Bro, you play to many video games and arent living real life. I travelled almost 85% throughout my 20's. You telling me you will be diiicking down chicks on travel that you arent somehow in digital communication with prior to meeting?

if you cheat or help someone else cheat, you're a dishonorable piece of chit, but that is typical of americans nowadays

Genuine question, it really that easy? I'm not some marriage doomer who dwells on cheating women, just curious.

If she's texting a person, it's already more of a relationship than I am thinking is acceptable. I'm talking about no exchange of phone numbers, and they do no interaction outside of the sex.

From what I can see (i cant speak from absolute experience because I have never married a trashy person per say) but marraige life has got to be exponentially easier if you dont marry someone from a trash background.
Im open for debate discussion on this but It seems pretty straight forward.

Marriage is hard enough as it is. No reason to marry someone that likes drama or creates additional unnecessary strain on their life and relationships. That is the common trait of someone who is trashy. Makes bad decisions and deals iwth the consequences later.

IMO there are a few traits needed for an easier marriage:

* over communicate
* learn to compromise
* dont marry trash
* dont be broke

Yes, of course. You've never had a one night stand before? I've probably had sex 25+ times where it was one night thing while both people were traveling and there was no exchange of numbers. It's almost always when you're staying in the same place, either a hostel or hotel.

For men its fine, but ultimately it'll blow up in your face because your wife will always have endless options, you'll get cucked everyday of the week and when she's done spread your cheeks nice and wide for Dat dere child support

We should have never given women full fledged freedom

I think in general you are right but I married a nice girl from a nice family with plenty of money, we always had plenty of money - or enough money where it wasn't an issue, and she slowly got crazier and crazier and ended up cheating. Unlike others in this thread who are cool with polygamy I therefore kicked her out and divorced her.

I get what you're saying, but most people get married before they have any idea about how to spot red flags. And to be honest, if two people can communicate very openly in a marriage, it should even be able to survive most things. Some of the best "Open Marriages" I've seen were people who openly communicated and respected the wishes of the other. It can work if both parties are on the same page.

Cheating is completely different for men and women.

Men need value. A combination of height, looks, success, and character. A man who cheats will never leave his wife.

A woman needs nothing to cheat. And when she does cheat she loses respect for the husband and will leave with kids in tow

so a fat housewife whos married to a plumber hit on you? congrats?

Men just want a warm hole to shoot ropes in, nothing more. He will go home and always make sure the wife and kids are well fed, safe, and warm.

Women are the real savages and will burn every bridge possible only for Chad to leave her for another sloot.

I think her husband is a HVAC guy. But both girls are from wealthier backgrounds and just happened to marry these tradie types.

Ok I see. Yeah I dont have ONS with random strangers. I stand corrected.....I assumed you still had conversations and exchanged contact info.

Got it.....intersting. You covered 2 of my 4 bullets.
Additionally, you are telling me you married a sweet girl from a well to do family that just gradually went crazy? Interesting.

This is legit what’s it’s like being a Chad. I have good looking friends that tell the same kind stories.

dear diary.

Or was crazy the whole time and hid it well. But we were together 15 years, married 13 years, so she hid it well.

My personal opinion is medicines prescribed to her by her doctor(s) changed her into a different person and F'ed her up. She was either born with BPD or medicines gave it to her or exacerbated it. She also had some VERY traumatic stuff happen to her as a kid that I knew nothing about and didn't come out until we had been married 10 years.

I think her psych doctor slowly sent her down a spiral with more and more meds and turned her into a zombie.

Childhood friend of mine who has always been a womanizer and sack of monkey chit since puberty spent about 6 months texting her and working on her trying to get her to leave me. Finally they did the deed. He was texting and fukking other girls too. She asked for us to get separated, I said OK, 3 days later came back and said she made a mistake would I take her back. I didn't know of affair yet, and said yes lets work on it. A couple days later she tells me everything. I kicked her out and filed for divorce.

She got pregnant by the other guy while we were separated and quit her meds cold turkey, and all of a sudden in talking to her she was normal and eloquent again. She even said she couldn't feel anything - love for me, my love for her, etc, and didn't realize it until she got off everything.

I tried and tried to get her to reevaluate what she was doing the last few years, tried talking to her psych, etc.

I even considered taking her back until she got pregnant. Sorry I've sacrificed the last 15 years of my life not going to sacrifice the rest of it raising some bastard kid of a despicable human being.

Sloots gonna sloot brah. Dont try to label it or diagnose her with some bull****. She was normal for 10 years then suddenly started going crazy and slooting. She didnt suddenly develop BPD nor she let her past traumas suddenly get to her.

She's just a weak person that probably lost attraction to you or got bored. People do that all the time, its not a sickness or a condition, its just humanity.

def was bored and looking for excitement/attention/to be courted again. was during COVID lockdown too.

Covid lockdowns were a death sentence for anybody experiencing mental illnesses.

Most of the time, people can reach a certain point where they learn to manage these illnesses using external tasks, hobbies, social circles, etc. But when lockdowns happened, all of this stuff went away overnight and these people instantly had to live with themselves and it was a dark time.

The lesson is to level up your life because women want good looking rich *****s

Huge difference between a man cheating on a women and vice versa.

Learn to read, I'm talking Specifically if a women cheats on a dude

If a guy cheats it entirely different story

Can verify with multiple clients who already had not great marriages and they ALL went south during COVID because they were forced to actually be together all the time. Would actually love to see divorce/separation stats for that time period because I bet it was far higher than usual.

And guys need to remember, women work on emotion, not physical. They crave the danger, the passion, the idea that they are doing something naughty. Guys just want to get off and feel some warmth. It's why so many women flirt and get almost to that point but sometimes don't cross the physical line, if they are getting flirted with and have the attention they don't need to in order to feel fulfilled.

Now she has a baby with the other guy but isn't with him?


I assume any girl putting out the feelers like this is looking to hop and cause a lot of drama along the way

Lold, another bs story you Cooked up on the spot?

You also had a P3f1le husband your friend was married to who has molesting a kid infront you and the whole family?


What's next lmao?

It's over (fortunately I have no interest in marriage).