Thread: Who is SINGLE and in their 30s?
07-03-2022, 03:42 PM
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No attachments and no headaches.
There are times when you see babies and how nice it would be to have one, take care of and raise. But in this messed up world, no thanks.
Don't want to put any kid through that.
Plus, not to many women are mentally sane anymore. To many social media addicted, buffoons' now.
There are times when you see babies and how nice it would be to have one, take care of and raise. But in this messed up world, no thanks.
Don't want to put any kid through that.
Plus, not to many women are mentally sane anymore. To many social media addicted, buffoons' now.
07-03-2022, 03:49 PM
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Because I have the sex appeal of Leukemia and women never flocked to me or lust after me so I've just learned to accept I'll die alone.
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07-03-2022, 04:03 PM
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
arent you rich and hve a chad body?Why am I single? No girls are interested in me. Never been even remotely close to marriage or even a LTR really.
Do I feel pressure? Yeah a lot. Not desperate enough to ever settle so starting to realize I'm likely going to be alone which does not sound fun imo. Unfortunately this isn't something to try and force though. It'll either happen or it won't, but yeah the pressure has mounted that the window for it happening is nearly entirely closed. Literally need to find someone within the next 2-3 years to start the relationship before I'm just flat out too old for anyone that isn't too old themselves.
Do I feel pressure? Yeah a lot. Not desperate enough to ever settle so starting to realize I'm likely going to be alone which does not sound fun imo. Unfortunately this isn't something to try and force though. It'll either happen or it won't, but yeah the pressure has mounted that the window for it happening is nearly entirely closed. Literally need to find someone within the next 2-3 years to start the relationship before I'm just flat out too old for anyone that isn't too old themselves.
is your face busted? are you southeast asian? have autism?
genuinely curious. you and Lucifer look like chads and are well off yet struggle with sloots. i dont get it srs
07-03-2022, 05:45 PM
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i just struggle to find a meaningful connection, getting laid isnt a problem but finding love the last few years has been a struggle. I think everyone is so inundated with options if you're not perfect its easy just to redownload tinder and move on to the next jester.
as long as im able to still pull good-looking mid 20's chicks im not too worried but I don't know if that will continue to 35 and beyond. That being said zoomer women belong to the ****ing streets
as long as im able to still pull good-looking mid 20's chicks im not too worried but I don't know if that will continue to 35 and beyond. That being said zoomer women belong to the ****ing streets
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07-03-2022, 05:52 PM
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Originally Posted By Techriding101⏩
This almost to the absolute letter.I broke up with my long term gf of 8 years around this time last year. I've had so much sex with married women and women in 'committed relationships' that I have developed trust issues.
07-03-2022, 06:17 PM
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Single and strongly prefer it. Peace of mind/simplicity/not getting nagged/on my own program/not a needy woman bitching that I'm not "affectionate" enough or whatever/ etc.
Like I've mentioned numerous times before here - there is one from my past that I havepotentialslight regret over not marrying (she was pushing hard for it), but that's life. An Indian immigrant who is now a big shot attorney, wasn't the needy type/was fairly emotionally frigid like me, very smart and cultured, etc.
Like I've mentioned numerous times before here - there is one from my past that I havepotentialslight regret over not marrying (she was pushing hard for it), but that's life. An Indian immigrant who is now a big shot attorney, wasn't the needy type/was fairly emotionally frigid like me, very smart and cultured, etc.
07-03-2022, 06:28 PM
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07-03-2022, 06:36 PM
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Yes I am and I really want to find a wife srs. I’ve dated hundreds of women. Currently dating 5 women right now ranging from 20 hrs old to 32 but I’ve only met a few girls I would actually marry.
07-03-2022, 06:40 PM
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Single but not looking atm. Not opposed to a relationship, if a girl comes into my life then cool. But fuk online dating, and the effort that goes into going on dates is exhausting for a lazy introvert like me
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07-03-2022, 06:52 PM
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broke up with one when I was 28, she wasn't the one. spent my time single until now-ish. about to turn 31 but i may have found a unicorn, was dating her at 29-30
not huge on social media usage at all, not a sloot, she's slightly liberal but I feel like over the time we've been dating she's shifted more over to my pov and slightly more conservative. but she mostly agrees with me it's a clown world out there. she goes to church sometimes which is cool i guess. she's been really open and honest about things and initiates a lot of conversations which makes it easy. on our first date she even offered to pay for everything, but now we just take turns or it's more 60/40 for me. doesn't seem all that jaded and pessimistic either. not fat or obese and actually has some hobbies outside of netflix and being a foodie. lol. also wasn't dating other people at the time. first time I can really say she has close, or zero red flags about her and I've become pretty skeptical. but still I always remain vigilant.
honestly I never really felt that much pressure, but i could probably see myself marrying her down the line. rare/hard to find women that are down to earth, not sloots, not social media wh0res and actually have character.
inb4 it was all a phucking lie and i get unceremoniously phucked over
not huge on social media usage at all, not a sloot, she's slightly liberal but I feel like over the time we've been dating she's shifted more over to my pov and slightly more conservative. but she mostly agrees with me it's a clown world out there. she goes to church sometimes which is cool i guess. she's been really open and honest about things and initiates a lot of conversations which makes it easy. on our first date she even offered to pay for everything, but now we just take turns or it's more 60/40 for me. doesn't seem all that jaded and pessimistic either. not fat or obese and actually has some hobbies outside of netflix and being a foodie. lol. also wasn't dating other people at the time. first time I can really say she has close, or zero red flags about her and I've become pretty skeptical. but still I always remain vigilant.
honestly I never really felt that much pressure, but i could probably see myself marrying her down the line. rare/hard to find women that are down to earth, not sloots, not social media wh0res and actually have character.
inb4 it was all a phucking lie and i get unceremoniously phucked over
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07-03-2022, 06:53 PM
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I have everything to lose
120k career
house
women these days don't have chit.
not expecting them to have what i have, but at least be working towards a goal and not living at home with mommy and daddy while working minimum wage.
120k career
house
women these days don't have chit.
not expecting them to have what i have, but at least be working towards a goal and not living at home with mommy and daddy while working minimum wage.
07-03-2022, 06:57 PM
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35 and although I really want to be married + kids, I don't think I'm capable of a long-term relationship or marriage. The day-in-day-out stuff I don't think I could handle or get accustomed to. Any ideal relationship I could see myself in would have to be some barely-there, minimal maintenance type of arrangement. Good luck finding that, though.
07-03-2022, 07:11 PM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
Yep.35 and although I really want to be married + kids, I don't think I'm capable of a long-term relationship or marriage. The day-in-day-out stuff I don't think I could handle or get accustomed to.Any ideal relationship I could see myself in would have to be some barely-there, minimal maintenance type of arrangement. Good luck finding that, though.
07-03-2022, 07:42 PM
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I’m single 37 and kinda looking but not for a serious relationship. I just went to a music festival with a bunch of girls 19-21 last weekend, and there’s no way those girls will ever be good wife material in their lives.
I can pull girls in their 20s who are not looking for anything serious, and that’s perfect for me.
I’m somewhat introverted and can’t entertain girls for long periods of time. Also my last GF really soured my opinion of today’s females, although I know she’s not 100% typical. But getting cheated on and tons of lying while trying to pretend she’s committed was an eye opener.
I can pull girls in their 20s who are not looking for anything serious, and that’s perfect for me.
I’m somewhat introverted and can’t entertain girls for long periods of time. Also my last GF really soured my opinion of today’s females, although I know she’s not 100% typical. But getting cheated on and tons of lying while trying to pretend she’s committed was an eye opener.
07-04-2022, 06:56 AM
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07-04-2022, 07:10 AM
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my girlfriend of 2 years left me and we were talking about getting married (me 30 her 32)
I'm absolutely devastated even though I know there is more out there
She use to cry in my arms and tell me to never leave her
I'm absolutely devastated even though I know there is more out there
She use to cry in my arms and tell me to never leave her
07-04-2022, 07:20 AM
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Originally Posted By ralphlaurenbrah⏩
...someone call the f*cking FBIYes I am and I really want to find a wife srs. I’ve dated hundreds of women. Currently dating 5women right now ranging from 20 hrs oldto 32 but I’ve only met a few girls I would actually marry.
07-04-2022, 07:50 AM
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I'm a little too old for this thread (43) but single. Staying single too. Not really interested in dating. There is a girl I see and we have fun. Girl is an absolute freak in the sheets too. Otherwise I don't care for dating. It's like a job interview first date. Not only that but the whole process of finding out their true colors after being led on by all the false flags they originally throw up. Having come out of a 10yr relationship with a girl diagnosed with Histrionic Personality Disorder took a lot out of me. She was the best man, but the wort at the same time.
07-04-2022, 07:53 AM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
Amen. Women just want so much attention I always mentally burnout in relationships very fast. I'm not saying I will never marry, but to be honest, I don't think I will. I just can't seem to handle relationship for longer than 1 year because of this issue. I literally start getting annoyed by my girlfriend within months every time.Any ideal relationship I could see myself in would have to be some barely-there, minimal maintenance type of arrangement. Good luck finding that, though.
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07-04-2022, 09:54 AM
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Originally Posted By Jasonw1178⏩
I bet the sex was great though….I'm a little too old for this thread (43) but single. Staying single too. Not really interested in dating. There is a girl I see and we have fun. Girl is an absolute freak in the sheets too. Otherwise I don't care for dating. It's like a job interview first date. Not only that but the whole process of finding out their true colors after being led on by all the false flags they originally throw up. Having come out of a 10yr relationship with a girl diagnosed with Histrionic Personality Disorder took a lot out of me. She was the best man, but the wort at the same time.
07-04-2022, 10:05 AM
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Because I never wanted to commit to any of my former ltr partners when they wanted me to commit.
I always am trying to upgrade.
But let’s be honest, this has probably saved me a divorce anyways right? I ain’t worried honestly, yet lol
I always am trying to upgrade.
But let’s be honest, this has probably saved me a divorce anyways right? I ain’t worried honestly, yet lol
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07-04-2022, 10:15 AM
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Single and in late 30s.
I just prefer to be alone TBH. I do go on dates through out the year and get laid, but when it comes down to it I just like being alone.
Yea, getting laid is nice, but not having to answer to anyone or chit like that just feels better.
I just prefer to be alone TBH. I do go on dates through out the year and get laid, but when it comes down to it I just like being alone.
Yea, getting laid is nice, but not having to answer to anyone or chit like that just feels better.
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07-04-2022, 10:24 AM
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32 in a month, single my whole life. Had a couple it's complicateds here and there
It suits me, not everyone. Sometimes sure it sucks mainly only thinking about no kids or future fam etc but I look around and it's still the best choice for me
The only thing I seek are good friends. A romantic partner is too out there/unrealistic
Zero pressure. You need to reflect and re evaluate life if you feel pressure. It's a period of pain though few can endure
It suits me, not everyone. Sometimes sure it sucks mainly only thinking about no kids or future fam etc but I look around and it's still the best choice for me
The only thing I seek are good friends. A romantic partner is too out there/unrealistic
Zero pressure. You need to reflect and re evaluate life if you feel pressure. It's a period of pain though few can endure
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07-04-2022, 12:42 PM
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Honestly expected some resistance in this thread, saw almost none.
Divorce rates, divorce results being largely in favor of women, typical problems with modern women, clown world, senses of freedom from being single, all comes together in a concotion that spells out that we need to totally readdress marriage and the nuclear family from a more modern and fair approach as a whole, srs.
Tax benefits from marriage and kids isn't enough to outweigh everything else.
Divorce rates, divorce results being largely in favor of women, typical problems with modern women, clown world, senses of freedom from being single, all comes together in a concotion that spells out that we need to totally readdress marriage and the nuclear family from a more modern and fair approach as a whole, srs.
Tax benefits from marriage and kids isn't enough to outweigh everything else.
07-04-2022, 12:58 PM
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Not quite in this range, but lately I've been thinking about this a lot. To me, the only reason to be married is to provide a stable family for your kids, but lately, what's the point in having kids? World's fked, sloots don't make good moms, sloots are vaxxed (won't know repercussions for a number of years) and don't want deformed kids (think thalidomide), but I can't stop thinking life is gonna get lonely as fuk when my parents pass. All my bros are getting married and starting families, I rarely ever see them anymore. How do you brahs deal with the fear of being alone?
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07-04-2022, 01:45 PM
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Originally Posted By Azrairc⏩
you started dating her when she was 29-30?my girlfriend of 2 years left me and we were talking about getting married (me 30 her 32)
I'm absolutely devastated even though I know there is more out there
She use to cry in my arms and tell me to never leave her
I'm absolutely devastated even though I know there is more out there
She use to cry in my arms and tell me to never leave her
damn, on the bright side you can easily pull someone 22-28
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34 and single. Last two relationship I got fukked over by the women and have trust issues since then. I like to be on my own especially because I see the relationships in my friend circle aren't that great (constant up and down) and the women in the dating scene are just horrible. Consider to deinstall tinder and just lay down and rot chick seeking wise.
Sometimes it would be cool to have a soulmate but what's the chance to find that, you'll just end up making compromises anyway and find yourself in one of those half happy relationships or get fukked over again. So as well just do your own thing.
Sometimes it would be cool to have a soulmate but what's the chance to find that, you'll just end up making compromises anyway and find yourself in one of those half happy relationships or get fukked over again. So as well just do your own thing.
07-04-2022, 02:11 PM
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Originally Posted By chivasregal⏩
I’m 29. Only thing I can say is that I’m very observant and that I’m selfish with my time. 99% of these sloots are not worth the effort. The older I’ve gotten the more better looking I’ve gotten. Stronger, smarter, confident, more finances…Not a cope thread. If you’re married and happy, I’m happy for you. This one’s for the single (or divorced) guys who are in their 30s.
Why are you single? Do you guys feel some sort of…pressure to find someone? I’m 33. Got divorced at 29 and have been living my absolute best life since then. Had one girlfriend at 31 but I was never fully invested in that. Sometimes I do see myself getting into a committed relationship, but that feeling comes and goes.
Why are you single? Do you guys feel some sort of…pressure to find someone? I’m 33. Got divorced at 29 and have been living my absolute best life since then. Had one girlfriend at 31 but I was never fully invested in that. Sometimes I do see myself getting into a committed relationship, but that feeling comes and goes.
meanwhile girls that I could’ve dated or that curved me in the past look horrible not even 2 years later.
I don’t feel any pressure because I’ve always assumed I’m the prize. I can literally be in a relationship tomorrow if I wanted to. But most of the women are vultures out here. And if I’m in a position to choose I’m going for the best I can get..
With that said I’ll probably be looking for something serious in 3 years or so. Find a 22 year old with potential
07-04-2022, 02:26 PM
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Everyday im more and more against marriage/monogamous relationships. I recently got into one, im just a few weeks in and its already a rollercoaster. Women are damaged goods nowadays, even if their intentions are good and their objectives align with yours, they are still damaged.
Think about it, the attractive girls are used to getting hit on by married men or men in relationships, social media basically redpilled them to the way humans are. They cant trust a man because of course they have been surrounded by unloyal men their entire lives. It was always like this but now they are actually aware of it.
Same for attractive men, men at the top know whats up, we know whats going on with most women. "They make rules for betas and break said rules for alphas" is absolutely true, and applies for every single woman.
On top of that, the idea of me getting near my prime years and being basically objectively attractive to ALL women (which could only apply to around 5% of men) and for whatever reason signing a paper where i basically promise to only be with one person that is losing value by the day and one day wont even be able to give me more kids, and if i break said promise im losing half of my money plus house plus time with kids etc.. now that seems ridiculous as fuk to me.
Now i get the idea of marriage helps a society advance and progress, that is common sense, but its hard to marry when things are the way they are right now. Makes absolutely no sense in no way, only reason left now is just the good ole "its just what you gotta do bro you gotta get married" argument. Legally, financially, sexually, emotional well being wise, etc, its just not worth it.
Unless you find an unicorn.
Think about it, the attractive girls are used to getting hit on by married men or men in relationships, social media basically redpilled them to the way humans are. They cant trust a man because of course they have been surrounded by unloyal men their entire lives. It was always like this but now they are actually aware of it.
Same for attractive men, men at the top know whats up, we know whats going on with most women. "They make rules for betas and break said rules for alphas" is absolutely true, and applies for every single woman.
On top of that, the idea of me getting near my prime years and being basically objectively attractive to ALL women (which could only apply to around 5% of men) and for whatever reason signing a paper where i basically promise to only be with one person that is losing value by the day and one day wont even be able to give me more kids, and if i break said promise im losing half of my money plus house plus time with kids etc.. now that seems ridiculous as fuk to me.
Now i get the idea of marriage helps a society advance and progress, that is common sense, but its hard to marry when things are the way they are right now. Makes absolutely no sense in no way, only reason left now is just the good ole "its just what you gotta do bro you gotta get married" argument. Legally, financially, sexually, emotional well being wise, etc, its just not worth it.
Unless you find an unicorn.
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07-04-2022, 02:39 PM
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Originally Posted By gmenfan40⏩
I like the lust and chase of women, not the actually commitment with one. I get bored in relationships after 2-4 weeks, no matter who it is. That in a nutshell is why I'm single in y 30s, I have no actual desire to be with a woman longterm, I just want to shoot ropes inside them. I always hear I won't be like that once I "find the right one". That's all bullsh!t. "Love" is just oxycontin in your brain, it's just chemicals. I just want to reproduce to a tall and intelligent woman, so I have genetically gifted kids. I don't want to waste my genetics on a short genetically inferior woman. (Ded fkn Srs)
Originally Posted By Imnew1⏩
these right hereWe must be twins. I've had the exact same quote spouted at me by friends, and I think it just doesn't apply to me.
I like seeing somebody 2-3x a week and hanging out doing fun stuff together and fkn, and then doing my own thing the rest of the time. That doesn't work most women. For the most part they all want full blown commitment like you're married after the first month of dating. There's generally no compromise that I can find in this, as I'm just not wired that way.
I like seeing somebody 2-3x a week and hanging out doing fun stuff together and fkn, and then doing my own thing the rest of the time. That doesn't work most women. For the most part they all want full blown commitment like you're married after the first month of dating. There's generally no compromise that I can find in this, as I'm just not wired that way.
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