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07-09-2021, 07:35 AM
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Combined around ~20k with ~3/4 towards engagement.
My ring was about 5k and I paid for all of it, but she repaid some of that in other ways like covering costs for a short vacation etc.
My ring was about 5k and I paid for all of it, but she repaid some of that in other ways like covering costs for a short vacation etc.
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07-09-2021, 07:38 AM
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07-09-2021, 08:00 AM
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Originally Posted By Ayz33⏩
How did you spend 5k on YOUR ring? I'm genuinely curious. In my head it was always women have their expensive wedding jewelry and purses, men have their expensive watches.Combined around ~20k with ~3/4 towards engagement.
My ring was about 5k and I paid for all of it, but she repaid some of that in other ways like covering costs for a short vacation etc.
My ring was about 5k and I paid for all of it, but she repaid some of that in other ways like covering costs for a short vacation etc.
For my ring I was just gonna spend 2k on 18k gold Cartier Love Ring or something fun like that and just be done with it.
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07-09-2021, 08:02 AM
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Originally Posted By W1LLW⏩
2-3 carats is kind of gauche thoughCouldn't imagine putting anything under $30,000 on my wife's finger. It's a one time purchase that tells the world the type of man my future wife is attached to. If I can afford Rolex watches and investment property, I can afford to put a respectable ring on my wife.
Now that i think about it, it has an effect on men "in the wild" too. Whenever I see a woman with a 3 to 5carat ring. I'm always like
It's a subtle but loud "fuk you, don't even try it... I belong to an accomplished man" kind of statement. If I can't make that statement then i don't need to be getting married, i need to be stacking more wealth. Obviously money isn't everything, and I realize broke people and average joes fall in love too, but i'm not one of those people.
Now that i think about it, it has an effect on men "in the wild" too. Whenever I see a woman with a 3 to 5carat ring. I'm always like

It's a subtle but loud "fuk you, don't even try it... I belong to an accomplished man" kind of statement. If I can't make that statement then i don't need to be getting married, i need to be stacking more wealth. Obviously money isn't everything, and I realize broke people and average joes fall in love too, but i'm not one of those people.
You can belong / make a statement without being overly crass
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07-09-2021, 08:07 AM
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Just over $9k for her engagement ring, wedding band was a family heirloom so $0. My wedding band was ~$1200
lmao I was like lmao
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07-09-2021, 08:51 AM
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Originally Posted By W1LLW⏩
I was inspired by a piece of Cartier High Jewelry and had a similar one (to my tastes) custom made by a local jeweler. Theirs was just a tad bit off of exactly what I wanted. We had a deal where she'd also get me a nice watch, but that will come a little later on.How did you spend 5k on YOUR ring? I'm genuinely curious. In my head it was always women have their expensive wedding jewelry and purses, men have their expensive watches.
For my ring I was just gonna spend 2k on 18k gold Cartier Love Ring or something fun like that and just be done with it.
For my ring I was just gonna spend 2k on 18k gold Cartier Love Ring or something fun like that and just be done with it.
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07-09-2021, 08:52 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Depends on the cut of the diamond though. A 1.5 carat emerald would be laughable, but yes 1.5 carat round or radiant can look decent i suppose. Wouldn't even consider anything under 2.5 though that's for damn sure, and that's only because (to your point) when you start talking 2.75 to 3.5 it's affecting day to day movement because it's so... well crass.2-3 carats is kind of gauche though
You can belong / make a statement without being overly crass
Pull it back bby
You can belong / make a statement without being overly crass
Pull it back bby
Originally Posted By Ayz33⏩
touché sir.I was inspired by a piece of Cartier High Jewelry and had a similar one (to my tastes) custom made by a local jeweler. Theirs was just a tad bit off of exactly what I wanted. We had a deal where she'd also get me a nice watch, but that will come a little later on.
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