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post 1650533263 11-09-2021, 09:08 PM
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People don’t value kindness

As much as people say kindness is a virtue and stress the importance of growing up to be kind and generous, only a minority actually respect a kind person.

I’m not talking about the type of niceness that is being a pushover. Nor am I talking about being nice to get something back.

I’m simply saying that if you treat everyone with respect, have patience with people, keep your promises, encourage people, etc, they will try and stick you in the dirt.

You get taken advantage of and bullied. It gets you nowhere. Atleast in my case. I will continue to be a good, kind person, but people can be BS.
post 1650533633 11-09-2021, 09:19 PM
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Here's what you do: Turn all your diarrhea into soup (ded fukn srs).

You can turn diarrhea into soup simply by throwing it in a blender and then adding some chicken broth.

I hate drinking diarrhea in the winter, but I will drink the fukk out of diarrhea and French fry shake.
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post 1650534023 11-09-2021, 09:34 PM
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OP is right though...

I am currently trying to be more and more based srs
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post 1650534183 11-09-2021, 09:39 PM
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Kindness only matters if it is an exercise of temperance.

You can only exercise temperance if you have power.
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post 1650534203 11-09-2021, 09:40 PM
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pretty much. when i do something kind now i make sure i wash it from my memory and don't think anything of it srsly. helps prevent me raging later at someone that did me wrong.
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post 1650534233 11-09-2021, 09:41 PM
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post 1650534243 11-09-2021, 09:41 PM
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Originally Posted By memcop⏩
Kindness only matters if it is an exercise of temperance.

You can only exercise temperance if you have power.
This.

Chris Hemsworth being nice: everyone on the room loves him, he’s the best

Poverty ugly manlet being nice : “what a ******* wish he would just leave “



Being super nice isn’t a good idea unless you are above the people you are being nice to. Not saying to be a jerk either, just don’t be the nice guy.
"The flowers bloom, then wither... The stars shine and one day become extinct. This earth, the sun, the galaxies and even the big universe, someday will be destroyed. Compared with that, the human life is only a blink, just a little time. In that short time - people are born, laugh, cry, fight, are injured, feel joy, sadness, hate someone, love someone. All in just a moment. And then, are embraced by the eternal sleep called death."
post 1650534273 11-09-2021, 09:43 PM
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people are selfish and care more about what they can get out of you rather than wanting to be around you


remember all those bros you used to go out with every weekend getting yucky. most likely don't hear from many of them if at all anymore cause you don't offer anything to them even if you're the nicest guy in the world

no one really gives a chit if you're nice cause what does that really offer to them? nothing
post 1650534323 11-09-2021, 09:45 PM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
This.

Chris Hemsworth being nice: everyone on the room loves him, he’s the best

Poverty ugly manlet being nice : “what a ******* wish he would just leave “



Being super nice isn’t a good idea unless you are above the people you are being nice to. Not saying to be a jerk either, just don’t be the nice guy.
I'm nice to rude idiots who have little clue what they're dealing with. I can fuk their life, wife, career, and probably mom.

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Above this line, temperance. An exercise in life. Also, manlets, when will they learn?
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post 1650534383 11-09-2021, 09:46 PM
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Originally Posted By memcop⏩
Kindness only matters if it is an exercise of temperance.

You can only exercise temperance if you have power.
spoken like a true mod bum who thinks his rep power is importance.
Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
This.

Chris Hemsworth being nice: everyone on the room loves him, he’s the best

Poverty ugly manlet being nice : “what a ******* wish he would just leave “



Being super nice isn’t a good idea unless you are above the people you are being nice to. Not saying to be a jerk either, just don’t be the nice guy.
you genuinely might be one of the worst posters on the Misc srs.

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post 1650534453 11-09-2021, 09:47 PM
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Originally Posted By Eterniity⏩
spoken like a true mod bum who thinks his rep power is importance.



you genuinely might be one of the worst posters on the Misc srs.

srs

like 4real 4real.
Don’t shoot the messenger bro
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post 1650534463 11-09-2021, 09:47 PM
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Originally Posted By memcop⏩
I'm nice to rude idiots who have little clue what they're dealing with. I can fuk their life, wife, career, and probably mom.

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Above this line, temperance. An exercise in life. Also, manlets, when will they learn?
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post 1650534473 11-09-2021, 09:48 PM
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Originally Posted By Eterniity⏩
spoken like a true mod bum who thinks his rep power is importance.



you genuinely might be one of the worst posters on the Misc srs.

srs

like 4real 4real.
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post 1650534683 11-09-2021, 09:54 PM
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Yeah that's a sad reality with human nature, I guess. People will see kindness and empathy and see what they can extract from such a person. Some people out there genuinely do deserve kindness, respect, and your empathy. I try to keep my sights out for those people I can associate with, yet you will always meet those who aim to manipulate you and give you **** for it. The trick is to keep being cordial and friendly, yet keep your wits about you and let people prove themselves to you before you fully let your guard down.




















but barring that, Here's what you do: Turn all your diarrhea into soup (ded fukn srs).

You can turn diarrhea into soup simply by throwing it in a blender and then adding some chicken broth.

I hate drinking diarrhea in the winter, but I will drink the fukk out of diarrhea and French fry shake.
post 1650535023 11-09-2021, 10:07 PM
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Originally Posted By andyray⏩
people are selfish and care more about what they can get out of you rather than wanting to be around you


remember all those bros you used to go out with every weekend getting yucky. most likely don't hear from many of them if at all anymore cause you don't offer anything to them even if you're the nicest guy in the world

no one really gives a chit if you're nice cause what does that really offer to them? nothing
That’s the way most people think. It’s pretty messed up.
post 1650535233 11-09-2021, 10:13 PM
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Originally Posted By Eterniity⏩
pretty much. when i do something kind now i make sure i wash it from my memory and don't think anything of it srsly. helps prevent me raging later at someone that did me wrong.
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post 1650535283 11-09-2021, 10:15 PM
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Originally Posted By memcop⏩
Kindness only matters if it is an exercise of temperance.

You can only exercise temperance if you have power.
Are you just saying that kindness only matters when it comes from a place of temperance, a restraint of using your power?

Or are you also insinuating that a someone who doesn’t have power isn’t truly kind, because the never had power to be rude in the first place?
post 1650535463 11-09-2021, 10:24 PM
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post 1650535563 11-09-2021, 10:26 PM
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Originally Posted By TealCat⏩
Definition of cope.
i remember laughing at you because of some pathetic post you made and how worthless you were.

and i can't even remember it, your avi is forever in my subconscious as being a **** poster.
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Originally Posted By memcop⏩
Kindness only matters if it is an exercise of temperance.

You can only exercise temperance if you have power.
Shut up you dumb slave. You have no power.

Most people in America only value the label on their clothes made by a child slave in a third world country.

They think that by being a pos that they are some how the floating turd in the punch bowl.

Just another byproduct of throwing our heritage and christianity out the window because the rappers and hollywood told us it was cool to.

It wanst always this bad and culture-less.

Cant wait to leave you guys for another country while you all act like ass holes to each other instead of working together to stop your government from raping you in the ass every day.

You thought it was a coincidence they taught you to reject christian values and you slowly became slaves again?

Enjoy not treating each other with kindness and decency while the elite treat you the same way by destroying your currency, snatching your kids and selling them to each other, invading your countries with migrants who despise you, and forcing experimental shots on you.

Remember you would do it to your neighbor so you really have no moral high ground to object.
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Originally Posted By rollerball⏩
The latter part. Some people are "kind" out of weakness, their insecurity about that weakness incites them to act more nicely than they might ordinarily. Whereas a person with power over others who chooses to be kind, and doesn't have to be, stands out and is often more easily appreciated.
I see your point. It’s a sad reality that applies for most of the population I guess.
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You should only be kind to your inner circle not everyone at large
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But I like being kind
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Be kind but strong, kindness is not allowing someone to harm you.

Surround yourself with people who value kindness, people can be BS very often but in forgiveness they can't bring you down.
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Originally Posted By BeanGainClovis⏩
Be kind but strong, kindness is not allowing someone to harm you.

Surround yourself with people who value kindness, people can be BS very often but in forgiveness they can't bring you down.
Amen to that. *bow*

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OP, stick to your principles. You don't have to convince everyone. If you continue to be that person of kindness then people will start to respond to your kindness, one by one and day by day. When years pass, you have a lot of kind people in your circle, helping each other.

That's my two cents.
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Originally Posted By iloveus⏩
This
Originally Posted By anonkunbrah⏩
You should only be kind to your inner circle not everyone at large
I disagree.
Originally Posted By Jandels⏩
But I like being kind
Samesies!
Originally Posted By BeanGainClovis⏩
Be kind but strong, kindness is not allowing someone to harm you.

Surround yourself with people who value kindness, people can be BS very often but in forgiveness they can't bring you down.
This. Being kind doesn't mean you have to be a pushover.
Originally Posted By Samraiwise⏩
Amen to that. *bow*

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OP, stick to your principles. You don't have to convince everyone. If you continue to be that person of kindness then people will start to respond to your kindness, one by one and day by day. When years pass, you have a lot of kind people in your circle, helping each other.

That's my two cents.
Agree.

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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
This

I disagree

Samesies!

This. Being kind doesn't mean you have to be a pushover.

Agree.

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And you live this, every day. It's my favorite quality about you! I hope you will always continue to be yourself.
Thank you! <3 <3 <3 I can't be anyone else lol
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And you live this, every day. It's my favorite quality about you! I hope you will always continue to be yourself.
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