Womens "discomfort" make men do stupid things. She's an adult, she needs to flat out tell him shes married and uninterested

Where did you get an indication that we're in distress.

and it's not 1950.....if I felt that I needed to tell my wife who she could and couldn't talk to, I wouldn't have married her.



What behavior? Being a normal human and speaking to another human when spoken to?

Chit didn't get weird until he asked for her IG yesterday.



Last pic she posted was her and her mom on her mom's bday which was 3 weeks ago. And, no......90% of the pics over that last 9 years are with me in the, 5% are of our dog and the rest are of things/places.



I've only been entertaining the idea of getting involved since last night when she told me he asked for her IG, other than that she's just said he's weirding her out, not getting it when she clearly acts like she doesn't want to talk to him and now that he's done that, she said she's uncomfortable knowing he's going to be at the gym/grocery store now.

Up until that point, it's just been innocent/annoying small talk.

Lol NGL her giving her IG is pretty fkin stupid, she could have said anything to not give it
Think about your future kids IQ brah (if you don't have kids with her yet)

If she ain't stupid, maybe she thinks you are (to consider it a possible scenario)

I had a situation very similar to this about 10 years ago when my wife and I just got married, She was going back to school to upgrade some courses for career advancement. BBC in her class starts normal chat at first and then he asked if she was single etc and she told him married ,thanks but not interested. He became more aggressive after she told him not interested in the following days and started with the usually BBC stuff " that because I was white I couldn't satisfy her as much as he could " etc etc . She asked him to leave her alone and he didn't. She told me about it that night at dinner and she wasn't looking forward to going back to school the next day and dealing with him. I dropped her off at school the next day and asked her to show me what he looked like. That night I went back to school when she thought I was at the gym and waited for his class to finish and followed him from the school about a block or so . I introduced myself to him and explained what was about to happen and then starting tomorrow at school he would never talk to her or even look at her again. I beat the living **** out of him and went home that night. The following day I asked my wife how school was and if the guy bothered her again, she told me he wasn't in class so it was a peaceful day .The guy ended up dropping out of class and my wife never had to deal with him again. I never told my wife that story either , till this day she has no clue it ever happened.

Bottom line OP sometimes thats the only way to deal with a problem. The guy knows you exist and continues to disrespect you and your wife.

Absolutely false...an "alpha" will direct his wife to deal with this the way she should have. Her manipulating him into cleaning up after her will make her see him as anything but "alpha". Men lead, not follow.

You're retarded. "Leading" would be taking ownership and handling it yourself.

I just want to say it again while I eat my pizza:

I hope OPs wife never goes drinking with friends or without him around

You're retarded. "Leading" would be taking ownership and handling it yourself.

My wife is hot so I've had to deal with this before. You have a plethora of options:

1. Go to a different gym - beta
2. Go to the same gym at a different time - beta
3. Tell him something like "Hey man - my wife told me that you're making her uncomfortable and I don't want to make this a bigger deal than it needs to be. So if you could leave her alone from here on out, that would be great" - Alpha

One thing I know for sure...if you confront him and tell him to stop, it makes you the alpha male in the situation and your wife will absolutely love it even if she pretends she doesn't. You can be nice about it, but also authoritative. Then grab her tits/ass while he's watching. Women are hard-wired to be attracted to the alpha. Just handle that **** like a man and bang her brains out that night for max gainz.

Usually asking does the trick. Occasionally it doesn't. I've had to manhandle a couple drunk dudes who touched my wife after she told them to stop. The most recent instance was last summer at Cheyanne Frontier Days. Drunk dude grabbed her, put his arm around her, and started to walk off. She told him to stop and he didn't. So I grabbed his arm, twisted it behind his back, and shoved him on the ground lol.

Male feminism overload itt.

Op isn't talking about a casual gf or a fling. He's talking about his wife. He made vows and they are not two individual's in a relationship. They are one for all intents and purposes.

It doesn't matter if she can or cannot handle the situation on her own. She wants her husband to handle it and she shouldn't have to ask twice.

Handle that **** like a gentleman, op.

lmfao fax, OP's future kids are gonna have downie IQ based on his post and how his wife handles sausage being thrown at her

You fellas as so inconsistent

If a husband can’t step in when his wife asks him to is he even a man?

And I’m ballsy as fuk but dealing with randoms is never cut and dried and is never easy

Shut em down too hard and you end up being abused

See miscer incel threads ad nauseum

You're retarded. "Leading" would be taking ownership and handling it yourself.

I'm less concerned about her IQ and more concerned about OP's for chomping down so hard on the most obvious bait I've heard about this month.

OMG honey bunz, some guys is flirting with me!! Can you prove how tough you are and make him stawwwwwwp?

Then she yells at OP for not doing the dishes enough.

I've only got 4 bud.

Let her clean up her own mess....and if she doesn't, apparently I have to divorce her.

Let her know that that’s the plan. You’re both in an awkward spot because she didn’t shut this down earlier, but She needs to be crystal clear with the guy that she doesn’t want to talk to him anymore. Let her know you support her and will rip the guys head off if need be, but you need a reason to first and she hasn’t given that yet

She should not have given out her insta to a stranger, especiallY if she already had red flags about him

You fellas as so inconsistent

If a husband can’t step in when his wife asks him to is he even a man?

And I’m ballsy as fuk but dealing with randoms is never cut and dried and is never easy

Shut em down too hard and you end up being abused

See miscer incel threads ad nauseum

Put him in check. Walk past him with your wife and smile, nod, say "what's good bro." When he says hi ask him "Oh you're not gonna say hi to my wife? I hear you love talking to her?" Then when he responds tell him to check his chit and ask if this problem will solve itself or if you will have to deal with it

Edit: nvm, read the full thing, she gave him her IG. It's over, divorce her srs. She's confessing her subconscious feelings of guilt over the early stages of cheating on you (and maybe later stages than you realize)

Shut em down too hard and you end up being abused

This lmao

She likes the attention otherwise she wouldn’t talk to him.

She can easily say “I’m sorry but I’m married and I’d rather not talk to you.”

I get your point, but the point we're making is that he shouldn't be in the position to need to step in

No he shouldn’t

But random clearly knows she’s married and is targeting her when she’s alone, so he doesn’t care.

And no she shouldn’t have given out contact details

But you really don’t get how unnerving approaches can be, and how we are taught from an early fukken age not to excacerbate, antagonise or downright say no because stranger danger has a different vibe when you’re significantly weaker

we get it, females are low iq creatures that have hold 0 accountability,


except when you want them to kek