he can’t get her preg... (I didn’t do it) At that same time she knew I was seeing another MARRIED 9/10 who worked in the same place... and I also had a side chick who was a 7/10 but with incredible volleyball ass, you know one of those little asses that sticks out a lot, it was so plump, she would just come to my hotel room for sex. This entire time my USA chick was showing me her pussy on Skype, and another hot Latina woman who saw me at work found out who I was thru management, called me, came over, and had sex with me without a condom right there that day...

Now fast forward a decade...

Total number of times I got hit on in the last several YEARS: 0
Women walk by me like I don’t exist, they look past me like I’m Invisible Man LOL
What changed? Age, some grey on the sides. Not wearing my gold Rolex, not driving my Benz, I don’t give a sheit about stuff like that anymore. And now I’m basically nothing to women, a nobody. LOL

I’m ok with it tho. Had a good run.


Real tea/
Mind blown
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Originally Posted By kusok
Breh,

Dis sheit for realz, let me give you an example that actually happened to me in my life so you know what is coming, and so you are prepared mentally:

I worked abroad in Latin America, and I had a 9/10 who was married and her husband worked with us in the same room daily and was a buddy of mine, this woman asks me out ALONE, I’m shocked the husband is not with her... I proceed to find out she wants my baby because he can’t get her preg... (I didn’t do it) At that same time she knew I was seeing another MARRIED 9/10 who worked in the same place... and I also had a side chick who was a 7/10 but with incredible volleyball ass, you know one of those little asses that sticks out a lot, it was so plump, she would just come to my hotel room for sex. This entire time my USA chick was showing me her pussy on Skype, and another hot Latina woman who saw me at work found out who I was thru management, called me, came over, and had sex with me without a condom right there that day...

Now fast forward a decade...

Total number of times I got hit on in the last several YEARS: 0
Women walk by me like I don’t exist, they look past me like I’m Invisible Man LOL
What changed? Age, some grey on the sides. Not wearing my gold Rolex, not driving my Benz, I don’t give a sheit about stuff like that anymore. And now I’m basically nothing to women, a nobody. LOL

I’m ok with it tho. Had a good run.


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You still keep yourself in shape?

I find it hard to believe that you went from Chad to invisible in a decade, just for some grey hairs alone. I mean I get it you may not be able to fuk 4 young prime women on a week but being invisible?

Jesuschrist... that must be a nightmare.
"The flowers bloom, then wither... The stars shine and one day become extinct. This earth, the sun, the galaxies and even the big universe, someday will be destroyed. Compared with that, the human life is only a blink, just a little time. In that short time - people are born, laugh, cry, fight, are injured, feel joy, sadness, hate someone, love someone. All in just a moment. And then, are embraced by the eternal sleep called death."
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It all depends on geography. You can find quality late 20s girls in cities but in less populated areas good luck with that lol
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Chad ofc
Yeah but Chad cheats.
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hard to believe you had that drastic of a change unless you completely let yourself go. Most 'Chads' do well until old age if they kept up their hygiene habits and gym/diet routine.
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Originally Posted By DoYouEvenNEM
I still get carded for alcohol and nobody can guess my age right. Outside of South East Asia: can't remember the last time I had a match with a woman under 23 on a dating app. Eastern Europe and Latin America I just get old ladies.


The problem is my 20s were chit. I was either studying or heavily in poverty or I couldn't attract White Stacies.
As you keep getting older youre not going to get white stacies unless you pay for it or are very high status/famous
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Originally Posted By BadGirlDetected
C'mon bro look at brad pitt and compare him to fight club brad pitt to now brad pitt

Let's say he wasn't famous and just a normal guy i'm sure the amount of pussy would be way different from now to when he is older.

thats life isn't it?

unless you're chestbrah and do everything you can to look yung lol
Chestbrah looks ghey srs.
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Originally Posted By Ken-O
You still keep yourself in shape?

I find it hard to believe that you went from Chad to invisible in a decade, just for some grey hairs alone. I mean I get it you may not be able to fuk 4 young prime women on a week but being invisible?

Jesuschrist... that must be a nightmare.
I’m as surprised as you are, but women can smell age on men! Maybe it’s the pheromones etc.

If anything I’m in better shape now, and certainly a much better person and far more financially secure, AND I would never cheat on my girlfriend or wife, I have grown up and realized my mistakes. But none of that matters! Women want a young Chad or $$$

It’s been a giant black pill and I swallow that sheit with a smile because nobody cares. I still got a couple of female friends with privileges from my past, and they are still beautiful, so I’m not on a dry spell or whatever that is called, but this experience really made me very disappointed in women in general.


Every now and then I realize that I can still get some 7/10 or 8/10 pussay if I color my hair, put huge Gold Rolex back on, and trade my car for something flashier and go to places where there are people... But I don’t want shallow stupid women like that anymore. So...
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Like I said there is a practical aspect to this. If a woman can’t find a good loyal provider or if he cheats or leaves, how will she support herself and pay the bills? In that case she will need a career. You can only forgo career/work if you get and keep a good loyal provider but that is not at all a given.
and like I said, which you didn't answer, is why is that the priority and not the back-up plan? Try answering the question instead of repeating yourself.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
You’re wrecking the misc cope fantasy m8
According to the Misc men peak looks wise at 50 and date 20 year olds with supreme glow.
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dating in late 20s and early 30s is great for men

for women its scary

"I sTiLl hAvE tImE" LMAO

all their friends and family "when you least expect it the man of your dreams will appear"

pure cope
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Look at superman. These photos are approx 10 years apart. Early 30s to early 40s. Note he still looks far better than average 40 yr old.

Before: could get any young stacy he wants just off looks



After: invisible to all young stacies if he wasnt famous

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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Again in this post you’re literally describing and judging women ONLY on their looks and then you call women shallow for doing the same. Come on m8
Honestly to me looks are important, but not the only thing. I really can’t go out with a shallow woman, I can’t be with a nutcase, or with a stupid woman. But it seems to me women don’t care about guy’s personality or anything else, just is he rich? No? then is he young and hot? No? Then GTFO.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Because career opportunity starts after college so they go into it from there. It’s much harder to start that at older age after a guy leaves you and then trying to get into the workforce later.
It's also more difficult to land a man when there is a younger generation of women at your choice of men's disposal, after you spent a decade in school and climbing the corporate ladder. Plenty of women are able to land a man and be happy and financially stable. Her value is at it's peak when she is younger.
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Originally Posted By mcdojo
Look at superman. These photos are approx 10 years apart. Early 30s to early 40s. Note he still looks far better than average 40 yr old.

Before: could get any young stacy he wants just off looks

After: invisible to all young stacies if he wasnt famous
Bloatlorded up just like Brendan Fraser. But yeah I think once I hit 40s then I'll lose my ability to age fraud.
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Originally Posted By mcdojo
Look at superman. These photos are approx 10 years apart. Early 30s to early 40s. Note he still looks far better than average 40 yr old.

Before: could get any young stacy he wants just off looks



After: invisible to all young stacies if he wasnt famous

he just got fat. If he cut back he’d be basically the same

Facial aesthetics don’t change. If anything it gets better the older you get granted you aren’t blessed with the Norwood reaper

lol
Look, i know i don't really know you and all, and i know you probably hear this like everyday, but your just so perfect to me. The few hours we talked were really great even if the convo was stale, your really pretty and chill, and your country thats just perfect :'D i really dont know how to explain it, but i think i have feelings for you somehow. i never felt like this with someone i just met, but i felt the need to get it off my chest. sorry for being all weird just idk how to explain it D:
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