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post 1677700543 02-21-2023, 09:54 PM
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post 1677700633 02-21-2023, 09:55 PM
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
I can't imagine downing a bottle of whisky and not projectile vomiting everywhere. Is the work stress leading to the drinking? Or even on a Saturday morning if you slept for 10 hours you just want to down more?
Work stress definitely doesn't help, mostly from dumbass co-workers more than anything, long hours and general mentally draining work, toss in a splash of PTSD and liquor helps with a dreamless sleep which is what I need. I legit do not remember the last time I got more than 6 hours of sleep, most days it's 4 hours or so; at this point outrunning the hangover is the goal, only days I do not drink are days I work double shifts so 3-4 days no alcohol but I make up for it on the other days.

Oddly, never once puked from drinking, no clue why; blacked out a lot, but never puke.
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post 1677700723 02-21-2023, 09:59 PM
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post 1677701653 02-21-2023, 10:23 PM
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Originally Posted By Fuggettabowteet⏩
The deepest irony is that I regret ever having a serious girlfriend and I also regret all the 8+/10 chicks I could've sniffed. Oh well, still got time, but I do like sweets so I gotta be careful or I'll turn into one of these bloatmaxxed hinge skanks.
You regret never having had a serious girlfriend, or you regret that you ever having a serious girlfriend, because you could've smashed many other women? If it's the latter - I mean if you're in a serious relationship and regularly feel regret that you're in it because you want to smash others - GET OUT IMMEDIATELY.

This is bodybuilding.com - some sweets are fine, I'm sure
Originally Posted By koreannoodles77⏩
Drinking to get wasted and escape whatever emotions that were haunting me. I cut back alot this year, maybe drink about twice a month. Used to drink atleast half a bottle of vodka a day. But yea its super easy to lose years of your life to the bottle. Life just becomes a haze. Unfortunately it bites you in the ass, and I hit some bottoms. Reality is a bitch and you cant really escape it no matter how hard you try.

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That's crazy. But what haunts you so much that you think of escaping? Smoking and drinking are a killer combo. Sorry to read you hit those bottoms - it can be really tough. I hope you're okay, or will be.
post 1677702063 02-21-2023, 10:33 PM
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Kinda regret doing so much speed and all the other drugs when I was younger. Although I am thankful I was such a hardcore addict that I crashed and burned in my early-mid 20s and didn't waste my entire life away. But am happy with where I'm at now so can't say I regret it that much, live and learn
post 1677702083 02-21-2023, 10:33 PM
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Maybe not taking up a melodic instrument as a kid.

There are many significantly more consequential things I wish I would have done differently, but I find it hard to regret them given what I knew at the time; yeah, I'm pretty unhappy now because of my decisions, but I still think they were good decisions for what I knew then.

I guess I make few mistakes but plenty of wrong choices.
post 1677702373 02-21-2023, 10:39 PM
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Originally Posted By jesb7826⏩
Not ever knowing what I wanted to do with my life. Being more focused on money at a young age and maybe I wouldn’t be financially ****ed like I am.
Are you financially fu*ked? Location: Toronto. Anyone I know there has been focused on money since birth, except some of the Forest Hill and Rosedale types.
Originally Posted By cobhc⏩
Worst idea.

You’re trying to wean off an addiction by using an alternative method that pumps you with 50x the nicotine and you can smoke them pretty much anywhere.

I should have just stayed with regular cigs.
Yeah I felt it yesterday - a sort of headache. I'm on decaf coffee now, we started that since my wife's pregnancy. I felt weirdly 'wired'. I go through a myle mini a day I guess? Sometimes more. Googling says it is equivalent to a pack of smokes (1 mini), god damn...
post 1677702593 02-21-2023, 10:43 PM
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post 1677708853 02-22-2023, 04:04 AM
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post 1677709083 02-22-2023, 04:13 AM
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Two things:

1) Not striking it while the iron is hot with gorgeous girls. Lost my chance, and definitely would have wifed the chit outta one of those girls, and have a family underway already.

2) Not getting my PhD topic right the first time, it cost me a few years and dragged it out into my 30s. I really wanted to be all finished with school by 30.
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post 1677709343 02-22-2023, 04:29 AM
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Not realizing that partying and getting bad grades in university closed a lot of doors later in life and were expensive to reopen in both money and time. Once I figured out what I wanted to do for a profession my university transcript was useless. If I'd just gotten B's instead of D's it would have made a big difference and didn't require a lot of effort (which I know now).

I had an amazing time at school in many ways socially but that's the one thing I wish I'd done differently.
post 1677709563 02-22-2023, 04:43 AM
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I was a 14 year virgin in 9th grade and two girls in my class offered to have a threesome with me. I was too scared and had no clue what to do so I declined. Would have been epic way to lose it.
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post 1677709933 02-22-2023, 05:02 AM
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
Mine?

In graduate school, a friend of mine from Dusseldorf was rolling a cigarette in the lab. I asked him "What's that like anyway?" and he said "want to have one?" I said: sure.

I thought in my mind that I'd cough like crazy, that it'd be disgusting, you know - the expected reaction. But when I lit the ciggy up outside the lab, from the first drag I loved it.

I was 27.

I think back, 15 years ago, and wish I had never tried that cigarette. Might sound like a very minor regret to you guys, but it's the biggest regret I can think of right now.


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post 1677710873 02-22-2023, 05:46 AM
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post 1677711033 02-22-2023, 05:54 AM
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I broke the “bros before hoes” rule one time. I wish I had that one to do over.
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post 1677717603 02-22-2023, 08:35 AM
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Originally Posted By cobhc⏩
Worst idea.

You’re trying to wean off an addiction by using an alternative method that pumps you with 50x the nicotine and you can smoke them pretty much anywhere.

I should have just stayed with regular cigs.
You vape too? And shouldn't you have never tried cigarettes, like I suggested in the OP for me?
post 1677718303 02-22-2023, 08:47 AM
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...Being overly conservative financially.

I have no clue where the money went I responsibly didnt spend but I've tracked the investments I could have made and I would have been a LOT richer at this point.
post 1677719643 02-22-2023, 09:09 AM
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post 1677719813 02-22-2023, 09:11 AM
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Spending WAY too much time obsessing about men--what does their text mean, how to get them into a relationship, constantly checking my phone.

What a waste of time and energy in retrospect.
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
You vape too? And shouldn't you have never tried cigarettes, like I suggested in the OP for me?
I used to. Switched to ecigs so I can quit smoking cigarettes. Realized what a horrible idea that was like two years later. Now I'm back to cigarettes but down to about 3-4 a day.

Ecigs are the worst way to quit smoking.
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Originally Posted By northernlights7⏩
Pissing my 20's away on marriage to an ingrate who turned out to just be using me for resources.
Was she hot?
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post 1677720553 02-22-2023, 09:26 AM
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Originally Posted By gbullock32⏩
Work stress definitely doesn't help, mostly from dumbass co-workers more than anything, long hours and general mentally draining work, toss in a splash of PTSD and liquor helps with a dreamless sleep which is what I need. I legit do not remember the last time I got more than 6 hours of sleep, most days it's 4 hours or so; at this point outrunning the hangover is the goal, only days I do not drink are days I work double shifts so 3-4 days no alcohol but I make up for it on the other days.

Oddly, never once puked from drinking, no clue why; blacked out a lot, but never puke.
SRS: have you sought help? PTSD and the combination of your stresses takes a serious toll. You don't have to carry thar heavy burden forever breh.
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Originally Posted By BigElephant⏩
Choosing English major in college instead of Math or Physics.
Any specific reason? Was there a career path you now know you would have loved but cannot enter into due to a lack of qualifications?

There are folks on Wall Street who studied English....who worked their way up. Just saying.
Originally Posted By bsrkoacar2⏩
Kinda regret doing so much speed and all the other drugs when I was younger. Although I am thankful I was such a hardcore addict that I crashed and burned in my early-mid 20s and didn't waste my entire life away. But am happy with where I'm at now so can't say I regret it that much, live and learn
Yeah, live and learn. If you learn from those moments you don't end up beating yourself up over them, srs. I tried plenty of that in Berlin's party and sex scene. Don't miss it at all.

That is the strange thing for me too really. Nicotine is so powerful yet all these other "hard droogs" people mention had no addictive effect on me at all.
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pissing away hs, college, and early 20s on being a loser gamer. Luckily i sorted myself out a bit with better hobbies, landed decent career and got a great gf now with friends but that time will be lost. I regret it but also at the same time, it could have been way worse lol
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cigarettes are definitely one.

I regret every time I stop a regular workout schedule.

Watching really stupid TV shows in the 80-'s and 90's...now if I can't find anything great on I find other things to do.

I wish I had spent more time outdoors skiing, camping and hiking, love that stuff

Biggest one, not cheating on my ex-wife. I remained faithful until I moved out and just pissed away shots with some great girls.
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Wasted money on vehicles. Worst habit ever
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
That is the strange thing for me too really. Nicotine is so powerful yet all these other "hard droogs" people mention had no addictive effect on me at all.
Not saying that this applies to you, but it is a thing.




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Being wreckless with my health when I was young, drinking too much, smoking cigs for years

Being incredibly irresponsible with money and buying stupid fuking cars, racking up debts for nothing and not investing my money and buying property as soon as possible when i was young as well

Not being serious about a career immediately out of highschool

Luckily I have my chit together now and have a family, house, dependable car and get by but I could be so much further ahead in life

Could be much worse of course, incredibly grateful for my life
money, cars, clothes and hoes is all a miscer knows
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