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post 1649976423 10-31-2021, 08:30 PM
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lol, a good friend of mine said the same thing . If women don’t have a crisis they’ll make one up.
Sloots need emotional ups and downs ,or they get bored and leave . There’s a lot of evidence regarding this,as there was one guy that showered his wife with gifts all the time, treated her like a princess , and she couldn’t take it anymore and filed for divorce.
In court she mentioned that he never argued or fought , and she couldn’t handle things going so well all the time.
You can’t make this chit up .
Sloots are nothing more than children in an adult body . Just go to TikTok for proof lol .
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Originally Posted By demfeelsbro
That's why the love 'bad boys'...they thrive off the drama
Recently proven . Sloots get bored with nice guys , and prefer psychopaths

https://www.psypost.org/2019/10/new-...to-women-54676
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Originally Posted By andrew28
It’s not just the drama that comes with bad boys.

It’s authenticity.

When a man is overly nice, women sense that something is “off” about the guy and that he’s trying to open up a debt account where she feels pressured to reciprocate. It’s either that or he has a level of desperation in him. They look at the “bad boy” who is indifferent towards them as at least being authentic.
That's a good point actually.

I used to be a bit of a bad boy because i didn't know any better - as i've gotten older i've realised that being aggressive or any other sort of deviation from 'normal' is kinda weird.

You're right in that women don't like people who are pretending to be nice, or guys that are just being nice to them because they look good, but if you don't know how to be assertive, confident with your self, and firm, being a bad boy is better than being a nice guy.
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe
That's a good point actually.

I used to be a bit of a bad boy because i didn't know any better - as i've gotten older i've realised that being aggressive or any other sort of deviation from 'normal' is kinda weird.

You're right in that women don't like people who are pretending to be nice, or guys that are just being nice to them because they look good, but if you don't know how to be assertive, confident with your self, and firm, being a bad boy is better than being a nice guy.
Yea I think it’s easier for a natural “bad boy” to tone it down and try to be nicer (but not a doormat) than it is for a nice guy to become more of a bad boy.

There’s a happy medium, push/pull that can be hard to find. One pattern I’ve noticed is that every girl I was indifferent towards, they chased me. And every girl who I showed more interest in than they had for me....it ended poorly.

It’s like teasing a cat with one of those stick toys with a string attached to it. If you lift it high, they’ll swat at it. If you drag it down low, they’ll chase it. But if you leave it flat on the floor, they don’t give a fuk. Married guys usually get comfortable and stop pulling the string which ends up in divorce.
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Too much real life ITT and another example of why Islam is right about women. You have to give women strict rules or they will cause problems and never be happy.
A mans penis is worth two in the bush.
post 1649978333 10-31-2021, 09:16 PM
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Originally Posted By andrew28
Yea I think it’s easier for a natural “bad boy” to tone it down and try to be nicer (but not a doormat) than it is for a nice guy to become more of a bad boy.

There’s a happy medium, push/pull that can be hard to find. One pattern I’ve noticed is that every girl I was indifferent towards, they chased me. And every girl who I showed more interest in than they had for me....it ended poorly.

It’s like teasing a cat with one of those stick toys with a string attached to it. If you lift it high, they’ll swat at it. If you drag it down low, they’ll chase it. But if you leave it flat on the floor, they don’t give a fuk. Married guys usually get comfortable and stop pulling the string which ends up in divorce.
i think that this happens naturally if you've got chemistry with somebody.

Like my ex would get triggered at the tiniest stuff i'd do, even though i am a really nice guy.

I once just spoke funny and she went flying out of the room LOL
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post 1649978653 10-31-2021, 09:23 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe
i think that this happens naturally if you've got chemistry with somebody.

Like my ex would get triggered at the tiniest stuff i'd do, even though i am a really nice guy.

I once just spoke funny and she went flying out of the room LOL
Yea I was fwb for 6 months with a bipolar girl.

We were taking bong rips like we usually do before sex and she started coughing like crazy so I took it away and said “Aright that’s enough of that. Not tryin to Bill Cosby you.” And she goes “WHAT?? DID YOU JUST MAKE A FUKKING RAPE JOKE?” And I said “What? Of course not. I was saying I’m NOT trying to Bill Cosby you. Do you think I condone what that fukker did?” But at that point I had reached the point of no return and she started crying hysterically.

I shouldn’t have apologized because that means I unintentionally admitted guilt of making a rape joke which I didn’t think I was doing.

Never ever spend your time with bipolar or BPD girls. It’s like walking on eggshells 24/7. And this girl was an avid SJW/victim. Any tiny thing she could use to cause drama and gain sympathy, she used it. Stay as far away as you can from them. Yes it’s true they’re fukking amazing in bed but it’s not worth it.
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drama is fun tbh. IDK how poeple are happy having drama free lives.
post 1649978893 10-31-2021, 09:29 PM
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Originally Posted By andrew28
Yea I was fwb for 6 months with a bipolar girl.

We were taking bong rips like we usually do before sex and she started coughing like crazy so I took it away and said “Aright that’s enough of that. Not tryin to Bill Cosby you.” And she goes “WHAT?? DID YOU JUST MAKE A FUKKING RAPE JOKE?” And I said “What? Of course not. I was saying I’m NOT trying to Bill Cosby you. Do you think I condone what that fukker did?” But at that point I had reached the point of no return and she started crying hysterically.

I shouldn’t have apologized because that means I unintentionally admitted guilt of making a rape joke which I didn’t think I was doing.

Never ever spend your time with bipolar or BPD girls. It’s like walking on eggshells 24/7. And this girl was an avid SJW/victim. Any tiny thing she could use to cause drama and gain sympathy, she used it. Stay as far away as you can from them. Yes it’s true they’re fukking amazing in bed but it’s not worth it.
Wow that sounds like a pretty horrible experience - do you think that you might have overthought is because you were high?

Just like she might have over thought the joke because she was high while being mentally ill?

Not trying to have a go at you but you sound a bit too over sensitive like how's saying sorry admitting to guilt? It's just something you say if you've made somebody uncomfortable.
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post 1649978923 10-31-2021, 09:31 PM
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That’s just how they are. Don’t take them too seriously.
^^^

Women are adult children. There’s a reason God designed the man to be the leader and head of household
post 1649979193 10-31-2021, 09:39 PM
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Originally Posted By knightofday
^^^

Women are adult children. There’s a reason God designed the man to be the leader and head of household
yeah too bad that most men don't follow the designation all that well.

In theory men are supposed to be protectors and women are supposed to be nurturers, but things don't always go according to the plan.
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe
Wow that sounds like a pretty horrible experience - do you think that you might have overthought is because you were high?

Just like she might have over thought the joke because she was high while being mentally ill?

Not trying to have a go at you but you sound a bit too over sensitive like how's saying sorry admitting to guilt? It's just something you say if you've made somebody uncomfortable.
Yes I am most certainly guilty of being an over-thinker. You have that part right.

I have ADHD and I talk a lot. Most girls I’ve been with, I’ve felt 100% comfortable saying whatever I want. I make them laugh a lot. A lot of times I don’t think before I speak but it’s never gotten me the reaction this girl gave me that night.

Could it have been the weed? Sure. But we did this routine over a hundred times with no issues. I’d be a lot more careful with my words around her before she even got to my place. I think she’s just crazy and takes things too literally.

But yea if you say sorry, that’s admitting guilt. What I should’ve said was “I’m sorry I made you feel that way but I was not trying to trivialize what that guy did on any level.” She was fine after her crying fit but I can’t recall if we banged that night but we certainly did plenty of times after.

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Originally Posted By andrew28
Yes I am most certainly guilty of being an over-thinker. You have that part right.

I have ADHD and I talk a lot. Most girls I’ve been with, I’ve felt 100% comfortable saying whatever I want. I make them laugh a lot. A lot of times I don’t think before I speak but it’s never gotten me the reaction this girl gave me that night.

Could it have been the weed? Sure. But we did this routine over a hundred times with no issues. I’d be a lot more careful with my words around her before she even got to my place. I think she’s just crazy and takes things too literally.

But yea if you say sorry, that’s admitting guilt. What I should’ve said was “I’m sorry I made you feel that way but I was not trying to trivialize what that guy did on any level.” She was fine after her crying fit but I can’t recall if we banged that night but we certainly did plenty of times after.

yeah i used to be a bit of a drama queen as well and still am - i usually love over reacting to things to look like i am a victim and that my life is harder than everybody elses.

really got my self into trouble like this - so yeah people in general will do this
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe
foe sho

most guys that i know are just sh*t taalkers even the tough guys n sh*t aare



It's not just women, it's the world that throws oddballs at you to keep you strong and on your purpouse.
Please tell me the purpouse of even bothering with women at this point...they are doing my head in.
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Originally Posted By keels141
Please tell me the purpouse of even bothering with women at this point...they are doing my head in.
whats going on there
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe
yeah i used to be a bit of a drama queen as well and still am - i usually love over reacting to things to look like i am a victim and that my life is harder than everybody elses.

really got my self into trouble like this - so yeah people in general will do this
Damn man, gotta give you points for honesty there. Can’t say I can relate.

I was always aware that my life has been easier than most. I have zero history of abuse, trauma, or PTSD. But that bipolar girl tried to convince me I had depression because I think she has a “misery loves company” mindset. I’d tell her it would be a complete insult for me to say I have depression with how easy my life is. But she wasn’t having any of it. That’s why she keeps getting into relationships with guys who are either depressed or have a personality disorder. She admits she dates down. She’s the type that wants to be the prize in a relationship or at least have the power. I wouldn’t give that to her which is probably why she used me as a human dildo and nothing more, lol.
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Originally Posted By andrew28
Damn man, gotta give you points for honesty there. Can’t say I can relate.

I was always aware that my life has been easier than most. I have zero history of abuse, trauma, or PTSD. But that bipolar girl tried to convince me I had depression because I think she has a “misery loves company” mindset. I’d tell her it would be a complete insult for me to say I have depression with how easy my life is. But she wasn’t having any of it. That’s why she keeps getting into relationships with guys who are either depressed or have a personality disorder. She admits she dates down. She’s the type that wants to be the prize in a relationship or at least have the power. I wouldn’t give that to her which is probably why she used me as a human dildo and nothing more, lol.
Sounds like she has some serious issues mate and it sounds like you might have depression based on your posts though srs - not sure if you had depression when you were talking to her.

She probably didn't use you as a human dildo, maybe that's just how you feel?

Either way man you chose to live that 'casual sex' life, so you can't get surprised that you met a few oddballs on your journey.
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Originally Posted By andrew28
This falls right in line with Russian novelist Dostoevsky.

He stated that even if society turned into a 100% egalitarian utopia, that people would eventually destroy it out of sheer boredom.

It’s the same reason why people in 1st world countries are fukking miserable and pumped full of anti-depressants while people living in poverty in Africa don’t have these mental health issues.

Aside from the homeless, most of us have everything we need to survive. Food, fresh water, solid shelter, etc. We essentially already “won” the game of survival, so we go looking for purpose/meaning in things that don’t really matter most of the time. We’re too used to how good we have it. And a lot of women get bored easily if their man doesn’t bear the unjustified responsibility of keeping her happy 24/7. They already got you locked in. They know everything about you at this point so you become like a book she just finished the final chapter of.

Women love drama because it gets them in tune with their emotions. Even if that emotion is a negative one, it’s still preferable to boredom/complacency.
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe
Sounds like she has some serious issues mate and it sounds like you might have depression based on your posts though srs - not sure if you had depression when you were talking to her.
If I were depressed I’d 100% admit it. I can’t remember the last time I really felt sad.

What I will say is that I do have a certain level of existential despair because I read way too many books about anthropology, evolutionary psychology, lack of free will, etc. I feel like a 70 year old man in a 32 year old’s body in that I’ve seen all I need to see. Just coasting through life. I’m not sad or depressed but I also don’t really have any big goals in life. If you wanna call that depression then that’s fine. I don’t care about the stigma. I just know what this life is and there’s no turning back once you’ve reached that point.

Fortunately I just got a golden retriever puppy and he’s incredibly attached to me after only a week. Runs after me every time I run in my yard at only 9 weeks old. I can’t wait to get home from work just to see his face light up. But when I hit the “zoom out button” I know all that excitement is just dopamine, serotonin, neurons firing, etc which brings everything back down to earth. Fortunately I’m able to block those thoughts out most of the time.
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Originally Posted By andrew28
If I were depressed I’d 100% admit it. I can’t remember the last time I really felt sad.

What I will say is that I do have a certain level of existential despair because I read way too many books about anthropology, evolutionary psychology, lack of free will, etc. I feel like a 70 year old man in a 32 year old’s body in that I’ve seen all I need to see. Just coasting through life. I’m not sad or depressed but I also don’t really have any big goals in life. If you wanna call that depression then that’s fine. I don’t care about the stigma. I just know what this life is and there’s no turning back once you’ve reached that point.

Fortunately I just got a golden retriever puppy and he’s incredibly attached to me after only a week. Runs after me every time I run in my yard at only 9 weeks old. I can’t wait to get home from work just to see his face light up. But when I hit the “zoom out button” I know all that excitement is just dopamine, serotonin, neurons firing, etc which brings everything back down to earth. Fortunately I’m able to block those thoughts out most of the time.
Yeah if you experienced what i'd experienced you wouldn't think of it as simply being dopamine, serotonin, and neurons firing.
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kind of weird how they do it but true

when things are perfect, it gets too boring for them
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe
Yeah if you experienced what i'd experienced you wouldn't think of it as simply being dopamine, serotonin, and neurons firing.
You know how many people say the same thing? Look at all the religions out there. People just walking around 100% convinced that they were more than a biological puppet. That THEIR mindset was correct. That THEIR god was the true god. That THEIR experiences were all real and there is no talking them out of it.

So in light of this lovely revelation, you’re telling me you still have the hubris to believe that whatever experiences you’ve had were real and that the way you see the world is correct? You still can’t see how the human brain is capable of remarkable delusions that defy all the laws of nature?

You, me, and every other person on this planet are nothing but a biological accident. Doesn’t mean we can’t try to enjoy it as much as possible. But some day you’ll realize how illusory your identity truly is. You’ll likely have an extremely unpleasant episode of cognitive dissonance but that’ll eventually pass. And you’ll get over it. It’s gonna hurt but odds are you won’t rope yourself. You’ll find meaning in friends, family, hobbies, etc. But you’ll mature out of these delusions I promise you.
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