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ยป I love how marriage just became a fantasy to 85% of women nowadays
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post 1684010943 06-04-2023, 10:32 PM
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Originally Posted By JayJ350
When every woman wants to be with a turbo-chad achiever, the vast majority of women are going to hold out for a Mr. Perfect that will never show up.

Most women don't want to admit how they aren't a perfect Stacy, they think Chad will settle for them when he can have any woman he wants. It's funny.
Much of this.

Consider, at 18-30 women don't want to settle down at all. At 30 when baby rabies kick in, they want to settle, but they're past their prime so they land chad occasionally only for hookups. At 35-40, they're wondering why they can't lock him down, and everythings too late for kids marriage.


Basically the message to women is "don't waste your youth"

Message to men is looksmax, moneymax, statusmax, charmmax.
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot
you really gotta wonder what goes through people's heads in those situations, the men and the women. In a majority of cases ****ty people will put their ****tiness front-and-center for you, and a lot of people go through with it anyways. Either people are totally OK with a ****ty relationship due to loneliness, or maybe they overestimate their ability to change someone. Obviously if they haven't changed by the wedding then there's no hope. I swear almost every. single. guy I have talked to who went through a bad breakup with a chitty woman, ALL of them say some variation of "I should have paid closer attention to the red flags"
Most people are just terrified to go against the grain, in any way. They will marry some chit person they don't really like, live in a chit overpriced city, and work a chit job for Mr. Noseberg until they keel over and die to avoid moving out of their comfort zone in any way.
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Originally Posted By FinBra
Basically the message to women is "don't waste your youth"
The sayin literally goes youth is wasted on the young, you're often too inexperienced and myopic at that age to know better. You can tell a girl in a million different ways the importance to get married young and keep her body count low but she'll still follow society influence
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
If you had an 18 year old daughter, what advice would you give her?
2 daughters.

L ove God more than you L_ove anyone. L_ove yourself as God L_oves you. God's L-ove will never fail you, human hearts are fickle, and will always fail you at some point.

What to look for in a mate:
You're bf/spouse should L-ove God more than they L-ove you. Your heart is fickle, and you will fail him at some point.
He should learn to "deny himself, take up his cross daily, and follow Jesus Christ as his Lord & Saviour", as you should.
He should sacrifice to God first, and you second, and you should sacrifice to God first, and your mate second.

To "deny oneself" doesn't mean to deny who you are, it means to actually "deny yourself". Find a man that can fast. If he can deny himself the simple pleasure of food, then it's practice to deny himself of the bigger things like sin. If he can't do something as simple as fast for a day or two a week, how can he deny himself to cheat on you if the opportunity arises.

To sacrifice is to L-ove. It takes courage to L-ove. To say "NO" to yourself, and "YES" to the other. Each has to sacrifice for the other or someone is getting rolled over.

"Take up your cross daily" - He and you have to take RESPONSIBILITY and follow through. This means do what you have to do, or said you'll do. It also ties with HONESTY. If you don't do what you said you'll do, you're unreliable, and a liar. If you say you're going to get groceries, get them, don't sit there and not do it (which you then lied), or lie and go to the strip club.

Follow God. self-explanatory.

A man of God will honor an adopted daughter of God, and a woman will honor an adopted son of God.

There is a non-biblical saying.
"God didn't take the bone from Adam's head to lord over woman.
God didn't take the bone from Adam's foot to step on woman.
God took the rib from Adam's side to walk beside her.
Under his Arm to guard her
Near his heart to L-ove her."

If anyone does hurt my daughters, then I will commit the mortal sin to protect them, and ask for God's forgiveness on my day of judgement.

the word "L O V E" is censored? WTF?!
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Originally Posted By CurryMoggin
The sayin literally goes youth is wasted on the young, you're often too inexperienced and myopic at that age to know better.
Indeed.

But generally as a male I always thought of it from a money perspective. IE, when I'm young I'm broke and can't do ****. At 30 I had dollars for days and a boat, cleaning up was easy. Give me that at 19 and I woulda had more STDs than Jagger
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
They are young girls, they want to date pretty boys their age from the sameTik Tok culture.They have literally zero interest in guys more than maybe 2 years older max. They are invisible to them.
The **** does that even mean? That they want doods that mouth rap lyrics while clowning on video?

JFL at the parents.
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Originally Posted By Tuksonrider
If anyone does hurt my daughters, then I will commit the mortal sin to protect them, and ask for God's forgiveness on my day of judgement.
Bro let's face reality. You're going to come home early from work one day and find this guy doing unspeakable things lol. fr fr no cap on god.

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[QUOTE=ErnieMccracken post_id=1684011343]Bro let's face reality. You're going to come home early from work one day and find this guy doing unspeakable things lol. fr fr no cap on god.

[imghttps://i.imgur.com/PR9wYE7.png[/img][/QUOTE]Then God receive his soul, and forgive me.
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
Bro let's face reality. You're going to come home early from work one day and find this guy doing unspeakable things lol. fr fr no cap on god.

That hair kills me. And it's in Europe, too. Now there are no hot, young, attractive guys to look at at the gym anymore because the Zoomer guys look like this.
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Originally Posted By FinBra
Much of this.

Consider, at 18-30 women don't want to settle down at all. At 30 when baby rabies kick in, they want to settle, but they're past their prime so they land chad occasionally only for hookups. At 35-40, they're wondering why they can't lock him down, and everythings too late for kids marriage.


Basically the message to women is "don't waste your youth"

Message to men is looksmax, moneymax, statusmax, charmmax.
\Yup, but the vast majority of sloots think the kind of attention they get in their 20's will last forever, and waste their prime years slooting around so they become all used up and lose their desirability by the time they decide to settle down. Ironically they could have probably landed a Chad during their prime years if they weren't so focused on slootmaxxing.
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss
That hair kills me. And it's in Europe, too. Now there are no hot, young, attractive guys to look at at the gym anymore because the Zoomer guys look like this.
shut ht efuk up, ****

retarded whore shows up to a thread like this and complains there aren't any hot guys half her age to look at.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Yes with a pretty baby face and broccoli hair.

Thatโ€™s what their generation is into. What do you think they want? 30 year old bodybuilders lmao?
Its not the look I'm questioning. Its the action.
Originally Posted By JayJ350
\Yup, but the vast majority of sloots think the kind of attention they get in their 20's will last forever, and waste their prime years slooting around so they become all used up and lose their desirability by the time they decide to settle down. Ironically they could have probably landed a Chad during their prime years if they weren't so focused on slootmaxxing.
Exactly this
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Thatโ€™s what their generation is into. What do you think they want? 30 year old bodybuilders lmao?
They need health insurance, don't they??
Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss
That hair kills me. And it's in Europe, too. Now there are no hot, young, attractive guys to look at at the gym anymore because the Zoomer guys look like this.
Smashed any young hot Chads lately?
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Originally Posted By JayJ350
\Yup, but the vast majority of sloots think the kind of attention they get in their 20's will last forever, and waste their prime years slooting around so they become all used up and lose their desirability by the time they decide to settle down. Ironically they could have probably landed a Chad during their prime years if they weren't so focused on slootmaxxing.
this it...and they live in a culture that cheers on slootmaxxing as a form of growth or "finding themselves". the rare smart ones usually raised by decent parents can see through all the vapid attention and lock in at their peak like it's a 3% mortgage rate
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Agreed OP, but some creative ones have found an alternate solution:

Any USA woman born between 1981 and 1985 was subjected to the most damaging, mind-warping propaganda to ever effect women up to that point (before instagram/tiktok). I'm referring to the tv show "Sex and the City". During that show's heyday in like 2000 to 2003, the target audience of housewives were already settled with their families so that it was just escapism.

But for the college age women during that era? The 18 to 24 (or so) year olds GOT FUKKED UP - they viewed the show as aspirational, and modified their choices and mindset to take after the characters of that show. And those are the women that are now 38+ and living alone in NYC or other big cities, with debt, prescriptions, and disastrous political views.

One of the things SATC didn't teach these idiots back in 2001 was that NYC is one of the worst cities for dating for women. It's massively imbalanced, with very few eligible men. So much so that a lot of chicks have basically had what amounts to "prison weddings", where they adopt lesbianism as part of their identity and marry a fellow lonely 39 year old woman in Brooklyn. I'd wager half the married lesbian couples in NYC ended up in that relationship due to the lack of single men in the area. Like their entire relationship is a "cope".
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
They are young girls, they want to date pretty boys their age from the same Tik Tok culture. They have literally zero interest in guys more than maybe 2 years older max. They are invisible to them.
They will change in a few years when they mature. But lmao at miscers thinking early tweenagers actively want dudes in their 30s. Just like SS having to beg a tweenager to sleep with her again when he's busy being with girls less than half her age. Why would a 20 year old want to be with a 30something with a career and responsibilities. They have just a few more years to be kids, so let them. Because the real world is going to hit that generation hard as fuk soon.
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Originally Posted By eddiehaskell
this it...and they live in a culture that cheers on slootmaxxing as a form of growth or "finding themselves". the rare smart ones usually raised by decent parents can see through all the vapid attention and lock in at their peak like it's a 3% mortgage rate
The mistake a lot of women make is thinking they can live an idealized male lifestyle and reap the benefits of being viewed like an ideal male. Reality is they're women, so in the end they will just be viewed like a loose woman. It's the same chit with work, they try to get impressive job titles and brag about that, but nobody cares because women aren't valued for their employment the way women value men for theirs.

That's the thing about feminism, it feeds women all sorts of lies, telling them try can have their cake and eat it too.
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fuk bitches get money
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I wonder what the marriage rates will be in the next 10 years as a big generation of men are waking up to how unfair marriage laws are.
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Originally Posted By MegaSloot
No, it's the color of mourning. Once married a woman is never free again. Her assets become his. Her time is his to do with as he pleases. She is a slave with no home, no name, no time, and no money. That's why marriages fail. Turns out, being an unpaid cook, house keeper, hooker and nanny isn't all that much fun after all! Who knew (I mean besides the 85% who got wise to this bs)?

But yes, it seems that miscers cherish the idea of the older woman sobbing all the way to the bank, then hitting the gym (still sobbing), and then going home to a dog who ****s her is a fate worse than death. Not saying all wives are miserable, but enough of them are to make questioning that system a totally valid thing to do.
A man who demands that a woman both work and wife is basically handing her a huge new set of responsibilities beyond just providing for herself. Modern men bring nothing to the table. They offer not fidelity, not money, not companionship. Nothing. And yet, it's supposed to be sad that a woman isn't married? I don't get it.
This isn't true at all, not sure of the men you dated, but we ain't all like that. What do you think we do while single? I keep my place clean, I meal prep, I do repairs when needed.
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss
This is true as a woman who has been traveling alone.

But I find that men are just annoying if you spend a lot of time with them.They watch CNN or ESPN all day, drink too much, say annoying things and in general are frustrating.Well this could be women, too, as anyone can be annoying when you spend a lot of time with them.

It's much more relaxing to be solo, especially while traveling. It's not very safe, though, and freaks out my family.
This is false too. I don't watch CNN/ESPN, don't drink and I'm introverted so I don't talk much. Annoy me and I'll annoy you right back.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Yes men expecting women to work in marriage is ridiculous. Literally the only point to marriage is for men to provide for women.
What do you think men are doing while single and on their own? You think we hire maids and cooks and eat out at restaurants all the time?
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Originally Posted By WishIWasJawBrah
LOL - Women have the freedom to choose a mate

New study suggests psychopathic men have a personality style that makes them attractive to women

https://www.psypost.org/2019/10/new-...to-women-54676
This is what it all boils down to. A lot of woman want their cake and want to eat it.
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way to go feminists!

go to any old hag bar and see how unhappy they are. It's hillarious. Running around, being all agressive on every guy now, trying to act al lnice. Should've treated guys better when u were hot.
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey
This is false too. I don't watch CNN/ESPN, don't drink and I'm introverted so I don't talk much. Annoy me and I'll annoy you right back.
Those were examples of men my age I stayed with on vacation who annoyed me. Then there was a younger one who wore a t-shirt "Tattooed and Employed" the next day and I was embarrassed as hell. Then he also watched TV shows that annoyed me.

So in those cases I'm much happier to travel alone.
Originally Posted By JayJ350
The mistake a lot of women make is thinking they can live an idealized male lifestyle and reap the benefits of being viewed like an ideal male. Reality is they're women, so in the end they will just be viewed like a loose woman. It's the same chit with work, they try to get impressive job titles and brag about that, but nobody cares because women aren't valued for their employment the way women value men for theirs.

That's the thing about feminism, it feeds women all sorts of lies, telling them try can have their cake and eat it too.
I ran into this problem in my 30s when I was living with Grandma and a guy from tennis invited me out with his friends to a club, and his friend brought a stripper who he then ignored me for. I was furious that he invited me out, and then I was like wtf I'm a manager at a tech company and he's ignoring me for a stripper!

Feminism made me think that my job title would be important. Then another guy asked if I was a receptionist and I was insulted and told him I'm a manager. In reality no guy cares about my job title.So much for all of that hard work, except the extra $$$ of course and increase in self esteem.
Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
Smashed any young hot Chads lately?
I have no sex drive when I'm not traveling. Plus I want to focus on the Ozempic and diet and exercise program the weight management specialist Dr. put me on.
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking
If you want to see a woman lose their chit, tell a 38+ year old single woman there is no point to marriage if you don't intend to start a family.
brutal
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Guys need a super natural ability to know what all goes on behind the back. Like knowing when say an unknown female friend of his wife says "you should totally divorce him because this OTHER guy I know did NOT lose his job from the pandemic!"

had to say it
Ugbodybuilding.com is a forum full of jackasses who think they are cool whenever ganging up on a new poster

from almost death in hospital to 5'9 215 lbs 33 waist all natural top .1% in genitals so SUCK IT haters
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss
Those were examples of men my age I stayed with on vacation who annoyed me. Then there was a younger one who wore a t-shirt "Tattooed and Employed" the next day and I was embarrassed as hell. Then he also watched TV shows that annoyed me.

So in those cases I'm much happier to travel alone.


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So you chose to be with the wrong guys? I swear 99% of the population is retarded.
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