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post 1683229113 05-23-2023, 06:29 AM
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Originally Posted By sapdori⏩
Lmao, where did I see this g3y ass copy pasta before?
Sapdori, your mom and I love you so much too, we just don’t know if we should call you my son or daughter since you have gone back and forth so many times. We love you no matter what you decide. Kids your age explore sexuality at different levels and while you struggle with women, that doesn’t mean necessarily that you are gay.

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post 1683229333 05-23-2023, 06:35 AM
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Originally Posted By ProSaibot⏩
It seems like a mundane life that stops you from progressing with your goals.

- You don't get sleep
- You don't learn anything new
- You spend all your day with your wife moaning about how you didn't change the diapers correctly
- You have concrete attached to your legs for the next 20 years and basically can't go and do anything
- You lose your form and age 10 years in one 1 year
- All your earnings go for the kid and wife, thus leaving you without zero enjoyment


All family dudes I know are really miserable. The pros of being a modern family man are really low compared to the cons. The only way to be happy with a kid and wife is if you decide to buy milk one day, dead srs.

I cannot see myself in that life - maybe feminism is to blame I don't know. I feel like men are not as free-willed as they used to be in their family life.
You forgot the bit where wife then cucks you, divorced you and takes half your money lol
post 1683229353 05-23-2023, 06:36 AM
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OP, you read some **** on Reddit and think that's real life. Many such cases.
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Originally Posted By ****inator⏩
Agreed and it's even worse in modern clown world. 50% divorce rates, etc

"Bu his/her smile makes it all worth it bro"...pure cope.
The irony of a pathetic incel who has no chance of having a decent wife and kids claiming others are coping.


You sure are lucky to be a pathetic incel, aren't you?
post 1683229763 05-23-2023, 06:49 AM
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Originally Posted By UncleFeel⏩
wtf are you talking about? Who tf says you have to play video games and be a loser

Charlie Sheen from two and a half men lived the GOAT bachelor lifestyle, that would be bliss
stop taking cues from jew sitcoms, idiot
post 1683229923 05-23-2023, 06:52 AM
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Originally Posted By UncleFeel⏩
wtf are you talking about? Who tf says you have to play video games and be a loser

Charlie Sheen from two and a half men lived the GOAT bachelor lifestyle, that would be bliss
Uh huh, and the character in the show is an ex-rockstar and wealthy


Not exactly the norm for dudes.
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The way I see it a lot of the problems come from the obsession with marrying a virgin, that isn't compatible with feminism, ****** are idiots who want what they don't and can't have. When you empower that mindset and then try and contain it nobody wins.

You gotta lean into the new world order, my wife was a massive sloot and as such she *knows* no other dink is going to make her cum like mine does and as such she is calm, settled and respectful because she knows what her options are and what she has to lose.
post 1683230323 05-23-2023, 06:59 AM
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Originally Posted By ChinkWithDink⏩
The way I see it a lot of the problems come from the obsession with marrying a virgin, that isn't compatible with feminism, ****** are idiots who want what they don't and can't have. When you empower that mindset and then try and contain it nobody wins.

You gotta lean into the new world order, my wife was a massive sloot and as such she *knows* no other dink is going to make her cum like mine does and as such she is calm, settled and respectful because she knows what her options are and what she has to lose.
to each their own, but no thx Jeff. Super glad I married a virgin. You're right it isn't compatible with feminism, neither is my wife tho.
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post 1683230383 05-23-2023, 07:00 AM
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You don't understand how great kids are until you have them. I swore i would stay single and live life on easy mode but now that i have a daughter its literally the best thing ever... trumps all sloots, relationships, etc. If you have the urge to have kids, don't wait. It completed my life and gave me purpose to get to the next level. Family life is goat, espeically as you get into your 30s and 40s and find that all your friends have left because they have their own things going on.
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Originally Posted By Jacobcapra⏩
to each their own, but no thx Jeff. Super glad I married a virgin. You're right it isn't compatible with feminism, neither is my wife tho.
respect, im glad you found yours
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Originally Posted By ChinkWithDink⏩
Dad yes. Husband mostly except when I hate it, women have mental problems and yeah maybe feminism to blame a bit for that one.

What are goals? What use are goals which die when you do?

From your list:
- Got plenty of sleep, wife and I tag teamed it then trained the little ****s early
- Yeah ok, I learn a ****ton about kids, people, my parents, myself
- I am not a beta cuck, this does not happen and if it does she gets a spanking and sucks me off
- Huh? no concrete but yeah, point taken, its harder. But not full on for 20 years, train them up they need to be fully functioning adults by 20, that doesn't magically happen overnight
- Lol some truth to this (bit extreme), doesn't have to be but is hard to fight that one, respect to those who do
- I am not a beta cuck, I look after their needs before mine and then my wants before theirs. I'm not a baller and I'm not a loser, and I don't go around spending money on bull**** to impress other people.

Look it's a bit a of a lottery, get a tard kid and chits gonna be chit, and it's a bit of what you make of it and the wife you choose (all you alphas should have no dramas right?), it has plenty of good and for me I found it is the fundamental form of happiness. But at the same time anyone who thinks it's not for them and they'd rather do something else with their lives, I can respect that, live your life not someone else's
Please do us all a favor and never reproduce (srs)
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post 1683230513 05-23-2023, 07:04 AM
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Married for 11 years (together for 17 years) and have a 7 year old boy...it's the best.

I love nothing more than being a father, most importantly. It makes work so much better because it changes your perspective about work. Work becomes a means to give him everything he needs and wants (within reason of course) and you no longer want to kill yourself because you're slaving away for clients.
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Originally Posted By low_clazz⏩
Married for 11 years (together for 17 years) and have a 7 year old boy...it's the best.

I love nothing more than being a father, most importantly. It makes work so much better because it changes your perspective about work. Work becomes a means to give him everything he needs and wants (within reason of course) and you no longer want to kill yourself because you're slaving away for clients.
Strong username to post content anti-correlation. Sounds like your user name islow classbut your post indicates you are the opposite of that in terms of your quality as a human being
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post 1683230683 05-23-2023, 07:08 AM
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Originally Posted By hxa⏩
OP, you read some **** on Reddit and think that's real life. Many such cases.
I watch my friends. They are desperate to rope
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Only downside really is that nagging craving for strange from time to time.

I'm sure it's miserable if you marry a kunt. Try not marrying a kunt.

Being a dad is awesome after they stop being babies.
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Being a happily married dad with kids is literally the best thing ever. I would change nothing.
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Procreation is literally the only goal of every single living organism on the planet, from the bacteria on your skin to the coral in the ocean.

But humans are so dopamine shot in 2023 that they'd rather have big adult toys and remain childless well into their 30s/40s.

"Prevents you from doing ur goalz" sure dude, have fun being alone later in life. Cuz most of us are ending up in divorce, at least you'll have kids later in your life.

There is nothing more fulfilling than raising your own kids.

I understand the system is shot when it comes to **** like divorce rape/custody battles/ the expenses of raising kids. If your not fit to be a parent, dont.
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Originally Posted By ProSaibot⏩
It seems like a mundane life that stops you from progressing with your goals.

- You don't get sleep
- You don't learn anything new
- You spend all your day with your wife moaning about how you didn't change the diapers correctly
- You have concrete attached to your legs for the next 20 years and basically can't go and do anything
- You lose your form and age 10 years in one 1 year
- All your earnings go for the kid and wife, thus leaving you without zero enjoyment


All family dudes I know are really miserable. The pros of being a modern family man are really low compared to the cons. The only way to be happy with a kid and wife is if you decide to buy milk one day, dead srs.

I cannot see myself in that life - maybe feminism is to blame I don't know. I feel like men are not as free-willed as they used to be in their family life.
Being a dad is awesome. If your wife is a drag on it, you're doing it with the wrong person.
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Originally Posted By ProSaibot⏩
Better yet, would be to be the father who doesn't live with the mother. You get to see your kid alone and spend fun once it is your time to hang around.
I seriously believe that the women in family raletioships worns out a man rather than the kid.
Your essentially saying how great it would be to be a divorced father. I hear it's fun as hell.
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet⏩
It is just raw sacrifice man. Throw your own identity out of the window.
In order to be good at either of those, you have to completely get over and disregard yourself.
All of your wishes and desires, your own individual identity. It is that serious. Literally who you are a person has to change to be dedicated to this one thing.
They are the most important things in the world and every single second needs to be dedicated to giving them the highest standard of living possible.
Howdy IM....

Well stated. (on spread)

I chose not to take on that life choice but I totally endorse the above.
Your life, as a parent, is not your own anymore.
Every aspect of your lives revolves around raising a responsible, well adjusted adult.
Having a child is an extremely difficult job and they don't arrive with a manual.

Carry on....
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The only thing better than being a dad is being a divorced dad, honestly. At least with an ex that isn't crazy and you're good co-parents with.

I only say that because you get breaks and can do adult things as well, even when your kids are young. It allowed me time to date, take up hobbies, even something as simple as working out to loud music when they aren't with me. When they aren't here, I work more and when they are I put work aside and have the option to do quality time. And now that they are older and are used to me and their mother being apart they know that they get to do x at Daddy's house and y at Mommy's house. For example, I have a foosball table, theatre room, band setup in my house and play sports with them - guy stuff. We cook meals together, fix things and work out together.

They are two little girls and I know they need a strong male influence, so I'm focused on doing the best for them I can to provide it.
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Originally Posted By Wayne
Howdy IM....

Well stated. (on spread)

I chose not to take on that life choice but I totally endorse the above.
Your life, as a parent, is not your own anymore.
Every aspect of your lives revolves around raising a responsible, well adjusted adult.
Having a child is an extremely difficult job and they don't arrive with a manual.

Carry on....
True, your life is notonlyyour own anymore. you have a responsibility to take of others that cannot take care of themselves.


But you need to still have your own life, outside of parenthood. Don't just throw away all the things that you enjoy and want to do because you have kids. That's a one-way ticket to being miserable and is the basis of threads like this. Find a way to do both.

Bring the kids to the brewery. Go to the gym in the morning or bring the kids to the daycare if they have it, play video games while they're sleeping, and with them when they're older. Get a baby sitter every now and then and go out with the boys, or go enjoy your hobbies. Get your kids involved in the hobbies you enjoy so that you can share them.
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Originally Posted By ****inator⏩
Agreed and it's even worse in modern clown world. 50% divorce rates, etc

"Bu his/her smile makes it all worth it bro"...pure cope.
I don’t believe that 50% divorce rate. It’s the same people getting remarried/divorce. How many people you know that are on their second, third, or even fourth marriage.

Been married 18 yrs (married young), we both stay pretty fit, travel a lot, make a good living (both own our own business), & am damn thankful I found a conservative minded, good cook, loving & respectful woman..especially when I look at the girls today and how 99% are attention narcissists. (Like the poster above me)
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Always brings lulz to see marriedcels coping in this type of thread, lmao.
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Love it, ded fukn srs. Will be married 20 years in July. Kids are 13 year old boy and 8 year old girl. Wife and I went to high school together, I'm the first relationship she ever had.

And the kids are only a pain for the first couple years. Once they learn how to get a bowl of lucky charms, turn on cartoons and leave you the fuk alone, the no sleep thing changes.

I wouldn't change that part of my life for anything.

Edit: I'll give y'all a hint about a successful marriage. You have to actually like her and be friends because the shiny new love wears off.

Edit 2: doesn't hurt to have a wife who learned all of her sex tricks with you, knows exactly what you like, and REALLY loves butt sex
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Originally Posted By Jacobcapra⏩
True, your life is notonlyyour own anymore. you have a responsibility to take of others that cannot take care of themselves.


But you need to still have your own life, outside of parenthood. Don't just throw away all the things that you enjoy and want to do because you have kids. That's a one-way ticket to being miserable and is the basis of threads like this. Find a way to do both.

Bring the kids to the brewery. Go to the gym in the morning or bring the kids to the daycare if they have it, play video games while they're sleeping, and with them when they're older. Get a baby sitter every now and then and go out with the boys, or go enjoy your hobbies. Get your kids involved in the hobbies you enjoy so that you can share them.
They make it seem so complicated.
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