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post 1678717143 03-10-2023, 03:32 PM
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GF Says I Have 6 Months To Marry Her Or Shes Dumping Me (Srs)

Thatll be the 2 year mark

i said i dont wanna get married, its just a BS label, said I'm still loyal, i still live with yo dumb ass, lets not ruin a good thing

She says no she wants to take things to the next step

Wut do?
post 1678717253 03-10-2023, 03:34 PM
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post 1678717343 03-10-2023, 03:35 PM
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Chit or get off the pot.
post 1678717373 03-10-2023, 03:36 PM
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I love ultimatums.

The choice is always easy.

ALWAYS sink the boat to kill the captain.

Explain to her what the terms are and ask if she is serious. "If we're not on the road to marriage within the next 6 months, you're calling it off?"

And she'll say yes.

So then you say "ok. We won't be. So I won't wait the 6 months. I break up with you as of now."

And then don't let her win you back. No matter what she says, just keep reminding her that you're now broken up, it's done, she can go f*ck someone tonight if she wants and it won't be cheating. The relationship is done.

The reason you don't let her change sh*t up is because if she was not serious about her terms, it means she was using scare tactics to control you. If she was serious about her terms, she'll accept the decision to quit.

So...have fun, I'm kind of jealous. Sounds like a comfortable breakup.
post 1678717393 03-10-2023, 03:36 PM
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So we’re not doing the pics thing anymore then?
post 1678717413 03-10-2023, 03:36 PM
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Lol if she said that to me I would have just left that afternoon.

Never live your life on someone else's terms, if you arent ready, dont be bullied into it.

Hug red flag, i would leave ded fukn srs
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post 1678717763 03-10-2023, 03:41 PM
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If you have no interest in getting married then don't do it and be honest with her. That way she can choose to stay or leave.
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post 1678717783 03-10-2023, 03:41 PM
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Originally Posted By Condo41⏩
I love ultimatums.

The choice is always easy.

ALWAYS sink the boat to kill the captain.

Explain to her what the terms are and ask if she is serious. "If we're not on the road to marriage within the next 6 months, you're calling it off?"

And she'll say yes.

So then you say "ok. We won't be. So I won't wait the 6 months. I break up with you as of now."

And then don't let her win you back. No matter what she says, just keep reminding her that you're now broken up, it's done, she can go f*ck someone tonight if she wants and it won't be cheating. The relationship is done.

The reason you don't let her change sh*t up is because if she was not serious about her terms, it means she was using scare tactics to control you. If she was serious about her terms, she'll accept the decision to quit.

So...have fun, I'm kind of jealous. Sounds like a comfortable breakup.
Good post, thanks i needed to hear this
post 1678717903 03-10-2023, 03:44 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
If you have no interest in getting married then don't do it and be honest with her. That way she can choose to stay or leave.
I just said marriage isnt neccessary for a relationship, i said we got a good thing the way it is
post 1678718063 03-10-2023, 03:45 PM
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Originally Posted By WadeDoesntBurn⏩
Lol if she said that to me I would have just left that afternoon.

Never live your life on someone else's terms, if you arent ready, dont be bullied into it.

Hug red flag, i would leave ded fukn srs
We will be together for 2 years in the next 6 months, she has been a good GF to be fair, she has shown she will stick through thick and thin, but still, fuk marriage
post 1678718713 03-10-2023, 03:55 PM
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Originally Posted By Condo41⏩
I love ultimatums.

The choice is always easy.

ALWAYS sink the boat to kill the captain.

Explain to her what the terms are and ask if she is serious. "If we're not on the road to marriage within the next 6 months, you're calling it off?"

And she'll say yes.

So then you say "ok. We won't be. So I won't wait the 6 months. I break up with you as of now."

And then don't let her win you back. No matter what she says, just keep reminding her that you're now broken up, it's done, she can go f*ck someone tonight if she wants and it won't be cheating. The relationship is done.

The reason you don't let her change sh*t up is because if she was not serious about her terms, it means she was using scare tactics to control you. If she was serious about her terms, she'll accept the decision to quit.

So...have fun, I'm kind of jealous. Sounds like a comfortable breakup.
Or you could... you know.... just marry her? Maybe just maybe, she wants to marry while young and not wait till she's a old glowless hag
post 1678718773 03-10-2023, 03:57 PM
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Mar 23 join date makes a emotionally deep post .

He's never posted here before
post 1678718853 03-10-2023, 03:58 PM
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It's over, boyo. She isn't going to stop/ you aren't going to convince her out of this so...
post 1678718953 03-10-2023, 03:59 PM
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post 1678719003 03-10-2023, 04:00 PM
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
Or you could... you know.... just marry her? Maybe just maybe, she wants to marry while young and not wait till she's a old glowless hag
shes late 20s, thats why shes pushing me, guarantee if she was 19 she wouldnt be pushing me like this, these hoes think they slick. They think they can get take mad dik and then a man like me is supposed to be happy and wife them once they are used up lmao, fuk outta here
post 1678719053 03-10-2023, 04:00 PM
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Accept the terms of her ultimatum, enter into a prenup to maintain ownership of your assets should the marriage fail, then elope to save funds. Nothing to lose in the event of divorce.
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Originally Posted By rollerball⏩
Lmao at the paradox. If you don't give in she'll leave you, if you give in it's a sign that you're a weak beta male and she'll leave you.
I agree but as I said she's been a down ass chick, so i get that she wants something back in return

but yeah i hate when girls try control chit, thats my job you dumb bitch
post 1678719143 03-10-2023, 04:02 PM
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Originally Posted By GoEatWorms⏩
Accept the terms of her ultimatum, enter into a prenup to maintain ownership of your assets should the marriage fail, then elope to save funds. Nothing to lose in the event of divorce.
Shes not a 9/10, if she was a 9/10 I'd probably marry but i can do better, shes in the 7 zone, but shes true ride or die
post 1678719183 03-10-2023, 04:02 PM
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Girls always start doing that.
post 1678719203 03-10-2023, 04:03 PM
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post 1678719353 03-10-2023, 04:06 PM
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
Or you could... you know.... just marry her? Maybe just maybe, she wants to marry while young and not wait till she's a old glowless hag
Don't talk like they do on reddit, ****e.

You could, but it would be a very bad decision.
post 1678719393 03-10-2023, 04:06 PM
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Originally Posted By rollerball⏩
Give her your own ultimatum in order for acceptance like demanding she maintain a strict weight for the entirety of the marriage or it's grounds for non-alimony divorce.
shes a gym girl, i know she will remain fit. But truth be told i dont wanna marry her, shes attractive but not attractive enough for me, i want a 9/10, not a 7, so things will come to an end soon,

inb4 I'll never get a 9
post 1678719413 03-10-2023, 04:06 PM
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Originally Posted By Gdupcuz⏩
I just said marriage isnt neccessary for a relationship, i said we got a good thing the way it is
If she's late 20's its clear why she is wanting to get married. She probably wants to have kids. 2 years is more than enough time to know if you want to marry someone or not.
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post 1678719523 03-10-2023, 04:07 PM
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life of a simp
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Sounds like she just made things pretty easy for you.

Kick her to the curb.
FL > PA
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
If she's late 20's its clear why she is wanting to get married. She probably wants to have kids. 2 years is more than enough time to know if you want to marry someone or not.
I'm sick of girls deciding they want marriage once they are late 20s and ridden mad dik, fuk outta here with that chit, I'm not gonna be Mr Cuck that accepts you after you've been used as a cum repository in your youth

Like I said, she wouldnt be this pushy for marriage if she was 20
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Originally Posted By Gdupcuz⏩
Shes not a 9/10, if she was a 9/10 I'd probably marry but i can do better, shes in the 7 zone, but shes true ride or die
Originally Posted By Gdupcuz⏩
I just said marriage isnt neccessary for a relationship, i said we got a good thing the way it is
Originally Posted By Gdupcuz⏩
shes late 20s, thats why shes pushing me, guarantee if she was 19 she wouldnt be pushing me like this, these hoes think they slick. They think they can get take mad dik and then a man like me is supposed to be happy and wife them once they are used up lmao, fuk outta here
Tell her this and let her make her decision, or just make the decision for her and let her go.

If she wants kids it ain't right to lead her on just because you deem her not worthy enough of having YOUR kids or w/e.

Go find your 9/10 loyal forever woman if that's what you're after.
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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩
Tell her this and let her make her decision, or just make the decision for her and let her go.

If she wants kids it ain't right to lead her on just because you deem her not worthy enough of having YOUR kids or w/e.

Go find your 9/10 loyal forever woman if that's what you're after.
I'll let her go in a few months, I'll just say I don't see myself marrying her, will feelbadman when it happens but yeah its cruel to string a sloot along
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