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post 1650848613 11-15-2021, 09:09 AM
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Originally Posted By Kev1972⏩
Maybe get a fat girl and stick her on a treadmill.

She can lose weight and be pretty. You'll never get taller or better looking...
When they lose weight they upgrade though
post 1650848793 11-15-2021, 09:11 AM
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Originally Posted By rollerball⏩
I'm just using logic. You assume that sub-8 women will just remain happy never landing the dudes who are just using them for belt-notches. Any self-aware sub-8 chick with a modicum of self-respect and intelligence will eventually see the cock-carousel for what it is. There is no happy-ending for them there.
Lol. I’ve known 40 year old divorced women with a paunch and 2 kids that still think prince Chad is going to show up one day and be ready to settle down with them. The delusion never ends.
post 1650849723 11-15-2021, 09:25 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
More like men give up and stop working and society collapses and becomes unstable and unsustainable. But ok, stay blind
Not going to happen. You losers don’t exist in that kind of number.
post 1650851153 11-15-2021, 09:48 AM
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We will if this continues
post 1650851953 11-15-2021, 10:01 AM
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Man this is depressing.

I'm glad to be blessed with the looks of Treycel.
post 1650852423 11-15-2021, 10:08 AM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
Man this is depressing.

I'm glad to be blessed with the looks of Treycel.
I wish I was aborted
post 1650852683 11-15-2021, 10:12 AM
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You got a negative attitude. That's what's stopping you. You gotta get your act together.
post 1650852843 11-15-2021, 10:14 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
1. Nobody with any self respect is with a fat chick unless they have a fetish.

2. There's nothing to escalate, they aren't interested at all, its always just friends. Friends are good. But thats all it is.

3. She compared it to the short guy who wants to be in the NBA. Yes, there are a few exceptions but most guys in the nba are tall and its unhealthy to chase unrealistic goals.

The most realistic and healthy option for me is to cope.
The shortest guys in the nba are like 6'1 lmao
5'10 176lbs
No hymen no diamond
post 1650852953 11-15-2021, 10:16 AM
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Originally Posted By CodyZellery⏩
The shortest guys in the nba are like 6'1 lmao
she meant guys like mugsy or nate robinson and other exceptions.
post 1650852973 11-15-2021, 10:17 AM
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Don't most incels become Onlyfans simps anyways?

Try explaining to a simp that giving money to women for no other reason other than some pictures is the dumbest thing a man can do.
post 1650853013 11-15-2021, 10:18 AM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩
You got a negative attitude. That's what's stopping you. You gotta get your act together.
No being short and not good looking is whats stopping me. Women have no reason to settle for someone they arent attracted to anymore
post 1650853053 11-15-2021, 10:18 AM
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Originally Posted By CodyZellery⏩
The shortest guys in the nba are like 6'1 lmao
I'm back, bitches!
post 1650853203 11-15-2021, 10:21 AM
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
This dude is 60 years old now. Even in the nba players are getting taller. I think Chris Paul is the shortest one at 6'. Average height is like 6'7.
5'10 176lbs
No hymen no diamond
post 1650853233 11-15-2021, 10:21 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
No being short and not good looking is whats stopping me. Women have no reason to settle for someone they arent attracted to anymore
I'm sure you can find a girl that's 4'11-5'1 that isn't great looking.
post 1650853403 11-15-2021, 10:23 AM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩
I'm sure you can find a girl that's 4'11-5'1 that isn't great looking.
You're wrong, they have no reason to settle
post 1650853483 11-15-2021, 10:24 AM
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Originally Posted By CodyZellery⏩
This dude is 60 years old now. Even in the nba players are getting taller. I think Chris Paul is the shortest one at 6'. Average height is like 6'7.
Isaiah Thomas is 5'9. The average is tall of course, but there are still active players under 6'.
I'm back, bitches!
post 1650855593 11-15-2021, 11:05 AM
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Brah.

What are you even on about?

- Make friends that actually go out and I'm not talking club or party but people that actually do chit with their lives and don't have time to get chitfaced every weekend.

- Fkin hike, lift, get lunch/dinner with the bros and kick it for a bit here and there, not every weekend. Healthy social chit. Actually talk to your bros about your aspirations, NOT related to having a gf.

- Work somewhere where your experience matters or makes you good money. Pick up a new trade if you have to. IT maybe? Don't know how? That's where you network through your friends you made. Don't fuk up and burn bridges though.

- All the while, lift weights, get aesthetic, enjoy your hobbies, stack your money up, accomplish your goals, love yourself you *******.

In time, you'll eventually run into someone who enjoys what you enjoy or finds your social, self loving, productive self attractive.

Not hard..
post 1650855803 11-15-2021, 11:10 AM
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Originally Posted By gymratbruh⏩
Brah.

What are you even on about?

- Make friends that actually go out and I'm not talking club or party but people that actually do chit with their lives and don't have time to get chitfaced every weekend.

- Fkin hike, lift, get lunch/dinner with the bros and kick it for a bit here and there, not every weekend. Healthy social chit. Actually talk to your bros about your aspirations, NOT related to having a gf.

- Work somewhere where your experience matters or makes you good money. Pick up a new trade if you have to. IT maybe? Don't know how? That's where you network through your friends you made. Don't fuk up and burn bridges though.

- All the while, lift weights, get aesthetic, enjoy your hobbies, stack your money up, accomplish your goals, love yourself you *******.

In time, you'll eventually run into someone who enjoys what you enjoy or finds your social, self loving, productive self attractive.

Not hard..
Bluepill, generic, vague, non-actionable/specific advice I was referring to
post 1650855893 11-15-2021, 11:11 AM
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post 1650855953 11-15-2021, 11:12 AM
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can confirm, you have to really overcompensate to be considered at 5'9


can't imagine how brahs do it at 5'7 and below

Originally Posted By gymratbruh⏩
In time, you'll eventually run into someone who enjoys what you enjoy or finds your social, self loving, productive self attractive.

Not hard..
except nobody will find you attractive just because you enjoy same things as they are. physical looks / genes are 95% of the game.
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post 1650856153 11-15-2021, 11:15 AM
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Originally Posted By Better
can confirm, you have to really overcompensate to be considered at 5'9


can't imagine how brahs do it at 5'7 and below





except nobody will find you attractive just because you enjoy same things as they are. physical looks / genes are 95% of the game.
IMO the eay it works is looks/physical comes first

then IF and only IF you have mutual physical attarcttion people will consider things like common/shared values and interests etc and then possibly form a relationship if they feel they are sa good match on both.


But crucially looks are always considered first and then match on personality second
post 1650856173 11-15-2021, 11:16 AM
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post 1650856263 11-15-2021, 11:18 AM
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post 1650856283 11-15-2021, 11:18 AM
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Originally Posted By gymratbruh⏩
Brah.

What are you even on about?

- Make friends that actually go out and I'm not talking club or party but people that actually do chit with their lives and don't have time to get chitfaced every weekend.

- Fkin hike, lift, get lunch/dinner with the bros and kick it for a bit here and there, not every weekend. Healthy social chit. Actually talk to your bros about your aspirations, NOT related to having a gf.

- Work somewhere where your experience matters or makes you good money. Pick up a new trade if you have to. IT maybe? Don't know how? That's where you network through your friends you made. Don't fuk up and burn bridges though.

- All the while, lift weights, get aesthetic, enjoy your hobbies, stack your money up, accomplish your goals, love yourself you *******.

In time, you'll eventually run into someone who enjoys what you enjoy or finds your social, self loving, productive self attractive.

Not hard..
I'd still be a virgin if I followed this advice. When you're unattractive you don't s imply run into women that want to date you
post 1650856383 11-15-2021, 11:20 AM
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Originally Posted By Better
except nobody will find you attractive just because you enjoy same things as they are. physical looks / genes are 95% of the game.
Will rep. I have no idea why people believe this
post 1650856603 11-15-2021, 11:23 AM
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Originally Posted By wd0694820⏩
IMO the eay it works is looks/physical comes first

then IF and only IF you have mutual physical attarcttion people will consider things like common/shared values and interests etc and then possibly form a relationship if they feel they are sa good match on both.


But crucially looks are always considered first and then match on personality second
Exactly. Someone you have things in common with that you aren't attracted to is called a friend. You'll be a friend and nothing more.
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post 1650856953 11-15-2021, 11:29 AM
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post 1650857023 11-15-2021, 11:31 AM
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Originally Posted By SaviorSelfJT⏩
I see this posted all the time, and I don't agree

A significant other is a pretty big part of someone's life, and not having that is a huge missing chunk

And there's lots of experiences that don't make sense without a S/O, like going on a romantic swiss ski trip etc

If it doesn't fulfill you and is optional for happiness, why does anyone have one?
A lot of people don't want to acknowledge the uncomfortable truth of that. It's easier to write it off as a personality problem while denying that their looks played a part in their success or failure.

Don't get me wrong, attitude is important. OP might still be single but he should still work on finding a positive mindset. It'll make his time in celibacy much more bearable.
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Originally Posted By rollerball⏩
Lol you've already dug your own grave. Just commit to being a voluntary-incel you nutless, self-defeating, self-sabotaging, architect of your own unhappiness.
Yea totally ny fault I'm 5'3 and unattractive
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