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post 1660753973 05-04-2022, 11:58 PM
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Originally Posted By imbored21
Just enjoying my sugarbabies. .
wasting your hard earned money
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post 1660771673 05-05-2022, 09:48 AM
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Originally Posted By iloveus
wasting your hard earned money
im having fun. we went to the beach and guys were checking her out. wrnt to dinner. get called sir jnstead of buddy/sweatie. come home for a rawdog sesh. it's wworth it lol
post 1660783273 05-05-2022, 01:07 PM
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name a more red flag sign than this on Hinge

for theone thing you should know about me prompt

she put

"I tend to get lost in a TikTok trance, so double texting is highly encouraged"

LOLS
post 1660784253 05-05-2022, 01:25 PM
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Originally Posted By stevesteve12
name a more red flag sign than this on Hinge

for theone thing you should know about me prompt

she put

"I tend to get lost in a TikTok trance, so double texting is highly encouraged"

LOLS
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post 1660795133 05-05-2022, 04:47 PM
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everyone in here still getting nothing year after year
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post 1660799753 05-05-2022, 06:15 PM
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Originally Posted By stevesteve12
name a more red flag sign than this on Hinge

for theone thing you should know about me prompt

she put

"I tend to get lost in a TikTok trance, so double texting is highly encouraged"

LOLS
Wow. What a thot.

Disregard.
post 1660810523 05-05-2022, 10:46 PM
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******** dating seems to be where its at in my area
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post 1660985843 05-09-2022, 09:04 AM
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Originally Posted By microsuede
******** dating seems to be where its at in my area
Do they match you with people on your friends list?

I have a guy from Bumble who is WAY too excited to meet me. He's 35 and sends 11 texts in a row and says he was in a relationship with a 50 year old woman before me. He love bombs and says, "oh if I was there for you on Mothers Day I would bring you breakfast in bed and rub your feet and give you a massage". He's kind of over the top but Italian and I'm dealing with another 30 year old Italian guy I'm seeing who is over the top in a different way with non-stop sexual texts and I told him he was annoying me so he backed off somewhat.

I just woke up to 3 good morning texts from this Bumble guy. He wanted to meet me RIGHT NOW but my schedule is busy.

At least these guys are over 30.
post 1660986663 05-09-2022, 09:15 AM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss
Do they match you with people on your friends list?

I have a guy from Bumble who is WAY too excited to meet me. He's 35 and sends 11 texts in a row and says he was in a relationship with a 50 year old woman before me. He love bombs and says, "oh if I was there for you on Mothers Day I would bring you breakfast in bed and rub your feet and give you a massage". He's kind of over the top but Italian and I'm dealing with another 30 year old Italian guy I'm seeing who is over the top in a different way with non-stop sexual texts and I told him he was annoying me so he backed off somewhat.

I just woke up to 3 good morning texts from this Bumble guy. He wanted to meet me RIGHT NOW but my schedule is busy.

At least these guys are over 30.
Italian?

Is it Paolo from Friends?

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post 1660986783 05-09-2022, 09:16 AM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss
Do they match you with people on your friends list?

I have a guy from Bumble who is WAY too excited to meet me. He's 35 and sends 11 texts in a row and says he was in a relationship with a 50 year old woman before me. He love bombs and says, "oh if I was there for you on Mothers Day I would bring you breakfast in bed and rub your feet and give you a massage". He's kind of over the top but Italian and I'm dealing with another 30 year old Italian guy I'm seeing who is over the top in a different way with non-stop sexual texts and I told him he was annoying me so he backed off somewhat.

I just woke up to 3 good morning texts from this Bumble guy. He wanted to meet me RIGHT NOW but my schedule is busy.

At least these guys are over 30.
You don't like sex?

You should try women
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post 1660987243 05-09-2022, 09:22 AM
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Originally Posted By iloveus
Italian?

Is it Paolo from Friends?

LOL. I'm going to have fun when I'm in Europe soon with these European men.
Originally Posted By iloveus
You don't like sex?

You should try women
I love sex, although my sex drive has gone down dramatically as I near menopause. Hence why I don't have sex as often as I used to. I don't like when men just sext and don't have real conversations. That's the problem with the Italian guy I'm seeing. He works for the same company I do and we both play tennis but he only wants to send porn videos and sext. It's mundane.
post 1661048203 05-10-2022, 08:57 AM
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The 35 year old Bumble Italian guy is totally love bombing me and WAY too enthusiastic about our "relationship" before it even exists and already talking about these trips we are going to take and we haven't even met yet! He just sent a "Good morning beautiful" text. Ugh.

I don't feel comfortable with this. I was love bombed before but it was mutual, and then he quickly lost interest and found someone else, and then rebounded back to me and the story continues. This guy looks a lot like my uncle and my uncle was inappropriate, so it creeps me out. But here I have a younger guy interested in a relationship who had a 4 year relationship with a 50 year old and he doesn't want kids. Shouldn't I be thrilled?!!

There's a 48 year old who is having a more normal conversation with me on Bumble and doesn't act like I'm the second coming, but shows some interest. I think that's more normal.
post 1661048953 05-10-2022, 09:08 AM
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I didn't respond to his Good morning text yet and he just double texted, "Have a great day!!!". Ugh.
post 1661049793 05-10-2022, 09:23 AM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss
I didn't respond to his Good morning text yet and he just double texted, "Have a great day!!!". Ugh.
What's the ugh for?
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post 1661049883 05-10-2022, 09:25 AM
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Dustin aren't you married?

What are doing on these dating apps?

You know the 8th Circle of Hell is reserved for cheaters and fraudsters right...
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post 1661050533 05-10-2022, 09:37 AM
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Originally Posted By iloveus
What's the ugh for?
It's ugh because it's love bombing and I'm not sure if I'm interested.
Originally Posted By iloveus
Dustin aren't you married?

What are doing on these dating apps?

You know the 8th Circle of Hell is reserved for cheaters and fraudsters right...
I've mentioned to you more than once that we are separated but living together. It's fairly common in my area as the median home price is $1.7 million. We haven't been intimate in 16 years and we rarely talk. I moved out 3 times but renting caused us to go into credit card debt to pay rent on top of a mortgage and I missed seeing my daughter every night so I moved back home.

She's off to college soon so we'll split our assets then as I hope to move to a less expensive area.

So it was so we could see our daughter daily, not have her go back and forth between houses and not have to go move into tiny condos that are $1 million. She said she didn't want 2 houses.

My therapist wants me to find a life partner instead of these young guys because they have caused me grief, contribute to my eating disorder to diet to compete with girls half my age and she says that she wants me to find someone who treats me right and will travel and do things with me as I do everything alone. I'm going to Europe alone soon. My husband doesn't say very nice things about me and will call me a loser to my face, but I'm always positive about him to our daughter as I don't think it's good to bad mouth a parent.
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss
Do they match you with people on your friends list?
no they specifically will not match with people on your friend's list (even if you both are on ******** dating), but they will show you friends of friends and say the friends you have in common. good convo starter if you both click 'like' on each other.
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post 1661050763 05-10-2022, 09:40 AM
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Originally Posted By microsuede
no they specifically will not match with people on your friend's list (even if you both are on ******** dating), but they will show you friends of friends and say the friends you have in common. good convo starter if you both click 'like' on each other.
Yeah that's how Tinder was initially! You would match with friends of friends and that helped as I would message my friend to see if the guy was a weirdo or not. I'll check it out.
post 1661051363 05-10-2022, 09:55 AM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss
We haven't been intimate in 16 years and we rarely talk.
Then go find someone else.
caused me grief, contribute to my eating disorder to diet to compete with girls half my age
Oh great! Blaming others for your problems. You have the ability to respond to things in a positive manner. YOU have the ability to control what you eat and how much. YOU can prevent Forest Fires.

You have to tell yourself, "I caused my own personal demons. I deserve everything I that has happened to me. But from now on I will take personal responsibility and action to change things because I am in control. "

Don't compete with girls half your age. Use your age to an advantage.
My husband doesn't say very nice things about me and will call me a loser to my face, but I'm always positive about him to our daughter as I don't think it's good to bad mouth a parent.
You have to stand up for yourself like Jennifer Lopez in the movie Enough.

You got to let him know, "Hey I ain't gonna tolerate your bullchit! I don't like your Tuna here a$$hole!"

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post 1661058823 05-10-2022, 12:24 PM
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is there a point talking to girls who outclass you careerwise? a doctor on hinge is receptive to me but will she care that i only make a fraction of her salary and live in a studio apartment? im also not the kind of guy girls are trying to hook up with casually so im not sure if i should bother
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Originally Posted By imbored21
is there a point talking to girls who outclass you careerwise? a doctor on hinge is receptive to me but will she care that i only make a fraction of her salary and live in a studio apartment? im also not the kind of guy girls are trying to hook up with casually so im not sure if i should bother
unfortunately most won't respect you overtime. you could still hit it if your behavior is on point. but as for a relationship. those sloots generally want a guy of a similar status and education - which they think is important. and which men don't give a fk about.

imo those sloots are hard work and aren't worth the effort - but we don't discriminate here - so we fk them too
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Originally Posted By iloveus
Then go find someone else.



Oh great! Blaming others for your problems. You have the ability to respond to things in a positive manner. YOU have the ability to control what you eat and how much. YOU can prevent Forest Fires.

You have to tell yourself, "I caused my own personal demons. I deserve everything I that has happened to me. But from now on I will take personal responsibility and action to change things because I am in control. "

Don't compete with girls half your age. Use your age to an advantage.



You have to stand up for yourself like Jennifer Lopez in the movie Enough.

You got to let him know, "Hey I ain't gonna tolerate your bullchit! I don't like your Tuna here a$$hole!"

That's the point of going out on dates with men my age, although deep down I think I'm still attached to my husband since I met him when I was a teen and I'm scared of a new relationship as that would force me to have to get a divorce, move out and start a new life. It's an unhealthy, dysfunctional relationship.

I'm not blaming others for my eating disorder. It's my own problem as most people don't throw up their food or starve themselves to end up in an eating disorder hospital for 3 months. I'm quite extreme and it's been a problem since I lost weight for our wedding. It's just avoiding certain triggers like seeing younger men, stalking their Instagram and seeing their exes or current girls they're dating and then feeling pressure to be that size. But most of them say it's not my size that they're attracted to, that it's my life experiences and that I don't play games that younger girls do so they like the maturity.

I used to let people walk all over me as I'm quiet and mellow. I've learned through therapy to use my voice and I tell him that he shouldn't speak that way to the mother of his child. But I hear him calling me a loser to my daughter when he's upstairs and that's wrong. In divorce court that's called parental alienation and judges ask parents not to do that, but there's no way to enforce it. Studies show it's not good for the children to have one parent bad mouth the other.
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This thread has turned into Dustin's diary
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Originally Posted By Fang2
This thread has turned into Dustin's diary
Women and their attention seeking
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I'm posting about matches on dating apps, which is relevant to this thread. I guess everyone else found relationships lol.

The 35 year old Italian guy sent a cawk pic last night and I said, "eewww gross don't send that" and I ripped on him hard. Now he's backtracking and apologizing like crazy and sending good morning texts like nothing happened.

I knew he was mirroring me. No one has THAT much in common with me. Why do some men act like desperate simps?

I was out with the girls last night at the bars and honestly they are more fun than going out with men. I end up planning things with them and blowing off guys for dates.
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss
I'm posting about matches on dating apps, which is relevant to this thread. I guess everyone else found relationships lol.

The 35 year old Italian guy sent a cawk pic last night and I said, "eewww gross don't send that" and I ripped on him hard. Now he's backtracking and apologizing like crazy and sending good morning texts like nothing happened.

I knew he was mirroring me. No one has THAT much in common with me.Why do some men act like desperate simps?

I was out with the girls last night at the bars and honestly they are more fun than going out with men. I end up planning things with them and blowing off guys for dates.
The need to fuk is very, very strong. Some guys are just gonna say whatever they think you want to hear if they think it'll get them pussy.
I'm back, bitches!
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress
The need to fuk is very, very strong. Some guys are just gonna say whatever they think you want to hear if they think it'll get them pussy.
Yeah it’s irritating when they promise a relationship. I just told the guy it’s better that we don’t message each other any longer. If he continues I’ll block him.
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Well I talked to my therapist yesterday and she suggested I say to the Italian guy, "It seems like we are looking for different things so I think it's best that we stop messaging each other". It totally worked! He hasn't messaged me since then.

Normally when I try to end it with someone it turns into a huge drama fest that goes on and on with nonstop texts and the guy trying to change my mind.
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Can someone give me cliffs for the last 500 pages? I don't want to read all this chit.

But basically I'm wondering why I don't get any matches and if online dating is practically dead at this point.
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Originally Posted By G1adi4tor88
Can someone give me cliffs for the last 500 pages? I don't want to read all this chit.

But basically I'm wondering why I don't get any matches and if online dating is practically dead at this point.
Cliff:

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