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Thread: Dating 35+ is interesting territory.

post 1647598683 09-23-2021, 03:54 AM
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The desperation and lack of glow of 35+ sounds horrific. Theres something about being in their 30's that makes a lot of women tweak. The difference between most 27 year olds and even 31 year olds can be quite distinct.
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post 1647599413 09-23-2021, 04:31 AM
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Too many people rush into relationships and end up being miserable. Do what makes you happy. Don’t follow society’s “standards”.
post 1647600463 09-23-2021, 05:11 AM
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Originally Posted By BigTimeOperator⏩
Women who were once full of glow who end up with leathery skin and haggard are in denial a lot. I've seen it all too often.

Part of me feels kind of bad for them, but then, they could have invested their youth and beauty and virginity in a good young man with prospects instead of the easy THOT path they took.
Few of them post on this very forum

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post 1647600753 09-23-2021, 05:21 AM
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Originally Posted By CrookedDink⏩
Grass is greener type thing. I'm thankful to come home to a quiet, peaceful house with no drama, lots of nice things, but it gets lonely at times and dating is a waste of time.
I never found dating a waste of time. It's an easy way to find 2-3 women (my sweet spot) who are all FWBs and cycle through them for sex on demand.

Otherwise to combat loneliness I do a lot of stuff socially. Sports leagues (even if you suck at sports there are rec leagues) and I also joined a cycling group and Freemasons. Both my jobs are work from home so I knew I had to make an effort to get out of the house regularly.
post 1647601293 09-23-2021, 05:43 AM
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Love is what makes life worth living. I'm grateful for the slooting I was able to do. My only regret is that I didn't fukk more. There's a dirth of Chinese and Asian men in my romantic history. I think about that at night sometimes and weep for the fun times we could have had.
I had to establish myself so it was lots of work in my younger years and much less fukking than what was good for me. I am utterly disgusting to you miscers. But I feel great and I look great too. I can't walk through a store without at least two or three compliments. Srs. I love dogs and dildos so fukk y'all if you want to waste your time grabbing at your cocks screaming how you hate me. Y'all hated me just as much when I was in my early twenties. I was just more awed by the thought of talking to m-m-men. Go ahead and sew your virgin asses shut for all I care. Staple your cocks to a 2x4 to keep them down. Do what you have to do to make sure you stick to your prissy little preferences.
post 1647602033 09-23-2021, 06:08 AM
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I remember dating in my early 30s. It was interesting to say the least. I also opted to start going younger.
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post 1647603423 09-23-2021, 06:44 AM
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What you guys need to do is settle down with single mothers.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!

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post 1647603683 09-23-2021, 06:49 AM
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post 1647604003 09-23-2021, 06:57 AM
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Originally Posted By BigTimeOperator⏩
What you guys need to do is settle down with single mothers.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!

I just threw up in my mouth a little












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post 1647604193 09-23-2021, 07:00 AM
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42, my divorce will be final within a couple weeks. this is what I have to look forward to? yikes.
post 1647605393 09-23-2021, 07:20 AM
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The difference between chicks at 28 and 32 is night and day, they really start to go downhill fast.
Most early 30s just lost all their glow. Most have below average bodies and way over inflated self worth and standards.

It is tough out there. The sweet spot seems to be ages 26-29, these chicks are past the sloot phase but not get quite ruined and looking to settle down. You can still find some good catches. Anything past 30 and theres a reason they are still out there.

I just lost a 3 year relationship, and dating is easier as im older but also the quality is definitely lesser.
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post 1647605843 09-23-2021, 07:29 AM
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post 1647606033 09-23-2021, 07:33 AM
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Originally Posted By FlexLex⏩
The difference between chicks at 28 and 32 is night and day, they really start to go downhill fast.
Most early 30s just lost all their glow. Most have below average bodies and way over inflated self worth and standards.

It is tough out there. The sweet spot seems to be ages 26-29, these chicks are past the sloot phase but not get quite ruined and looking to settle down. You can still find some good catches. Anything past 30 and theres a reason they are still out there.

I just lost a 3 year relationship, and dating is easier as im older but also the quality is definitely lesser.
Nah. At 28 most of them are already done. Never dated older than 23.
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post 1647606203 09-23-2021, 07:36 AM
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Originally Posted By GordonXXX⏩
it's a f**king disaster out there!
^ This.

Quality women aren't single at 35+, unless widowed.

The typical single woman at 35+ comes with a laundry list of red flags.
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post 1647606833 09-23-2021, 07:46 AM
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Originally Posted By BigTimeOperator⏩
Women who were once full of glow who end up with leathery skin and haggard are in denial a lot. I've seen it all too often.

Part of me feels kind of bad for them, but then, they could have invested their youth and beauty and virginity in a good young man with prospects instead of the easy THOT path they took.
Saddest thing is they then tell younger women to do the same chit. "have fun when you're young"
post 1647606923 09-23-2021, 07:48 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Kids are such selfish little sociopaths I really don’t get why people think they are so amazing.
people say that about you now and you are old
post 1647607133 09-23-2021, 07:51 AM
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Originally Posted By Retoaded⏩
42, my divorce will be final within a couple weeks. this is what I have to look forward to? yikes.
You can call me, we can exchange stories lol
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post 1647607443 09-23-2021, 07:55 AM
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Originally Posted By TXBuddy⏩
You can call me, we can exchange stories lol
definitely considering going the sub-30 route.
post 1647607593 09-23-2021, 07:57 AM
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Originally Posted By Retoaded⏩
definitely considering going the sub-30 route.
so you're a 42 year old divorced single dad? you think a quality hot girl in her 20s wants anything to do with you? maybe if you're super wealthy or look like a young Brad Pitt. otherwise, i've got some bad news for you.
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You can date down into the ages where women are graduating from a graduate degree, throughout your 30s. You just need to be very selective about who you date - there are a ton of landmines out there - but you can easily score a new MD at that age.
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post 1647607843 09-23-2021, 08:01 AM
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Originally Posted By GayCumLord⏩
I'm hoping that society evolves to learn that women over 30 need to have way lower standards then when they were in their prime. Unfortunately society lies to women and will continue in doing so because thats where the money is
This. I wonder if women will ever realize that they have been lied to all this time. Probably not though, because they are such liars they they even deceive themselves. Would rather live in denial than accept the truth.
Originally Posted By insidemane⏩
I don’t even pay attention to women over 25, I’m dead srs. I just go for young girls, they are hotter anyway and just overall more chill
Yeah they are the only one's with any sort of ability left to pair bond. More innocent connection. The used ones over 25 are bitter and just dating out of spite or to not be single. It's not as genuine, you can feel something is off every time.
It's just the young crowd is so absorbed in social media and all that bs like drinking and partying so that's a headache as well. Plus they never know what they want.
Originally Posted By keyboardworkout⏩
All single women over 40 are batchit fuking crazy.

Had two of them stalk me after I ghosted them in the last year.
Same. Gone are the days when you can get a clean break. Now they have to sabotage you and make a point. Not sure how we got here
Originally Posted By lolatpaniccels⏩
its because there are cucks that give attention to fat chicks and 4/10s. Guys need to cut out that simp **** for women that don't deserve it and then there wouldn't be those insane standards, then they will come back to reality.
Men don't realize that they play a huge role here. The simps encourage and allow this behavior to continue. Women need men to lead and now that they have been given the upper hand, hell broke lose and simps help them get away with this chit.
post 1647608163 09-23-2021, 08:06 AM
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Originally Posted By GordonXXX⏩
so you're a 42 year old divorced single dad? you think a quality hot girl in her 20s wants anything to do with you? maybe if you're super wealthy or look like a young Brad Pitt. otherwise, i've got some bad news for you.
He never said dad.
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Originally Posted By irmocool⏩
funny thing is they really won't, if you have any standards or are not subservient to them most will next cause there is always beta bill around the corner.
this guy gets it
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IF you're serious about dating in your 30s you have to live in a major center and it's GOAT life. Enjoy your land and your truck and your single mom with tyrone kids if you wanna live elsewhere lol
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Originally Posted By Retoaded⏩
definitely considering going the sub-30 route.
Until you’re known as the creep dating college graduates.
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Originally Posted By TXBuddy⏩
He never said dad.
doesn't matter. single dad is just even worse.
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Originally Posted By BigTimeOperator⏩


HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAA!!!!!!!


You have given out too much Reputation in the last 24 hours, try again later.
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Originally Posted By LethalGunz34⏩
Until you’re known as the creep dating college graduates.
young hot quality girls in their 20s don't want some average joe divorced dad in their 40s. he's going to have to settle for what he can get. old odds ends scraps and throwbacks. used merchandise, damaged goods. not young prime vag. delusions of grandeur aside.
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Originally Posted By thadderbox⏩
Let me first preface that I take care of myself, I work out, I eat good, self employed. I have no kids, no drama.

I don't actively date, but I've noticed that in your 30's dating is interesting to put it lightly.

Lots of divorced women, or women with kids, or women with trust issues... but also an insane amount of expectation/standards.

Now I see why older men date younger women, makes it so much clear.
I'm early 30s and never had these issues. I also don't date over 30 generally, 27-30 is solid. Just don't be short, or unsuccessful.
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