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post 1651534093 11-26-2021, 12:17 PM
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Yes.
post 1651535623 11-26-2021, 12:43 PM
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Originally Posted By forthenoodz
yes srs.

i literally tell her that, that if we smash on the first date, we're never going to go past the dating/FWB stage

most respect that, some get even hornier
That is the dumbest thing I’ve ever heard
post 1651535903 11-26-2021, 12:47 PM
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In this day and age, nah. But if it was like the 80s or something, I would be hesitant.
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post 1651535953 11-26-2021, 12:48 PM
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Originally Posted By nick5569
Anyone who thinks that a chick making you wait is higher quality than one that has genuine desire for you and wants it on the first date, does not fully understand how women operate in 2021
Braindead af take. A chick making you wait shows she has standards and is seeing if you are worthy of them. It's important for a (relationship quality) chick to be selective with who she lets inside her. If she smashes you on the first date she's definitely been doing that for years with many dudes. Don't kid yourself in thinking it you were her first.

Or like my boy says so eloquently:
Originally Posted By TomWanks
The man should always be trying for the bang. The sloot's job is to resist. No hunter wants a deer who falls on his knife.
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post 1651535963 11-26-2021, 12:48 PM
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lol dudes want a sloot who is highly skilled in sex but only took less than 5 dicks ever in her life. You cant have both. If she hardly ever had any dick she is going to be terrible at sex. And if shes good at sex shes fuked the whole block.
post 1651536063 11-26-2021, 12:51 PM
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Originally Posted By Coal
Braindead af take. A chick making you wait shows she has standards and is seeing if you are worthy of them. It's important for a chick to be selective with who she lets inside her. If she smashes you on the first date she's definitely been doing that for years with many dudes. Don't kid yourself in thinking it was the first time she did that.
lol at thinking like this in 2021. you dont get what this guy was saying

Originally Posted By nick5569
Anyone who thinks that a chick making you wait is higher quality than one that has genuine desire for you and wants it on the first date, does not fully understand how women operate in 2021
this. lmao at guys not realizing if she sees a guy as provider status she will hold off on putting out to make him THINK shes a good girl. If its a broke Chad living in a sparsly furnished studio apartment, they fuking that night because she live laughing loving with him. If its a high income provider type and shes nearing 30 looking to secure the bag then she will put on the good girl act. how do bluepills not realize sloots do this.
post 1651536173 11-26-2021, 12:54 PM
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post 1651536463 11-26-2021, 12:59 PM
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In retrospect you should probably realize a girl isn't GF material if she puts out on the first date.In reality though, it ain't ever going to happen like that
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post 1651536483 11-26-2021, 12:59 PM
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Originally Posted By elterrible987
lol at thinking like this in 2021. you dont get what this guy was saying







this. lmao at guys not realizing if she sees a guy as provider status she will hold off on putting out to make him THINK shes a good girl. If its a broke Chad living in a sparsly furnished studio apartment, they fuking that night because she live laughing loving with him. If its a high income provider type and shes nearing 30 looking to secure the bag then she will put on the good girl act. how do bluepills not realize sloots do this.
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
No it just means she is very attracted to you.

Lmao if you think it’s a good thing that a woman waits a long time to have sex with you.
Dude can you stop already. You're making it too obvious now.

I've known sloots and I've known wife quality ones. The latter don't smash on first dates. Maybe you're skewed by the American hookup culture but in other parts of the world we still have a few decent women.
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post 1651537193 11-26-2021, 01:14 PM
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Originally Posted By Coal
Braindead af take. A chick making you wait shows she has standards and is seeing if you are worthy of them. It's important for a (relationship quality) chick to be selective with who she lets inside her. If she smashes you on the first date she's definitely been doing that for years with many dudes. Don't kid yourself in thinking it you were her first.

Or like my boy says so eloquently:
For a majority of cases these days, a chick making you wait could easily just be a sloot playing to this mentality so that some sucker will think highly of her.
post 1651537243 11-26-2021, 01:15 PM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad
Most girls will just think you’re gay if you don’t smash after 2 dates and attraction level will fall to 0 lol
I think that's specific to you brahd
post 1651537693 11-26-2021, 01:21 PM
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Originally Posted By drvillain
For a majority of cases these days, a chick making you wait could easily just be a sloot playing to this mentality so that some sucker will think highly of her.
Maybe it's just me but girls aren't criminal masterminds who play 5D chess with everyone. It's pretty easy for me to figure out the genuine ones from the players based on their pattern of behaviors. The red flags always slip through, it's just if you're diligent enough to pick up on them before you get hooked.
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post 1651537783 11-26-2021, 01:22 PM
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Fkn lmao at miscers in this thread acting as if their girlfriends have a lot more respect than to smash on the first date and have NEVER done it before. JFL.

If she doesn’t smash on the first date no biggy….but also take into account that if you looked that little bit better or if you were that little bit taller or if your arms were that little bit thicker then you may have got to coom inside her on the first date too…..just like Chad from 2 weeks before your first encounter with her
post 1651537793 11-26-2021, 01:22 PM
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Originally Posted By Coal
Dude can you stop already. You're making it too obvious now.

I've known sloots and I've known wife quality ones. The latter don't smash on first dates. Maybe you're skewed by the American hookup culture but in other parts of the world we still have a few decent women.
her opinion is irrelevant anyways. shes looking just for sex

and this is implying people looking for more

a sloot looking for a relationship and using sex as leverage is a problem. but its not even in her mind cause she's not looking for that
post 1651538053 11-26-2021, 01:28 PM
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More likely to lock her down as fwb if you smash on first date.
post 1651538123 11-26-2021, 01:30 PM
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Originally Posted By Coal
Maybe it's just me but girls aren't criminal masterminds who play 5D chess with everyone. It's pretty easy for me to figure out the genuine ones from the players based on their pattern of behaviors. The red flags always slip through, it's just if you're diligent enough to pick up on them before you get hooked.
I agree 100% with most of this, I just know that many sloots badly wanting a RS play the game with their coochie.
post 1651538153 11-26-2021, 01:30 PM
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Pretty much a hooker if she fuks a stranger on first date so unless you don't mind dating hookers then yea.
post 1651538263 11-26-2021, 01:32 PM
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Originally Posted By Anachron
He is from Toronto, so there's a higher than normal chance tbh.
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post 1651538443 11-26-2021, 01:35 PM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad
No I just assume I'm that great and she doesn't do that with anyone else
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post 1651538603 11-26-2021, 01:38 PM
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Originally Posted By Coal
Maybe it's just me but girls aren't criminal masterminds who play 5D chess with everyone. It's pretty easy for me to figure out the genuine ones from the players based on their pattern of behaviors. The red flags always slip through, it's just if you're diligent enough to pick up on them before you get hooked.
make the betas wait, all the alphas get to hit it first night. imagine that same girl asking leo to wait..... lmao
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post 1651538613 11-26-2021, 01:38 PM
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Originally Posted By Coal
Dude can you stop already. You're making it too obvious now.

I've known sloots and I've known wife quality ones. The latter don't smash on first dates. Maybe you're skewed by the American hookup culture but in other parts of the world we still have a few decent women.
lol those wife quality ones were getting london bridged at frat parties before you met them
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Originally Posted By Anachron
Does that mean we're not meeting up at The Sailor tonight?
Pre drinks at my place on Wellesley first
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Its a red flag but perhabs not a deal breaker
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Originally Posted By TomWanks
We're talking about a identifying relationship quality sloot though. Sure, I don't judge her for having the desire to accept The Gift (I do though LMAO). It does make her a sloot though and disqualfies her from non-sloot status though.
You're making a false assumption that a woman who makes you wait has a lower notch count than a woman who wants to have sex with you


What you don't understand is that the woman who makes you wait, is getting banged by Chad or Tyrone after you drop her off from your sexless "date" that you paid for (and she's probably making fun of you for it,while getting banged by Chad/Tyrone)


The woman who is genuinely attracted to you and wants it right away is more likely to be loyal because she ACTUALLY wants you, she isn't just using you for attention or free dinners


It's not a matter of one woman being "relationship quality" over the other. It's simply that one woman is using you, and the other genuinely desires you
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
This

If you think waiting is good you’re setting yourself up for provider status.

She’s using sex leverage to get commitment from you. Once she gets that she will leverage sex to get engaged and married. Once she gets that she will leverage sex for kids/child support. Then sex will stop because she was not attracted to you in the first place.
You can't seem to separate sex from attraction.

Your whole viewpoint is looks -> sex -> attraction. When there are other characteristics that lead it to the same. That's just your vantage point, and it makes sense cause you're an older woman depreciating trying to live out your decaying life vivaciously with young guys you aren't having relationships with

There are plenty of people that can. It can be pretty easily illustrated, but I know what you're gonna do. You're gonna twist it to say there has to be "attraction" in the first place while sliding over my point

It's the difference between your "chads" calling you a fuken fat disgusting slob vs. "Hey beautiful" or something of the sort

The latter is much more conducive for attraction, even considering the same physical appearance chad
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I've never experienced a girl not wanting to **** on the first date, so its not really a deal-breaker or a red flag for me.
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad
No I just assume I'm that great and she doesn't do that with anyone else
Originally Posted By nick5569
You're making a false assumption that a woman who makes you wait has a lower notch count than a woman who wants to have sex with you


What you don't understand is that the woman who makes you wait, is getting banged by Chad or Tyrone after you drop her off from your sexless "date" that you paid for (and she's probably making fun of you for it,while getting banged by Chad/Tyrone)


The woman who is genuinely attracted to you and wants it right away is more likely to be loyal because she ACTUALLY wants you, she isn't just using you for attention or free dinners


It's not a matter of one woman being "relationship quality" over the other. It's simply that one woman is using you, and the other genuinely desires you
This.


It makes no difference to me, if anything it annoys me if we have amazing chemistry and we are very flirty, yet she decides to not put out at the end of the night. I think she's either manipulating me into thinking shes a saint or she has other intimacy issues. Shed get a 2nd date but uf by 2nd date nada, then we have a serious problem.

So no, not a redflag for me. Im good at picking up signs and understanding their personalities tho, so i have a good idea of how genuine women are being with me and how much is an act.
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