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post 1642959063 07-16-2021, 04:11 AM
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Originally Posted By quadfecta
I know one personally. Extremely confrontational at like scheduled intervals as if they need to feed off the emotional energy of raising someone else’s blood pressure. A lot of them don’t even know it’s intentional, but the most obvious way to describe it is through energy which I mentioned to you before in context of protection stones like tourmaline or shungite to block people giving off those negative vibes
Dude I honestly think it's a personality disorder like ocd, npd or borderline

The reason they do it stems from insecurity and lack of empathy or they just live off of that negative energy

If you truly lack empathy like someone with npd does you won't care how you treat others
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post 1642959083 07-16-2021, 04:12 AM
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Originally Posted By SaltyCaptain592
Gratitude is fine but the visualization stuff is bull. That law of attraction garbage is thrown around by pseudo intellectuals. Just thinking about something won’t get you it. You have to actually work towards it.
Yea law of attraction is bs but correcting for negativity bias isn't.
post 1642959143 07-16-2021, 04:13 AM
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Originally Posted By quadfecta
I know one personally. Extremely confrontational at like scheduled intervals as if they need to feed off the emotional energy of raising someone else’s blood pressure. A lot of them don’t even know it’s intentional, but the most obvious way to describe it is through energy which I mentioned to you before in context of protection stones like tourmaline or shungite to block people giving off those negative vibes
This is bs.
post 1642959993 07-16-2021, 04:48 AM
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You don't "attract" chit just plan carefully and work hard if you want to do the things you want to do.

Everyone wants some chortcut to this or that, or they grow discontent by settling for something unsatisfying.

You make your bed you lay in it. Your decisions will determine what you make of your life, and good things take hard work.

If you want to have a life full of positive things, then do positive things for others and for yourself.
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post 1642960263 07-16-2021, 04:58 AM
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negativity is a badhabit

and habits can be broken

also, positivity is a good habit

and habits can be formed
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post 1642960463 07-16-2021, 05:04 AM
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Another exciting thread from OP


get off the Internet and go out more..there solved it for you
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post 1642977373 07-16-2021, 10:04 AM
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Originally Posted By plebmaximus
Another exciting thread from OP


get off the Internet and go out more..there solved it for you
How did I attract this negativity?


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post 1642979503 07-16-2021, 10:38 AM
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Originally Posted By BeanGainClovis
You don't "attract" chit just plan carefully and work hard if you want to do the things you want to do.

Everyone wants some chortcut to this or that, or they grow discontent by settling for something unsatisfying.

You make your bed you lay in it. Your decisions will determine what you make of your life, and good things take hard work.

If you want to have a life full of positive things, then do positive things for others and for yourself.
This is really the crux of it. No matter what it is it'll require you to get off your ass and actually have to DO SOMETHING. And since most people are lazy fuks they won't or they'll start but never stick with it.

Take exercising for example. Everyone knows it's beneficial and makes you feel better but how many are actually able to stick with it. Same for any type of hobby. People will bitch and moan saying they wish they had some type of hobby or passion in life but at the end of the day no matter what, it's going to take physically picking yourself up off the sofa and DOING IT and that's where the majority of people fail.
post 1642979683 07-16-2021, 10:40 AM
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you don't attract anything you fool.

Its all luck and chance. Lol at blaming yourself for random chance
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post 1642980423 07-16-2021, 10:50 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
you don't attract anything you fool.

Its all luck and chance. Lol at blaming yourself for random chance
Basically this

I mean a small percentage might be attraction but almost everything comes down to environmental, chance and luck
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