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01-21-2023, 11:07 PM

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#6481

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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩

I think most people confuse "game playing" with disinterest

What are the differences?

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01-22-2023, 01:04 PM

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hooked up with this girl bout a month ago, she texted me immediately after she dropped me off blah blah, went out with her on a real date a few weeks ago, thought it went great.

she gradually began to pull back, longer time between messages etc, I match the energy.

friday night comes around, get a you up text at 2:30am. of course im up but she falls asleep before the uber gets there

since then, radio silence. feels badman.

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01-22-2023, 09:14 PM

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#6483

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Originally Posted By HockeyBacon18⏩

hooked up with this girl bout a month ago, she texted me immediately after she dropped me off blah blah, went out with her on a real date a few weeks ago, thought it went great.

she gradually began to pull back, longer time between messages etc, I match the energy.

friday night comes around, get a you up text at 2:30am. of course im up but she falls asleep before the uber gets there

since then, radio silence. feels badman.

fuq deez hoes breh

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01-22-2023, 09:35 PM

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#6484

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Originally Posted By HockeyBacon18⏩

hooked up with this girl bout a month ago, she texted me immediately after she dropped me off blah blah, went out with her on a real date a few weeks ago, thought it went great.

she gradually began to pull back, longer time between messages etc, I match the energy.

friday night comes around, get a you up text at 2:30am. of course im up but she falls asleep before the uber gets there

since then, radio silence. feels badman.

lots of girls will fuk a dude once for whatever reason and never talk to you again

probably just broke up with he ex or some chit idk

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01-23-2023, 11:57 AM

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#6485

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Originally Posted By HockeyBacon18⏩

hooked up with this girl bout a month ago, she texted me immediately after she dropped me off blah blah, went out with her on a real date a few weeks ago, thought it went great.

she gradually began to pull back, longer time between messages etc, I match the energy.

friday night comes around, get a you up text at 2:30am. of course im up but she falls asleep before the uber gets there

since then, radio silence. feels badman.

How old are you/her?

Seems like she just wants a booty call buddy rather than legit date right now.

01-23-2023, 08:02 PM

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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩

I matched with a 52 year old who keeps messaging me but he lives in a house with roommates? I know my area is really expensive but I wonder if that's a red flag. I agreed to meet him for a drink, though.

He says he's "puny" and doesn't go to the gym.

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01-24-2023, 11:21 PM

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#6487

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I think I secured a wifey latina hbb boyos

she's got literally no red flags, met her in person, been talking for like a month now

been hanging alot

hanging again this thursday and friday

she always makes time, communicates well, no bs etc.

****s different srs

getting off the dumbass degen dating apps and finding someone irl might have worked...

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01-24-2023, 11:23 PM

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#6488

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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩

I think I secured a wifey latina hbb boyos

she's got literally no red flags, met her in person, been talking for like a month now

been hanging alot

hanging again this thursday and friday

she always makes time, communicates well, no bs etc.

****s different srs

Congratulations! That's so hard to do from online dating. It's a rough world out there!

01-24-2023, 11:26 PM

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#6489

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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩

Congratulations! That's so hard to do from online dating. It's a rough world out there!

thank you! I am gonna continue going with the flow of things and see how it works out, but im optimistic asf

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01-25-2023, 09:47 AM

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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩

thank you! I am gonna continue going with the flow of things and see how it works out, but im optimistic asf

Good luck! Hope it continues to go great!

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01-25-2023, 11:12 AM

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#6491

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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩

I think I secured a wifey latina hbb boyos

she's got literally no red flags, met her in person, been talking for like a month now

been hanging alot

hanging again this thursday and friday

she always makes time, communicates well, no bs etc.

****s different srs

getting off the dumbass degen dating apps and finding someone irl might have worked...

das it mane

01-25-2023, 12:55 PM

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#6492

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Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer⏩

fuq deez hoes breh

Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩

lots of girls will fuk a dude once for whatever reason and never talk to you again

probably just broke up with he ex or some chit idk

Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩

How old are you/her?

Seems like she just wants a booty call buddy rather than legit date right now.

thats the vibe im getting too. the thing I didn't get what that she seemed very interested in between hookup and date.

no biggie cause still smashed and she wasn't a girl I was interested in long term, but still woulda liked to have gone out a few more times

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01-26-2023, 04:47 PM

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Originally Posted By InsanePain11⏩

Yea I’m definitely going to get better at this and keep working on it. My mind has been a bit messed up by my past and it’s been hard knowing how to relax again back in the dating world (or to be natural in it, I feel like I used to overthink less and be more positive), but I’ve had plenty of time to adjust and maybe I need to take more action. I think I’m getting better. I actually do relax but im fairly introverted, don’t love going out a lot but I do make the effort to when I can. If anything I’m too secluded from girls because I like spending time alone. But I know ultimately I’d be happier finding someone.

Happy new year btw!

Happy new year to you too! Hoping that this year will be your year to find the right one. I don't blame you for being negative nowadays. Bad news constantly blasted on media and more and more people becoming rude and entitled. Being introverted is pretty great. Nothing wrong with spending time by yourself. Going out to socialize can get exhausting. Be careful of what you wish for. When you do find someone, you might not have your alone time. Lol.

Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩

I think I secured a wifey latina hbb boyos

she's got literally no red flags, met her in person, been talking for like a month now

been hanging alot

hanging again this thursday and friday

she always makes time, communicates well, no bs etc.

****s different srs

getting off the dumbass degen dating apps and finding someone irl might have worked...

Congrats! It is great to read IRL success stories. Good luck!

01-29-2023, 10:56 AM

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#6494

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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩

Congratulations! That's so hard to do from online dating. It's a rough world out there!

Ya online dating is hard when you are married and live with your husband. Right?

01-29-2023, 12:12 PM

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#6495

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nice job bluehawk srs.

i rly do hate this online dating i think i truly need to retire from the game. its not worth it nor fun anymore lol. yea brb have 4 diff girls every week, fun etc. now im tired of it.

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02-10-2023, 04:38 PM

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#6496

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Originally Posted By HockeyBacon18⏩

hooked up with this girl bout a month ago, she texted me immediately after she dropped me off blah blah, went out with her on a real date a few weeks ago, thought it went great.

she gradually began to pull back, longer time between messages etc, I match the energy.

friday night comes around, get a you up text at 2:30am. of course im up but she falls asleep before the uber gets there

since then, radio silence. feels badman.

ended up ghosted. oh well, on to the next.

had a date with a very cute girl last night, went out had a few drinks. What I had expected to be a 1-2 hour thing turned into a 4 hour date with lots of talking and laughing. Walked her home, went in for the kiss and got cheek. But did get a nice text this morning saying she had a really fun time and would love to see me again. So we move forward.

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02-10-2023, 04:44 PM

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Originally Posted By HockeyBacon18⏩

ended up ghosted. oh well, on to the next.

had a date with a very cute girl last night, went out had a few drinks. What I had expected to be a 1-2 hour thing turned into a 4 hour date with lots of talking and laughing. Walked her home, went in for the kiss and got cheek. But did get a nice text this morning saying she had a really fun time and would love to see me again. So we move forward.

that's great, and also why you should never trip out about one girl

there's always another

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02-11-2023, 03:20 AM

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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩

lots of girls will fuk a dude once for whatever reason and never talk to you again

probably just broke up with he ex or some chit idk

Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩

Unless a girl is obsessed with me, these days I can't even be bothererd

Too many mind games

The one I have been seeing for a little while don't do none of that

Also in my experience, if you have to sincerely question whether or not this girl likes you, she probably doesn't

I reflected back on my past experiences with women, and no girl who actually liked me (at the time) played games and chit

Yeah dude you've given good advice ITT. That's the only way to do it in 2023. Every girl that results in a profitable relationship makes it obvious when you first meet em. Playing games is good for the ego but most times it doesn't lead anywhere.

Originally Posted By HockeyBacon18⏩

hooked up with this girl bout a month ago, she texted me immediately after she dropped me off blah blah, went out with her on a real date a few weeks ago, thought it went great.

she gradually began to pull back, longer time between messages etc, I match the energy.

friday night comes around, get a you up text at 2:30am. of course im up but she falls asleep before the uber gets there

since then, radio silence. feels badman.

Damn dude. That **** sucks. You can make all the right moves/choices but there's always a chance it might go left. Based on what you said you can probably just keep accumulating good opportunities like this one though. Always sucks when emotions happen. I only do like 1-2 a quarter so take my poverty advice with a grain of salt lmao

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02-11-2023, 07:27 AM

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Originally Posted By iamdetermined⏩

Damn dude. That **** sucks. You can make all the right moves/choices but there's always a chance it might go left. Based on what you said you can probably just keep accumulating good opportunities like this one though. Always sucks when emotions happen. I only do like 1-2 a quarter so take my poverty advice with a grain of salt lmao

if you want the honest answer, I THINK I showed a bit too much excitement in going out with her and it made it seem like I liked her more than I did.

Like we were going to go to a hockey game which I was pumped for, because I love watching hockey (see username) and would have been just as excited to go with anyone else. But I think that gave the wrong ideas.

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02-11-2023, 03:20 PM

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Originally Posted By HockeyBacon18⏩

if you want the honest answer, I THINK I showed a bit too much excitement in going out with her and it made it seem like I liked her more than I did.

Like we were going to go to a hockey game which I was pumped for, because I love watching hockey (see username) and would have been just as excited to go with anyone else. But I think that gave the wrong ideas.

Its just so crazy that high interest energy is possibly "bad" in the starting phases. I've thrown in some more "street/respect" type game and even the most progressive types become hyper submissive "im sorry sir" type stuff......

Years ago I was in the sad trenches, and now Im almost like...."meh". Hilarious how that works out.

02-11-2023, 08:38 PM

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Originally Posted By otakutrevan⏩

Its just so crazy that high interest energy is possibly "bad" in the starting phases. I've thrown in some more "street/respect" type game and even the most progressive types become hyper submissive "im sorry sir" type stuff......

Years ago I was in the sad trenches, and now Im almost like...."meh". Hilarious how that works out.

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02-11-2023, 09:27 PM

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Originally Posted By HockeyBacon18⏩

she gradually began to pull back, longer time between messages etc

It's already over at this point.

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02-12-2023, 10:30 AM

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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩

It's already over at this point.

while I agree, she still was sending 2am you up texts, which to me at least meant that she still wanted to smash at least

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02-12-2023, 02:37 PM

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Originally Posted By HockeyBacon18⏩

while I agree, she still was sending 2am you up texts, which to me at least meant that she still wanted to smash at least

she wanted attention

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02-13-2023, 06:45 PM

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#6505

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Day before valentines day, get to swiping lol

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02-17-2023, 01:57 PM

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Originally Posted By microsuede⏩

Day before valentines day, get to swiping lol

swapped my GPS to Lagos, Nigeria.

Doctors, lawyers, engineers, and etc (with insta accounts to confirm they arent bots/scammers) are hitting me up first. Asking me to help them with English. Asking how long I'm in the country. like 100+ hwp cute professional matches. That could NEVER happen here lmao.

To all the bois still struggling.....Get your check, mind and body up. Even state side after I kinda left the misc I dated several foreign women....greatest women I ever met.

Our current "dating market" in the USA is just rekted for reasons I'm sure we all know about. Stay strong and stay hard.

02-17-2023, 09:06 PM

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girl sent me random snap the other day. i ignored. srs

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02-18-2023, 01:14 PM

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People think American women are bad. Foreign are worse. Mexico and Russia have more pro woman laws than the US. In Mexico, your mistress can get alimony, and in Russia, women can retire 3 years earlier than men and get social security payments. Asian women are very vocal about how much men need to make.

02-20-2023, 02:11 PM

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Originally Posted By otakutrevan⏩

swapped my GPS to Lagos, Nigeria.

Doctors, lawyers, engineers, and etc (with insta accounts to confirm they arent bots/scammers) are hitting me up first. Asking me to help them with English. Asking how long I'm in the country. like 100+ hwp cute professional matches. That could NEVER happen here lmao.

To all the bois still struggling.....Get your check, mind and body up. Even state side after I kinda left the misc I dated several foreign women....greatest women I ever met.

Our current "dating market" in the USA is just rekted for reasons I'm sure we all know about. Stay strong and stay hard.

Agree on foreign women. I have found for whatever reason I have an easier time establishing a connection with foreign women than I do with American women, and I am 100% American. Maybe its because I'm not a stereotypical aggro blk guy and that is what American women who find me attractive fantasize about when they think of someone who looks like me, then after they get to know me they realize I'm chill af?

Anyway, have a first date with a bumble chick on wednesday. Only meeting for coffee and maybe a walk afterwards if weather permits. I normally don't do coffee 1st dates, but she doesn't drink and is hot.

Got the "not feeling a connection" text from another bumble chick I had a 4th date with on Saturday. We ended up in her bed with our tops off heavily making out. Had hands all over her, started feeling on her pussy... then shortly after she said she was ready for bed. I'm "cant believe you're kickin me out". I guess I moved to slow, who knows.