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post 1647573653 09-22-2021, 05:27 PM
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Originally Posted By AlfBundy
I'm 34 and my GF is 22
I've matched with younger women, and I've even had people tell me I can still pass for about 28/29
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post 1647573893 09-22-2021, 05:32 PM
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Originally Posted By Ntwadumela9
For some reason after I had a kid with my current GF i dont really worry about this chit anymore. I guess because I achieved what some would say is the ultimate goal, and had a son. Still got to raise him, but if I broke up with the GF, I guess I wouldn't have any pressure to put up with chit women anymore. Would hope to be married, but had a kid and that is why i would get married anyway. So if I dont have pressure on myself to find a woman to settle down with, there is very little incentive to deal with sloots discussed in this thread. Thats how we gotta be boyos, just gotta be indifferent to these biches. But I can understand the pressure a single guy may have to find the one, settle down and raise a family.

Just because someone offers you a sloppy peanut butter sandwich, doesn't mean you have to eat it. You can always be patient (might get a little hungrier), and wait for that Ribeye steak with the fat ass who likes to give head. One good thing about men is we have more time.
Since we're in clown world your son will probably become a tranny right before hitting 20 years old so hopefully that doesn't bother you.
post 1647574013 09-22-2021, 05:35 PM
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Jesus where the **** do you guys hang out that you're meeting these sad sad people.
post 1647574193 09-22-2021, 05:37 PM
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Originally Posted By Rayaarito
Jesus where the **** do you guys hang out that you're meeting these sad sad people.
It's obviously location based. If you were on the coasts you'd meet more... normal women.

Midwest... and it's... bad here.
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post 1647574283 09-22-2021, 05:39 PM
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Yall seriously gross me out.

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post 1647574403 09-22-2021, 05:41 PM
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Yep. Tours over.
"One day I won't be able to lift any more. Not I won't want to lift. I mean physically unable. That day could be decades from now or it could be tomorrow. All I know is that's the day I'll wish I could lift more than ever. The day I'd give anything for one more workout, one more set, or one more cardio session. So go hard and enjoy every workout, every set, every rep. Because one day you will wake up and you will never get it back."
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post 1647574533 09-22-2021, 05:43 PM
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Originally Posted By Ntwadumela9
For some reason after I had a kid with my current GF i dont really worry about this chit anymore. I guess because I achieved what some would say is the ultimate goal, and had a son. Still got to raise him, but if I broke up with the GF, I guess I wouldn't have any pressure to put up with chit women anymore. Would hope to be married, but had a kid and that is why i would get married anyway. So if I dont have pressure on myself to find a woman to settle down with, there is very little incentive to deal with sloots discussed in this thread. Thats how we gotta be boyos, just gotta be indifferent to these biches. But I can understand the pressure a single guy may have to find the one, settle down and raise a family.

Just because someone offers you a sloppy peanut butter sandwich, doesn't mean you have to eat it.You can always be patient (might get a little hungrier), and wait for that Ribeye steak with the fat ass who likes to give head. One good thing about men is we have more time.
You take that back..... PB sandwiches are always good
"One day I won't be able to lift any more. Not I won't want to lift. I mean physically unable. That day could be decades from now or it could be tomorrow. All I know is that's the day I'll wish I could lift more than ever. The day I'd give anything for one more workout, one more set, or one more cardio session. So go hard and enjoy every workout, every set, every rep. Because one day you will wake up and you will never get it back."
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post 1647574753 09-22-2021, 05:47 PM
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Originally Posted By thadderbox
Lots of divorced women, or women with kids, or women with trust issues... but also an insane amount of expectation/standards. .
can confirm. quite the paradox.

they could be unpleasant and overweight with three kids, and still have higher standards than them
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post 1647574843 09-22-2021, 05:49 PM
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Normal women bring enough problems. Any red flag, and it is over.
post 1647574863 09-22-2021, 05:49 PM
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imagine being age 30+ and no HBB wife and high IQ athletic kids

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post 1647575213 09-22-2021, 05:56 PM
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Originally Posted By thadderbox
Let me first preface that I take care of myself, I work out, I eat good, self employed. I have no kids, no drama.

I don't actively date, but I've noticed that in your 30's dating is interesting to put it lightly.

Lots of divorced women, or women with kids, or women with trust issues... but also an insane amount of expectation/standards.

Now I see why older men date younger women, makes it so much clear.
Yeah women in their 30s are single for a reason brah. I'm 33 and try to keep my dates between 20-25. The 20-25 crowd is not the best if you are looking for commitment. A lot of them just like going out n getting smashed n just keep a guy or two on the side. Don't date single moms, career women in their 30s have been RAN THROUGH. You can get a lot of ass as a guy with your chit together, but most women today aren't worth committing to. It sucks, at least when you want a girlfriend.
post 1647576113 09-22-2021, 06:12 PM
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im 25 and i looked at what's available on tinder at 30+ and its fkn scary
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post 1647576833 09-22-2021, 06:26 PM
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I honestly thought that most people’s dating lives follow a steady trajectory. If you found dating easy in your teens and 20s, then I reckon that continues into your 30s, albeit with a slight drop off.

I’ve always had a fairly poverty dating life and it remains so post 35.
post 1647577183 09-22-2021, 06:33 PM
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All women are crazy and delusional regardless of age, I'm happy I've always been more attracted to older women even when I was younger.
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post 1647577283 09-22-2021, 06:34 PM
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Originally Posted By FilsGoodMan
All women are crazy and delusional regardless of age, I'm happy I've always been more attracted to older women even when I was younger.
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post 1647577553 09-22-2021, 06:39 PM
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35YO here, I'm hoping to snatch up a late 20's GF before it's too late. I mean I'd date lower if I could but having a good job, 6'4" and working out only does so much when you're bald.
post 1647577783 09-22-2021, 06:44 PM
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Originally Posted By thadderbox
Let me first preface that I take care of myself, I work out, I eat good, self employed. I have no kids, no drama.

I don't actively date, but I've noticed that in your 30's dating is interesting to put it lightly.

Lots of divorced women, or women with kids, or women with trust issues... but also an insane amount of expectation/standards.

Now I see why older men date younger women, makes it so much clear.
I don't date girls over 25.. well I did take a girl out who was 27.. but that was pushing it
post 1647588553 09-22-2021, 09:37 PM
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I don't have a problem finding young Chads in their early 20s. Dating men over 40 is a disaster, though. I don't even want to go on the second date.

I think it's just crappy to date over 35 for both sexes and I pulled a great husband when I was young so at least I had the gorgeous wedding and all of that.
post 1647589043 09-22-2021, 09:45 PM
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post 1647589473 09-22-2021, 09:54 PM
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Originally Posted By insidemane
I don’t even pay attention to women over 25, I’m dead srs. I just go for young girls, they are hotter anyway and just overall more chill
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post 1647590103 09-22-2021, 10:09 PM
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I met my wife at 35 but I found dating in early 30’s soooo much easier then in my 20’s. If you are in shape and have your **** together in 30’s you’re like a god among men. I mostly went for women 25-29 on early 30’s though. Phucking is one thing but actully trying to date a 22 year old when you’re 32 is painful IMHO.
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post 1647592713 09-22-2021, 11:02 PM
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OP I'm the same age as you, I have no idea why you're dating women your own age.

It's easier than ever for me to match with women in their mid-late 20's. 32 is the max and that's pushing it.
Originally Posted By Roasted
I met my wife at 35 but I found dating in early 30’s soooo much easier then in my 20’s. If you are in shape and have your **** together in 30’s you’re like a god among men. I mostly went for women 25-29 on early 30’s though. Phucking is one thing but actully trying to date a 22 year old when you’re 32 is painful IMHO.
Completely agree, same experience. But if you hadn't met your wife, you might has found it even better in your late 30's, srs.
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post 1647594283 09-22-2021, 11:47 PM
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35 and single is the GOAT life
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can't remember the last time i noticed a gal over 24

you sure they exist?
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post 1647594543 09-22-2021, 11:54 PM
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Originally Posted By thadderbox
Lots of lonely women out there, they'll do anything to rope a man in.
funny thing is they really won't, if you have any standards or are not subservient to them most will next cause there is always beta bill around the corner.
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post 1647595053 09-23-2021, 12:07 AM
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Originally Posted By the700level
35 and single is the GOAT life
Grass is greener type thing. I'm thankful to come home to a quiet, peaceful house with no drama, lots of nice things, but it gets lonely at times and dating is a waste of time.
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Originally Posted By stezus
Twice now i thought i found the perfect one only to find she's raising Tyrone's kid
I LOL'd
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I remember being 21 and everyone was looking weird at chicks my age who'd date 30 yos. Was funny then.


Oh boy.....
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Originally Posted By the700level
35 and single is the GOAT life
Absolutely.
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