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post 1684836623 06-18-2023, 10:45 AM
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A female co-worker is getting ridiculously touchy and talking about Sex and going

To home together. srs tag

She also desperately "always seem to drop something" and bends over right in front of my face (and no its not an accedient she keep dropping sh!t whenever I am around) and do things to grab my attention srs.

I have no intention to press forward with this lady but she keeps pushing at every shot she gets. Walking away is no longer working and I have already blocked her on social media, report to HR?

What the fook am I going to tell HR?? This lady is molesting me this will be awkward.... I have a strict no sh!tting where I eat policy so I cannot keep letting this slide

srs
post 1684836713 06-18-2023, 10:46 AM
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Why u cock-blocking urself breh?
post 1684836733 06-18-2023, 10:47 AM
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Originally Posted By Ausaric⏩
Why u cock-blocking urself breh?
strict no sh!tting where I eat policy
post 1684837273 06-18-2023, 10:56 AM
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What do p-hagits?? File an official complain to HR head cc all HR boyos or what do?? What am I going to say.
post 1684837413 06-18-2023, 10:58 AM
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She heard you got them 660 lb hip thrusts and wants to be on the receiving end. Do your duty, soldier.
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post 1684837473 06-18-2023, 11:00 AM
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Originally Posted By Lexira⏩
What do p-hagits?? File an official complain to HR head cc all HR boyos or what do?? What am I going to say.
You’ll cause yourself a huge headache and an even bigger headache for this woman, have you truly considered the consequences? Just ignore her you idiot. If it’s gone on this long then you’re playing into it.
post 1684837593 06-18-2023, 11:01 AM
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Bro just tell her you have a boyfriend
post 1684837643 06-18-2023, 11:02 AM
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Dunno m8, repeated enforced proximity to a women over time in a formal setting can alter your perception. In a few months time, you may actually want to make love to her.

And i'm talking sweet, sweet love here.
post 1684837693 06-18-2023, 11:03 AM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
Bro just tell her you have a boyfriend
I genuinely was thinking of telling her I am Gay. But she already knows I am not as I brought my what-used-to-be girlfriend to an event with me and she talked to her.
post 1684837713 06-18-2023, 11:03 AM
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Originally Posted By Channel83⏩
Dunno m8, repeated enforced proximity to a women over time in a formal setting can alter your perception. In a few months time, you may actually want to make love to her.

And i'm talking sweet, sweet love here.
Can you elaborate on this?
post 1684837943 06-18-2023, 11:08 AM
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Originally Posted By Ausaric⏩
You’ll cause yourself a huge headache and an even bigger headache for this woman, have you truly considered the consequences? Just ignore her you idiot. If it’s gone on this long then you’re playing into it.
I understand the consequences of filling an offical complain. But as I see it, she needs to be put to stop and what she does highlighted before she does a 180 degrees in case she couldn't accept and start making sh!t up, if you know what I mean.

On several occasions I dropped that I am engaged now and that I have all my weekends busy..etc but she keeps on pushing as if I said nothing
post 1684838003 06-18-2023, 11:08 AM
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Originally Posted By Ausaric⏩
Can you elaborate on this?
Ive started jobs with women working in my team i didn't find attractive initially, but as the months went by i realised i would probably bang them. Not sure why.
post 1684838093 06-18-2023, 11:10 AM
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Originally Posted By Channel83⏩
Ive started jobs with women working in my team i didn't find attractive initially, but as the months went by i realised i would probably bang them. Not sure why.
There is actually a study on what you are saying and it is true:

Hunt LL, Eastwick PW, Finkel EJ. Leveling the Playing Field: Longer Acquaintance Predicts Reduced Assortative Mating on Attractiveness. Psychol Sci. 2015;26(7):1046-53. doi:10.1177/0956797615579273

But it is not applicable here though, she is VERY attractive, I just cannot press forward with someone from work.

Boyos I would rather cut my penor before it causes to me to get cancelled srs
post 1684838223 06-18-2023, 11:12 AM
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I think the first step would be communicating with the person directly rather than going to HR, like mentioning that discussing sex isn't appropriate without being too standoffish about it
post 1684838253 06-18-2023, 11:13 AM
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sounds lulzy

just ignore obv
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post 1684838273 06-18-2023, 11:13 AM
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Originally Posted By Destor⏩
I think the first step would be communicating with the person directly rather than going to HR, like mentioning that discussing sex isn't appropriate without being too standoffish about it
I have done that by telling her that and also dropping that I am engaged now and that I have all my weekends busy..etc but she keeps on pushing as if I said nothing
post 1684838313 06-18-2023, 11:14 AM
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Originally Posted By Lexira⏩
I understand the consequences of filling an offical complain. But as I see it, she needs to be put to stop and what she does highlighted before she does a 180 degrees in case she couldn't accept and start making sh!t up, if you know what I mean.

On several occasions I dropped that I am engaged now and that I have all my weekends busy..etc but she keeps on pushing as if I said nothing
You should just ignore her bro
post 1684838343 06-18-2023, 11:15 AM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
sounds lulzy

just ignore obv
One of the things she does, is talking to me how guy X tried to take her home or how she is ignoring everyone else.
post 1684838993 06-18-2023, 11:33 AM
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Tricky situation. Do something about it with HR and risk getting canceled. Do nothing and risk getting canceled when her efforts turn to rage. Smash and risk getting canceled. Fuarrkk
post 1684839043 06-18-2023, 11:34 AM
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Use your body language and stay clear of her. It isn't hard.
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post 1684839073 06-18-2023, 11:35 AM
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Just tell her you like men. Which isn't a lie.
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post 1684839403 06-18-2023, 11:40 AM
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Originally Posted By Adam16121⏩
Tricky situation. Do something about it with HR and risk getting canceled. Do nothing and risk getting canceled when her efforts turn to rage. Smash and risk getting canceled. Fuarrkk
This is the the situation summed up exactly, that I need advice on.
post 1684839543 06-18-2023, 11:42 AM
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Originally Posted By Lexira⏩
This is the the situation summed up exactly, that I need advice on.
Just ignore her.
post 1684839783 06-18-2023, 11:46 AM
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Originally Posted By Ausaric⏩
Just ignore her.
You cannot when she keeps touching your shoulder whenever she feels like asking about something thats on a paper.
post 1684840303 06-18-2023, 11:54 AM
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Just suck it up, sounds like you're afraid you might bite and brake your policy, get some self restraint
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Originally Posted By Lexira⏩
I understand the consequences of filling an offical complain. But as I see it, she needs to be put to stop and what she does highlighted before she does a 180 degrees in case she couldn't accept and start making sh!t up, if you know what I mean.

On several occasions I dropped that I am engaged now and that I have all my weekends busy..etc but she keeps on pushing as if I said nothing
What actual proof do you have, other than he said she said shenanigans?

How about stop being a f@gg0t and go balls deep? (Super Ded fkn Srs)
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If it's just work, I'd ignore her. What I mean is like if she's just doing it at work and not following you home and chit

I think going to hr is a risk cause if she just says she wasn't and you're being weird.. maybe that cancels each other out? Or maybe now you get chit. He said vs. She said

Unless you have good physical proof, I think going to hr just might make your life harder

Maybe if you were buddies with the hr person and said it under your breath in a non official way
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Originally Posted By Lexira⏩
To home together. srs tag

She also desperately "always seem to drop something" and bends over right in front of my face (and no its not an accedient she keep dropping sh!t whenever I am around) and do things to grab my attention srs.

I have no intention to press forward with this lady but she keeps pushing at every shot she gets. Walking away is no longer working and I have already blocked her on social media, report to HR?

What the fook am I going to tell HR?? This lady is molesting me this will be awkward.... I have a strict no sh!tting where I eat policy so I cannot keep letting this slide

srs
I loe e.
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Do what Kramer did on Seinfeld with the nun, douse yourself in garlic, or just a eat piece and then talk to her
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Originally Posted By Destor⏩
I think the first step would be communicating with the person directly rather than going to HR, like mentioning that discussing sex isn't appropriate without being too standoffish about it
That would be the adult thing to do.
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