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post 1682115463 05-05-2023, 03:27 PM
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Long story misc, with cliffs

So I got soft rejected at work, basically got the hint that I'm too fat and ugly for her, someone else suggested me to her and she said she wants someone her own age (I'm 39 and she is 35), basically bs, but anyway I'm off work now (doctor note) and have a lot of time on my hands and I want to get back into lifting (starting strength program) and lose a lot of weight and gain some muscle.

I'm wondering if after my regular workouts if I can do exercises that won't interfere with my recovery for the main compound movements, things like wrist curls and dead hangs from a chin up bar for time and maybe calf raises, any of you brahs have any experience with lifting like this? doing really minor exercises for a lengthy amount of time just out of boredom? I obviously don't want to do compound movements for several hours everyday or it would take forever to recover.

I'm basically sick of being a fat slob, I'm about 230 lbs, 35% bodyfat.

Also, how much cardio should I be doing everyday and what kind? right now I just do 45 minutes of walking (3 - 4 mph), and it makes me break a pretty good sweat. Should I be doing mass amounts of cardio? like multiple hours everyday to speed up fat loss? or will this make it hard to recover from strength training? I'm not a newb, I just haven't got a lot of experience with cardio.

I don't really blame my crush for not wanting me, I owe it to myself to be the best version of myself that I can be, and not a fat ugly piece of sh!t, and for the record she is not ugly, she's like a 6/10, but needless to say I'm done with her as I was already rejected and don't really work there anymore.



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- op got soft rejected by a 6/10 (op is probably a 4/10)
- op is no longer working and has lots of time on his hands, wants to start lifting again and lose weight
- op wonders if its beneficial to do wrist curls and calf raises for hours
- op wonders if its beneficial to do hours of cardio everyday and if it will affect gains
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post 1682115603 05-05-2023, 03:30 PM
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tours over
post 1682115643 05-05-2023, 03:30 PM
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Didn’t read but you are ugly as fuk (srs)

post 1682115883 05-05-2023, 03:34 PM
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Originally Posted By MultiDimension⏩
tours over
Yeah I know, I was going bald so I took it all off, got the knowledge that shaving it off is better than trying to save whats left.
Originally Posted By CellyTechie⏩
Didn’t read but you are ugly as fuk (srs)

You're red brah, nobody cares what you think, and Wheatwaffles says I'm a 4/10.
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post 1682115903 05-05-2023, 03:35 PM
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^^^^^^^^^^

Baldcels when will they learn LMAO
post 1682115933 05-05-2023, 03:35 PM
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When I became a baldcel in my mid 30’s I knew my tour was over . The guy I worked with was a bit of a Chad and actually had sloots hitting on him even knowing he was married.
They actually said they didn’t care if he was married, and we’re going back decades here b4 social media, so nothings changed.
When you see this it really gives you a reality pill .
It’s over for baldcels, even more so with social media giving sloots easier access to Chad
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you already look dead in the eyes

there is no hope
post 1682116063 05-05-2023, 03:36 PM
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Originally Posted By dinglecherry⏩
^^^^^^^^^^

Baldcels when will they learn LMAO
Lol, time to rope I guess.
Originally Posted By MajorTendonitis⏩
When I became a baldcel in my mid 30’s I knew my tour was over . The guy I worked with was a bit of a Chad and actually had sloots hitting on him even knowing he was married.
It’s over for baldcels, even more so with social media
She "flirts" with other guys at the workplace, I use the term flirt loosely, she's actually teasing them playfully.
Originally Posted By MultiDimension⏩
you already look dead in the eyes

there is no hope
There's always hope brah, I used to be a solid 7/10, its time to get back to it.
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post 1682116253 05-05-2023, 03:40 PM
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How tall are you OP ? If your bald and not at least 6’3, it’s over
Back with my Fam
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post 1682116463 05-05-2023, 03:44 PM
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Time to get shredded. you have the motivation

Run 20-30k a week (work your way up to this obviously)
Lift 4-5 times a week
cold shower/sauna on recovery days
300-500 deficit
Look up supplements thatll help with fat loss

No dont do stupid chit like you mentioned in the OP. just make sure your workouts are intense with compounds and isolation exercises and you wont need to go overboard

Right now this is what im doing minus the deficit and im nearly just bones and muscle
post 1682116493 05-05-2023, 03:44 PM
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Originally Posted By MajorTendonitis⏩
How tall are you OP ? If your bald and not at least 6’3, it’s over
I'm 6 feet, sloots have never complained about my height, srs.
Originally Posted By CementPizza⏩
lol, fuk you brah.
Originally Posted By beansieweansie⏩
Time to get shredded. you have the motivation

Run 20-30k a week
Lift 4-5 times a week
cold shower/sauna on recovery days
300-500 deficit
Look up supplements thatll help with fat loss
I'm too fat to run, I really can't manage more than 50 steps. 50k of walking a week would be almost as good I think.
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post 1682117263 05-05-2023, 03:56 PM
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I would say you don't need to be doing more than 1.5 hours of cardio a day. Chin up op, you're gonna make it
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That's not a long story
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u cant take no for
an answer,nowatamsayin?
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post 1682117973 05-05-2023, 04:07 PM
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Originally Posted By kingmanaverage⏩
I would say you don't need to be doing more than 1.5 hours of cardio a day. Chin up op, you're gonna make it
I will, I just find it hard to control my overeating.
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That's not a long story
It is for me brah.
Originally Posted By Kiop⏩
u cant take no for
an answer,nowatamsayin?
No I can't, I didn't expect her to want me, I look like sh!t, I owe it to myself to be the best version of myself I can be.
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post 1682118243 05-05-2023, 04:11 PM
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Dude, all you need is a trucker hat, plaid shirt, lifted F-150 with mud on the side, and a 12 pack, and you'll find yourself a good ol daisy duke wearin' southern sloot.
I'm back, bitches!
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
Dude, all you need is a trucker hat, plaid shirt, lifted F-150 with mud on the side, and a 12 pack, and you'll find yourself a good ol daisy duke wearin' southern sloot.
Ain't gonna happen, just the fat and ugly ones want me, at least foids give me attention still, just not the ones I want.
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Do you track your calories?
I'd say do cardio or abs instead of lifting more after lifting. I'll use an exercise bike at home while play video games for cardio.
But I think for most people, overtraining is a myth, workout as hard as you can and find out what you enjoy, and you'll be better than most.
Get used to being hungry, you should either binge on like lean chicken, or accept the fact that you're not gonna die from being a little hungry
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Originally Posted By jonmcd46⏩
Do you track your calories?
I'd say do cardio or abs instead of lifting more after lifting. I'll use an exercise bike at home while play video games for cardio.
But I think for most people, overtraining is a myth, workout as hard as you can and find out what you enjoy, and you'll be better than most.
Get used to being hungry, you should either binge on like lean chicken, or accept the fact that you're not gonna die from being a little hungry
I do roughly track calories, never did a real cut before though.
Yeah I'll probably just do tons of cardio, like an hour to an hour and a half everyday.
I don't think overtraining is a myth, when I first started lifting after a year in my lifts were still miserable except curls (could do like 55s), I was training like 4 hours a day back then almost 20 years ago, could only bench 100lbs after a year.
Yeah, I'll just have to eat less, once I quit smoking its gonna be tough to hold myself back from overeating all the time.
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[QUOTE=CellyTechie post_id=1682115643]Didn’t read but you are ugly as fuk (srs)

[img]https://imagecdn.bodybuilding.com/profile-photo/20411329/b3009889effa41e4aba09b9845d9c0de.jpg[img][/QUOTE]Fuk off, people like you make the misc a toxic cesspit. You're a sad little man.

Whoever made you green should be banned.
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Originally Posted By Spetznaaz⏩
Fuk off, people like you make the misc a toxic cesspit. You're a sad little man.

Whoever made you green should be banned.
thanks brah, although I just use it as motivation to change, I'm not mad at anyone, not even the 6/10 that shut me down, I owe it to myself to be the best version of myself I can be, she doesn't deserve to be with an obese 4/10 (at best) man.
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Originally Posted By johnvee73⏩
thanks brah, although I just use it as motivation to change, I'm not mad at anyone, not even the 6/10 that shut me down, I owe it to myself to be the best version of myself I can be, she doesn't deserve to be with an obese 4/10 (at best) man.
I admire your attitude bro. It just annoys me how much toxicity and negativity there is on this forum. We are all brahs and should be helping and supporting each other, not spewing negative useless garbage like that idiot. Good luck with your journey!
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