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post 1686558173 07-15-2023, 11:29 AM
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Being married in a big city must SUCK.

Been here in Chicago for 5 days now. The amount of 9/10 women walking around has been off the charts. Can literally stand on virtually any street corner for 5 minutes and see 10+ women walking by that would be definite bangs or would wife. Having seen all these good looking women really made me think to myself how could any one man tie himself to one chick for the rest of his life, especially if living in a big international city. Can't marry them all but damn, I'd try to hold out as long as I could and enjoy all the different flavors first.

Living in a smaller city or on the outskirts and getting married would be easier and more understandable. But when you go out and you constantly run into top tier women (by American standards) it would be SO hard not to eye fuk or try getting a number. Alas, cest la vie.
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post 1686558253 07-15-2023, 11:31 AM
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Originally Posted By roosky11⏩
Been here in Chicago for 5 days now. The amount of 9/10 women walking around has been off the charts. Can literally stand on virtually any street corner for 5 minutes and see 10+ women walking by that would be definite bangs or would wife. Having seen all these good looking women really made me think to myself how could any one man tie himself to one chick for the rest of his life, especially if living in a big international city. Can't marry them all but damn, I'd try to hold out as long as I could and enjoy all the different flavors first.

Living in a smaller city or on the outskirts and getting married would be easier and more understandable. But when you go out and you constantly run into top tier women (by American standards) it would be SO hard not to eye fuk or try getting a number. Alas, cest la vie.
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post 1686558303 07-15-2023, 11:32 AM
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Originally Posted By roosky11⏩
cest la vie.
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post 1686558363 07-15-2023, 11:32 AM
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guessing you are in downtown chicago
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post 1686558403 07-15-2023, 11:33 AM
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I'm surprised you haven't been shot or robbed yet....
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post 1686558443 07-15-2023, 11:33 AM
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What. Chicago has good women but not that many lmao.
post 1686558463 07-15-2023, 11:34 AM
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downtown chicago has incredible ratios. wood visit again
post 1686558703 07-15-2023, 11:37 AM
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lol bro Chicago is acually a city where the average guy is hotter than the average girl (no homo). Go to LA, NYC, or the south (charlotte, atlanta, nashville) if you want true honeys on every corner.

I lived in Chicago for a few years and its solid though. Basically an extension of college, and attractive chicks are a dime a dozen. You can extend your college lifestyle of bars and hookups there until basically your early 30s.

Definitely agree the temptation would be too strong to stay there once married
post 1686558773 07-15-2023, 11:39 AM
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking⏩
where you at? I'll come down for a beer
Not sure if I'll go out before I leave on Monday. I had to hit 3 bars on Thursday before I found a decent place. I tried Mirusaaki - nope. O'Toole's - nope. Spybar was closed. Tried The Underground - nope. Ended up a Celeste which turned out alright.
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post 1686558833 07-15-2023, 11:40 AM
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Originally Posted By N0stradamus⏩
I'm surprised you haven't been shot or robbed yet....
That's all south side after the split. The city itself is fine.
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post 1686558923 07-15-2023, 11:42 AM
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Originally Posted By Crazy_Desi⏩
What. Chicago has good women but not that many lmao.
You must of been in the wrong area my friend. Everytime I go out while waiting for a cab/uber in from of my hotel I'm counting 10+ smash/marry chicks walking by while I wait. Face/teds are #1 factors for me and so far it's been pretty high.
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post 1686559193 07-15-2023, 11:46 AM
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Originally Posted By meanstringbean⏩
lol bro Chicago is acually a city where the average guy is hotter than the average girl (no homo). Go to LA, NYC, or the south (charlotte, atlanta, nashville) if you want true honeys on every corner.

I lived in Chicago for a few years and its solid though. Basically an extension of college, and attractive chicks are a dime a dozen. You can extend your college lifestyle of bars and hookups there until basically your early 30s.

Definitely agree the temptation would be too strong to stay there once married
Biggest difference between NYC/Chicago is that here you don't need to be uber rich. NYC you need the $$ to go with the looks/lifestyle. Here it seems most of the hotties are with your average guy who at least has a job/car/isn't broke. Only way you're seeing top dimes in NYC is if you're emptying your bank account every night or you have a sustainable ability to keep within high end circles. The other side of the fence for hotties in NYC is that they're either already baby mommas to dropout ghetto guys or they've somehow managed to climb out but still have that deep rooted hood mentality. They're sexy AF but once they open their mouth - air out of a balloon.
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post 1686559233 07-15-2023, 11:46 AM
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Summertime chi is GOAT.

LOL @ the flyover neckbeards "but but yOU HAveNt BeEn ShOT?!?"



Cubs have a day game today... just lol if you aren't down in Wrigley hitting up the bars for the easiest hookup since college.
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post 1686559493 07-15-2023, 11:50 AM
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Originally Posted By N0stradamus⏩
I'm surprised you haven't been shot or robbed yet....
That's all south side. Chicago is split into 2 areas. The city and Englewood. Looking at the map, anything south of I-55 is Englewood/South Chicago and north of that is the city. All of the stuff you hear about is coming from I-55 south or way out west or way out north towards Milwaukee. The city itself, haven't had any problems whatsoever except for a few homeless stuff but that's typical.
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post 1686559593 07-15-2023, 11:52 AM
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Originally Posted By HayZues
Summertime chi is GOAT.

LOL @ the flyover neckbeards "but but yOU HAveNt BeEn ShOT?!?"



Cubs have a day game today... just lol if you aren't down in Wrigley hitting up the bars for the easiest hookup since college.
Game kicks off in under 30. What do?
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post 1686559813 07-15-2023, 11:56 AM
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Originally Posted By roosky11⏩
Biggest difference between NYC/Chicago is that here you don't need to be uber rich. NYC you need the $$ to go with the looks/lifestyle. Here it seems most of the hotties are with your average guy who at least has a job/car/isn't broke. Only way you're seeing top dimes in NYC is if you're emptying your bank account every night or you have a sustainable ability to keep within high end circles. The other side of the fence for hotties in NYC is that they're either already baby mommas to dropout ghetto guys or they've somehow managed to climb out but still have that deep rooted hood mentality. They're sexy AF but once they open their mouth - air out of a balloon.
Yea this is pretty spot on. The cultures are pretty different.

In the south you don’t even need to be in shape. You can be a fat balding back office manager at some bank and have a 8/10 wife (if you’re cool with her being a stay at home mom airhead). Seriously you can be borderline obese and as long as you were in a frat at an SEC school you’re Golden

Chicago is a bit tougher. You actually need to be fit as a guy, competition is stronger. You also need a decent career (but you don’t need to be rich). The girls you’re going after are big ten alums, wisconsin indiana osu Michigan etc. they are smart and more ambitious but also Midwestern so not completely vapid like the coasts. But you can be pretty average accountant type guy and get attractive girls but you need to be somewhat attractive yourself


Nyc and DC are for materialistic sloots. You can smash in nyc if you are some art bum and play that angle, but a lot of it is who do you work for and how much you make. Absolutely bleak. Don’t think La is much better , there having a six pack is table stakes


All in Chicago is a very good market for guys. That said if you’re a guy in Chicago and like a 7/10 then you can move to an Indy or Columbus and be a 8/10 or 9/10 because the competition is weaker. Big fish small pond type thing

Imo worst dating markets for dudes are SF, and the PNW
post 1686559873 07-15-2023, 11:58 AM
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Originally Posted By HayZues
Summertime chi is GOAT.

LOL @ the flyover neckbeards "but but yOU HAveNt BeEn ShOT?!?"



Cubs have a day game today... just lol if you aren't down in Wrigley hitting up the bars for the easiest hookup since college.
Chicago is arguably top summer city in the country srs every weekend a festival somewhere
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Originally Posted By Mountaineer92⏩
guessing you are in downtown chicago
It's hilarious that girls say money doesn't matter then you drive around Chicago and notice all the hottest girls are in the richest areas.

Never see a 9/10 in the hood.
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in chicago for an october wedding

ill never get to experience summertime chi

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Not speaking to any of them while single is exactly the same experience as not speaking to any of them while married

LOL at fantasizing you'd be banging them if you were single.... okay buddy....
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Originally Posted By HayZues
Summertime chi is GOAT.

LOL @ the flyover neckbeards "but but yOU HAveNt BeEn ShOT?!?"

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Don't worry, it's only a matter of time

I have full faith you'll get to enjoy the true Chicago experience!
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Living in and around big cities sucks. Srs. I don’t like crowds.
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is Downtown a good place to stay for first time tourist? srs
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Originally Posted By roosky11⏩
Game kicks off in under 30. What do?
Uber, or take red line to Wrigley. Literally walk into any of the dozens of bars there and they'll be packed with hbbs.
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Agreed. I'm from a small town. That's why I easily married the hottest waitress I could find srs
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meanwhile, women get all the dicks they want, from men way more attractive than them, and then try to settle down at 28-30... and wonder why they can't find a man. the men at that same age, now with the cars and the houses and money to travel just wanna travel and **** lol.
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this is the first thread I've seen where people aren't chitting all over Chicago for it's crime

and anecdotally every person I've talked to on here and even other places tells me not to live there
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