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post 1646749493 09-10-2021, 07:59 AM
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Brah's who had big wedding celebrations and then ended up getting divorced?

Did you end up feeling a huge sense of shame and embarassment after this happened? I mean, think about it. You made all these people dress up, most had to travel far distances, get a babysitter, get you a gift, just to try and make your insecure ass feel special that day, all to have it not even work out. It would be the equivalent of me throwing a huge party celebration for getting this great new job and starting a great new career, only to get fired two weeks later because I suck at my job and show'd up to work drunk everyday.
post 1646749783 09-10-2021, 08:04 AM
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post 1646749853 09-10-2021, 08:05 AM
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post 1646749943 09-10-2021, 08:06 AM
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post 1646750013 09-10-2021, 08:07 AM
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it's better to have done it than to not have done it at all.

life is about experiences. the less experiences you have, the worse the life is.
post 1646750083 09-10-2021, 08:08 AM
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Originally Posted By seksi
see this is an experience that millions of people will remember for the rest of their lives even tho Pianoman is no longer with us.


that is what it's all about.
post 1646750273 09-10-2021, 08:11 AM
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post 1646750293 09-10-2021, 08:11 AM
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Originally Posted By Slaydom
it's better to have done it than to not have done it at all.

life is about experiences. the less experiences you have, the worse the life is.
Nice cope. What crock of crap.


BRB get taken to the cleaners in divorce after spending all that cash so a sl00t can have "her day"

fuk that noise
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post 1646750363 09-10-2021, 08:13 AM
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post 1646750803 09-10-2021, 08:18 AM
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a friend of mine had a HUGE wedding at Disney world, must of cost $100,000. She cheated on him and left him for a dude he introduced her too for business. she has since cheated on that guy as well. This bro is a chad with rich parents and very successful himself.
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post 1646751053 09-10-2021, 08:21 AM
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Originally Posted By Slaydom
it's better to have done it than to not have done it at all.

life is about experiences. the less experiences you have, the worse the life is.
Don't know about that last sentence, but regret doesn't exactly work like that.

I can't easily recall a situation where I wish I had done nothing instead of doing something [aka: tried], but I can think of times I wish I had done something different.

Letting fear and worry prevent you from living because you might get hurt is not it.
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post 1646751243 09-10-2021, 08:23 AM
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Originally Posted By Slaydom
it's better to have done it than to not have done it at all.

life is about experiences. the less experiences you have, the worse the life is.
I’m sure Joseph Fritzl’s daughter disagrees with you
post 1646751513 09-10-2021, 08:28 AM
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Originally Posted By darkninja67
Nice cope. What crock of crap.


BRB get taken to the cleaners in divorce after spending all that cash so a sl00t can have "her day"

fuk that noise
you wouldn't understand












post 1646751603 09-10-2021, 08:29 AM
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Originally Posted By katya422
Don't know about that last sentence, but regret doesn't exactly work like that.

I can't easily recall a situation where I wish I had done nothing instead of doing something [aka: tried], but I can think of times I wish I had done something different.

Letting fear and worry prevent you from living because you might get hurt is not it.



I had a pretty bad fear of flying. Just knowing that I had a flight coming up in the next few days would start anxiety for me and it wouldn't stop until I got off the plane at my destination. Then when my return flight was near [within a day or two] the anxiety would come back again. I've probably made 30+ round trips at this point. I don't know that I would say it is completely gone, but it is a lot less than it used to be.
you are coping with how empty your life has been.
post 1646751873 09-10-2021, 08:34 AM
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Originally Posted By TheGattingBall
I’m sure Joseph Fritzl’s daughter disagrees with you
positive experiences.



for example if you threw a big wedding. that's a very positive and beautiful experience.


even if it ends one day. that positve and beautiful experience was lived by you. it doesn't matter.




just because a great show/trip/dinner will end, does that mean it was never great? people pay premium money for every experience that eventually end.

you still lived a great experience at the end. that is what it is.



the rest is COPE
post 1646752733 09-10-2021, 08:47 AM
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I dont think there is anything more gay& stupid than big and expensive weddings.

Do it small with family members and close friends and use the money to fuking travel instead
post 1646752803 09-10-2021, 08:48 AM
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Originally Posted By Sinan09400
I dont think there is anything more gay& stupid than big and expensive weddings.

Do it small with family members and close friends and use the money to fuking travel instead
what if they can afford it?
post 1646753043 09-10-2021, 08:53 AM
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People go to weddings for the booze and food. Most people expect a divorce
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Spent like $10k on my wedding with my ex. She always pissed and moaned about how it wasn't elaborate enough. Pretty ironic considering that that day wound up being the equivalent of losing $10k in a night at casino when we got divorced.
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Originally Posted By katya422
Only true if by "how empty your life has been" you mean recently and by "coping" you mean hanging out on misc. Beats a lot of other copes. My situation has been pretty extra, but hardly that unusual with the pandemic BS.
mental gymnastics cope
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Originally Posted By Slaydom
what if they can afford it?
Its not about money.
post 1646754473 09-10-2021, 09:12 AM
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My wedding was a blast.

I felt insecure about if we would've called off the engagement (idk why in hindsight).

Eventually after I was miserable I realized those who cared about me would want me to be happy and thus get divorced and those who didn't, well, you got a helluva party with an open bar so I don't feel all that bad.

For the record I've never once heard someone bitch about having gone to a wedding only for said couple to get divorced. If you don't want to go to a wedding, don't go. In most cases the couple won't care all that much as the people they're closest with will make the effort to be there and enjoy the day with them.
post 1646754763 09-10-2021, 09:17 AM
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Originally Posted By Sinan09400
Its not about money.
if it's not about the money then they can throw a big wedding and have a lavish honeymoon with it too if they want.

right?
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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88
My wedding was a blast.

I felt insecure about if we would've called off the engagement (idk why in hindsight).

Eventually after I was miserable I realized those who cared about me would want me to be happy and thus get divorced and those who didn't, well, you got a helluva party with an open bar so I don't feel all that bad.

For the record I've never once heard someone bitch about having gone to a wedding only for said couple to get divorced. If you don't want to go to a wedding, don't go. In most cases the couple won't care all that much as the people they're closest with will make the effort to be there and enjoy the day with them.
correct. this thread is pure incel cope
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I dont have any friends so if I have a wedding it would be really small.


check mate OP
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Originally Posted By northernlights7
Spent like $10k on my wedding with my ex. She always pissed and moaned about how it wasn't elaborate enough. Pretty ironic considering that that day wound up being the equivalent of losing $10k in a night at casino when we got divorced.
$10k really isn't much for a wedding unless you got married in the 80s or invited 25 people.
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My wedding cost 3 grand and was really nice for thirty people. Never seen the point of the massive party or anything like that. Decorations, friend. Photographer, friend. Cake, friend. Only close relatives and friends there.

Do whatever you want. I didn't see the point in paying 50 grand to throw a party.
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