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post 1672520353 12-09-2022, 06:37 AM
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“I am so sad, my mom who lives in <insert distant country here> is being abused and I need to get here here, but I can’t afford a plane ticket for her, if only I had x dollars…” or some other rleated scam.
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post 1672520603 12-09-2022, 06:45 AM
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Originally Posted By Jasonw1178⏩
Tell her you know a way she can make some money.
most alpha response
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post 1672520703 12-09-2022, 06:47 AM
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Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
#1....lol at dating a barista

#2 and on a more serious note.....this was a test and unless you offer to pay for the evening, in her eyes you are going to fail. If you're cool with that...go right ahead.

#3....you've avoided an undesirable companion.....she's makes minimum wage and has a spending problem.
or she just woke up and had some sort of financial panic attack like most women and got overly emotional and lashed out and told OP she HAD to cancel because shes so broke being extremely dramatic.

That would be my best guess of what really happened here.
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post 1672521033 12-09-2022, 06:54 AM
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah⏩
or she just woke up and had some sort of financial panic attack like most women and got overly emotional and lashed out and told OP she HAD to cancel because shes so broke being extremely dramatic.

That would be my best guess of what really happened here.
Austists on the misc man lol. Not realiizing a barista who makes probl 8/hr might actually be broke. She was fishing for a way to have OP pay and still have the date. And now she has the pressure to put out because you paid.
post 1672521523 12-09-2022, 07:05 AM
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- Suggest she start an OnlyFans
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post 1672521663 12-09-2022, 07:09 AM
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"Don't worry about it, tonight's on me."


Then full force attack to smash tonight. If you don't, move on.


Or offer a cheaper alternative, like a dive bar with $2 happy hour specials.
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post 1672521983 12-09-2022, 07:17 AM
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Originally Posted By Guyfawkes1010⏩
Austists on the misc man lol. Not realiizing a barista who makes probl 8/hr might actually be broke. She was fishing for a way to have OP pay and still have the date. And now she has the pressure to put out because you paid.
no I just am the guy who has been on dates with about 200 women and then on the flip side been friends with lots of women and know how they act when dating. I have also lived with women for most of the past decade.
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post 1672522073 12-09-2022, 07:19 AM
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post 1672522633 12-09-2022, 07:36 AM
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Dalton probably texting her right now as we speak.

Just line up another date with another barista. There is like hundreds of them.
post 1672522743 12-09-2022, 07:38 AM
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Give the message a thumbs up (if you have imessage) and then don’t respond. Srs
post 1672522873 12-09-2022, 07:43 AM
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Tell her you car needs washing and the job pays $10
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post 1672522953 12-09-2022, 07:45 AM
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Offer to pay but then say you can only drink Malort. See if she accepts.
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post 1672523553 12-09-2022, 07:59 AM
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Originally Posted By TheBrentmeister⏩
"Good morning. I have some bad news. With having to pay off all my debts, it is impossible to keep up with everything and it has left me with literally no money, so I'm gonna have to cancel tonight. I'm so sorry. I really wanted to see you honestly. I feel so s*** about it"

Another one bites the dust?
You could offer an alternative option that costs less or no money and sell the idea it will be fun just to hang out and get to know each other. Pizza and some beer w/ a movie on Netflix or some chit.

Or, fuk it - I like the one guy who said to Thumbs up it and never reply or speak to her again. I would actually Heart it, to confuse her further, fuk it, it's pretty rude of her to back out last minute like this.
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post 1672523793 12-09-2022, 08:04 AM
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Had same thing happened to me a few years back. But our 2nd date was me going to her place and her making dinner for me and likely we would do sex. Literally 2 hours beforehand she was saying she was feeling nauseous. Went NC. She did contact me a few days later to reschedule so it may have been legit. But i wasn't interested at that point. Too pissed from getting flaked on and had already moved on at that point.
post 1672524913 12-09-2022, 08:27 AM
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If she was actually interested in you she would’ve suggested a cheaper alternative. Give her text a “thumbs up” and never think about her again. Keep going to the same coffee place. If she brings it up at the shop just brush it off and tell her you understand. Never tip her.
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post 1672525463 12-09-2022, 08:38 AM
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post 1672526093 12-09-2022, 08:46 AM
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Originally Posted By leafs43⏩
If she liked you she wouldn't blow you off.


This is an excuse for her to go bang some other guy.
This. go NC.
post 1672526153 12-09-2022, 08:48 AM
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Originally Posted By aranadiscoteca⏩
Chad hit her up with a better offer
Originally Posted By RayBoccini⏩
Chad came a-calling.
Originally Posted By leafs43⏩
If she liked you she wouldn't blow you off.


This is an excuse for her to go bang some other guy.
straight facts ,OP please listen . You have to realise these chicks have plenty of options. I know you were probably dreaming of the wedding, a white picket fence with some kids and a dog but shes dreaming of chads bwc making her coom. Spare yourself the humiliation and go NC.
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