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post 1656227353 02-15-2022, 08:28 AM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger
She did but only to let me down again.

Second date was supposed to happen last Saturday but she came up with a lame excuse about how she's got some extra work to do urgently (despite being on 9 to 5 office job).However she rescheduled to Monday (yesterday) before flaking again with some bs : her sister was about to give birth but it ended up being a false alarm.

I felt insulted.
wait dude, her sister about to give birth is not a flaky excuse. just ask her to pick a time and date and see what happens.
post 1656227533 02-15-2022, 08:30 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422
If she's very close with her sister I don't think that is a lame excuse. Did she try to reschedule after yesterdays cancellation?
Yup she wanted to meet up today for lunch, I declined.

She downgraded the initial offer from a diner to a lunch, which shows a lack of interest and investment.

30 minutes of comuting would reduce the actual lunch time to about an hour or even less before resuming work.

A date should never be less than an hour and half.
post 1656227693 02-15-2022, 08:35 AM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger
Yup she wanted to meet up today for lunch, I declined.

She downgraded the initial offer from a diner to a lunch, which shows a lack of interest and investment.

30 minutes of comuting would reduce the actual lunch time to about an hour or even less before resuming work.

A date should never be less than an hour and half.
Clearly she isn't dating material so just invite her over to your place instead. Seems like it would be a complete waste of time, money and effort to actually bother taking her out.

just my 2 cents. gonna neg you for no pics tho boyo
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post 1656227823 02-15-2022, 08:37 AM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger
Yup she wanted to meet up today for lunch, I declined.

She downgraded the initial offer from a diner to a lunch, which shows a lack of interest and investment.

30 minutes of comuting would reduce the actual lunch time to about an hour or even less before resuming work.

A date should never be less than an hour and half.
Why are you still bothering with this 1?!? Keep this up and her sister will have birth scares for the rest of 2022 out of her convenience
post 1656228003 02-15-2022, 08:41 AM
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Originally Posted By drvillain
Why are you still bothering with this 1?!? Keep this up and her sister will have birth scares for the rest of 2022 out of her convenience
Yea really though just through her on the back burner for now , maybe hit here up sparingly here and there to maintain a low profile presence...and persue other girls.

Thats what i would do


I myself wouldnt mind a lunch date , but probably not during a work day since my breaks are too short currently lol
post 1656228543 02-15-2022, 08:50 AM
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go to north Carolina and stop boosting her ego with the little breadcrumbs. She's clearly playing games and it's not worth your time and effort.

If it was meant to be, there wouldn't be stress and it would be an effortless connection.

Not worth the effort trying to make something work that isn't happening. Just lol at putting effort into a chick who's all over the road.
post 1656228723 02-15-2022, 08:53 AM
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I know that it's a chick flick cliche, but it is actually great:

She's just not that into you.

If she was, she would initiate contact and if she had an emergency that caused her to have to cancel the first time, she would have went out her way to make sure to see you soon after that.

Don't waste your time on her. If she contacts you again, tell her to come over your place that day, or don't contact you again.
post 1656229383 02-15-2022, 09:06 AM
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You arent her first option. If you are a girls' first option there is none of these games. They will literally do anything for you and be the one always wanting to hang out and texting first.
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post 1656229503 02-15-2022, 09:09 AM
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Originally Posted By Dyel1991
You arent her first option. If you are a girls' first option there is none of these games. They will literally do anything for you and be the one always wanting to hang out and texting first.
Yup option 3 or 4 gets the games brah brah
post 1656229513 02-15-2022, 09:09 AM
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Originally Posted By jimmybobjim
Women like to feel pursued. She probably wants you to step up and take charge and keep asking her out.
Nope not true. They might think that, but in reality its not true. Its much more fun and interesting for them to be the one pursuing the hot guy all the girls want and trying to lock him down
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post 1656229763 02-15-2022, 09:15 AM
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Leaving an annoying sloot on read is one of the most satisfying things in the world
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post 1656233903 02-15-2022, 10:23 AM
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post 1656233983 02-15-2022, 10:24 AM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger
Just as I thought.A backup plan for dried up 30 yo sloot ? lol.
We've all been there.

I have chosen not to play the game myself. Let them come to me. (actually happened at a bar this past weekend srs)
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post 1656234453 02-15-2022, 10:32 AM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger
Yup she wanted to meet up today for lunch, I declined.

She downgraded the initial offer from a diner to a lunch, which shows a lack of interest and investment.

30 minutes of comuting would reduce the actual lunch time to about an hour or even less before resuming work.

A date should never be less than an hour and half.
Um...

- cancelled 'cause work,but set up a new meet
- cancelled 'cause "going to the hospital, we are having a baby!",but offered to meet for lunch
-OP is too good to meet up for lunch and turned her down

Who isn't interested again? 'Cause it kind of seems like you to me.

If you weren't interested in lunch you could have taken the initiative to suggest something different.

But instead you are on misc saying she is flaky because she has a life and you aren't the star her planet orbits. Which is totally crazy seeing as you two have never even met before and so of course you should be her first priority in life.

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post 1656235483 02-15-2022, 10:49 AM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger
I mean does taking a girl out for dinner always involve intimacy ?

I've had countless diner dates that ended up with nothing more than a kiss on the cheek and a "good night".

Ain't nobody got time for games and tests. Well I held my frame and didn't throw a tamper tantrum when she flaked twice, was it all a test ?
i dunno, but you calling her a "dried up 30 year old" is a pretty good indicator of why she's not wild about you.

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Originally Posted By Redundanteater
And how is leading him on supposed to give her this information?
People show themselves via conversation. Putting herself in his reach might not be the safest thing. I just wouldn't assume it was her playing games, when it could be her playing it safe.
post 1656235623 02-15-2022, 10:51 AM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger
Got our first date a week ago and then she flaked twice at the last minute with lame excuses (2 hours prior to our date scheduled days in advance).

Now that she feels that I will cut my losses and go NC, she throws breadcrumbs at me with stupid info which I really don't give a fukc about : like what she had for lunch or whatever.

I'm not even interested in her anymore but the cheeky kunt wants to toy around a little.

Wut do next ?
Do you really not get it? You are not her first choice, that's all. Sloots love to keep backup betas in the orbit to monkeybranch to in case of an emergency which is why she's throwing you breadcrumbs not to lose you entirely.

If she was into you, she would flake on her mother to go out with you, srs.
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post 1656235883 02-15-2022, 10:54 AM
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Originally Posted By Better
Do you really not get it? You are not her first choice, that's all. Sloots love to keep backup betas in the orbit to monkeybranch to in case of an emergency which is why she's throwing you breadcrumbs not to lose you entirely.

If she was into you, she would flake on her mother to go out with you, srs.
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post 1656236463 02-15-2022, 11:03 AM
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Originally Posted By katya422
Um...

- cancelled 'cause work,but set up a new meet
- cancelled 'cause "going to the hospital, we are having a baby!",but offered to meet for lunch
-OP is too good to meet up for lunch and turned her down

Who isn't interested again? 'Cause it kind of seems like you to me.

If you weren't interested in lunch you could have taken the initiative to suggest something different.

But instead you are on misc saying she is flaky because she has a life and you aren't the star her planet orbits. Which is totally crazy seeing as you two have never even met before and so of course you should be her first priority in life.

Thought the same thing. If she keeps blowing you off, she's obviously not interested, but here she's making a proposal to meet and you're not good with it?
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post 1656236923 02-15-2022, 11:12 AM
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why do miscers never post pics?
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Because they have 10-20 guys at any given time offering them fun stuff to do and they don't want to face the music of having to back out of some **** they wanna do less than any one of those other things.
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Originally Posted By Shortfuze
Tell her, "two times the flake means you ain't getting no steak"

...and get yourself a hooker.
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger
Got our first date a week ago and then she flaked twice at the last minute with lame excuses (2 hours prior to our date scheduled days in advance).

Now that she feels that I will cut my losses and go NC, she throws breadcrumbs at me with stupid info which I really don't give a fukc about : like what she had for lunch or whatever.

I'm not even interested in her anymore but the cheeky kunt wants to toy around a little.

Wut do next ?
attention delete number and find another girl. Do not ever talk to her again even if she shows up naked in front of you. Ignore till the end of time.
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I've never had this happen to me but I've done it to girls before. I've canceled on so many dates last minute but always cut ties and stop talking to them.
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Originally Posted By Better
Do you really not get it? You are not her first choice, that's all. Sloots love to keep backup betas in the orbit to monkeybranch to in case of an emergency which is why she's throwing you breadcrumbs not to lose you entirely.
you have to respect it honestly

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Tell her the next date is essentially your third date, and you fuk on the first date.
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Originally Posted By TremblingEagle
you have to respect it honestly

perfect parasite maybe.

if men went full monk mode, sloots tours would be over faster than a manlet's
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didn't read thread. im sure someone suggested it

but ignore her, please.

no matter what. unless she begs to suck your di*k and you're horny

then nothing after that too
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Originally Posted By Better
perfect parasite maybe.

if men went full monk mode, sloots tours would be over faster than a manlet's
imo it's a great opportunity to find out about yourself and a roadmap to what it means to be a man.


We were made/evolved to be a counterpart to women

so what ever they do us being in conjunction to it is the ideal.

When they are emotional, we are stoic
when they are distant, we are present


and so on
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