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Thread: Required reading on the problem with modern dating

post 1642839663 07-14-2021, 01:32 PM
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post 1642839703 07-14-2021, 01:32 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
That is not fair. As a 6’2 guy you have literally no idea what life is like for a 5’4 guy. It is truly not comparable.
I wish it was possible to do the experiment. So all these tall or good looking people can shut the fuk up and see how it really is
post 1642839753 07-14-2021, 01:32 PM
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My sister has model tier looks and dates a 5'5.5 guy

Meanwhile i know a 50 yo 5'4 guy who has never been with a girl

Crazy how random it all is
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post 1642839833 07-14-2021, 01:33 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yes I know a guy like that too. Around 5’5 and gets constant stream of hot girls because of his personality and social status. He comes from family money which prob also helps although he drives a beater car and wears regular clothes.

Those guys are rare exceptions though. Height is truly one of the most important features for girls. Right after face.
Oh so he's rich. Obviously that's a huge difference. A short regular guy is getting nothing but desert dick
post 1642839893 07-14-2021, 01:34 PM
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post 1642839983 07-14-2021, 01:35 PM
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post 1642840193 07-14-2021, 01:38 PM
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post 1642840503 07-14-2021, 01:43 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Experiment can be easily done on tinder. Putting 6’4 in bio compared to 5’4 in bio with same pics.

Someone should make a thread with screenshots.
That doesn't really count. We all know that's how it works online. The question is about real life. If you take the same person and make him a manlet see the difference in real life
post 1642840563 07-14-2021, 01:44 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
His family is rich but he does not show any money and I think he does get girls without that. He’s pretty goodlooking and plays sports and very good social skills. I liked him without knowing he comes from money because he hides it. Beater car and regular clothes and regular college guy apartment etc. I didn’t find out until later when he told me.
Oh well obviously if he's good looking. If you're good looking yes you can do just fine even if short. But you have to have a nice face
post 1642840623 07-14-2021, 01:45 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yes I know a guy like that too. Around 5’5 and gets constant stream of hot girls because of his personality and social status. He comes from family money which prob also helps although he drives a beater car and wears regular clothes.

Those guys are rare exceptions though. Height is truly one of the most important features for girls. Right after face.
My point is that the people complaining like OP need to spend some time and look at what they have in life and make the most of it. Rather than being all sad that you're 5'5" perhaps go fukkin develop some social skills and interesting hobbies. Start doing stuff and talking to people. It really isn't all that hard.

I might be 6'2" but for what it's worth I'm the shortest man in my family and the only one who didn't get a division 1 scholarship for either football or basketball (hell even my younger sister got a D1 athletic scholarship to USF). I could sit around and mope on that and wish I was 6'6" and the starting QB for my college like my little brother, but instead I appreciate what I do have and I make the most of it.
post 1642840693 07-14-2021, 01:46 PM
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post 1642840853 07-14-2021, 01:48 PM
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Originally Posted By soaponarope1⏩
My point is that the people complaining like OP need to spend some time and look at what they have in life and make the most of it. Rather than being all sad that you're 5'5" perhaps go fukkin develop some social skills and interesting hobbies. Start doing stuff and talking to people. It really isn't all that hard.

I might be 6'2" but for what it's worth I'm the shortest man in my family and the only one who didn't get a division 1 scholarship for either football or basketball (hell even my younger sister got a D1 athletic scholarship to USF). I could sit around and mope on that and wish I was 6'6" and the starting QB for my college like my little brother, but instead I appreciate what I do have and I make the most of it.
they do have hobbies and social skills. They have friends. The problem is nobody will fuk or date them. That's the problem.

Before I moved away I had several social circles each of which were some guys and some girls. The problem was nobody wanted to fuk me.

And your comparison is ridiculous. Going without love and sex and dying alone is not comparable to being 6'2 and wishing you were an athlete
post 1642841153 07-14-2021, 01:53 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
they do have hobbies and social skills. They have friends. The problem is nobody will fuk or date them. That's the problem.



I've never seen a normal guy who had problems getting women. Maybe they don't have women orbiting around 24/7 but they can snag one if they want. I've seen plenty of guys who are losers and have hobbies like Fortnight and smoking the reefer that have problems with women though.
post 1642841213 07-14-2021, 01:53 PM
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post 1642841283 07-14-2021, 01:55 PM
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Originally Posted By soaponarope1⏩



I've never seen a normal guy who had problems getting women. Maybe they don't have women orbiting around 24/7 but they can snag one if they want. I've seen plenty of guys who are losers and have hobbies like Fortnight and smoking the reefer that have problems with women though.
You might not know this, but the world exists outside of your immediate experience.

That's why we look at trends and data and research, instead of just asking one guy what his personal experience is. That's what you're doing.

I posted that article for a reason. Read it and then try to say its not true.

My experience is totally in line with everything that dude wrote about. You're the outlier.
post 1642841633 07-14-2021, 02:00 PM
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Originally Posted By soaponarope1⏩
One of my best friends is 5'5" and has a non stop train of 10/10 blonde southern girls when he's single, real 10/10s too not some common tier hotties you get from the local bar. He got enough of them that it made me jealous when I was single, srs. He's now married to a solid 9/10 doctor who owns her own practice. He's not a doctor and she makes more than he does.

The secret? He's the most fun dude I've ever been around. Always out doing fun ****, boating, ATV'ing, getting hammered at the pool, travels a lot, etc...

While being a short or ugly dude can be tough you can completely overcome it by actually being fun to be around and adding to people's lives.
Sounds like your typical trust fund scenario.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Being sexless also sucks balls completely. And prostitution isn't legal yet
I understand that but honestly it's better to be alone than with any type of whore
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post 1642842363 07-14-2021, 02:09 PM
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Originally Posted By Supaduck0⏩
I understand that but honestly it's better to be alone than with any type of whore
You don't have to marry her. Just have someone to fuk, its better than desert dcick
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Pics of little brother ??


Me (left) and him (middle obviously) at a wedding a few years back. Thank god I lost 20 pounds and lifted a bit I looked like chit. Still had 0 problems with women though.
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post 1642844913 07-14-2021, 02:39 PM
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Originally Posted By soaponarope1⏩


Me (left) and him (middle obviously) at a wedding a few years back. Thank god I lost 20 pounds and lifted a bit I looked like chit. Still had 0 problems with women though.
6'2 man has no problem with women. More at noon
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post 1642846443 07-14-2021, 03:00 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Anyway I’m at the gym rn and there is a Chad walking around who just absolutely CHADMOGS all the other Gym Chads. I think he might be around 6’2 with 8/10 face and buzz cut hair.

I took a blurry creeper pic but idk if I should post it ??
You're everything wrong with modern dating lol
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
You don't have to marry her. Just have someone to fuk, its better than desert dcick
A fuk buddy is completely fine. What I was advising against is simping for onlyfans whores or being a simp in general, because it gets you played

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[QUOTE=Silencespeaks post_id=1642847143][URL=https://ibb.co/L5M1pr0][img]https://i.ibb.co/KwYWyD5/9307-AC2-F-064-B-4399-82-B6-032976978707.png[/ig][/URL][/QUOTE]how is that not too much muscle for you stacy?
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
That's not a buzz cut haircut though. It's more like a number 5
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
His face makes up for it. He is legit beautiful. What a smoke show srs. I just can’t even.

High tier normie/Chadlite with Chad body. Not a buzz cut

Also he looks creeped out, he knows what you're up to lmfao
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