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post 1688931093 08-25-2023, 03:24 AM
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Ok brahs here's the deal, i used tinder since 2014 easily, the app used to be a meat market.

I used to get 50 matches a week minimum and im good looking enough. I was banging broads weekly.

Then something happened to the algorithm a few years ago and i've been getting 1-2 matches a week tops, most of which are either fake accounts or ugly ass belugas. I messaged Tinder customer service and asked them if i was shadowbanned and they told me i wasn't and that i could test it out by buying a boost or something (Lol right there i know they were bull****ting me)

I closed my account for a few months, then made a new one using my email address instead of my phone number, still no matches.

I asked them again if i was shadowbanned and they said no, but i have a feeling customer service is basically ****** out of bengladesh who don't even look at your account given their generic answers. I decided to test tinder platinum and a 3 hour boost for the lulz and still, ZERO matches. My profile is fine, i used to get a lot of matches with it and then suddenly went from 50 matches weekly to 0-2 maximum. I can go weeks without a single match. Even in other locations.

To clarify: Not fat, not skinny fat, i lift, not a manlet.

Wat do brahs ? Even my friend who's average looking and an awkward sperg socially speaking gets 30-40 matches a week without problems lmao

Should i use another app ? Tinder feels like a literal scam now, even if you pay your account might be permanently bricked/shadowbanned and always burried and they'll still gladly take your money while escorts/catfishes/trolls are running rampant in the app and not getting shadowbanned.
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post 1688939413 08-25-2023, 08:05 AM
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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩
lol @ waiting 1.5 days to text her

you retards never learn
Nah son. I don’t think that was an issue. It was barely over a day don’t think it makes a difference.

She did end up texting me back late last night. She’s down for the second date.
post 1688939623 08-25-2023, 08:09 AM
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Originally Posted By Brazzah⏩
Ok brahs here's the deal, i used tinder since 2014 easily, the app used to be a meat market.

I used to get 50 matches a week minimum and im good looking enough. I was banging broads weekly.

Then something happened to the algorithm a few years ago and i've been getting 1-2 matches a week tops, most of which are either fake accounts or ugly ass belugas. I messaged Tinder customer service and asked them if i was shadowbanned and they told me i wasn't and that i could test it out by buying a boost or something (Lol right there i know they were bull****ting me)

I closed my account for a few months, then made a new one using my email address instead of my phone number, still no matches.

I asked them again if i was shadowbanned and they said no, but i have a feeling customer service is basically ****** out of bengladesh who don't even look at your account given their generic answers. I decided to test tinder platinum and a 3 hour boost for the lulz and still, ZERO matches. My profile is fine, i used to get a lot of matches with it and then suddenly went from 50 matches weekly to 0-2 maximum. I can go weeks without a single match. Even in other locations.

To clarify: Not fat, not skinny fat, i lift, not a manlet.

Wat do brahs ? Even my friend who's average looking and an awkward sperg socially speaking gets 30-40 matches a week without problems lmao

Should i use another app ? Tinder feels like a literal scam now, even if you pay your account might be permanently bricked/shadowbanned and always burried and they'll still gladly take your money while escorts/catfishes/trolls are running rampant in the app and not getting shadowbanned.
Something does get fuked up with the tinder algo brah. I haven’t been on in a year. However I had similar experience—sometimes I’d jump on and get tons of matches right away. Then another time I’d get one just once in a while and I’d say wtf.

Honestly though tinder disgusts me. Lots of entitled degenerate types. Yes they are easy and a few are attractive, but at what cost lol.

If you were digging tinder you may like bumble to try something new. I’d say try hinge when you want to search for a real relationship.
post 1688942793 08-25-2023, 09:07 AM
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Originally Posted By InsanePain11⏩
Nah son. I don’t think that was an issue. It was barely over a day don’t think it makes a difference.

She did end up texting me back late last night. She’s down for the second date.
Nice, congrats OP.

Don't expect quick replies. All part of the game.

I don't text back quick at the beginning because I often don't want to set the precedent of texting a lot at that time. A text convo that fades can completely kill the excitement of her seeing you in person (which is way more important).
post 1688943963 08-25-2023, 09:25 AM
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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩
Nice, congrats OP.

Don't expect quick replies. All part of the game.

I don't text back quick at the beginning because I often don't want to set the precedent of texting a lot at that time. A text convo that fades can completely kill the excitement of her seeing you in person (which is way more important).
if I took dating advice from you guys id go sexless longer than VG (srs)
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post 1688944843 08-25-2023, 09:44 AM
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damn bro havent texted her in 2 days! i wont give in! i will not double text!
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post 1688944993 08-25-2023, 09:47 AM
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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩
if I took dating advice from you guys id go sexless longer than VG (srs)
Not trying to give advice, just explain what her mindset mindset might be and not overreact because she took close to a day to text back.

I can't comment on "how to maximize the number of lays you can get from online dating" but at the end of the day if you're confident enough to put yourself out there and not overthink chit dating-wise, you'll likely attract the type that's right for you.
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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩
Nice, congrats OP.

Don't expect quick replies. All part of the game.

I don't text back quick at the beginning because I often don't want to set the precedent of texting a lot at that time. A text convo that fades can completely kill the excitement of her seeing you in person (which is way more important).
That only works if you're a calvin klein model and girls are desperate for your dick srs.

I usually try to get a meet as quickly as possible and i judge on the coffee date if she's cute/not a psychopath/etc because those bitches have 100 dudes minimum messaging them and they can act all interested for a week straight just to monkey branch to another guy overnight and stop replying to you. The more i wait and text the chick the less likely im gonna close the deal and she'll just lose interest and move on to another dude.
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post 1688980243 08-25-2023, 10:09 PM
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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩
Nice, congrats OP.

Don't expect quick replies. All part of the game.

I don't text back quick at the beginning because I often don't want to set the precedent of texting a lot at that time. A text convo that fades can completely kill the excitement of her seeing you in person (which is way more important).
Thanks buddy! Yea I am going to have to be more patient and not expect or worry about quick replies. I don’t like texting a lot anyways either. I believe she’s an honest girl (so far) and being upfront and I know half the month she works really long hours, plus she has to move. So she asked if we can meet next weekend and I suggested a plan for Saturday. We’ll see, would be great to go out with her again bc I feel great about moving things forward and connecting more.

In the meantime I should probably still move forward with other matches to not get too ‘stuck’ on this one. I always feel I don’t want to waste time with fun girls that lead to nothing when I want to put my effort in to the real potential girl.. but then again it’s good to have options especially if the ‘quality’ girl bails and I’m left feeling like shiet.
post 1689027243 08-26-2023, 11:40 PM
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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩
Not trying to give advice, just explain what her mindset mindset might be and not overreact because she took close to a day to text back.

I can't comment on "how to maximize the number of lays you can get from online dating" but at the end of the day if you're confident enough to put yourself out there and not overthink chit dating-wise, you'll likely attract the type that's right for you.
Hey Skinnyfat88 my friend, just fyi sent you a pm about current situation
post 1689198083 08-30-2023, 04:49 AM
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Originally Posted By M3lony⏩
Anyone else noticed that you have to date down in online dating as a man?

I had my fair share of hookups from tinder etc. this year but most of these chicks were just complete average looking girls. Most of them came straight over to my appartement as a first date.
But I feel like, unless you are chad you gonna have a hard time getting dates with pretty girls.
I dont remember the last time I actually was really physically attracted to an online date.

Really makes me think to go out again and approach in real life.
It's cause the overwhelming number of people on dating apps are men so women have more options. It's definitely true for all guys that it's easier to pull hit women irl than on dating apps.
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post 1689209483 08-30-2023, 09:23 AM
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Originally Posted By kingmanaverage⏩
It's cause the overwhelming number of people on dating apps are men so women have more options. It's definitely true for all guys that it's easier to pull hit women irl than on dating apps.
X2

IRL should be your main method followed by apps.

Apps are most active on Sunday evenings, do you swiping and talking then.
post 1689220113 08-30-2023, 12:23 PM
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Originally Posted By kingmanaverage⏩
It's cause the overwhelming number of people on dating apps are men so women have more options. It's definitely true for all guys that it's easier to pull hit women irl than on dating apps.
of course

the amount of attention that a young 20's woman can get on a dating app is insane
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post 1690051293 09-14-2023, 11:16 AM
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I downloaded bumble.

I’ve had it less than a week. I’m considering deleting it. Does anybody find that it feels very draining having to maintain conversations and check things. And juggling the amount of people you talk to and have to set up dates with? It’s starting to cramp up my free time.
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post 1690051553 09-14-2023, 11:21 AM
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Originally Posted By Eggiesinabasket⏩
I downloaded bumble.

I’ve had it less than a week. I’m considering deleting it. Does anybody find that it feels very draining having to maintain conversations and check things. And juggling the amount of people you talk to and have to set up dates with? It’s starting to cramp up my free time.
You have to be more selective, and only swipe on the top 5% of Chads so you match with the same guys that every other woman does.
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Originally Posted By Eggiesinabasket⏩
I downloaded bumble.

I’ve had it less than a week. I’m considering deleting it. Does anybody find that it feels very draining having to maintain conversations and check things. And juggling the amount of people you talk to and have to set up dates with? It’s starting to cramp up my free time.
I thought you had a bf
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
You have to be more selective, and only swipe on the top 5% of Chads so you match with the same guys that every other woman does.
Looks only go so far. Material things and trophies of success only go so far. At some point in time, we can lose the things we felt defined us—and when we’re stripped bare of who we perceive we are—how we love, how we chose to live, and how we act as a person is the base that remains. And I personally feel is one of the greatest things a person can offer another over things like a good body, a pretty face, or a successful career.

At the end of the day, Id want a genuinely good person that’s kind to others.
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Originally Posted By koreannoodles77⏩
I thought you had a bf
He smashed my little heart to bits. But with pain comes healing and improvement. I think it’s so important to process and allow ourselves to feel all our emotions after a break up: lingering love, pain, anger. We shouldn’t limit it and shame ourselves for feeling them by trying to get over them quickly. It’s meaning is to allow you deep reflection of yourself and the experience so you can move forward improved. I think so, anyways.

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[QUOTE=Eggiesinabasket post_id=1690052333]He smashed my little heart to bits. But with pain comes healing and improvement.

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Originally Posted By koreannoodles77⏩
I know the feels. You'll make it srs
Thank you. I really appreciate it and I know I will. With or without a person, I’m pretty happy where I’m at right now to be honest

Oh darn, I’m on spread with you XD
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Originally Posted By Eggiesinabasket⏩
I downloaded bumble.

I’ve had it less than a week. I’m considering deleting it. Does anybody find that it feels very draining having to maintain conversations and check things. And juggling the amount of people you talk to and have to set up dates with? It’s starting to cramp up my free time.
I imagine it's draining to some degree regardless (I can only imagine), but a recurring thought I've had is that it probably would serve women well to set hard limits for themselves on their number of likes, number of active matches, and number of guys you're meeting up with if you're not already. Figure Bumble already does some of this for you since your matches expire after 24h anyway, but I would think that letting matches expire as a woman (unless you've made a mistake) is suboptimal.

Thinking like meet 2 guys a week most, have 5-10 "active" (important but nebulous descriptor) matches at once, maybe some limit of 50-100 likes (I forget exactly whether you see likes in Bumble, and this param could probably use some fine-tuning based on your selectivity and match rate).
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If i post my hinge profile anybody wanna critique it?
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Originally Posted By ItsJamesthefin⏩
If i post my hinge profile anybody wanna critique it?
Sure
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I get matches and have been on dates so it's not terrible I guess.
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Originally Posted By Eggiesinabasket⏩
At the end of the day, Id want a genuinely good person that’s kind to others.
Translation: You want Chad
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Originally Posted By Eggiesinabasket⏩
I downloaded bumble.

I’ve had it less than a week. I’m considering deleting it. Does anybody find that it feels very draining having to maintain conversations and check things. And juggling the amount of people you talk to and have to set up dates with? It’s starting to cramp up my free time.
As a woman, do you find taking time before meeting up and having some conversations prior weeds out the guys who are either impatient, desperate, or looking just to get laid?

I've usually waited 1-2 weeks before asking someone to meet (usually like 1 quality message a day during that span) but the majority of my friends try to arrange a meetup asap. I see the benefit of both but as a guy I will usually only have 2-3 decent convos going on at once. I imagine it'd be exhausting if you're dealing with 5+.
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Originally Posted By ItsJamesthefin⏩
https://imgur.com/a/HzrOoQn

I get matches and have been on dates so it's not terrible I guess.
Your profile bio is boring as ****. Demonstrate some wit and humor.

Pictures 2, 3, and 4 can go.

Nobody gives a **** about group pics unless you are noticablely taller or better looking than everyone.

Get comfortable taking attractive selfies.

Post a pic or video of you fighting a fire or something.
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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩
As a woman, do you find taking time before meeting up and having some conversations prior weeds out the guys who are either impatient, desperate, or looking just to get laid?

I've usually waited 1-2 weeks before asking someone to meet (usually like 1 quality message a day during that span) but the majority of my friends try to arrange a meetup asap. I see the benefit of both but as a guy I will usually only have 2-3 decent convos going on at once. I imagine it'd be exhausting if you're dealing with 5+.
Mmmmm, not really. I think you won’t really find out until you actually meet them. I mean the obvious ones will always be obvious right away. Otherwise, even if you have good conversation on text for a bit—you can’t tell until the first date. Specifically, after the first date.

I’m sorta… flabbergasted with dating in general.

Bumble wise, I deleted my profile because to be honest, I’d rather invest time in my boxing than having to maintain conversations with guys that seem to just want sex. I mean there were a few that seemed interested in me as a person but… one seemed crazy, the other I don’t think we vibe, and the other one—is a maybe.

In person, I’ve had 2-3 guys from boxing interested but they’re young.
Then one guy from the gym who boxes/competes I ended up talking to for an hour and he asked for my number… but he seemed a bit unstable because he texted saying he wished he could have hugged me and he said he wanted stay up talking all night to me… and then went silent
And some guy from work seems a bit too clingy as well… I played pool with him once and he’s asking to plan trips to Vegas together….
Then 2 people from the past have been trying to poke around to see if I’m single.
One of them I met 2 years ago on vacation, and in the last month he consistently tries to call me—he wanted to plan a dinner/play pool together—and he’s said he’s been trying to talk to me since I left, has been rereading our texts (?dafuk he kept that for?) but I shut him down a year ago because I had a boyfriend at that time and he stayed away. But while talking today, I sniffed it out and had him admit that he’s seeing someone so I outright had to ask him what is he doing calling me. He was definitely trying to hide he was seeing someone and when he was calling I could tell his intention was to try to start something up again.
And this other guy I met on bumble 2 years ago… man…he was crazy too but he’s still stalking after years????Spoiler!

And if I try to go out to play pool or salsa alone—people take that as an opportunity… and some of them are quite rude if they’re rejected even if I say no politely to playing a game with them, I just wanted to be alone.

I find it very frustrating right now. I think I’d rather stay single. Sorry for ranting, it’s just… blah.
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