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post 1640293843 06-06-2021, 03:41 PM
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Tempted to neg you for not banging second girl after being in bed with her. She's hot.
post 1640293943 06-06-2021, 03:43 PM
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post 1640294553 06-06-2021, 03:52 PM
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Originally Posted By WoofieNugget⏩
Tempted to neg you for not banging second girl after being in bed with her. She's hot.
This wtf, bish gave me a semi (srs)
post 1640295063 06-06-2021, 03:58 PM
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Originally Posted By Tanerian⏩
OP, you are better than "average" looking by a fair amount. But your profile pic game is WEAK. Not saying this to be a crass azzhole, but your profile looks like it was made for Grindr. If I didn't read the thread and know this is about you talking with chicks on tinder, I'd assume homo, srs.


Get rid of the huge grin, the duck faces, and the polo shirts, at least for the profile pics. Also, no pictures from bed. Save those for PMs with chicks.

Also, when you take a selfie, try to look at the lens, not at yourself on the phone.
Thsi. You are good-looking, but your pictures completely suck.
post 1640295263 06-06-2021, 04:00 PM
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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
"Revenue Protection Officer" is going the Silencespeaks route of thinking people are obsessed with him.

Just fukin LOL.
Imagine being a middle aged man trying to make fun of someone's occupation while not even knowing what I actually do.
Originally Posted By WoofieNugget⏩
Tempted to neg you for not banging second girl after being in bed with her. She's hot.
I pretty much blacked out on the bed and could barely move, but yeah I kick myself thinking about it.
post 1640295303 06-06-2021, 04:01 PM
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idk why average or less than average looking people think they can do well on tinder

its not some secret hole where women all of a sudden like average looking dudes there more than they do at a bar, club, event, etc... Same rules apply. You either need to be funny AF, good looking AF, rich AF, or have massive game. Otherwise just stick to average/fat women because you're competing with men who have at least one or multiple of the other pre requisites i listed.
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post 1640295623 06-06-2021, 04:06 PM
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah⏩
idk why average or less than average looking people think they can do well on tinder

its not some secret hole where women all of a sudden like average looking dudes there more than they do at a bar, club, event, etc... Same rules apply. You either need to be funny AF, good looking AF, rich AF, or have massive game. Otherwise just stick to average/fat women because you're competing with men who have at least one or multiple of the other pre requisites i listed.
I could make OP look chad AF srs, hes not bad looking srs, i'd love to give him a makeover and make him look boss AF. He could definitely be chad lite, hes above average
post 1640295683 06-06-2021, 04:07 PM
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Originally Posted By Vascularmanlet⏩
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post 1640296053 06-06-2021, 04:14 PM
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No **** they don’t mean much, most girls on dating apps are only interested in the free validation/feeling of being desired and have no interest in meeting up. And even those that do are probably damaged goods. Complete waste of time
post 1640296413 06-06-2021, 04:22 PM
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Originally Posted By cannon300⏩
No **** they don’t mean much, most girls on dating apps are only interested in the free validation/feeling of being desired and have no interest in meeting up. And even those that do are probably damaged goods. Complete waste of time
really not the case, there are just plenty of guys with superior looks/money/charm taking all of them up.

I was overwhelmed with women on dating apps having to cancel more dates than I went on, its just like I said people have unrealistic expectations of what they look like:what they can get.

Its really not all that rare for there to be males who are: 6 ft tall, fit/muscular, have a good job, are funny, know how to talk to women. So you have to at least be beating that if you want to get decent benefits from online dating. Otherwise yeah, you will just be someone a girl may randomly chat with when shes bored between guys she actually wants to hook up with.
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post 1640296613 06-06-2021, 04:25 PM
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bro even nudes mean nothing. The amount of chicks I've had straight sext me and send me videos of them spitting on their tits or rubbing their pussy is loco. And they do that and will literally ghost on no notice.

The only time tinder ever works is litreally what Misc says all the time. You make some flirty banter and set something up for like literally the coming days or on the day.
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OP you got the look which is why they're swiping but women are expecting a good career/salary at your age to show "ambition". You could lie about your age so they can give you the benefit of the doubt (maybe you're a student etc) otherwise their biological instincts kick in

even the top 5% facial aesthetic 6'1 lightskin miscer on here has to lie about his age
post 1640296883 06-06-2021, 04:29 PM
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Originally Posted By GayCumLord⏩
OP you got the look which is why they're swiping but women are expecting a good career/salary at your age to show "ambition". You could lie about your age so they can give you the benefit of the doubt (maybe you're a student etc) otherwise their biological instincts kick in

even the top 5% facial aesthetic 6'1 lightskin miscer on here has to lie about his age
Why does this ******* keep pushing this ambition/salary bull****? lmao. No one cares

I'm gonna prove to you jobs dont matter, i'll change my bio to a chit job and watch me still kill it
post 1640296933 06-06-2021, 04:30 PM
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Originally Posted By insidemane⏩
Why does this ******* keep pushing this ambition/salary bull****? lmao.

I'm gonna prove to you jobs dont matter, i'll change my bio to a chit job and watch me still kill it
Love this for you bud
post 1640297083 06-06-2021, 04:32 PM
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Originally Posted By Eterniity⏩
bro even nudes mean nothing. The amount of chicks I've had straight sext me and send me videos of them spitting on their tits or rubbing their pussy is loco. And they do that and will literally ghost on no notice.

The only time tinder ever works is litreally what Misc says all the time. You make some flirty banter and set something up for like literally the coming days or on the day.
this is true too, you don't set **** up for way later, or she will have 40 other dudes already message back and forth with her and unless you are top 1% she will forget about you. I always made arrangements for 1-3 days unless it was a monday and they said they worked long hours all week I would do the weekend. But still always shot for 1-3 days, well unless I already had like 4 dates lined up myself then pushed it back later lol . But if I did that often I double booked as it was likely one would flake out, and if they didnt then I just made an excuse, just like women do.
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post 1640298023 06-06-2021, 04:50 PM
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mirin op. I remember when you were crying on the misc a long time ago but managed to turn it all around.
post 1640298233 06-06-2021, 04:54 PM
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People let it crush them when it shouldn't matter. The older you are, the longer you use the same profile, the more your profile drops out of favor.

Years ago I got dozens of matches every week, and it dwindled, and dwindled. The company WANTS to make money, that's why it gets sh!ttier and sh!ttier - they give you your hit of easy pussy, then put it behind a paywall / membership. It was 100% free when I used to use it and clean house. Don't get all depressed you aren't getting laid off a pay-to-play. Try starting a new profile from an unused source or some sh!t.
post 1640298303 06-06-2021, 04:55 PM
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Originally Posted By CrimsonSteel⏩
People let it crush them when it shouldn't matter. The older you are, the longer you use the same profile, the more your profile drops out of favor.

Years ago I got dozens of matches every week, and it dwindled, and dwindled. The company WANTS to make money, that's why it gets sh!ttier and sh!ttier - they give you your hit of easy pussy, then put it behind a paywall / membership. It was 100% free when I used to use it and clean house. Don't get all depressed you aren't getting laid off a pay-to-play. Try starting a new profile from an unused source or some sh!t.
he's having 0 problems getting matches tho lol
post 1640298393 06-06-2021, 04:57 PM
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Originally Posted By carcano69⏩
^^ LOL at tinderellas

wood rather eat out a hookers bunghole
Tinderellas and hookers are the same except one is honest about being a whore and doesn't make you jump through hoops to smash.
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post 1640299333 06-06-2021, 05:12 PM
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That's why the whole swipe/match system sucks balls. I've had way more success on the sites like eHarmony when you can message without being matched and I'm an average baldcel. Never been flaked on for dates but been ghosted plenty of times.

Any guy should make a profile on thaifriendly.com if you want to experience what women see when signing up to dating sites in the West. Now imagine trying to satisfy each of the 200 matches you get.

Overwhelming demand vs no supply means women have countless options. Like you, they would always pick the best option and flake on the rest. The matches are just validation that you're good looking or have something interesting in your profile. You shouldn't feel bad about yourself if you can't get dates because the market heavily favours women and they can be as selective as they want.

If you just want to smash, whoremaxxing is so much simpler and more enjoyable IMO.
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post 1640300333 06-06-2021, 05:26 PM
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah⏩
idk why average or less than average looking people think they can do well on tinder

its not some secret hole where women all of a sudden like average looking dudes there more than they do at a bar, club, event, etc... Same rules apply. You either need to be funny AF, good looking AF, rich AF, or have massive game. Otherwise just stick to average/fat women because you're competing with men who have at least one or multiple of the other pre requisites i listed.
Truth. Except average/fat women also have those same rules nowadays because the market is whack so even they've been put on a pedestal. Average guys should take the Japanese male route and just disregard women altogether and focus on career/hobbymaxxing if they want to be happy.
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Originally Posted By insidemane⏩
I could make OP look chad AF srs, hes not bad looking srs, i'd love to give him a makeover and make him look boss AF. He could definitely be chad lite, hes above average
What else could I do to looksmax? Outside of surgery (which I wouldn't get) Not sure what else I can do apart from getting abit leaner or getting on cell tech but then I risk balding/acne since I'm prone. I already take care of myself and get faded hair cuts every 2 weeks, use vitamin c serum and moisturiser, wear nice clothes when going out etc.

Originally Posted By TheNoob7⏩
Hey OP, based on your screen name, do you put your height on your profile? Any of them complain about your height?
Not really, when I've met girls IRL none of them complained about my height. Some did say I was on the 'smaller side' but it was just banter.

I'm 5'7 so it's not like I'm a dwarf, still taller than most girls.
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Originally Posted By Vascularmanlet⏩
Majority of the girls don't respond or will talk for abit, agree to meet up but will end up flaking.
You a good looking guy OP, no homo. They prolly worked out that you're a manlet though and skipped town. You captured yourself next to a lot of objects for size reference lmao. You gotta catfishmaxx
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Why pull a stupid face in your pics? You should put in your profile that you're an escort connoisseur
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Agreed.

There’s mayyyybe a 10% chance of me actually meeting anyone I match with
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How are people supposed to meet then?

Go online and get lots of matches = no dates

Go offline and ask random girls for their # = no dates

Go to a club and try to talk to girls = rejection.

What gives??
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Originally Posted By SnipeItLikePro⏩
How are people supposed to meet then?

Go online and get lots of matches = no dates

Go offline and ask random girls for their # = no dates

Go to a club and try to talk to girls = rejection.

What gives??
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Originally Posted By johnnydeep1⏩
Tinder, instagram, ******** and other dating apps/protentional venues make it nearly impossible for a sub 8 non-millionaire to get a date/girlfriend/wife or to get laid with a non obese woman. Read up on the black pill
This is pretty true

Pretty much every dude i know is with an obese woman now and i think a lot of that is due to social media and online dating

15 years ago all you had to be was average looking and you could date 6s and maybe 7s but that isn't the case anymore
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Tbh I wouldnt even have swiped right on this ladies bro.

I guess I got higher standards than the misc?
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Originally Posted By Lollaff⏩
Dealbreaker for me with escorts is that they're not someone who actually wants to have sex with me. Huge turn off. Can you ever really drive an escort crazy in bed? Or will she be figuring out her shopping list while you're taking her to pound town?
I know what u mean but..

Thats beta mentality brah just do ya biz n f off
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