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Thread: Would you ever take back a girlfriend who cheated on you?

post 1667347883 09-05-2022, 08:53 AM
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Originally Posted By GoobyPls⏩
made a thread about this a while ago

- my friend married for 3 years, knows his girl for over 10
- they go to a small party and get drunk as fukk
- buddy wakes up in the middle of the night and his friend (the host) is banging his wife
- he flips out, beats him up, cops get called, wife "doesnt remember anything", accuse the guy of drugging and raping her
- host has cameras set up in his place, whole thing is caught on video
- wife was probably black out drunk and wouldnt do it sober but is banging the guy like theres no tomorrow
- nobody believes the rape story except my friend who convinced himself that it had to be rape because "he knows her and she would never cheat"
- never seen such cope
Holy cow!!! Just lol at marriage
post 1667348083 09-05-2022, 08:56 AM
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
Cope.

Explaining why cheating may happen doesn't make it either forgivable or understandable. If you're an example of a couple that made it after affairs happen, fu*k me, given your decade + on this forum and elsewhere showing everyone, with each and every post, just how much you struggle with your day to day existence.

With all due respect - people like you shouldn't be giving folks here marriage advice. Good luck.
I decided against going into counseling but my goal was to work with eating disorder clients, not marriage. I wanted to give back and have a career where I could help others.

I went back to the corporate world, though. It takes too long and too much $$ to be a therapist.
post 1667348143 09-05-2022, 08:57 AM
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no, id bang her friend though
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post 1667348243 09-05-2022, 08:59 AM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
Holy cow!!! Just lol at marriage
Between this and "counseling is too expensive" you prove my point for me.

Why bitter, jaded, affair and/or divorce suffering folks think their particular marriage experience is normative is beyond me.

Oh, and plenty of execs have happy marriages. The rest is:

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post 1667349423 09-05-2022, 09:21 AM
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Nah.
post 1667350623 09-05-2022, 09:44 AM
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no, and not only will you never forget what happened but YOU will be more likely to cheat in the future as well, further compounding the problems

said above in an earlier comment it's actually a great way to end a relationship clean. you'll move on eventually and look back and be proud of yourself for getting out. there will be no questioning your decision. that's big when it comes to breaking up.
post 1667352083 09-05-2022, 10:09 AM
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Originally Posted By azumi121⏩
Only reason to ever consider this is if you are married and have children. Even then there’s little chance.

Or if they make bank and you’re a brokecel
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and still would never full "take back"; more co-live and deal with necessary co-parenting issues.
post 1667352293 09-05-2022, 10:13 AM
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i do not understand ppl who do this. i feel like the relationship would be completely different after u take the cheater back. why deal with all that when u can just cut ties and move on and not live life wondering if he/she is doing it again. its more peace of mind than anything else
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post 1667352433 09-05-2022, 10:14 AM
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A lot of the time in 2022, women cheat exclusively to end relationships. Finished using up the host (husband / BF / fiancé) so they resort to cheating.
post 1667352983 09-05-2022, 10:26 AM
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Originally Posted By CrimsonSteel⏩
A lot of the time in 2022, women cheat exclusively to end relationships. Finished using up the host (husband / BF / fiancé) so they resort to cheating.
I've noticed a lot more women lately getting into relationships for expediency; getting into a relationship for the sake of being in a relationship, I guess. She starts dating and having sex with some guy she has little interest in (you can see it on her face) because to her it's better than being single. She stays with him until a guy shereally wants to date comes along. That's when you get monkey branching.

So yeah she gets into a relationship under false pretenses and cheats to get out of it. Modern dating...
post 1667353403 09-05-2022, 10:34 AM
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I did once, but it just wasn't the same anymore, I couldn't connect with her the same. She didn't cheat on me exactly, just told me she was too young to get married and wanted to see someone else and it broke me because everything was great up until then. She comes back but I just didn't feel the same. She has the ability to hurt me like that, I can't attach to someone who can hurt me.
post 1667375643 09-05-2022, 05:21 PM
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
Between this and "counseling is too expensive" you prove my point for me.

Why bitter, jaded, affair and/or divorce suffering folks think their particular marriage experience is normative is beyond me.

Oh, and plenty of execs have happy marriages. The rest is:

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When did I say that executives don’t have happy marriages?
post 1667377413 09-05-2022, 05:54 PM
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I’d consider it in the case of my children’s mom. I wouldn’t do it but I’d consider it.
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post 1667379753 09-05-2022, 06:39 PM
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Nope. I wouldn't even consider it under any circumstances. Best case scenario, she gets to live.
post 1667380033 09-05-2022, 06:44 PM
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i don't date sloots. and only sloots cheat
post 1667380353 09-05-2022, 06:50 PM
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Originally Posted By azumi121⏩
Only reason to ever consider this is if you are married and have children. Even then there’s little chance.

Or if they make bank and you’re a brokecel
This is the only slightly possible reason i would.
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post 1667380683 09-05-2022, 06:56 PM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
When did I say that executives don’t have happy marriages?
I never said you claimed that. The first line addressed you, the rest was more my general comment. Some of which applies to you.

The "Plenty of execs have happy marriages" is aimed at the "lol@marriage" cope crew. Especially those who assume that their marriage disaster is indicative of the rest.

It's a terrible coping mechanism - one which I must swiftly put down.
post 1667381193 09-05-2022, 07:08 PM
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
I never said you claimed that. The first line addressed you, the rest was more my general comment. Some of which applies to you.

The "Plenty of execs have happy marriages" is aimed at the "lol@marriage" cope crew. Especially those who assume that their marriage disaster is indicative of the rest.

It's a terrible coping mechanism - one which I must swiftly put down.
It’s a common Misc response so I echoed on on the “just lol @ marriage”. There are some successful marriages out there, yes.

Just almost every long marriage (20+ years) has had some sort of catastrophe such as an affair or alcoholism. Some survive and some don’t.
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