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05-04-2022, 11:58 PM
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
wasting your hard earned moneyJust enjoying my sugarbabies. .
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05-05-2022, 09:48 AM
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Originally Posted By iloveus⏩
im having fun. we went to the beach and guys were checking her out. wrnt to dinner. get called sir jnstead of buddy/sweatie. come home for a rawdog sesh. it's wworth it lolwasting your hard earned money
05-05-2022, 01:07 PM
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name a more red flag sign than this on Hinge
for theone thing you should know about me prompt
she put
"I tend to get lost in a TikTok trance, so double texting is highly encouraged"
LOLS
for theone thing you should know about me prompt
she put
"I tend to get lost in a TikTok trance, so double texting is highly encouraged"
LOLS
05-05-2022, 01:25 PM
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Originally Posted By stevesteve12⏩
:/name a more red flag sign than this on Hinge
for theone thing you should know about me prompt
she put
"I tend to get lost in a TikTok trance, so double texting is highly encouraged"
LOLS
for theone thing you should know about me prompt
she put
"I tend to get lost in a TikTok trance, so double texting is highly encouraged"
LOLS
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05-05-2022, 04:47 PM
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everyone in here still getting nothing year after year
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05-05-2022, 06:15 PM
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Originally Posted By stevesteve12⏩
Wow. What a thot.name a more red flag sign than this on Hinge
for theone thing you should know about me prompt
she put
"I tend to get lost in a TikTok trance, so double texting is highly encouraged"
LOLS
for theone thing you should know about me prompt
she put
"I tend to get lost in a TikTok trance, so double texting is highly encouraged"
LOLS
Disregard.
05-05-2022, 10:46 PM
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******** dating seems to be where its at in my area
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05-09-2022, 09:04 AM
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Originally Posted By microsuede⏩
Do they match you with people on your friends list?******** dating seems to be where its at in my area
I have a guy from Bumble who is WAY too excited to meet me. He's 35 and sends 11 texts in a row and says he was in a relationship with a 50 year old woman before me. He love bombs and says, "oh if I was there for you on Mothers Day I would bring you breakfast in bed and rub your feet and give you a massage". He's kind of over the top but Italian and I'm dealing with another 30 year old Italian guy I'm seeing who is over the top in a different way with non-stop sexual texts and I told him he was annoying me so he backed off somewhat.
I just woke up to 3 good morning texts from this Bumble guy. He wanted to meet me RIGHT NOW but my schedule is busy.
At least these guys are over 30.
05-09-2022, 09:15 AM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
Italian?Do they match you with people on your friends list?
I have a guy from Bumble who is WAY too excited to meet me. He's 35 and sends 11 texts in a row and says he was in a relationship with a 50 year old woman before me. He love bombs and says, "oh if I was there for you on Mothers Day I would bring you breakfast in bed and rub your feet and give you a massage". He's kind of over the top but Italian and I'm dealing with another 30 year old Italian guy I'm seeing who is over the top in a different way with non-stop sexual texts and I told him he was annoying me so he backed off somewhat.
I just woke up to 3 good morning texts from this Bumble guy. He wanted to meet me RIGHT NOW but my schedule is busy.
At least these guys are over 30.
I have a guy from Bumble who is WAY too excited to meet me. He's 35 and sends 11 texts in a row and says he was in a relationship with a 50 year old woman before me. He love bombs and says, "oh if I was there for you on Mothers Day I would bring you breakfast in bed and rub your feet and give you a massage". He's kind of over the top but Italian and I'm dealing with another 30 year old Italian guy I'm seeing who is over the top in a different way with non-stop sexual texts and I told him he was annoying me so he backed off somewhat.
I just woke up to 3 good morning texts from this Bumble guy. He wanted to meet me RIGHT NOW but my schedule is busy.
At least these guys are over 30.
Is it Paolo from Friends?
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05-09-2022, 09:16 AM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
You don't like sex?Do they match you with people on your friends list?
I have a guy from Bumble who is WAY too excited to meet me. He's 35 and sends 11 texts in a row and says he was in a relationship with a 50 year old woman before me. He love bombs and says, "oh if I was there for you on Mothers Day I would bring you breakfast in bed and rub your feet and give you a massage". He's kind of over the top but Italian and I'm dealing with another 30 year old Italian guy I'm seeing who is over the top in a different way with non-stop sexual texts and I told him he was annoying me so he backed off somewhat.
I just woke up to 3 good morning texts from this Bumble guy. He wanted to meet me RIGHT NOW but my schedule is busy.
At least these guys are over 30.
I have a guy from Bumble who is WAY too excited to meet me. He's 35 and sends 11 texts in a row and says he was in a relationship with a 50 year old woman before me. He love bombs and says, "oh if I was there for you on Mothers Day I would bring you breakfast in bed and rub your feet and give you a massage". He's kind of over the top but Italian and I'm dealing with another 30 year old Italian guy I'm seeing who is over the top in a different way with non-stop sexual texts and I told him he was annoying me so he backed off somewhat.
I just woke up to 3 good morning texts from this Bumble guy. He wanted to meet me RIGHT NOW but my schedule is busy.
At least these guys are over 30.
You should try women
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05-09-2022, 09:22 AM
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Originally Posted By iloveus⏩
LOL. I'm going to have fun when I'm in Europe soon with these European men.Italian?
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Originally Posted By iloveus⏩
I love sex, although my sex drive has gone down dramatically as I near menopause. Hence why I don't have sex as often as I used to. I don't like when men just sext and don't have real conversations. That's the problem with the Italian guy I'm seeing. He works for the same company I do and we both play tennis but he only wants to send porn videos and sext. It's mundane.You don't like sex?
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05-10-2022, 08:57 AM
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The 35 year old Bumble Italian guy is totally love bombing me and WAY too enthusiastic about our "relationship" before it even exists and already talking about these trips we are going to take and we haven't even met yet! He just sent a "Good morning beautiful" text. Ugh.
I don't feel comfortable with this. I was love bombed before but it was mutual, and then he quickly lost interest and found someone else, and then rebounded back to me and the story continues. This guy looks a lot like my uncle and my uncle was inappropriate, so it creeps me out. But here I have a younger guy interested in a relationship who had a 4 year relationship with a 50 year old and he doesn't want kids. Shouldn't I be thrilled?!!
There's a 48 year old who is having a more normal conversation with me on Bumble and doesn't act like I'm the second coming, but shows some interest. I think that's more normal.
I don't feel comfortable with this. I was love bombed before but it was mutual, and then he quickly lost interest and found someone else, and then rebounded back to me and the story continues. This guy looks a lot like my uncle and my uncle was inappropriate, so it creeps me out. But here I have a younger guy interested in a relationship who had a 4 year relationship with a 50 year old and he doesn't want kids. Shouldn't I be thrilled?!!
There's a 48 year old who is having a more normal conversation with me on Bumble and doesn't act like I'm the second coming, but shows some interest. I think that's more normal.
05-10-2022, 09:08 AM
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I didn't respond to his Good morning text yet and he just double texted, "Have a great day!!!". Ugh.
05-10-2022, 09:23 AM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
What's the ugh for?I didn't respond to his Good morning text yet and he just double texted, "Have a great day!!!". Ugh.
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05-10-2022, 09:25 AM
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Dustin aren't you married?
What are doing on these dating apps?
You know the 8th Circle of Hell is reserved for cheaters and fraudsters right...
What are doing on these dating apps?
You know the 8th Circle of Hell is reserved for cheaters and fraudsters right...
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05-10-2022, 09:37 AM
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Originally Posted By iloveus⏩
It's ugh because it's love bombing and I'm not sure if I'm interested.What's the ugh for?
Originally Posted By iloveus⏩
I've mentioned to you more than once that we are separated but living together. It's fairly common in my area as the median home price is $1.7 million. We haven't been intimate in 16 years and we rarely talk. I moved out 3 times but renting caused us to go into credit card debt to pay rent on top of a mortgage and I missed seeing my daughter every night so I moved back home.Dustin aren't you married?
What are doing on these dating apps?
You know the 8th Circle of Hell is reserved for cheaters and fraudsters right...
What are doing on these dating apps?
You know the 8th Circle of Hell is reserved for cheaters and fraudsters right...
She's off to college soon so we'll split our assets then as I hope to move to a less expensive area.
So it was so we could see our daughter daily, not have her go back and forth between houses and not have to go move into tiny condos that are $1 million. She said she didn't want 2 houses.
My therapist wants me to find a life partner instead of these young guys because they have caused me grief, contribute to my eating disorder to diet to compete with girls half my age and she says that she wants me to find someone who treats me right and will travel and do things with me as I do everything alone. I'm going to Europe alone soon. My husband doesn't say very nice things about me and will call me a loser to my face, but I'm always positive about him to our daughter as I don't think it's good to bad mouth a parent.
05-10-2022, 09:38 AM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
no they specifically will not match with people on your friend's list (even if you both are on ******** dating), but they will show you friends of friends and say the friends you have in common. good convo starter if you both click 'like' on each other.Do they match you with people on your friends list?
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05-10-2022, 09:40 AM
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Originally Posted By microsuede⏩
Yeah that's how Tinder was initially! You would match with friends of friends and that helped as I would message my friend to see if the guy was a weirdo or not. I'll check it out.no they specifically will not match with people on your friend's list (even if you both are on ******** dating), but they will show you friends of friends and say the friends you have in common. good convo starter if you both click 'like' on each other.
05-10-2022, 09:55 AM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
Then go find someone else.We haven't been intimate in 16 years and we rarely talk.
caused me grief, contribute to my eating disorder to diet to compete with girls half my age
Oh great! Blaming others for your problems. You have the ability to respond to things in a positive manner. YOU have the ability to control what you eat and how much. YOU can prevent Forest Fires.You have to tell yourself, "I caused my own personal demons. I deserve everything I that has happened to me. But from now on I will take personal responsibility and action to change things because I am in control. "
Don't compete with girls half your age. Use your age to an advantage.
My husband doesn't say very nice things about me and will call me a loser to my face, but I'm always positive about him to our daughter as I don't think it's good to bad mouth a parent.
You have to stand up for yourself like Jennifer Lopez in the movie Enough.You got to let him know, "Hey I ain't gonna tolerate your bullchit! I don't like your Tuna here a$$hole!"

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05-10-2022, 12:24 PM
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is there a point talking to girls who outclass you careerwise? a doctor on hinge is receptive to me but will she care that i only make a fraction of her salary and live in a studio apartment? im also not the kind of guy girls are trying to hook up with casually so im not sure if i should bother
05-10-2022, 03:13 PM
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
unfortunately most won't respect you overtime. you could still hit it if your behavior is on point. but as for a relationship. those sloots generally want a guy of a similar status and education - which they think is important. and which men don't give a fk about.is there a point talking to girls who outclass you careerwise? a doctor on hinge is receptive to me but will she care that i only make a fraction of her salary and live in a studio apartment? im also not the kind of guy girls are trying to hook up with casually so im not sure if i should bother
imo those sloots are hard work and aren't worth the effort - but we don't discriminate here - so we fk them too
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05-11-2022, 08:18 AM
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Originally Posted By iloveus⏩
That's the point of going out on dates with men my age, although deep down I think I'm still attached to my husband since I met him when I was a teen and I'm scared of a new relationship as that would force me to have to get a divorce, move out and start a new life. It's an unhealthy, dysfunctional relationship.Then go find someone else.
Oh great! Blaming others for your problems. You have the ability to respond to things in a positive manner. YOU have the ability to control what you eat and how much. YOU can prevent Forest Fires.
You have to tell yourself, "I caused my own personal demons. I deserve everything I that has happened to me. But from now on I will take personal responsibility and action to change things because I am in control. "
Don't compete with girls half your age. Use your age to an advantage.
You have to stand up for yourself like Jennifer Lopez in the movie Enough.
You got to let him know, "Hey I ain't gonna tolerate your bullchit! I don't like your Tuna here a$$hole!"

Oh great! Blaming others for your problems. You have the ability to respond to things in a positive manner. YOU have the ability to control what you eat and how much. YOU can prevent Forest Fires.
You have to tell yourself, "I caused my own personal demons. I deserve everything I that has happened to me. But from now on I will take personal responsibility and action to change things because I am in control. "
Don't compete with girls half your age. Use your age to an advantage.
You have to stand up for yourself like Jennifer Lopez in the movie Enough.
You got to let him know, "Hey I ain't gonna tolerate your bullchit! I don't like your Tuna here a$$hole!"

I'm not blaming others for my eating disorder. It's my own problem as most people don't throw up their food or starve themselves to end up in an eating disorder hospital for 3 months. I'm quite extreme and it's been a problem since I lost weight for our wedding. It's just avoiding certain triggers like seeing younger men, stalking their Instagram and seeing their exes or current girls they're dating and then feeling pressure to be that size. But most of them say it's not my size that they're attracted to, that it's my life experiences and that I don't play games that younger girls do so they like the maturity.
I used to let people walk all over me as I'm quiet and mellow. I've learned through therapy to use my voice and I tell him that he shouldn't speak that way to the mother of his child. But I hear him calling me a loser to my daughter when he's upstairs and that's wrong. In divorce court that's called parental alienation and judges ask parents not to do that, but there's no way to enforce it. Studies show it's not good for the children to have one parent bad mouth the other.
05-12-2022, 01:01 AM
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Originally Posted By Fang2⏩
Women and their attention seekingThis thread has turned into Dustin's diary
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I'm posting about matches on dating apps, which is relevant to this thread. I guess everyone else found relationships lol.
The 35 year old Italian guy sent a cawk pic last night and I said, "eewww gross don't send that" and I ripped on him hard. Now he's backtracking and apologizing like crazy and sending good morning texts like nothing happened.
I knew he was mirroring me. No one has THAT much in common with me. Why do some men act like desperate simps?
I was out with the girls last night at the bars and honestly they are more fun than going out with men. I end up planning things with them and blowing off guys for dates.
The 35 year old Italian guy sent a cawk pic last night and I said, "eewww gross don't send that" and I ripped on him hard. Now he's backtracking and apologizing like crazy and sending good morning texts like nothing happened.
I knew he was mirroring me. No one has THAT much in common with me. Why do some men act like desperate simps?
I was out with the girls last night at the bars and honestly they are more fun than going out with men. I end up planning things with them and blowing off guys for dates.
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
The need to fuk is very, very strong. Some guys are just gonna say whatever they think you want to hear if they think it'll get them pussy.I'm posting about matches on dating apps, which is relevant to this thread. I guess everyone else found relationships lol.
The 35 year old Italian guy sent a cawk pic last night and I said, "eewww gross don't send that" and I ripped on him hard. Now he's backtracking and apologizing like crazy and sending good morning texts like nothing happened.
I knew he was mirroring me. No one has THAT much in common with me.Why do some men act like desperate simps?
I was out with the girls last night at the bars and honestly they are more fun than going out with men. I end up planning things with them and blowing off guys for dates.
The 35 year old Italian guy sent a cawk pic last night and I said, "eewww gross don't send that" and I ripped on him hard. Now he's backtracking and apologizing like crazy and sending good morning texts like nothing happened.
I knew he was mirroring me. No one has THAT much in common with me.Why do some men act like desperate simps?
I was out with the girls last night at the bars and honestly they are more fun than going out with men. I end up planning things with them and blowing off guys for dates.
I'm back, bitches!
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
Yeah it’s irritating when they promise a relationship. I just told the guy it’s better that we don’t message each other any longer. If he continues I’ll block him.The need to fuk is very, very strong. Some guys are just gonna say whatever they think you want to hear if they think it'll get them pussy.
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Well I talked to my therapist yesterday and she suggested I say to the Italian guy, "It seems like we are looking for different things so I think it's best that we stop messaging each other". It totally worked! He hasn't messaged me since then.
Normally when I try to end it with someone it turns into a huge drama fest that goes on and on with nonstop texts and the guy trying to change my mind.
Normally when I try to end it with someone it turns into a huge drama fest that goes on and on with nonstop texts and the guy trying to change my mind.
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Can someone give me cliffs for the last 500 pages? I don't want to read all this chit.
But basically I'm wondering why I don't get any matches and if online dating is practically dead at this point.
But basically I'm wondering why I don't get any matches and if online dating is practically dead at this point.
05-13-2022, 02:09 PM
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Originally Posted By G1adi4tor88⏩
Cliff:Can someone give me cliffs for the last 500 pages? I don't want to read all this chit.
But basically I'm wondering why I don't get any matches and if online dating is practically dead at this point.
But basically I'm wondering why I don't get any matches and if online dating is practically dead at this point.
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