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post 1650644513 11-11-2021, 04:20 PM
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my dad was 50 when he lost his job and moved into his parents basement
post 1650644693 11-11-2021, 04:25 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
I had a spiritual awakening and lost my sex drive.
how old are you? sorry i didn't read thread if you said

i feel like i know what you went through from previous talks and you're kinda mixed up with a western twist on eastern philosophy. ego death?

you say "awakening" have you looked up "kundalini awakening" or however you spell it?

i had a similar experience @ about 23-24. was horrible. didn't want it. everything was excellent in life and then it all went to **** for a little bit

was a battle to battle back. very annoying

from your verbiage i feel like you're floating in it and i just want to say you got a while to go to get over it if what i think is true

i dont think its a cool mindset (at all really) but especially living in the west
post 1650644933 11-11-2021, 04:29 PM
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I am all for not moving out just because you turned 18. Unless of course you have a clear goal (college, important job position, etc).
I only see advantages in not moving out of your parents' house because you don't pay rent (you only help with expenses) and you are close to people who, in most cases, care about you.
post 1650645003 11-11-2021, 04:31 PM
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post 1650645103 11-11-2021, 04:34 PM
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How can someone who still lives at home with their mother and father be weight training?

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post 1650645443 11-11-2021, 04:39 PM
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Originally Posted By nick5569⏩
If you've never lived on your own I'd say it's a good idea to try a year or even 6 months on your own

Best case is you really come into your own and your career advances enough that you don't even need or want to move back in with mom and dad

Worst case you just move back home with the added benefit that you would then appreciate everything your parents do for you that much more (also no longer feel like you were missing out on something)
Pretty good advice- I mean ofc from a purely financial perspective it’s best to live at home until you can buy your own place or get married. But to base all important life decisions off whatever allows you to accumulate the most 0s in your bank account doesn’t seem like a great recipe for long term happiness.
post 1650646103 11-11-2021, 04:51 PM
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Originally Posted By exxtracool⏩
i live alone (with gf), and my mom still does my laundry a lot of times and cooks for us lol. idk man, again maybe cultural difference, but if i told my mom i didnt want her to help me out it would make her feel bad because she genuinely likes to do these things for me.

when we have a baby she will basically be our full time nanny too. btw i do pretty well for myself, if i wanted to i could easily just hire a full time housekeeper to do all of these things... the idea is i dont want my mom to not be apart of my life and she doesnt want to not be apart of my life.
Christ dude, it's time to grow up for ****s sake!!!!
post 1650646223 11-11-2021, 04:53 PM
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Originally Posted By niospecv⏩
It's typical for wealthy families to have their kids around as adults. Not so much when the parents are hard-working folks and see their kids as financial burdens.

I don't see an issue if the kid is pulling their weight and helping the parents here and there. Millennials and Gen Z kids will stay at home longer than any other generation. ded fkn srs
I shudder to think in 10 years miscers will be talking about living at home when they're 35-40......
post 1650646523 11-11-2021, 04:59 PM
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Originally Posted By Dave22reborn⏩
Christ dude, it's time to grow up for ****s sake!!!!
lol its different brah. i get your perspective though, but my people like to stay very close with family. for example, i would never stick my parents in a retirement home like americans and canadians do... that would never even cross my mind.

family is very important to me, and it is to my parents too. different culture.
post 1650646883 11-11-2021, 05:06 PM
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I couldn’t wait to GTFO of my house and I get along great with my dad. Nothing beats making your own rules and not depending on anyone else. I can’t really relate to anyone who is ok living at home approaching 30. Only exception is the people actually helping their parents with health issues but they are definitely in the minority of adults living at home.
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post 1650647283 11-11-2021, 05:13 PM
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Originally Posted By exxtracool⏩
lol its different brah. i get your perspective though, but my people like to stay very close with family. for example, i would never stick my parents in a retirement home like americans and canadians do... that would never even cross my mind.

family is very important to me, and it is to my parents too. different culture.
Same. Live at home at 36, with my wife, kids, and parents. I pay a good portion towards what is left of the mortgage (3/4 paid already, and refinanced under my credit), and I pay other bills around the house. Financially, it’s not just prudent, it’s common sense. Other benefits include the fact that my parents (in their 70s) get a lot of time to spend with their grandkids.

Regarding Kim’s (valid) point, the kids have a sitter, and my parent come by at their convenience. I have cousins that use their parents as free sitters, and I find that pretty unfair.
post 1650647653 11-11-2021, 05:20 PM
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Originally Posted By DimTriad⏩
youre way too fired up about this topic dude. You’re coming off like an angry, out of touch old man. Chill out lol
Because the same posters bitching about never getting any, are the same posters that are still living with mommy past the age of 30.

What's it like waiting for mommy to be done with the bathroom when you have to take a ****?
post 1650647833 11-11-2021, 05:22 PM
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Originally Posted By messomi⏩
I never see officer dave upset about anything only when people talk about people living with their parents he comes in running into topics extremely heated and for some reason he takes that really personal I wonder why.


lol
Because it's pathetic? And you guys can't accept the fact that you're nothing more than a man-child?

At this rate in 20 years people will be 50 years old living at home.
post 1650647843 11-11-2021, 05:22 PM
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Originally Posted By Adam16121⏩
Same. Live at home at 36, with my wife, kids, and parents. I pay a good portion towards what is left of the mortgage (3/4 paid already, and refinanced under my credit), and I pay other bills around the house. Financially, it’s not just prudent, it’s common sense. Other benefits include the fact that my parents (in their 70s) get a lot of time to spend with their grandkids. Regarding Kim’s (valid) point, the kids have a sitter, and my parent come by at their convenience.
Honestly sounds unreal

We only get so much time with family, may as well maximize that time

I'd defn be down for this scenario in the future
post 1650647923 11-11-2021, 05:23 PM
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Mirin hus lifestyle.

Imagine bringing a sloot home to smash and then texting your mum to make you a snack afterwards
post 1650648013 11-11-2021, 05:24 PM
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Originally Posted By exxtracool⏩
lol its different brah. i get your perspective though, but my people like to stay very close with family. for example, i would never stick my parents in a retirement home like americans and canadians do... that would never even cross my mind.

family is very important to me, and it is to my parents too. different culture.
You're going to wipe your parents asses and change their diapers?
post 1650648083 11-11-2021, 05:26 PM
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moved out with friends and partied every weekend

lol at live with parentcels
post 1650649263 11-11-2021, 05:44 PM
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Originally Posted By Dave22reborn⏩
You're going to wipe your parents asses and change their diapers?
Lol this dude is so salty that other people have different lives than he does.

I'm sure these successful people are going to care about what some loser nobody thinks of them.
post 1650649463 11-11-2021, 05:48 PM
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Originally Posted By Adam16121⏩
Regarding Kim’s (valid) point, the kids have a sitter, and my parent come by at their convenience. I have cousins that use their parents as free sitters, and I find that pretty unfair.
Yes, don't take advantage of your parents to raise your kids...I'm sorry but that's fukin bull****. If it's a culture thing for you and your parents don't mind that's awesome! I raised my kids on my own. My parents had 5 kids and there was no way in hell I would have ever expected them to constantly take care of mine.

I do babysit on occasion and have them over for sleep overs to give their parents a little break. I constantly have my kids and grand kids over for dinner so we can all hang and have a good time. I got tons of toys, crafts, outdoor play, etc...my house it set up for kids...always has been.

My husband is retired now. I have a lot of hobbies and I'm going to be starting a new job...new chapter in our life and we like our quality time just the 2 of us. Some might call us selfish...but we worked our asses off to get to this point.
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post 1650650053 11-11-2021, 06:00 PM
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Originally Posted By Adam16121⏩
Same. Live at home at 36, with my wife, kids, and parents. I pay a good portion towards what is left of the mortgage (3/4 paid already, and refinanced under my credit), and I pay other bills around the house. Financially, it’s not just prudent, it’s common sense. Other benefits include the fact that my parents (in their 70s) get a lot of time to spend with their grandkids.

Regarding Kim’s (valid) point, the kids have a sitter, and my parent come by at their convenience. I have cousins that use their parents as free sitters, and I find that pretty unfair.
dam this is pretty ideal. family is all that matters in this life anyways
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
The thing is you shouldn't give a fk about what women think of you anyway.

But yeah when it comes to banging girls you need your own place because of the noises that are produced.

I'm still old school to the point where i wouldn't introduce some chick to my mom unless i plan on marrying her - let alone banging her in my room.

That's too much and it's crossing a boundary.
It's not as much about what the woman thinks as it is about me personally. Even when i have a long term gf, i don't usually even have sex with them when visiting and staying with parents or siblings for a couple days just because i like the fact that my relationship is still PG rated with all them.
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Originally Posted By kimm4⏩
Yes, don't take advantage of your parents to raise your kids...I'm sorry but that's fukin bull****. If it's a culture thing for you and your parents don't mind that's awesome! I raised my kids on my own. My parents had 5 kids and there was no way in hell I would have ever expected them to constantly take care of mine.

I do babysit on occasion and have them over for sleep overs to give their parents a little break. I constantly have my kids and grand kids over for dinner so we can all hang and have a good time. I got tons of toys, crafts, outdoor play, etc...my house it set up for kids...always has been.

My husband is retired now. I have a lot of hobbies and I'm going to be starting a new job...new chapter in our life and we like our quality time just the 2 of us. Some might call us selfish...but we worked our asses off to get to this point.
Oh yeah, nothing like expecting parents in their late mid 50s, to early 60s to take care of your kids, instead of enjoying their golden years .. .
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Originally Posted By truesteez⏩
this. It can really be used to their advantage. It's like a chance at starting on second or third base in life. No hate from me.

Unfortunately there's a lot of social shame, especially in America. People label anyone who's at home as a loser but I think they are just jealous. Unless the person truly is rotting on moms dime, then that's not cool.
Whatever **** em. I lived at home till I was 30. Bought a condo and rented it out before moving in. Profits from rent went towards renovations. The only person you should be comparing your life to is yourself from yesterday.
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Originally Posted By Dave22reborn⏩
Oh yeah, nothing like expecting parents in their late mid 50s, to early 60s to take care of your kids, instead of enjoying their golden years .. .
Exactly! 90% of my friends who are grand parents now are raising their grand kids. They all look so tired and miserable and I'm not kidding.

Sorry, that's not how I want to spend the 2nd half of my life...
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Originally Posted By Adam16121⏩
Same. Live at home at 36, with my wife, kids, and parents.
Stopped reading right here
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Originally Posted By propreffered7⏩
how old are you? sorry i didn't read thread if you said

i feel like i know what you went through from previous talks and you're kinda mixed up with a western twist on eastern philosophy. ego death?

you say "awakening" have you looked up "kundalini awakening" or however you spell it?

i had a similar experience @ about 23-24. was horrible. didn't want it. everything was excellent in life and then it all went to **** for a little bit

was a battle to battle back. very annoying

from your verbiage i feel like you're floating in it and i just want to say you got a while to go to get over it if what i think is true

i dont think its a cool mindset (at all really) but especially living in the west
i'm 27.. this started at 25ish or so and really hit me just over 2 years ago. It could have been a kundalini awakening.

The thing is my life was not excellent - i was fkn miserable and depressed, hating life.

Now i am super happy.
Originally Posted By Contribution05⏩
It's not as much about what the woman thinks as it is about me personally. Even when i have a long term gf, i don't usually even have sex with them when visiting and staying with parents or siblings for a couple days just because i like the fact that my relationship is still PG rated with all them.
yeah it's like that for me as well.

Some things are just sorta rude or disrespectful.

If i had a proper girlfriend i'd just move out anyway.
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Almost 31 now and married, have lived in a different city than my parents since 18 but would totally have lived with them during school if it had been possible. As another miscer said, we only get so much time with our family members before they're gone. Just the cold cruel truth
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Originally Posted By Arthax⏩
Almost 31 now and married, have lived in a different city than my parents since 18 but would totally have lived with them during school if it had been possible. As another miscer said, we only get so much time with our family members before they're gone. Just the cold cruel truth
Then visit, but everyone should leave the nest at a reasonable age.
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Originally Posted By Dave22reborn⏩
Then visit, but everyone should leave the nest at a reasonable age.
lmao who tf makes you the authority on this?
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