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Thread: Anyone else here never been approached by a girl at the gym? Feelsbadman

post 1656214913 02-15-2022, 01:50 AM
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Originally Posted By LeakyQuesadilla⏩
30 more pounds of muscle and the girls will be all over you bro.
Lol'd, to be honest OP is already too big for girls. Maybe older sloots like that buff look but not young sloots.

Such is the life of the cyclist.

post 1656214993 02-15-2022, 01:52 AM
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Originally Posted By ****inator⏩
PRO TIP: Why don't you approach people? Guess what in today's tech world everyone lives in virtual bubble and became autistic.

You try to be the first one approaching, you'd be surprised how many people believe they're "outcast" just because they're too pussy to approach people.

And in your case especially, bro you look to big to be be approachable, you'll have to be the one. The average person is scared of a guy as big as you.
I have approached lots in the past srs. It never really goes anywhere.
post 1656215083 02-15-2022, 01:56 AM
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Originally Posted By lancefraudd⏩
I have approached lots in the past srs. It never really goes anywhere.
Okay, learn how to talk to people then and ask them if they want to get drinks or go party or some sh*t.

Stop being autistic. Ask them questions, listen to them. Smile and be a happy ****, nobody wants to be around a sad ****.
post 1656215133 02-15-2022, 01:58 AM
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Originally Posted By ****inator⏩
Okay, learn how to talk to people then and ask them if they want to get drinks or go party or some sh*t.

Stop being autistic. Ask them questions, listen to them. Smile and be a happy ****, nobody wants to be around a sad ****.
Thanks brah. I willl try and try again. I will smile more and try to appear happy.
post 1656215163 02-15-2022, 02:01 AM
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My wife does.

And completely ded srs, I work with the hottest girl that goes to my gym. I've been friends with her for a few years. We always chat for a minute or two when we see each other there and I've been approached by guys wanting me to get them in with her.
post 1656217253 02-15-2022, 04:13 AM
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The only thing that has come remotely close to being approached is a woman asking me to spot her.

This was only one occassion in 9.5 years of going to that gym.
Cook the man some eggs!
post 1656217433 02-15-2022, 04:20 AM
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Originally Posted By maori-rap⏩
The only thing that has come remotely close to being approached is a woman asking me to spot her.

This was only one occassion in 9.5 years of going to that gym.
Wow, same here, 0 girls approach in also about 10 years.
post 1656217453 02-15-2022, 04:25 AM
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Originally Posted By lancefraudd⏩
Never been approached by a girl at the gym crew checking in. Unless they are asking how many sets left or a friendly hello from the receptionists.

Feels bad man

How tall are you?
post 1656217523 02-15-2022, 04:28 AM
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Originally Posted By Xgamer791⏩
How tall are you?
About 5'11 without shoes. Not too sure, haven't really checked in a long time. I don't really feel that tall
post 1656217663 02-15-2022, 04:36 AM
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Im convinced op is frauding his pics
post 1656218123 02-15-2022, 05:04 AM
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Originally Posted By LeakyQuesadilla⏩
30 more pounds of muscle and the girls will be all over you bro.
This, OP is too small

That’s his problem
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post 1656219423 02-15-2022, 05:47 AM
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Originally Posted By II
they are probably intimidated and think you're weird/scary/hyuge.girls don't just cold approach guys in the gym as far as I know. imagine thinking that some single woman goes to the gym and is planning on cold approaching muscular dudes who are working out. you'll have to find a way to strike up friendly conversation with them if you want to chat. or go to a club/bar known for having a lot of females in attendance so you don't get ratioed.
Yes they do...

As far as I know 99% of Miscer's are just fkng Autist who's social skill's are on level potato. MOST females version of a cold approach just isnt as blunt...Can almost call it more of a "feeler"... You just cant be some striated awkward PH-aggoT and think they are just going to throw the pu$$y at you simply because. A nice physic will catch their attention the rest is up to what comes out of your cawkholster.
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post 1656220003 02-15-2022, 06:05 AM
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OP what do you do for a living, other than lifting and miscing? (Ded fkn Srs)
post 1656220053 02-15-2022, 06:07 AM
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This just doesn't happen much. People are at the gym to workout. In many cases, they either don't want to be bothered or they don't want to feel like they might be bothering you. Or they may not feel confident approaching someone while they're sweaty and exhausted.
post 1656220223 02-15-2022, 06:10 AM
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Originally Posted By gmenfan40⏩
OP what do you do for a living, other than lifting and miscing? (Ded fkn Srs)
answered in rep check user cp.
post 1656220233 02-15-2022, 06:11 AM
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Originally Posted By tadpole25⏩
This just doesn't happen much. People are at the gym to workout. In many cases, they either don't want to be bothered or they don't want to feel like they might be bothering you. Or they may not feel confident approaching someone while they're sweaty and exhausted.
I always thought the people at the gym dont like me or something (guys and girls). always been an outcast no one speaks to
post 1656220373 02-15-2022, 06:14 AM
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Originally Posted By lancefraudd⏩
If I lost some size and looked friendly and smiling would they approach then
They'd approach the dude you used to look like. Don't fall for it!
I'd take a serious boyfriend to my main gym. On a date I'd have to take him to a throw away gym, or else you'd have a dude to look out for and that could be potentially dangerous. but then, if I took him to a throw away gym, the date would be boring because it would be a chit gym. So, the moral is don't take dating advice from miscers. lol.
post 1656220573 02-15-2022, 06:17 AM
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Originally Posted By 1slo5oh⏩
f your cawkholster.
omg you win today's prize for dirty ass miscer. your level of vulgarity has reached a new peak. repped for lolz.
post 1656220583 02-15-2022, 06:17 AM
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men are the predators and women are the prey breh. i know in your mind you're like "thats extreme"

but think about the reverse. are women the predators and men the prey? lol

expecting the latter is just feminine

so, ipso facto.. women would be expecting you to approach them at the gym

might happen every now and then but shouldn't be an expectation
post 1656220593 02-15-2022, 06:18 AM
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Originally Posted By MegaSloot⏩
They'd approach the dude you used to look like. Don't fall for it!
I'd take a serious boyfriend to my main gym. On a date I'd have to take him to a throw away gym, or else you'd have a dude to look out for and that could be potentially dangerous. but then, if I took him to a throw away gym, the date would be boring because it would be a chit gym. So, the moral is don't take dating advice from miscers. lol.
Thanks for the advice, also love your username lol!
Have you ever cold approached a guy at the gym?
post 1656220713 02-15-2022, 06:20 AM
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You should be able to pull the sloots OP . We’re starting to think your the problem .
Back with my Fam
post 1656221383 02-15-2022, 06:34 AM
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I'll approach u op
post 1656221643 02-15-2022, 06:40 AM
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Smiling more makes a huge difference. Srs. Think of something funny right before you walk into a room.
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I used to get way more female attention before I had obvious muscle all over my body. I can seal the deal with more girls nowadays than I could then, but it usually takes more outward social effort than I'm willing to put in.
post 1656221993 02-15-2022, 06:48 AM
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Originally Posted By ****inator⏩
Lol'd, to be honest OP is already too big for girls. Maybe older sloots like that buff look but not young sloots.

Such is the life of the cyclist.

I wept for this beautiful man. What an incredible film. I adore Dennis. This actor actually looks like my nicest ex in terms of build and height and facial structure. Anyway, I watched the whole damn film. What a feeling when he finally gets to show off in front of the women, then the dumb dicks show up and make fun of him. Poor Dennis. So he goes back to his abusive mother, the only one his great heart can trust. Then she lets him know that he's sinned in her eyes by having one beer, and he is utterly abjectly crushed. His mom says she can't trust men to her male child. So horrible.

edit:
There's no sequel! What happens to dennis?
post 1656222433 02-15-2022, 06:57 AM
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Originally Posted By lancefraudd⏩
Thanks for the advice, also love your username lol!
Have you ever cold approached a guy at the gym?
Yes. I've also been approached by someone who told me I was squatting too deep and lifting too heavy.
lol. I really don't lift heavy and my form is perfect to avoid injury. I think it was just an excuse.
I didn't really know what to do with the man who I got the number from. He kept calling and asking to go out. I wanted to work out with him because going out to eat seems strange.
There was a different guy that I talked to, he wanted me to buy him some gold earrings and a hat. If I see a dude who is really built I will approach and tell him I admire his physique. But going further is complicated.
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How you come across in your posts is ultra feminine, insecure and needy....no offence, but it's pathetic bro.

Men approach women, not the other way around. Stop being so whiny and just go say hello to a girl in the gym if you like her and she shows indications of being interested. If she doesn't want to talk so what, continue your session and try again another day with a different girl. If she does want to talk and keeps the conversation going by asking you questions, that's great. You're in....or at least you have made the initial step.

Start small and keep the talk general and fun, build a rapport over time.

Now she knows you and it's easier to strike up conversations in the future. Eventually, if you see she is always open to talking to you then you can ask for her number and ask her out. Even if she says no, you have someone you can say hello to at the gym and other women will see you talking to her, which doesn't hurt.

In short, stop being a bish
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Actually, I have been approached by girls in my workout classes at the gym. It was before Covid BS though. She was actually the hottest latina in the gym as well, and I think it's just because that was when I started making a lot of money and was always smiling like crazy at the time.
post 1656224223 02-15-2022, 07:31 AM
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Originally Posted By NextPound⏩
Maybe you are being weird in the gym? Are you trying too hard? I always was approached when I had zero intention of talking to anyone in the gym. Headphones and do your chit, don't stare at chicks or be creepy.

Do that for a while and you might just start to get hit on by gym slots.

To be honest though, that's probably not where I would go fishing if I was still single.
Really? All I ever had approach me was these old washed up meatheads when I was repping out 600 pound deadlifts. 99.9% of females at the gym seem only interested in not talking to anyone or are there with their boyfriend. (Ded fkn Srs)
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Originally Posted By MegaSloot⏩
omg you win today's prize for dirty ass miscer. your level of vulgarity has reached a new peak. repped for lolz.
STFU hoe... nobody asked you
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