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» Married Crew: How much did you pay for the Engagement Ring vs the Wedding Band?
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post 1642473863 07-09-2021, 07:35 AM
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Combined around ~20k with ~3/4 towards engagement.

My ring was about 5k and I paid for all of it, but she repaid some of that in other ways like covering costs for a short vacation etc.
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post 1642474003 07-09-2021, 07:38 AM
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never purchased anything for engagement

and got some chit off Etsy for wedding ring/band

also I eloped
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post 1642475183 07-09-2021, 08:00 AM
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Originally Posted By Ayz33
Combined around ~20k with ~3/4 towards engagement.

My ring was about 5k and I paid for all of it, but she repaid some of that in other ways like covering costs for a short vacation etc.
How did you spend 5k on YOUR ring? I'm genuinely curious. In my head it was always women have their expensive wedding jewelry and purses, men have their expensive watches.

For my ring I was just gonna spend 2k on 18k gold Cartier Love Ring or something fun like that and just be done with it.
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post 1642475263 07-09-2021, 08:02 AM
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Originally Posted By W1LLW
Couldn't imagine putting anything under $30,000 on my wife's finger. It's a one time purchase that tells the world the type of man my future wife is attached to. If I can afford Rolex watches and investment property, I can afford to put a respectable ring on my wife.

Now that i think about it, it has an effect on men "in the wild" too. Whenever I see a woman with a 3 to 5carat ring. I'm always like





It's a subtle but loud "fuk you, don't even try it... I belong to an accomplished man" kind of statement. If I can't make that statement then i don't need to be getting married, i need to be stacking more wealth. Obviously money isn't everything, and I realize broke people and average joes fall in love too, but i'm not one of those people.
2-3 carats is kind of gauche though

You can belong / make a statement without being overly crass

Pull it back bby

post 1642475503 07-09-2021, 08:07 AM
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Just over $9k for her engagement ring, wedding band was a family heirloom so $0. My wedding band was ~$1200
lmao I was like lmao


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post 1642478123 07-09-2021, 08:51 AM
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Originally Posted By W1LLW
How did you spend 5k on YOUR ring? I'm genuinely curious. In my head it was always women have their expensive wedding jewelry and purses, men have their expensive watches.

For my ring I was just gonna spend 2k on 18k gold Cartier Love Ring or something fun like that and just be done with it.
I was inspired by a piece of Cartier High Jewelry and had a similar one (to my tastes) custom made by a local jeweler. Theirs was just a tad bit off of exactly what I wanted. We had a deal where she'd also get me a nice watch, but that will come a little later on.
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post 1642478173 07-09-2021, 08:52 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
2-3 carats is kind of gauche though

You can belong / make a statement without being overly crass

Pull it back bby
Depends on the cut of the diamond though. A 1.5 carat emerald would be laughable, but yes 1.5 carat round or radiant can look decent i suppose. Wouldn't even consider anything under 2.5 though that's for damn sure, and that's only because (to your point) when you start talking 2.75 to 3.5 it's affecting day to day movement because it's so... well crass.
Originally Posted By Ayz33
I was inspired by a piece of Cartier High Jewelry and had a similar one (to my tastes) custom made by a local jeweler. Theirs was just a tad bit off of exactly what I wanted. We had a deal where she'd also get me a nice watch, but that will come a little later on.
touché sir.
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post 1697388703 02-03-2024, 09:50 PM
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Originally Posted By HayZues
$100.

Pretty sure she wears just one. Like a combo.


Then again we were never engaged.


My band was like 12 bucks, but I never wear it.
what a lucky girl
post 1697389163 02-03-2024, 10:14 PM
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