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Thread: "There is no way to justify dating an 18yo when you are 30"

post 1687831243 08-05-2023, 12:03 PM
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I don't understand why do people care?

18 yr olds sign up to kill.
18 yr olds sign up to do porn.

Why aren't people talking about those things which are actually terrible?
post 1687831653 08-05-2023, 12:12 PM
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Originally Posted By Maestro⏩
by modern standards, its socially questionable.

The rule of thumb is half your age+7 so early 20's would be more appropriate

look at it from a different vantage point. Would you want your 18 year old daughter dating a 30 year old dude? The age difference is pretty huge considering most people's personalities and molded and change the most between the ages of 18-25. Whatever reason shes attracted to you at 18 will change drastically as she goes through her 20's.

Plus there's gap in relative interests. at 18 she's thinking about college and probably studying for her drivers test while you're already saving for retirement and thinking about what ETF's to invest in for your 401k. There's very little for you both to relate to. Essentially, the relationship is destined to fail.
Socially questionable how? You're split by half a generation sure, but you can talk to an 18 yr old just about anything just like another 30 yr old.

What is wrong with your daughter dating a well established 30 yr old man?
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post 1687832343 08-05-2023, 12:33 PM
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post 1687832383 08-05-2023, 12:34 PM
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post 1687832733 08-05-2023, 12:42 PM
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Originally Posted By iabs⏩
That is an accurate statement, that's borderline ped0 behavior, don't care how physically developed she is, that's a kid.
The definition of ped0
Ped- or ped0-, a common prefix with multiple meanings. ****phile, someone who is sexually attracted to prepubescent children.
An 18 yr old can sign up to kill, do porn, and vote. That is 100% adult age
post 1687832853 08-05-2023, 12:45 PM
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post 1687833013 08-05-2023, 12:49 PM
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post 1687833783 08-05-2023, 01:06 PM
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Think about how humanity evolved throughout the ages.

Men survived through physicality or innovation.
Women survived through motherly instincts and had a heavy emphasis on socializing.

Men can throw down. Women can manipulate.

When women complain about being "sex objects" (despite flocking to OnlyFans and trying to pedestalize prostitution and sex work) yet men had to be "labor objects" for the better part of human history, dying in construction or mines or at war. Which is worse? Being fawned after or being shot at?
post 1687834513 08-05-2023, 01:20 PM
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Originally Posted By iabs⏩
That is an accurate statement, that's borderline ped0 behavior, don't care how physically developed she is, that's a kid.
Yet I bet you think it's perfectly acceptable for that same 18 year old to go out and get fukked by other men her own age and get used up by them? And that's somehow better than a longer term thing with an older man?
post 1687834993 08-05-2023, 01:29 PM
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you are a brainwashed npc if you think it's borderline p3do
watchout your comments boyo ↓
post 1687835033 08-05-2023, 01:30 PM
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You sure are based and redpilled Kenny, speaking to SS and treating them as an equal. JFL.
Your username has as much weight as “theirs” TBH. Don’t flatter yourself lol.
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post 1687835513 08-05-2023, 01:41 PM
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To bang is all good, but to actively seek an 18 year old for a LTR is pretty weird, mostly because they're mentally retarded at that age and will be clueless on how to please a man, more interested in going to the club 3x a week.
post 1687835603 08-05-2023, 01:43 PM
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Originally Posted By OzzyDio⏩
In all fairness, if you're a man in your 30's, then literally the only thing you should have in common with a woman who is 18 to say mid-20's-ish is sex. Most women are boring as chit until they are least well into their 20's.
Sex, movies/entertainment, certain hobbies, fitness/gym, mutual hatred of minorities...

There's a lot of things you can have in common with an 18 year old

Just don't talk to her about investing or the economy since her opinions there will be a bit dumber.
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Originally Posted By scudda⏩
Even if i was 70 years old I would literally pay these 18 to 20 year olds than spend a min with some 30 year old hag. Men are attracted to beauty and these young girls will always have glow.

And its only on the internet that you read such stories esp. reddit. There was a time an article about Leonardo was posted and so many people were just saying how gross it was that he is dating some 25 year old model.
Lol reddit is just mad virgin losers. They do it since there is no other way to get rid of the competition other than to try and cancel everyone that isn't them.
post 1687835673 08-05-2023, 01:46 PM
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Tbh, I kind of agree with her here. There’s suck an age gap and I don’t want to be a pussy but…
























…19 is where it at
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
I don't understand why do people care?

18 yr olds sign up to kill.
18 yr olds sign up to do porn.

Why aren't people talking about those things which are actually terrible?
Because they are jelly that somebody else is having all the fun
post 1687835823 08-05-2023, 01:51 PM
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Originally Posted By OneLegSquats⏩
To bang is all good, but to actively seek an 18 year old for a LTR is pretty weird, mostly because they're mentally retarded at that age and will be clueless on how to please a man, more interested in going to the club 3x a week.
Seeking vs naturally meeting a 19, I agree. The maturity part I disagree with.

I was messing with a 19 yr old for a bit. She was an introvert, didn't care for clubs. She wasnt mentally retarded either, though not experienced. With no experience you can talk to them about whatever as they're willing to learn and have open minded. Not only that, but this is the information age, teens have access to everything at their fingertips.
post 1687836103 08-05-2023, 01:57 PM
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Well I don't care what society or some random woman on the internet thinks. But as a 33 year old man, my ideal age range for dating are girls in their early or mid 20's. The oldest I would go is 35, and I would be open to dating a girl that's 18 but I doubt I'll meet one I'm attracted to.
post 1687836123 08-05-2023, 01:57 PM
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Originally Posted By iabs⏩
That is an accurate statement, that's borderline ped0 behavior, don't care how physically developed she is, that's a kid.
Lol some **** by the name yewotm8 negged me with a "you are evil" message.

How in the fuk am I evil for not wanting to fuk an 18 yr old kid?

Ped0s gonna ped0 I guess.
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Originally Posted By Brommando⏩
18 yo were drafted in Vietnam War , what you talking about a kid ?
And the fact they were called to arms did not make them stop being kids.

Their innocence was sacrificed to the MIC. WTF did we accomplish in Vietnam? Very very few wars in history were and are moral, so don't give me some hollow "mUh pAtRiOtIsM" NPC comment.
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Originally Posted By iabs⏩
And the fact they were called to arms did not make them stop being kids.

Their innocence was sacrificed to the MIC. WTF did we accomplish in Vietnam? Very very few wars in history were and are moral, so don't give me some hollow "mUh pAtRiOtIsM" NPC comment.
Vietnam war stopped communism from spreading communism. Imagine if more nations had a China like bee hive mind . Not saying wars are moral but it is what it is
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I was banging an 18 year old when I was 35, let me list all of the fuks I gave…
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For me it's not about youthful good looks moreso that once women approach 30 or so they become bitter and jaded, low-key hating men due to not reaching the marriage and kids milestone. They spent too much time chasing unavailable men and having bad relationships. A lot of them will say they are wiser and more mature but really they are just awful to be around and too much to deal with. Any decent man deserves better than them.
Originally Posted By OzzyDio⏩
In all fairness, if you're a man in your 30's, then literally the only thing you should have in common with a woman who is 18 to say mid-20's-ish is sex. Most women are boring as chit until they are least well into their 20's.
I have very little in common with women my age anyways, unless you're some emasculated limpdick who is willing to deal with BPD, parenting someone else's kids, all sorts of modern female dating antics like open relationships, career women, etc. Older women these days have lost the plot and won't consider changing their ways to make themselves an attractive choice.
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
For me it's not about youthful good looks moreso that once women approach 30 or so they become bitter and jaded, low-key hating men due to not reaching the marriage and kids milestone. They spent too much time chasing unavailable men and having bad relationships. A lot of them will say they are wiser and more mature but really they are just awful to be around and too much to deal with. Any decent man deserves better than them.



I have very little in common with women my age anyways, unless you're some emasculated limpdick who is willing to deal with BPD, parenting someone else's kids, all sorts of modern female dating antics like open relationships, career women, etc. Older women these days have lost the plot and won't consider changing their ways to make themselves an attractive choice.
Also they start seeing relationship more as transactional and less about love as they get older. I've heard multiple times of older women saying to young girls not to marry for love.

They will change when they hit 40+, can offer anything of worth to a man and realize that their current course of action is going to lead them to spinster life.
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
For me it's not about youthful good looks moreso that once women approach 30 or so they become bitter and jaded, low-key hating men due to not reaching the marriage and kids milestone. They spent too much time chasing unavailable men and having bad relationships. A lot of them will say they are wiser and more mature but really they are just awful to be around and too much to deal with. Any decent man deserves better than them.



I have very little in common with women my age anyways, unless you're some emasculated limpdick who is willing to deal with BPD, parenting someone else's kids, all sorts of modern female dating antics like open relationships, career women, etc. Older women these days have lost the plot and won't consider changing their ways to make themselves an attractive choice.
They are just more noble and lovey when young. I was talking to a 20 year old the other day and she was saying about how she wants to find “the love of her life”. I cringed inside a bit lol not gonna lie, but at the same time that innocence and perspective on love is cute too and kind of contagious.


No 30 year old is going to say **** about “the love of my life” type of ****. For her it’s just money, kids, a home, basically a transaction
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Originally Posted By OneLegSquats⏩
To bang is all good, but to actively seek an 18 year old for a LTR is pretty weird, mostly because they're mentally retarded at that age and will be clueless on how to please a man, more interested in going to the club 3x a week.
You do realise they won't stay 19 forever , also sex isn't a big deal .
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Originally Posted By Sharicejade⏩
Also they start seeing relationship more as transactional and less about love as they get older. I've heard multiple times of older women saying to young girls not to marry for love.

They will change when they hit 40+, can offer anything of worth to a man and realize that their current course of action is going to lead them to spinster life.
Yep, proof their ability to bond and get emotionally attached to a man diminishes as they go from relationship to relationship.
Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
They are just more noble and lovey when young. I was talking to a 20 year old the other day and she was saying about how she wants to find “the love of her life”. I cringed inside a bit lol not gonna lie, but at the same time that innocence and perspective on love is cute too and kind of contagious.


No 30 year old is going to say **** about “the love of my life” type of ****. For her it’s just money, kids, a home, basically a transaction
The last time I tried dating apps every woman my age had some negative bull**** on their profiles, listing off a thousand qualities she finds unacceptable rather than bolstering her own good qualities. As if she sees any prospective relationship as a burden before she knows a thing about you.
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I'm 38, and have dated a handful of girls in the 18-22 range over the past few years. It's amazing how much better the whole experience feels compared to an older girl who is anxious and has some type of agenda. My dick is hard as a rock and I'm able to orgasm multiple times with these younger girls, when the older girls often require dick pills and jerking off to finish.

So it doesn't really matter what society is saying. My body knows what is a healthy situation, and its reacting accordingly.
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