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Tell me who your friends are and I tell you who you are. A girl's friends give indicator of what she really is like. For all you know, your compatible in lifestyle because she is putting up a front in order for you to commit and marry her (she is 32 yrs old). Also how long have you been seeing this girl? Most people try to be on their best behavior and show the best possible version of themselves 3 months - 6months into a relationship.
08-20-2022, 09:07 AM
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08-20-2022, 09:23 AM
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Originally Posted By dabbmw2002⏩
I know man I'm 100% with you.I told your dumb ass......smh..
Edit: Aaahh I see your point. Preferred explaining. However I am cutting contact.
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08-20-2022, 09:58 AM
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There is literally nothing redeemable about this women from what you've described.
It only took me to get to the part where she has more than one female friend with zero care for men - it doesn't take an astronaut from Compton to deduce that their ways are eventually going to infiltrate your gf's actions.
But then I got up to the drug dealer part and lmao I was like LMFAO how has OP not thrown her out already.
Goodness gracious, how is this even a question?
It only took me to get to the part where she has more than one female friend with zero care for men - it doesn't take an astronaut from Compton to deduce that their ways are eventually going to infiltrate your gf's actions.
But then I got up to the drug dealer part and lmao I was like LMFAO how has OP not thrown her out already.
Goodness gracious, how is this even a question?
08-20-2022, 10:25 AM
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Originally Posted By SickIsForever⏩
Repped for actually following through with misc advice, been on the misc forever and this is what its about helping each other out. This why I misc and we cannot let this community die or else people will post on reddit and people would tell op that hes wrong and he should stick by her side no matter how many diks she sucksI know man I'm 100% with you.
Edit: Aaahh I see your point. Preferred explaining. However I am cutting contact.
Edit: Aaahh I see your point. Preferred explaining. However I am cutting contact.
OP - stay strong and to your values, the fact is shes dating you for 2 months at 33 years old and isn't conforming to your conservative lifestyle means she won't conform ever. If a girl was srs about meeting a guy she would drop her loser lifestyle and do everything the man is doing. Go to church and meet some 25 year old and show her the world.
Also you dont need to give her reasons why your breaking up. Dont give her a reason to attack your personal, just state that your not ready and need time etc. Females are not logical they act on feelings so dont expect her to understand what your saying
08-20-2022, 02:49 PM
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^thanks man - i appreciate your post
understand your guys point regarding not giving her the reasons - i felt better getting it off my chest though
understand your guys point regarding not giving her the reasons - i felt better getting it off my chest though
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08-20-2022, 09:13 PM
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Update: lol my friend just told me he saw her profile as "new profile" on a dating app... same as the one I used to meet her
either she is trying to look if I registered (edit: probably not i agree guys) or she is on the market again
my god lol
either she is trying to look if I registered (edit: probably not i agree guys) or she is on the market again
my god lol
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08-20-2022, 09:21 PM
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Originally Posted By SickIsForever⏩
I'm going to go ahead and tell you right now she doesn't give an utter f*ck about checking to see whether you're on there.Update: lol my friend just told me he saw her profile as "new profile" on a dating app... same as the one I used to meet her
either she is trying to look if I registered or she is on the market again
my god lol
either she is trying to look if I registered or she is on the market again
my god lol
God you're delusional if you honestly think that.
Good work on getting rid of her. But man there's a lot of work still to do with you OP.
08-20-2022, 09:26 PM
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In b4 girls best friend gets caught with drugs and they set up op or even rob or kill him. Get out now op
08-20-2022, 09:46 PM
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Originally Posted By SickIsForever⏩
You dodged a fuking meteor bruh lmaoUpdate: lol my friend just told me he saw her profile as "new profile" on a dating app... same as the one I used to meet her
either she is trying to look if I registered or she is on the market again
my god lol
either she is trying to look if I registered or she is on the market again
my god lol
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08-20-2022, 09:48 PM
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Originally Posted By Coal
i know rightYou dodged a fuking meteor bruh lmao
received wall of texts since the early morning that she cared about me, going through a tough period, etc - declined her invitations to speak
my god lol
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Who cares if she’s on a dating app now, let someone else deal with her baggage. She’s single so she has the right to go shopping now. It’s normal for people to go back to dating ASAP, it’s just human nature you don’t own anyone.
Like everyone else said, compatibility is very important. When I was young and dumb, I used to date liberals, even though I’ve always been a conservative. Happy to say none of those relationships worked out or lasted. Although You’re a puzzy for being scared of covid.
Like everyone else said, compatibility is very important. When I was young and dumb, I used to date liberals, even though I’ve always been a conservative. Happy to say none of those relationships worked out or lasted. Although You’re a puzzy for being scared of covid.
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Originally Posted By SweetDreamz⏩
i agree with you man - it is true that i dumped herWho cares if she’s on a dating app now, let someone else deal with her baggage. She’s single so she has the right to go shopping now. It’s normal for people to go back to dating ASAP, it’s just human nature you don’t own anyone.
Like everyone else said, compatibility is very important. When I was young and dumb, I used to date liberals, even though I’ve always been a conservative. Happy to say none of those relationships worked out or lasted. Although You’re a puzzy for being scared of covid.
Like everyone else said, compatibility is very important. When I was young and dumb, I used to date liberals, even though I’ve always been a conservative. Happy to say none of those relationships worked out or lasted. Although You’re a puzzy for being scared of covid.
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Originally Posted By bananastand11⏩
thanks for the input, you're rightI'm going to go ahead and tell you right now she doesn't give an utter f*ck about checking to see whether you're on there.
God you're delusional if you honestly think that.
Good work on getting rid of her. But man there's a lot of work still to do with you OP.
God you're delusional if you honestly think that.
Good work on getting rid of her. But man there's a lot of work still to do with you OP.
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08-20-2022, 11:11 PM
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Birds of a feather flock together.
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I mean, you're a grown ass man OP. If you can't take a look at what you just typed and easily conclude she's a trashy whore, I don't know what to tell ya. That said if you're just in it for a nut, whatever
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08-20-2022, 11:31 PM
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Ok for funsies but at 33, she’s hanging out with druggies and shady characters on the regular. That’s gonna be a no from me, even for funsies. I have too much to lose at this point.
Def not mother material. Good on you for breaking up.
Def not mother material. Good on you for breaking up.
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Acting like that at 33, sounds like you're describing a teenager, a trashy sloot prone one at that... She for the streets homie I'd rip that band aid now asap.
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Originally Posted By sam212⏩
Ok for funsies but at 33, she’s hanging out with druggies and shady characters on the regular. That’s gonna be a no from me, even for funsies. I have too much to lose at this point.
Def not mother material. Good on you for breaking up.
Def not mother material. Good on you for breaking up.
Originally Posted By LeoThedude⏩
Acting like that at 33, sounds like you're describing a teenager, a trashy sloot prone one at that... She for the streets homie I'd rip that band aid now asap.
Originally Posted By Rixxen⏩
Good job, OP.
But seriously, how long until OP realizes he's not able to find a replacement quickly enough and starts feeling lonely? At that point he'll be tempted to take her back and probably will.
But seriously, how long until OP realizes he's not able to find a replacement quickly enough and starts feeling lonely? At that point he'll be tempted to take her back and probably will.
Originally Posted By RagnarChadbrok⏩
I mean, you're a grown ass man OP. If you can't take a look at what you just typed and easily conclude she's a trashy whore, I don't know what to tell ya. That said if you're just in it for a nut, whatever
Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
thanks allBirds of a feather flock together.
the girl and i really bonded well, that's why it was hard to make up my mind once all of those events started piling up (and this is just what i know happened, i am sure there is more)
however clearly now there is no turning back
easy to ignore her walls of texts when i read my OP again (she keeps texting trying to justify, wanting to meet, etc.)
like i mentioned earlier i am at a point where i want to find a woman who could be the mother of my kids - it is obvious now that it makes no sense at all here with this girl (for me)
gotta reactivate my dating app too this week... may come across as a douche for dumping her and joining again but i don't really care...
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08-21-2022, 10:38 PM
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Good job op
But I think its time to post pics
But I think its time to post pics
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Originally Posted By SickIsForever⏩
I am friends with hardcore criminals.Hey guys,
EDIT: Funny how I dated very cool chicks in the past, however I never felt anxious like this in a relationship. Like ever. Guess it's a sign?
EDIT: Funny how I dated very cool chicks in the past, however I never felt anxious like this in a relationship. Like ever. Guess it's a sign?
One of my best friends, who I love, is a female drug addict and prostitute.
I am a person who will not engage in negativity and so one of the main reasons "bad people" like me is because I will not participate in bad things. So, my female friend know that I will never ever treat her sexually. I treat her like she is my equal. She is very smart and funny and that's all I see. I also believe that one day things will clear up for her.
Also, I will NEVER EVER compromise things I feel strongly about. I value love and friendship as if it is something from god. So, no one can make me stop being friends with someone.
With all that being said...my current gf, who grew up in very bad parts of Philly FLIPPED THE F@CK out about some of my friends.
I got insulted because she thought I was lying. However, once she got to know me she realized I can know criminals and not be involved in crimes.
So, the question is: is your gf involved in negative activities or is she just loving to those who are?
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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩
I get your point. She seems to have no sense of judgement and follow them in whatever stupid sh0t they do. This is a problem for me...I am friends with hardcore criminals.
One of my best friends, who I love, is a female drug addict and prostitute.
I am a person who will not engage in negativity and so one of the main reasons "bad people" like me is because I will not participate in bad things. So, my female friend know that I will never ever treat her sexually. I treat her like she is my equal. She is very smart and funny and that's all I see. I also believe that one day things will clear up for her.
Also, I will NEVER EVER compromise things I feel strongly about. I value love and friendship as if it is something from god. So, no one can make me stop being friends with someone.
With all that being said...my current gf, who grew up in very bad parts of Philly FLIPPED THE F@CK out about some of my friends.
I got insulted because she thought I was lying. However, once she got to know me she realized I can know criminals and not be involved in crimes.
So, the question is: is your gf involved in negative activities or is she just loving to those who are?
One of my best friends, who I love, is a female drug addict and prostitute.
I am a person who will not engage in negativity and so one of the main reasons "bad people" like me is because I will not participate in bad things. So, my female friend know that I will never ever treat her sexually. I treat her like she is my equal. She is very smart and funny and that's all I see. I also believe that one day things will clear up for her.
Also, I will NEVER EVER compromise things I feel strongly about. I value love and friendship as if it is something from god. So, no one can make me stop being friends with someone.
With all that being said...my current gf, who grew up in very bad parts of Philly FLIPPED THE F@CK out about some of my friends.
I got insulted because she thought I was lying. However, once she got to know me she realized I can know criminals and not be involved in crimes.
So, the question is: is your gf involved in negative activities or is she just loving to those who are?
I let her talk a lot during the time we dated. She told me all of those stories like if it was funny. My OP is not even exhaustive...
Upon breakup, she suddenly tried to deny the facts whereas she had shared all of the information very clearly previously. Now, she keeps texting me telling me it should not be a deal breaker, trying to justify each of the things I mentioned, that she can change, was going through a difficult period, etc.
What kind of life is it going to be if I have to control her or tell her that she should not do X and Y. **** that... I need a girl with common sense.
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fuark really feeling like crap today, it's ridiculous
my mind f*** with me because i am disappointed it did not work out
can't wait for that sh0tty feeling to go away
my mind f*** with me because i am disappointed it did not work out
can't wait for that sh0tty feeling to go away
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Originally Posted By SickIsForever⏩
If she thinks criminals and slobs are fun to hang out with she has immature judgment. She may not be doing the things they do but that's hard to believe.I get your point. She seems to have no sense of judgement and follow them in whatever stupid sh0t they do. This is a problem for me...
I let her talk a lot during the time we dated. She told me all of those stories like if it was funny. My OP is not even exhaustive...
Upon breakup, she suddenly tried to deny the facts whereas she had shared all of the information very clearly previously. Now, she keeps texting me telling me it should not be a deal breaker, trying to justify each of the things I mentioned, that she can change, was going through a difficult period, etc.
What kind of life is it going to be if I have to control her or tell her that she should not do X and Y. **** that... I need a girl with common sense.
I let her talk a lot during the time we dated. She told me all of those stories like if it was funny. My OP is not even exhaustive...
Upon breakup, she suddenly tried to deny the facts whereas she had shared all of the information very clearly previously. Now, she keeps texting me telling me it should not be a deal breaker, trying to justify each of the things I mentioned, that she can change, was going through a difficult period, etc.
What kind of life is it going to be if I have to control her or tell her that she should not do X and Y. **** that... I need a girl with common sense.
Like I've said, I'm very supportive of people and so people involved in negativity make me REALLY not want to get involved because I will disappoint them. What they are doing is NOT funny as stuff like drug can kill you or ruin your life. So, if she thinks that's funny to be involved in, she is not mature enough to understand.
If someone dies or ends up in jail maybe she will change her tune. However, I have known women involved in "bar life" and they did it in their 20s, had f@cked up families they weren't mature enough to take care of and are still doing it.
I know a female therapist like this and she asked me why her son turned out to hate her. I told her it's because she hangs out with barflies, he doesn't have a father, and you spend all your time at the bar, so why wouldn't he hate you?
You are young now but that's what happens when you get older and are with a woman who can't think straight.
There's an Indian guy, Sadhguru on youtube and he talks about different life topics. One was about what kind of woman you let into your house and it was all about what you are concerned about.
With most men, you can get mad at them, tell them to stop acting like an idiot, and they will. With women, it's almost impossible to make them stop doing anything. So, can't have a girl with wildly different values than you have.
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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩
Very accurate - in fact, that's one of the things I told her: can't live my life telling her what to do, what she should not have done, etc. Especially that the things she did appear inoffensive to her...If she thinks criminals and slobs are fun to hang out with she has immature judgment. She may not be doing the things they do but that's hard to believe.
Like I've said, I'm very supportive of people and so people involved in negativity make me REALLY not want to get involved because I will disappoint them. What they are doing is NOT funny as stuff like drug can kill you or ruin your life. So, if she thinks that's funny to be involved in, she is not mature enough to understand.
If someone dies or ends up in jail maybe she will change her tune. However, I have known women involved in "bar life" and they did it in their 20s, had f@cked up families they weren't mature enough to take care of and are still doing it.
I know a female therapist like this and she asked me why her son turned out to hate her. I told her it's because she hangs out with barflies, he doesn't have a father, and you spend all your time at the bar, so why wouldn't he hate you?
You are young now but that's what happens when you get older and are with a woman who can't think straight.
There's an Indian guy, Sadhguru on youtube and he talks about different life topics. One was about what kind of woman you let into your house and it was all about what you are concerned about.
With most men, you can get mad at them, tell them to stop acting like an idiot, and they will. With women, it's almost impossible to make them stop doing anything. So, can't have a girl with wildly different values than you have.
Like I've said, I'm very supportive of people and so people involved in negativity make me REALLY not want to get involved because I will disappoint them. What they are doing is NOT funny as stuff like drug can kill you or ruin your life. So, if she thinks that's funny to be involved in, she is not mature enough to understand.
If someone dies or ends up in jail maybe she will change her tune. However, I have known women involved in "bar life" and they did it in their 20s, had f@cked up families they weren't mature enough to take care of and are still doing it.
I know a female therapist like this and she asked me why her son turned out to hate her. I told her it's because she hangs out with barflies, he doesn't have a father, and you spend all your time at the bar, so why wouldn't he hate you?
You are young now but that's what happens when you get older and are with a woman who can't think straight.
There's an Indian guy, Sadhguru on youtube and he talks about different life topics. One was about what kind of woman you let into your house and it was all about what you are concerned about.
With most men, you can get mad at them, tell them to stop acting like an idiot, and they will. With women, it's almost impossible to make them stop doing anything. So, can't have a girl with wildly different values than you have.
Her friends will keep doing stupid stuff and she will follow along.
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You have to trust your intuition man. Of course you're not going to be 100% confident on one woman but if you are dwelling on this reservations too long then that should tell you something.
I will also say that it sometimes takes months or years for someone to truly show themselves to you, the good and bad.
I will also say that it sometimes takes months or years for someone to truly show themselves to you, the good and bad.
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You dodged a bullet. Or in this case a firing squad.
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