No. Platonic acquaintance who worked in a different department/different floor at work. I had recommended a book to him and we had talked about that a little. Game of Thrones when it was just a paperback, not an HBO series.

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Depending where you live, drinking is a culture, and he could have been an alcoholic, gave it up for good and is thankful for living a 2nd life. I prefer someone that can go out for drinks, but it shouldn't be a deal breaker. If it is, she's probably got a problem herself.

Do you think chicks in their 20’s would be proud to tell their parents/friends that their boyfriend is 42? Think about it.

I would imagine the type of broad to reject a guy for not drinking is the type of person who lives such a vacuous life they consider drinking and bar-hopping to be a hobby.

The big issue overall is women seem to be seeking a guy who will increase her social value, rather than be a worthwhile partner.

From an evolutionary standpoint this doesn’t make sense to me. I would think women absolutely would not want to share their children’s provider and protector with other women. Wouldn’t it diminish what their kids receive.

This has been the case since the beginning of time for normie women

Roughly 23% of fathers aren't biological to at least 1 child

53% of women are cheating as of 2019




Stay safe misc

It's honestly a pretty normal thing for an American woman to do that and doesn't surprise me in the least. That's why I said earlier that even though I don't drink anymore I'll still get a drink or 2 at social functions. It's part of the culture here. Hell, I'm married and even my wife asked me out of the blue on day if I was ever gonna drink again in a way that strongly suggested she wanted me to

Yeah that is one thing I always found odd. As they got older with more baggage, their expectations always went up.

I would imagine the type of broad to reject a guy for not drinking is the type of person who lives such a vacuous life they consider drinking and bar-hopping to be a hobby.

The big issue overall is women seem to be seeking a guy who will increase her social value,rather than be a worthwhile partner.

Roughly 23% of fathers aren't biological to at least 1 child

53% of women are cheating as of 2019




Stay safe misc

Fuk hot random dudes while you're in your 20s. It's fun, you won't be judged, everybody does it, and you don't need a man to support you because it's the West in the 21st century. Your options diminish as you get older, and there's more stigma from your tribe about being single when older, so you eventually settle down for a likely less hot dude.

Is this optimal for maximal best gene passage? No, probably not, but they're not aiming for the truck.

Even Chads know what's up.

lol mirin that Chad. Its funny because women cant talk **** of him and tell him "who hurt you" or "he cant get girls anyway".

Odd statement. There is a lot between one drink and alcoholic. Are those the only two options for you?

lol'd so hard at the victim card here.

Married nice young guy. Once he had girl he assumes the vows you took were legit. He continues with his purpose and you try to saddle him with emotional baggage and neediness.

"He didn't give me what I needed" so you went on Tinder and accrued a 40 body count in a few years and wonder why nobody wants you.

Is logic really that hard?

Birth control changed everything. But I think you nailed it with the mindset; obviously young women would be better off cashing out their chips during prime years instead of waiting too long.

Women only care for being entertained and maintained.


No hate, good on ya dude BUT a guy who hasn't had a drink in 20 years is weird. Chicks don't like guys who are weird. Male success cues aren't the same as female success cues.

Can guarantee there was some sub-communication re the drinking point and the chick picked up a vibe she didn't like if she switched off immediately (negative emotional reaction). Maybe she didn't like that he was blunt, not open to influence and she can tell he is so firm in his frame that she won't be able to manipulate him into being a beta provider and she has no desire to be a subservient woman in her old age. If she has her own money and can't have kids, what does she need a rich old dude for? Maybe he rolled his eyes at her being a vapid koont and she saw he only wanted the dried up puss and she switched off immediately. A dude observing won't pick up on half of this stuff in real time but every female will.

jfl at female miscers trying to apply rational logic to the decision. Females have emotional logic. He made her feel an emotion that she then associated with other negative emotions from another time in her life and thus a + b = v i.e. he made her feel bad and she is no-longer interested.



lmfao. THATS THE POINT.

So even though you gave your word that you would do x in front of every person who means anything to you in your life (i.e. you face social ostracisation if you don't do x), you decided not to do x because it made you feel good in the moment to do y. Gotcha.

jfl at playing the victim card. You cheated on him with scores of other men in addition to having a list of psychological problems. Rather than accept fault for your poor behaviour you fall back on the cliché "he drove me to do it".

Where is your blame in this failed marriage?

and lmao. as clichés go you are certainly a cliché

Women always have a back up guy(s).

Any girl you're serious about ask her how many of her ********/IG followers/following she has fuked. If she is liking any of their photos/activity she is viewing that guy as a plan B.

Females are females brah. They needed to have a back up plan in days gone by if the provider died so she and her kids didn't die. It is an evolved aspect of their psyche. She has just admitted that it was "Platonic" yet he immediately invites the rebound chick to his party (i.e. he was looking to fuk and she knew this). He is clearly sexually aggressive/confident to be a "flasher" costume.

Hey Katya, did you fuk/get frisky at this party or how long after.

Get on Hinge, i've met lots of chicks on there. Have a shirtless pic and you'll get matches. Some girls will be turned off but not all and the ones who you do match with are obviously already attracted to you. Meet up for drinks and as long as you can ask them questions about themselves=profit and have fun. If I was in Arizona, I'd definitely go out with you and wingman.

many don't even want children. or have and don't want any more

any man that is doing well in life will want to pass on his legacy and seed in time

so these women are worthless to him - and they don't realize it

Women only care for being entertained and maintained.


No hate, good on ya dude BUT a guy who hasn't had a drink in 20 years is weird. Chicks don't like guys who are weird. Male success cues aren't the same as female success cues.

Can guarantee there was some sub-communication re the drinking point and the chick picked up a vibe she didn't like if she switched off immediately (negative emotional reaction). Maybe she didn't like that he was blunt, not open to influence and she can tell he is so firm in his frame that she won't be able to manipulate him into being a beta provider and she has no desire to be a subservient woman in her old age. If she has her own money and can't have kids, what does she need a rich old dude for? Maybe he rolled his eyes at her being a vapid koont and she saw he only wanted the dried up puss and she switched off immediately. A dude observing won't pick up on half of this stuff in real time but every female will.

So pre-erectile dysfunction medications - if the woman was in a sexless marriage because the husband couldn't achieve an erection that's fine to cheat because he isn't holding up his end of the whole "for richer or poorer, through sickness and health" equation?

Again, you can't even answer a direct question without trying to justify your behaviour through perceived victimhood.

Of course a marriage is only there to support your needs and ensure you are looked after. And of course you can't communicate any of that to him because he should just KNOW how you're feeling. You couldn't turn anywhere else (especially to your husband - he was the problem after all) and the only answer was to get rawdogged by the guy from the gym. Amirite?

lawd at you not understanding male/human behaviour.

He didn't invite you to the party to be your friend.

Of course you going to a party with the random guy from your work was innocent. Girls always go to parties with random guys they don't really know because he asked them a non-personal question. The effort to make a costume and get dressed (and obviously make sure you were looking a bit sexy in the costume, just because that empowers you and is for YOU, not anyone else) and go out of your way to attend a party with said random guy definitely was not due to the prospect of any potential sex that may occur and was totally because of the strong platonic friendship that you had (with said random guy) that you intended to foster.

Of course, you were the good wife doing as you were told and it was by being a good wife that you tripped and fell onto the young guys raw cock at he tennis club so really it's your husbands fault for even suggesting you return to the tennis club. If he hadn't suggested you return, you wouldn't have met the guy who ended up blasting a big load inside you so really it was his fault that you cheated.

Then you moved out and got rawdogged by every guy you had been sending signals to for the last few months, obviously you were only sending signals because your husband was emotionally abusive and not meeting your needs so of course you were just after some male attention that your husband wasn't providing.

Obviously you moved out and everything was "by the book" of not slooting and cheating on the marriage but you realised after getting your insides painted by all those guys that you really missed the family unit and it was your daughter holding the whole thing together (and of course you were STILL LONELY so you had to return to your previously emotionally abusive LONELY (I emphasise LONELY because of how LONELY you were) marriage. It had nothing to do with you being in a worse off position after slooting and you saw the light and returned to the family home to be the good wife and mother you know yourself to be. Because your husband was so terrible to you OF COURSE he took you back.

Obviously because you were still LONELY you needed to continue to find new guys to paint your insides though.. right?