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post 1667077393 08-31-2022, 11:24 AM
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Your “dream life” are you actually pursuing it or is it just a fantasy?

Was thinking about this after a recent post about quitting your 9-5 and living your dream life.

A fantasy all wagecels have

But are any of you actually pursuing your dream life? Taking action on your escape plan?

Ive been doing so since Covid. Was a huge wake up call that none of this chit really matters and the world is my oyster.


Would like to know if any of you brahs are actually pursuing your dream life, what is it, and what steps have you taken so far
post 1667077603 08-31-2022, 11:29 AM
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No, not really. If I'm lucky maybe by the end of the year I'll be living a dream life.
post 1667078293 08-31-2022, 11:41 AM
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Originally Posted By ParsleyTea⏩
No, not really. If I'm lucky maybe by the end of the year I'll be living a dream life.
A dream life? What’s YOUR dream life?
post 1667079653 08-31-2022, 12:00 PM
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In my 20's 100% I was. ONe step at a time. One realistic goal at a time
I remember when I was making $30k i thought it would be life changing to make $60k.

You just have to wake up every day and take one step at a time towards REALISTIC goals, and once you crush that you build bigger ones until the ones that seemed crazy are now realitic
post 1667080943 08-31-2022, 12:23 PM
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Originally Posted By donblaximus⏩
In my 20's 100% I was. ONe step at a time. One realistic goal at a time
I remember when I was making $30k i thought it would be life changing to make $60k.

You just have to wake up every day and take one step at a time towards REALISTIC goals, and once you crush that you build bigger ones until the ones that seemed crazy are now realitic
Das it mane
post 1667081883 08-31-2022, 12:40 PM
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Originally Posted By Basiliskboy⏩
Das it mane
Whats funny was I had room mates that had their "goal list" and it was crazy stuff like

* im going to own a mega yacht in monte carlo
* 3 helicopters parked around the world

BS like that.

I was more like

* XX monthly income ....xx% residual
* XX properties by XX date

Thats it

Then once I hit that i either added goals or bumped the numbers.................
post 1667082293 08-31-2022, 12:51 PM
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post 1667082453 08-31-2022, 12:53 PM
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Sometimes you just gotta make your move and say, "what the fuk"
post 1667082513 08-31-2022, 12:55 PM
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Conceive, believe, achieve op
post 1667082563 08-31-2022, 12:56 PM
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Well most people never do let their dreams leave their front door. Fear of failure mostly.
post 1667083093 08-31-2022, 01:07 PM
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Start small, work your way up to the goal. Make your goals achievable, realistic, but keep moving the ball down the field as you get them knocked off the list. Best thing a wagecel can do is have a side hustle. It opens your eyes to the possibilites and motivates you to further pursue your goals. Working for a company the rest of your life that you don't own or have a major stake in is a surefire way to stay middle class. Seeing results out of your side hustle is probably the best motivation i can think of to take your dreams to the next level. So many people are too afraid to step out of their comfort zone, which is why they stay middle class and miserable.
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post 1667083273 08-31-2022, 01:12 PM
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post 1667083693 08-31-2022, 01:20 PM
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Yes. Not straightforward
post 1667085423 08-31-2022, 01:51 PM
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Yes

The wife and I sat down just yesterday and layed out our 5 year plan by year

And put down how we want to look on year ten.

Feels good man
post 1667086773 08-31-2022, 02:23 PM
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post 1667088103 08-31-2022, 02:54 PM
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I have never understood the grind, side hustle culture. Read any ancient philosopher... you think Aristotle was all like "you've got to SUCCEED like you want to BREATHE"? That chit is a toxic by-product of neoliberalism.

In fact, they say the opposite. The smart guys figured out long ago that desire and hedonism are a trap, a treadmill you never stop running on.

I don't know about you guys, but I would much rather be useful, or competent, or respected, than be rich. I think a high school sports coach who serves as a father figure to a single fukking kid is more valuable to society than fukking Hunter Biden shooting up in a Malibu mansion, knowing he's just dead weight to the world.

The fact thatI'mdead weight to the world is what keeps me awake at night. Working in the rat race never does.
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post 1667088153 08-31-2022, 02:56 PM
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-Retire in early 50s at best.


So far I'm nowhere near that. I need to figure out a way to get a high figure job or start my own business.

If I can get a sales job and get good at making $200k/yr that'd be perfect. So that's my current goal
post 1667088303 08-31-2022, 03:01 PM
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Originally Posted By FA*******⏩
I have never understood the grind, side hustle culture. Read any ancient philosopher... you think Aristotle was all like "you've got to SUCCEED like you want to BREATHE"? That chit is a toxic by-product of neoliberalism.

In fact, they say the opposite. The smart guys figured out long ago that desire and hedonism are a trap, a treadmill you never stop running on.

I don't know about you guys, but I would much rather be useful, or competent, or respected, than be rich. I think a high school sports coach who serves as a father figure to a single fukking kid is more valuable to society than fukking Hunter Biden shooting up in a Malibu mansion, knowing he's just dead weight to the world.

The fact thatI'mdead weight to the world is what keeps me awake at night. Working in the rat race never does.
Aristotle said excellence is a habit, not an act. Socrates said you have to want wisdom/insight as bad as you want to breathe

Being rich is generally an indication of how much value or perceived value you have provided the world
post 1667088843 08-31-2022, 03:16 PM
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im beginning to transition more into it but its pretty darn good so far

bodybuilding is getting better every year despite me wanting to get done, the more i want to quit the better i get at it it seems
started coaching now and working with clients who are LOVING my coaching
planning on coaching full time and eventually training high level coaches/competitors in person of lifting for hypertrophy as that is more my specific niche i think i can offer great value
with increased income and raise at work plan to save to buy a condo and have house now as first rental/investment property to start creating passive income.
getting to travel at least 4-6 times a year right now as well.
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post 1667089933 08-31-2022, 03:41 PM
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Originally Posted By Jms89⏩
Start small, work your way up to the goal. Make your goals achievable, realistic, but keep moving the ball down the field as you get them knocked off the list. Best thing a wagecel can do is have a side hustle. It opens your eyes to the possibilites and motivates you to further pursue your goals. Working for a company the rest of your life that you don't own or have a major stake in is a surefire way to stay middle class. Seeing results out of your side hustle is probably the best motivation i can think of to take your dreams to the next level. So many people are too afraid to step out of their comfort zone, which is why they stay middle class and miserable.
All facts. Use your day job to fund your side hustle
post 1667090153 08-31-2022, 03:46 PM
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Originally Posted By FA*******⏩
I have never understood the grind, side hustle culture. Read any ancient philosopher... you think Aristotle was all like "you've got to SUCCEED like you want to BREATHE"? That chit is a toxic by-product of neoliberalism.

In fact, they say the opposite. The smart guys figured out long ago that desire and hedonism are a trap, a treadmill you never stop running on.

I don't know about you guys, but I would much rather be useful, or competent, or respected, than be rich. I think a high school sports coach who serves as a father figure to a single fukking kid is more valuable to society than fukking Hunter Biden shooting up in a Malibu mansion, knowing he's just dead weight to the world.

The fact thatI'mdead weight to the world is what keeps me awake at night. Working in the rat race never does.
I get what you’re saying never really understood the fascination with that kind of lifestyle myself it just seems so corny.

My ideal situation is a simple life doing what I love for a living with enough free time to enjoy my hobbies and spend time with my friends and future family
post 1667090263 08-31-2022, 03:48 PM
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I'm trying to get after it bro but it's hard sometime.
In my case it means starting my own business within my proffesion but that is in no means an escape from 9-5. If anything it will be more work, just likely double my already 6 figure salary
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah⏩
im beginning to transition more into it but its pretty darn good so far

bodybuilding is getting better every year despite me wanting to get done, the more i want to quit the better i get at it it seems
started coaching now and working with clients who are LOVING my coaching
planning on coaching full time and eventually training high level coaches/competitors in person of lifting for hypertrophy as that is more my specific niche i think i can offer great value
with increased income and raise at work plan to save to buy a condo and have house now as first rental/investment property to start creating passive income.
getting to travel at least 4-6 times a year right now as well.
Sounds close to where I’m at op. In the next couple of years if things keep going the way they are, I plan on buying a property to rent out
post 1667090443 08-31-2022, 03:52 PM
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Originally Posted By Muscle2021⏩
I'm trying to get after it bro but it's hard sometime.
In my case it means starting my own business within my proffesion but that is in no means an escape from 9-5. If anything it will be more work, just likely double my already 6 figure salary
I’m in the same boat op. I’m finally making decent money in my profession but it’s contract work under agencies.
The goal is to eventually have my own agency, hire a couple talented workers overseas and just manage projects until I can outsource that out also.
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