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07-14-2023, 03:05 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
Even if you (in general) have to lie about #1, 2, 4, and 5, then isn't it easier to just pay for escorts? It is not going to work out anyways with all these lies. Too much work. Lol.Nah, bro. You have to text and sometimes call/facetime to get a feel if she's worth your time.
1. Accurate
2. Accurate
4. Accurate, but you can also say that you've been on some dates and haven't been able to find what you are looking for yet.
5. Accurate
If you have to lie about the rest, you need to keep working on yourself. You complain about women not having any interests, plans, or goals (AKA borring) and you shouldn't have to lie about yours. It should be real.
Don't pretend to be the man you think she wants you to be, BE the man.
1. Accurate
2. Accurate
4. Accurate, but you can also say that you've been on some dates and haven't been able to find what you are looking for yet.
5. Accurate
If you have to lie about the rest, you need to keep working on yourself. You complain about women not having any interests, plans, or goals (AKA borring) and you shouldn't have to lie about yours. It should be real.
Don't pretend to be the man you think she wants you to be, BE the man.
07-14-2023, 04:20 PM
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Originally Posted By M3lony⏩
I'm the same way srsye it sucks. I mean, Im not spending any money on those girls and I dont waste my time in a bar. But at the same it its just not really satisfying banging some average sloot.
Had one girl this year who had a pretty face, makes all the difference when you look in her eyes doing missionary. Quality vs Quantity I guess.
Had one girl this year who had a pretty face, makes all the difference when you look in her eyes doing missionary. Quality vs Quantity I guess.
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07-14-2023, 04:23 PM
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Originally Posted By SwimLiftRunGrl⏩
No, men have to lie about experience if they have none. It's the only way they will get it.Even if you (in general) have to lie about #1, 2, 4, and 5, then isn't it easier to just pay for escorts? It is not going to work out anyways with all these lies. Too much work. Lol.
I didn't really even start dating until I was 21, so I lied about my experience. But I had also worked on being the man women wanted, so it all aligned. Thus, I got the experience I needed and then no longer had to lie.
Women don't date guys with no experience. But you should only have to lie about experience, nothing else.
It's completely different for women. It's extremely easy for them to get experience and men don't care if they don't have any experience.
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07-14-2023, 11:14 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
That sucks bro? Why do women care so much about that stuff?? Like they can be completely into you and then they hear you never had a gf before and they get instanted weirded out and confused. It's crazy. I don't see why it matters :/No, men have to lie about experience if they have none. It's the only way they will get it.
I didn't really even start dating until I was 21, so I lied about my experience. But I had also worked on being the man women wanted, so it all aligned. Thus, I got the experience I needed and then no longer had to lie.
Women don't date guys with no experience. But you should only have to lie about experience, nothing else.
It's completely different for women. It's extremely easy for them to get experience and men don't care if they don't have any experience.
I didn't really even start dating until I was 21, so I lied about my experience. But I had also worked on being the man women wanted, so it all aligned. Thus, I got the experience I needed and then no longer had to lie.
Women don't date guys with no experience. But you should only have to lie about experience, nothing else.
It's completely different for women. It's extremely easy for them to get experience and men don't care if they don't have any experience.
07-14-2023, 11:17 PM
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07-14-2023, 11:18 PM
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Originally Posted By M3lony⏩
I don't think it's just online. Men have to date down in general. Online is much worse though. In person you can game a girl over time at least.Anyone else noticed that you have to date down in online dating as a man?
I had my fair share of hookups from tinder etc. this year but most of these chicks were just complete average looking girls. Most of them came straight over to my appartement as a first date.
But I feel like, unless you are chad you gonna have a hard time getting dates with pretty girls.
I dont remember the last time I actually was really physically attracted to an online date.
Really makes me think to go out again and approach in real life.
I had my fair share of hookups from tinder etc. this year but most of these chicks were just complete average looking girls. Most of them came straight over to my appartement as a first date.
But I feel like, unless you are chad you gonna have a hard time getting dates with pretty girls.
I dont remember the last time I actually was really physically attracted to an online date.
Really makes me think to go out again and approach in real life.
07-14-2023, 11:20 PM
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I'm pretty sure my side piece wants to date me. She's been really flirty since her bf broke up with her but I find her too boring lol. I'm in love with my main piece but she won't date me so IDK if I should cave in and date side girl. I'm getting kinda old. :/
07-14-2023, 11:22 PM
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Oh and I have hobbies. Just nothign women would understand. They only care about social hobbies basically. They always ask about your friends when I don't hang out with people. I just misc, work, gym, and whoremax. And the thing is, I enjoy these things and don't feel like I'm missing out by not having guy friends or "real" hobbies. I don't watch TV or care about traveling or hanging out with jesters. Sorry ladies.
07-14-2023, 11:25 PM
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07-15-2023, 12:07 AM
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
dating apps are not worth the effort unless you can get matches/dates easilyAnd I stopped using dating apps. Just feels too beta.
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07-15-2023, 08:56 AM
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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩
I can if I pay for hinge but the girls always have social problems and can't hold a conversation. Would hate to be the beta geek that wifes them up.dating apps are not worth the effort unless you can get matches/dates easily
07-15-2023, 09:02 AM
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im at the point where a woman must be charming for me to date her. Just sitting there passenger princess style as a hole to stick my dick in isn't enough. It's boring. I want to feel alive. Not gonna entertain these bottom feeders.
07-15-2023, 09:04 AM
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escorts are great. they do everything right. Why can literaly whores do it but not these hinge girls? I legit hate these shy hinge girls who just want a man to carry them srs. This is how women should be acting.
Be ‘vulnerable’ with him. It’ll make him think you see him as more than a client.
Be invested in his life. Ask questions and be interested in what’s going on with him.
Have a very small simple disagreement about your feelings. Be soft and sad then make him do something minute like ‘buy you ice cream’ or ‘buy you flowers’ to make up for it. That sets a buy-me-things-when-we-disagree precedent that you absolutely want.
Act and talk like you expect to be the most important woman in his life.
Don’t stop being sassy because he has to feel like he’s chasing you.
Teach him your love languages and make jokes about how you guys would look great together.
Learn the power of suggestive persuasion and whenever he does or buys anything for you be excessively appreciative.
Be very hot and lukewarm(not cold) and if he notices tell him you’re trying not to overwhelm him and blur the lines. If he doesn’t notice, gaslight him by telling him HE is being hot and cold with you (9 times out of 10 even if he isn’t, he’ll apologize for it and try to be more about you to compensate for this)
I can go all night. The tricks are endless but make sure you’re using them on the right person and never on multiple people at once because its draining. It does take time and energy and you don’t want to invest in a trash person.
With that, I’ll advise that you don’t try to induce that relationship because if he wanted to he will but if you want to I’ll still help and give you all the advice needed to lasso the man
1). Identify what’s lacking in his life 2). Become the sole source of validation and this sensation 3). Create emotional dependency and Pavlovian condition him with intermittent positive reinforcement 4). Cultivate a false sense of intimacy and security that feels authentic 5). Make falling in love seem exciting and invigorating 6). New sexual horizons and experiences/sensations that can only be associated with you
Done properly it usually takes a man ~6 weeks to profess his love.
Wishing you all the best
Be ‘vulnerable’ with him. It’ll make him think you see him as more than a client.
Be invested in his life. Ask questions and be interested in what’s going on with him.
Have a very small simple disagreement about your feelings. Be soft and sad then make him do something minute like ‘buy you ice cream’ or ‘buy you flowers’ to make up for it. That sets a buy-me-things-when-we-disagree precedent that you absolutely want.
Act and talk like you expect to be the most important woman in his life.
Don’t stop being sassy because he has to feel like he’s chasing you.
Teach him your love languages and make jokes about how you guys would look great together.
Learn the power of suggestive persuasion and whenever he does or buys anything for you be excessively appreciative.
Be very hot and lukewarm(not cold) and if he notices tell him you’re trying not to overwhelm him and blur the lines. If he doesn’t notice, gaslight him by telling him HE is being hot and cold with you (9 times out of 10 even if he isn’t, he’ll apologize for it and try to be more about you to compensate for this)
I can go all night. The tricks are endless but make sure you’re using them on the right person and never on multiple people at once because its draining. It does take time and energy and you don’t want to invest in a trash person.
With that, I’ll advise that you don’t try to induce that relationship because if he wanted to he will but if you want to I’ll still help and give you all the advice needed to lasso the man
1). Identify what’s lacking in his life 2). Become the sole source of validation and this sensation 3). Create emotional dependency and Pavlovian condition him with intermittent positive reinforcement 4). Cultivate a false sense of intimacy and security that feels authentic 5). Make falling in love seem exciting and invigorating 6). New sexual horizons and experiences/sensations that can only be associated with you
Done properly it usually takes a man ~6 weeks to profess his love.
Wishing you all the best
07-15-2023, 10:11 AM
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
im at the point where a woman must be charming for me to date her.
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07-15-2023, 10:26 AM
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07-15-2023, 10:46 AM
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
Why are you assuming that me posting your profile wasn't a compliment?Lol aren't you like 40 and never had a gf outside of short term tinder whores who forget to take their birth control??
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07-15-2023, 10:56 AM
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07-16-2023, 11:23 PM
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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩
Dating apps take time to work.dating apps are not worth the effort unless you can get matches/dates easily
Unless you're shadowbannned like I am.
I pull cute girls on hinge (my league). But struggle finding patience for the small talk.
tinder/bumble i dont get jack chit. I'm CLEARLY shadowbanned.
tl;dr all you need is hinge and patience.
also if I girl can't meet within 48 hrs theres a 99% chance you're never meeting srs.
Look, i know i don't really know you and all, and i know you probably hear this like everyday, but your just so perfect to me. The few hours we talked were really great even if the convo was stale, your really pretty and chill, and your country thats just perfect :'D i really dont know how to explain it, but i think i have feelings for you somehow. i never felt like this with someone i just met, but i felt the need to get it off my chest. sorry for being all weird just idk how to explain it D:
07-17-2023, 03:28 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
I agree with you that women has it easier when it comes to dating. I misinterpret the post as in lie as much as you can in order to get laid. If that is the case, then paying an escort is easier.No, men have to lie about experience if they have none. It's the only way they will get it.
I didn't really even start dating until I was 21, so I lied about my experience. But I had also worked on being the man women wanted, so it all aligned. Thus, I got the experience I needed and then no longer had to lie.
Women don't date guys with no experience. But you should only have to lie about experience, nothing else.
It's completely different for women. It's extremely easy for them to get experience and men don't care if they don't have any experience.
I didn't really even start dating until I was 21, so I lied about my experience. But I had also worked on being the man women wanted, so it all aligned. Thus, I got the experience I needed and then no longer had to lie.
Women don't date guys with no experience. But you should only have to lie about experience, nothing else.
It's completely different for women. It's extremely easy for them to get experience and men don't care if they don't have any experience.
Sometimes I forget that me and the people I know live in a different world than the people on this forum. Lol. If my short, nerdy Asian nephews can get nerdy Asian girlfriends without experiences, then anyone can.
Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Lol.
07-17-2023, 10:09 PM
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Originally Posted By SwimLiftRunGrl⏩
Are you asian? let's date.I agree with you that women has it easier when it comes to dating. I misinterpret the post as in lie as much as you can in order to get laid. If that is the case, then paying an escort is easier.
Sometimes I forget that me and the people I know live in a different world than the people on this forum. Lol. If my short, nerdy Asian nephews can get nerdy Asian girlfriends without experiences, then anyone can.
Lol.
Sometimes I forget that me and the people I know live in a different world than the people on this forum. Lol. If my short, nerdy Asian nephews can get nerdy Asian girlfriends without experiences, then anyone can.
Lol.
07-18-2023, 12:03 PM
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Originally Posted By SwimLiftRunGrl⏩
Yeah, no one was talking about how to get laid.I agree with you that women has it easier when it comes to dating. I misinterpret the post as in lie as much as you can in order to get laid. If that is the case, then paying an escort is easier.
Sometimes I forget that me and the people I know live in a different world than the people on this forum. Lol. If my short, nerdy Asian nephews can get nerdy Asian girlfriends without experiences, then anyone can.
Lol.
Sometimes I forget that me and the people I know live in a different world than the people on this forum. Lol. If my short, nerdy Asian nephews can get nerdy Asian girlfriends without experiences, then anyone can.
Lol.
Sounds like something is on your mind. :P
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07-18-2023, 07:05 PM
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07-25-2023, 01:14 PM
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07-30-2023, 11:29 PM
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That’s all any of us can do. If you still have it in you to keep going, then I really hope you guys find some happiness. I’ll be cheering on the side
That’s all any of us can do. If you still have it in you to keep going, then I really hope you guys find some happiness. I’ll be cheering on the side
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08-08-2023, 02:37 PM
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Sup brahs. It's ya boy coming at ya with another tale. This one's a bit boring, but just decided to share.
So I went on a date with this chick and here's how it went:
- I got a fresh cut and made sure to dress well (could tell other women were checking me out)
- when she first saw me I could tell she got really nervous
- was walking next to me with her arms crossed pretty much the whole time and was barely looking at me
- honestly that made me feel a bit nervous too and I took it as a sign of low interest from her
- had a few awkward silence moments
- it was 90% me asking her questions versus her asking me just 1 or 2
- at one point I wanted to ask her "don't you wanna know anything about the guy you're going out with, lol ?"
- I started to get tired of being the one keeping the convo going and proposed we go shoot some pool, since it could break the ice a bit and she agreed
- was a bit awkward at first but she kind of relaxed near the end
- no physical touch during the whole time, just some longer eye contact here and there, but I could tell she was still kind of nervous
- we decide to leave and at that point I pretty much wrote it off as "on to the next one"
- we say goodbye to each other and I just gave her the good 'ol handshake, because she was distant the whole time and gave me absolutely no signs
- she pauses and gives me the eye expecting a kiss
- I was like wtf as it caught me off guard and just went on my way
I had a semi-good time and I don't really care, but I'm just a bit shocked how she would be expecting a kiss after being super distant this whole time, lol.
Hey, maybe it's me as I'm not the best conversationalist, but this chit is getting tiring. Most girls in my experience just wait for you to initiate the convo and keep it going. Then once you run out of questions, instead of them asking stuff about you it just gets awkwardly silent.
I personally take that as them not being interested, but in the end they expect a kiss? What? Are they all really that self centered or it's just the girls on dating apps are mostly damaged goods, lol
So I went on a date with this chick and here's how it went:
- I got a fresh cut and made sure to dress well (could tell other women were checking me out)
- when she first saw me I could tell she got really nervous
- was walking next to me with her arms crossed pretty much the whole time and was barely looking at me
- honestly that made me feel a bit nervous too and I took it as a sign of low interest from her
- had a few awkward silence moments
- it was 90% me asking her questions versus her asking me just 1 or 2
- at one point I wanted to ask her "don't you wanna know anything about the guy you're going out with, lol ?"
- I started to get tired of being the one keeping the convo going and proposed we go shoot some pool, since it could break the ice a bit and she agreed
- was a bit awkward at first but she kind of relaxed near the end
- no physical touch during the whole time, just some longer eye contact here and there, but I could tell she was still kind of nervous
- we decide to leave and at that point I pretty much wrote it off as "on to the next one"
- we say goodbye to each other and I just gave her the good 'ol handshake, because she was distant the whole time and gave me absolutely no signs
- she pauses and gives me the eye expecting a kiss
- I was like wtf as it caught me off guard and just went on my way
I had a semi-good time and I don't really care, but I'm just a bit shocked how she would be expecting a kiss after being super distant this whole time, lol.
Hey, maybe it's me as I'm not the best conversationalist, but this chit is getting tiring. Most girls in my experience just wait for you to initiate the convo and keep it going. Then once you run out of questions, instead of them asking stuff about you it just gets awkwardly silent.
I personally take that as them not being interested, but in the end they expect a kiss? What? Are they all really that self centered or it's just the girls on dating apps are mostly damaged goods, lol
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08-08-2023, 02:57 PM
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Originally Posted By GYMPsycho⏩
1. Initiate physical contact asap. A hug hello etc.Sup brahs. It's ya boy coming at ya with another tale. This one's a bit boring, but just decided to share.
So I went on a date with this chick and here's how it went:
- I got a fresh cut and made sure to dress well (could tell other women were checking me out)
- when she first saw me I could tell she got really nervous
- was walking next to me with her arms crossed pretty much the whole time and was barely looking at me
- honestly that made me feel a bit nervous too and I took it as a sign of low interest from her
- had a few awkward silence moments
- it was 90% me asking her questions versus her asking me just 1 or 2
- at one point I wanted to ask her "don't you wanna know anything about the guy you're going out with, lol ?"
- I started to get tired of being the one keeping the convo going and proposed we go shoot some pool, since it could break the ice a bit and she agreed
- was a bit awkward at first but she kind of relaxed near the end
- no physical touch during the whole time, just some longer eye contact here and there, but I could tell she was still kind of nervous
- we decide to leave and at that point I pretty much wrote it off as "on to the next one"
- we say goodbye to each other and I just gave her the good 'ol handshake, because she was distant the whole time and gave me absolutely no signs
- she pauses and gives me the eye expecting a kiss
- I was like wtf as it caught me off guard and just went on my way
I had a semi-good time and I don't really care, but I'm just a bit shocked how she would be expecting a kiss after being super distant this whole time, lol.
Hey, maybe it's me as I'm not the best conversationalist, but this chit is getting tiring. Most girls in my experience just wait for you to initiate the convo and keep it going. Then once you run out of questions, instead of them asking stuff about you it just gets awkwardly silent.
I personally take that as them not being interested, but in the end they expect a kiss? What? Are they all really that self centered or it's just the girls on dating apps are mostly damaged goods, lol
So I went on a date with this chick and here's how it went:
- I got a fresh cut and made sure to dress well (could tell other women were checking me out)
- when she first saw me I could tell she got really nervous
- was walking next to me with her arms crossed pretty much the whole time and was barely looking at me
- honestly that made me feel a bit nervous too and I took it as a sign of low interest from her
- had a few awkward silence moments
- it was 90% me asking her questions versus her asking me just 1 or 2
- at one point I wanted to ask her "don't you wanna know anything about the guy you're going out with, lol ?"
- I started to get tired of being the one keeping the convo going and proposed we go shoot some pool, since it could break the ice a bit and she agreed
- was a bit awkward at first but she kind of relaxed near the end
- no physical touch during the whole time, just some longer eye contact here and there, but I could tell she was still kind of nervous
- we decide to leave and at that point I pretty much wrote it off as "on to the next one"
- we say goodbye to each other and I just gave her the good 'ol handshake, because she was distant the whole time and gave me absolutely no signs
- she pauses and gives me the eye expecting a kiss
- I was like wtf as it caught me off guard and just went on my way
I had a semi-good time and I don't really care, but I'm just a bit shocked how she would be expecting a kiss after being super distant this whole time, lol.
Hey, maybe it's me as I'm not the best conversationalist, but this chit is getting tiring. Most girls in my experience just wait for you to initiate the convo and keep it going. Then once you run out of questions, instead of them asking stuff about you it just gets awkwardly silent.
I personally take that as them not being interested, but in the end they expect a kiss? What? Are they all really that self centered or it's just the girls on dating apps are mostly damaged goods, lol
2. When her arms were crossed and she seemed nervous, you should have asked her to take your hand and lead her for a bit, telling her to relax.
3. When conversing, ask her the questions that you want her to ask you, that way when she answers you can then tell her a story of your experiences and make a connection. Again, don't rely on her.
4. Never write off the date. You proceed to plan and should always be looking for an opening to initiate kino and flirt.
5. What made it awkward was you looking for signs. You should dictate what happens, don't wait for her. Be assertive.
If you do these things, you won't be waiting for a kiss at the end of your date, you'll be kissing her halfway through the date and making out at the end of the date.
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08-08-2023, 03:07 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
Solid response, repped!1. Initiate physical contact asap. A hug hello etc.
2. When her arms were crossed and she seemed nervous, you should have asked her to take your hand and lead her for a bit, telling her to relax.
3. When conversing, ask her the questions that you want her to ask you, that way when she answers, you can tell her a story of your experiences and make a connection.
4. Never write off the date. You proceed to plan and should always be looking for an opening to initiate kino and flirt.
5. What made it awkward was you looking for signs. You should dictate what happens, don't wait for her. Be assertive.
If you do these things, you won't be waiting for a kiss at the end of your date, you'll be kissing her halfway through the date and making out at the end of the date.
2. When her arms were crossed and she seemed nervous, you should have asked her to take your hand and lead her for a bit, telling her to relax.
3. When conversing, ask her the questions that you want her to ask you, that way when she answers, you can tell her a story of your experiences and make a connection.
4. Never write off the date. You proceed to plan and should always be looking for an opening to initiate kino and flirt.
5. What made it awkward was you looking for signs. You should dictate what happens, don't wait for her. Be assertive.
If you do these things, you won't be waiting for a kiss at the end of your date, you'll be kissing her halfway through the date and making out at the end of the date.
Here's my take:
1. Agreed
2. Yeah, but we just met - don't you think it's a bit strange to ask her to hold my hand, lol?
3. Yep, exactly what I was doing. Asking her stuff I want her to ask me and follow up with my own view/answer. But at some point I just got tired, as she was barely asking anything about me.
4. Yeah, you're probably right, but I already lost interest at that point.
5. True - but we need to be comfortable around each other first in order for me to make a move.
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08-08-2023, 03:15 PM
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Originally Posted By GYMPsycho⏩
Sorry, you don't verbally ask. Never ask for permission with a woman. If you go too far, she will tell you.Solid response, repped!
Here's my take:
1. Agreed
2. Yeah, but we just met - don't you think it's a bit strange to ask her to hold my hand, lol?
3. Yep, exactly what I was doing. Asking her stuff I want her to ask me and follow up with my own view/answer. But at some point I just got tired, as she was barely asking anything about me.
4. Yeah, you're probably right, but I already lost interest at that point.
5. True - but we need to be comfortable around each other first in order for me to make a move.
Here's my take:
1. Agreed
2. Yeah, but we just met - don't you think it's a bit strange to ask her to hold my hand, lol?
3. Yep, exactly what I was doing. Asking her stuff I want her to ask me and follow up with my own view/answer. But at some point I just got tired, as she was barely asking anything about me.
4. Yeah, you're probably right, but I already lost interest at that point.
5. True - but we need to be comfortable around each other first in order for me to make a move.
If you offer her your hand with confidence. She will take it, trust me.
I've never had a woman refuse to take my hand. You don't hold it for long, you just show her that you are not afraid to take control and you don't want her to be nervous, you want her to feel safe. If she feels safe the date will flow much better.
Another pro-tip: Never sit across from your date. Sit next to her.
Forever alone? Attraction and keeping the girl chasing you - http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=131498033
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08-25-2023, 12:03 AM
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Sup brahs. Met a girl I thought was really high quality of Hinge Tuesday evening. She had just got off work and was in work clothes, we just had a beer at a cool brewery and talked for about 45 min to an hour. This is after we had some good texts back and forth for a few days sporadically.
I had the flu earlier this month and I have a lingering cough. I was coughing a bit too much on the date, couldn’t really control it and she definitely noticed. Overall we had a decent conversation, hit some good topics, had her laughing a few times, kept it positive. She was still in work clothes and we didn’t get very close or flirty. Also I sat across from her on a bench, which I know better, I should have sat next to her. I was only looking at her but there were people behind me, maybe nbd.
She seemed to like me a bit but I know I came off a bit nervous with the cough. She did make reference to my age, I’m 36 and 37 in a few months, (she’s 32) she said something like wow you’re almost 37, maybe I’m overreacting but I feel ****ty about it that I’m getting older. I felt like it was an unnecessary dig, I don’t know. I’m feeling a bit insecure I think, because sht, I didn’t expect to have these issues dating at this stage. Oh well, I’m trying to get positive and just keep working on it. I sometimes find it hard to be smooth on the first date especially with nerves kicking in. When I relax later on my game is better but at times it’s too late.
We ended the date, it was late and we both had work early. Just a hug and she did mention we should do something again and I agreed. I texted her to make sure she got home and said I had fun, she said she did too. So I waited until today to text..(about 1.5 days), texted her around lunch today and said good luck with her move (she’s moving this weekend to new apartment) and suggested a dinner date when she’s settled in. She didn’t reply all day, I know she works long hours but obviously I feel like she’s not interested now.
I guess I’m posting just to add a story and get any feedback. And bc it feels bad man. Overall She was the most high quality girl I’ve seen in a bit. Hard working, said good things about her values (I know talk is cheap but I really liked what she said) and she’s not an attention whore or anything. She’s not like “whoa” hot but I find her very cute, doesn’t wear barely any makeup which I actually love. Checks many boxes I’m looking for. I feel rejected and am wondering if she didn’t like my personality or that I came off a bit nervous. Anyways, I got some new meds for my cough issue but I doubt I’ll see her again. I know she’s really busy working long hours at a very legit job, but obviously she’d text quicker if interested.
I had the flu earlier this month and I have a lingering cough. I was coughing a bit too much on the date, couldn’t really control it and she definitely noticed. Overall we had a decent conversation, hit some good topics, had her laughing a few times, kept it positive. She was still in work clothes and we didn’t get very close or flirty. Also I sat across from her on a bench, which I know better, I should have sat next to her. I was only looking at her but there were people behind me, maybe nbd.
She seemed to like me a bit but I know I came off a bit nervous with the cough. She did make reference to my age, I’m 36 and 37 in a few months, (she’s 32) she said something like wow you’re almost 37, maybe I’m overreacting but I feel ****ty about it that I’m getting older. I felt like it was an unnecessary dig, I don’t know. I’m feeling a bit insecure I think, because sht, I didn’t expect to have these issues dating at this stage. Oh well, I’m trying to get positive and just keep working on it. I sometimes find it hard to be smooth on the first date especially with nerves kicking in. When I relax later on my game is better but at times it’s too late.
We ended the date, it was late and we both had work early. Just a hug and she did mention we should do something again and I agreed. I texted her to make sure she got home and said I had fun, she said she did too. So I waited until today to text..(about 1.5 days), texted her around lunch today and said good luck with her move (she’s moving this weekend to new apartment) and suggested a dinner date when she’s settled in. She didn’t reply all day, I know she works long hours but obviously I feel like she’s not interested now.
I guess I’m posting just to add a story and get any feedback. And bc it feels bad man. Overall She was the most high quality girl I’ve seen in a bit. Hard working, said good things about her values (I know talk is cheap but I really liked what she said) and she’s not an attention whore or anything. She’s not like “whoa” hot but I find her very cute, doesn’t wear barely any makeup which I actually love. Checks many boxes I’m looking for. I feel rejected and am wondering if she didn’t like my personality or that I came off a bit nervous. Anyways, I got some new meds for my cough issue but I doubt I’ll see her again. I know she’s really busy working long hours at a very legit job, but obviously she’d text quicker if interested.
08-25-2023, 01:46 AM
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Originally Posted By InsanePain11⏩
lol @ waiting 1.5 days to text herSup brahs. Met a girl I thought was really high quality of Hinge Tuesday evening. She had just got off work and was in work clothes, we just had a beer at a cool brewery and talked for about 45 min to an hour. This is after we had some good texts back and forth for a few days sporadically.
I had the flu earlier this month and I have a lingering cough. I was coughing a bit too much on the date, couldn’t really control it and she definitely noticed. Overall we had a decent conversation, hit some good topics, had her laughing a few times, kept it positive. She was still in work clothes and we didn’t get very close or flirty. Also I sat across from her on a bench, which I know better, I should have sat next to her. I was only looking at her but there were people behind me, maybe nbd.
She seemed to like me a bit but I know I came off a bit nervous with the cough. She did make reference to my age, I’m 36 and 37 in a few months, (she’s 32) she said something like wow you’re almost 37, maybe I’m overreacting but I feel ****ty about it that I’m getting older. I felt like it was an unnecessary dig, I don’t know. I’m feeling a bit insecure I think, because sht, I didn’t expect to have these issues dating at this stage. Oh well, I’m trying to get positive and just keep working on it. I sometimes find it hard to be smooth on the first date especially with nerves kicking in. When I relax later on my game is better but at times it’s too late.
We ended the date, it was late and we both had work early. Just a hug and she did mention we should do something again and I agreed. I texted her to make sure she got home and said I had fun, she said she did too. So I waited until today to text..(about 1.5 days), texted her around lunch today and said good luck with her move (she’s moving this weekend to new apartment) and suggested a dinner date when she’s settled in. She didn’t reply all day, I know she works long hours but obviously I feel like she’s not interested now.
I guess I’m posting just to add a story and get any feedback. And bc it feels bad man. Overall She was the most high quality girl I’ve seen in a bit. Hard working, said good things about her values (I know talk is cheap but I really liked what she said) and she’s not an attention whore or anything. She’s not like “whoa” hot but I find her very cute, doesn’t wear barely any makeup which I actually love. Checks many boxes I’m looking for. I feel rejected and am wondering if she didn’t like my personality or that I came off a bit nervous. Anyways, I got some new meds for my cough issue but I doubt I’ll see her again. I know she’s really busy working long hours at a very legit job, but obviously she’d text quicker if interested.
I had the flu earlier this month and I have a lingering cough. I was coughing a bit too much on the date, couldn’t really control it and she definitely noticed. Overall we had a decent conversation, hit some good topics, had her laughing a few times, kept it positive. She was still in work clothes and we didn’t get very close or flirty. Also I sat across from her on a bench, which I know better, I should have sat next to her. I was only looking at her but there were people behind me, maybe nbd.
She seemed to like me a bit but I know I came off a bit nervous with the cough. She did make reference to my age, I’m 36 and 37 in a few months, (she’s 32) she said something like wow you’re almost 37, maybe I’m overreacting but I feel ****ty about it that I’m getting older. I felt like it was an unnecessary dig, I don’t know. I’m feeling a bit insecure I think, because sht, I didn’t expect to have these issues dating at this stage. Oh well, I’m trying to get positive and just keep working on it. I sometimes find it hard to be smooth on the first date especially with nerves kicking in. When I relax later on my game is better but at times it’s too late.
We ended the date, it was late and we both had work early. Just a hug and she did mention we should do something again and I agreed. I texted her to make sure she got home and said I had fun, she said she did too. So I waited until today to text..(about 1.5 days), texted her around lunch today and said good luck with her move (she’s moving this weekend to new apartment) and suggested a dinner date when she’s settled in. She didn’t reply all day, I know she works long hours but obviously I feel like she’s not interested now.
I guess I’m posting just to add a story and get any feedback. And bc it feels bad man. Overall She was the most high quality girl I’ve seen in a bit. Hard working, said good things about her values (I know talk is cheap but I really liked what she said) and she’s not an attention whore or anything. She’s not like “whoa” hot but I find her very cute, doesn’t wear barely any makeup which I actually love. Checks many boxes I’m looking for. I feel rejected and am wondering if she didn’t like my personality or that I came off a bit nervous. Anyways, I got some new meds for my cough issue but I doubt I’ll see her again. I know she’s really busy working long hours at a very legit job, but obviously she’d text quicker if interested.
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