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post 1690468123 09-22-2023, 01:21 AM
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Originally Posted By helpmee
lol e-mogged by the Top G again.

Cookcels like me BTFO
post 1690468183 09-22-2023, 01:23 AM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra
Might sound obvious but then why are so many posts here attempted to dispute it?

And in fact this rule makes the most sense for brokies. This is because for a low income earner, there are plenty of opportunities to move up. The “marginal returns” to any additional effort spent increasing your income (e.g. applying for better paid jobs) instead of mowing your lawn, is extremely high.

By contrast if you’ve made it to the c-suite already, the opportunities to move up can sometimes be few and far between.
this is assuming they can spend 100% of their time pursuing opportunities that are feasible. can't wipe my ass missing opportunities. can't put in light bulb missing opportunities. can't wash car missing opportunities. sounds like the mind of a meth addict.

for most people pursuing opportunities takes thinking and strategic planning...and their will be down time between the idea/planning and doing the steps needed to put it into action. for example if hourly at home depot decides they like to move up to a manager...it's not like the steps needed to do that within the next 6 months would keep them from cutting grass.
post 1690468193 09-22-2023, 01:23 AM
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Are you just talking about oil changes on cars? Most shop charge $125 an hour labor rate. So a person can still buy their own tools and be ahead.
Friday night. Date night in Miami. Every night is a date night in Miami, and everyone's having sex. But for me, sex never enters into it. I don't understand sex. Not that I have anything against women, and I certainly have an appropriate sensibility about men, but when it comes to the actual act of sex, it's always just seemed so undignified. But I have to play the game.
post 1690468303 09-22-2023, 01:30 AM
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Dropping clothes at a laundromat wastes time. I just put in my washer/dryer and clothes come out clean and dry.

You too poor to afford a washer dryer?
post 1690468313 09-22-2023, 01:30 AM
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What kind of jobs have unlimited, ad-hoc hourly pay? You guys are driving for Uber or Doordash?
post 1690468323 09-22-2023, 01:31 AM
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Originally Posted By 13donniedarko
Are you just talking about oil changes on cars? Most shop charge $125 an hour labor rate. So a person can still buy their own tools and be ahead.
^^^this mindset will keep you losing

The question is not whether you can do the job cheaper

The question is whether you can earn more per hour doingwhatever it is you’re good atthan the guy changing your oil; and therefore whether it makes sense for you to go and earn that money, pay they guy to work in your car for an hour, and pocket the surplus.

Aka “specialisation”
post 1690468353 09-22-2023, 01:33 AM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
What kind of jobs have unlimited, ad-hoc hourly pay? You guys are driving for Uber or Doordash?
Come on big ern you’re better than this

See post #13 for a broader list of examples of “work” with higher returns
post 1690468373 09-22-2023, 01:34 AM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra
Aka “specialisation”
The Industrial Revolution and its consequences have been a disaster for the human race. They have greatly increased the life-expectancy of those of us who live in “advanced” countries, but they have destabilized society, have made life unfulfilling, have subjected human beings to indignities, have led to widespread psychological suffering (in the Third World to physical suffering as well) and have inflicted severe damage on the natural world. The continued development of technology will worsen the situation. It will certainly subject human being to greater indignities and inflict greater damage on the natural world, it will probably lead to greater social disruption and psychological suffering, and it may lead to increased physical suffering even in “advanced” countries. The industrial-technological system may survive or it may break down. If it survives, it MAY eventually achieve a low level of physical and psychological suffering, but only after passing through a long and very painful period of adjustment and only at the cost of permanently reducing human beings and many other living organisms to engineered products and mere cogs in the social machine. Furthermore, if the system survives, the consequences will be inevitable: There is no way of reforming or modifying the system so as to prevent it from depriving people of dignity and autonomy. If the system breaks down the consequences will still be very painful. But the bigger the system grows the more disastrous the results of its breakdown will be, so if it is to break down it had best break down sooner rather than later. We therefore advocate a revolution against the industrial system. This revolution may or may not make use of violence; it may be sudden or it may be a relatively gradual process spanning a few decades. We can’t predict any of that. But we do outline in a very general way the measures that those who hate the industrial system should take in order to prepare the way for a revolution against that form of society. This is not to be a POLITICAL revolution. Its object will be to overthrow not governments but the economic and technological basis of the present society. In this article we give attention to only some of the negative developments that have grown out of the industrial-technological system. Other such developments we mention only briefly or ignore altogether. This does not mean that we regard these other developments as unimportant. For practical reasons we have to confine our discussion to areas that have received insufficient public attention or in which we have something new to say. For example, since there are well-developed environmental and wilderness movements, we have written very little about environmental degradation or the destruction of wild nature, even though we consider these to be highly important.
post 1690468903 09-22-2023, 01:59 AM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra
^^^this mindset will keep you losing

The question is not whether you can do the job cheaper

The question is whether you can earn more per hour doingwhatever it is you’re good atthan the guy changing your oil; and therefore whether it makes sense for you to go and earn that money, pay they guy to work in your car for an hour, and pocket the surplus.

Aka “specialisation”
Are you high right now?
post 1690471293 09-22-2023, 04:36 AM
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Originally Posted By outfoxxed
Time verse money doesn't apply to poorcels.

The average poorcel isn't concerned and maximizing or optimizing his life. He's concerned with budgeting enough money for rent/mortgage, food and car.

The people who benefit are those with disposable income who can take that money and buy someone else's time for much cheaper.

It's a funny rich get richer scenario. Poor people are busy saving 5 dollars on their grocery bill while the rich are busy making 500 dollars more a week
Poorcels are the ones with the most to gain

Sure there’s a budget constraint

I get that

But if they start small - say, hire a sitter for an hour to look after their kids

And use that time productively to work on their resume, apply for jobs

Once they have a higher rate of pay, they have got the ball rolling - from there they can hire a sitter more frequently, do overtime, start studying for a better qualification
post 1690471803 09-22-2023, 05:06 AM
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You have to hire a cleaner because your imported wife won’t clean smh
post 1690471823 09-22-2023, 05:08 AM
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Originally Posted By GooBaaa
You have to hire a cleaner because your imported wife won’t clean smh
She makes more money running the business

See post #1
post 1690471883 09-22-2023, 05:12 AM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra
Might sound obvious but then why are so many posts here attempted to dispute it?

And in fact this rule makes the most sense for brokies. This is because for a low income earner, there are plenty of opportunities to move up. The “marginal returns” to any additional effort spent increasing your income (e.g. applying for better paid jobs) instead of mowing your lawn, is extremely high.

By contrast if you’ve made it to the c-suite already, the opportunities to move up can sometimes be few and far between.
Aren't you a plumber?
post 1690472353 09-22-2023, 05:24 AM
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Originally Posted By helpmee
People who say this don't understand the concept of meal prepping


My wife will often cook meals for 3 days at once in about a 40 minute period

If I ate chipotle for every meal, that's about 60 bucks or so (I eat twice a day). For 2 of us, that's 120 when she made that all prolly for 20 bucks


The markup on restaurants is insane. It's at least 5 or 6x more expensive to eat out
post 1690472923 09-22-2023, 05:36 AM
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I'm projected to make just over 100k, it's still worth it for me to do chores and cook.


OP is just subtle flexing again. The absolute madman.
post 1690473733 09-22-2023, 05:53 AM
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The act of cooking & cleaning is pleasurable though. You get instant gratification pretty much.

Cooking a meal vs buying a meal

One is stress relieving, you get to be creative, you get the satisfaction of having done it, you've saved money, you've provided for others and you've given them something that they can't just go out and buy = special. When people are cooked for they feel cared about. Even if it tastes worse than something from a restaurant it's still more special. Gordon Ramsay puts his mother's cooking as the best in the world and I'm sure he means it.

The other is pretty much mass produced slop, delivered by a surly delivery driver who might have stuck a hand in it and stolen some, that's overpriced and from a kitchen which may or may not be very hygienic. No house filled with nice smells. No bonding. Just eating slop while checking on bitcoin price fluctuations or something because you're a CEO who can't take a break because someone on Instagram (who is secretly miserable) told you not to or something. Head filled with slogans about being on the grind. Belly filled with slop and min wage kitchen porter saliva. Why even bother. May as well kill yourself now if that's the pinnacle of life.
post 1690475693 09-22-2023, 07:04 AM
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Originally Posted By 11lemon11
The act of cooking & cleaning is pleasurable though. You get instant gratification pretty much.

Cooking a meal vs buying a meal

One is stress relieving, you get to be creative, you get the satisfaction of having done it, you've saved money, you've provided for others and you've given them something that they can't just go out and buy = special. When people are cooked for they feel cared about. Even if it tastes worse than something from a restaurant it's still more special. Gordon Ramsay puts his mother's cooking as the best in the world and I'm sure he means it.

The other is pretty much mass produced slop, delivered by a surly delivery driver who might have stuck a hand in it and stolen some, that's overpriced and from a kitchen which may or may not be very hygienic. No house filled with nice smells. No bonding. Just eating slop while checking on bitcoin price fluctuations or something because you're a CEO who can't take a break because someone on Instagram (who is secretly miserable) told you not to or something. Head filled with slogans about being on the grind. Belly filled with slop and min wage kitchen porter saliva. Why even bother. May as well kill yourself now if that's the pinnacle of life.
Read the OP. If you’re cooking because you enjoy it or for health reasons great. I specifically excluded these scenarios.

This is about spending time doing pointless chores to “save money” when in reality you are costing yourself far more valuable opportunities.
post 1690476303 09-22-2023, 07:23 AM
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Expectation: "Gonna pay someone to do this so I can spend that time making more money".

Reality: *spends that time miscing*
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What a stupid thread. Life is way too short to be so obsessed with making money 24/7. If you enjoy cutting the grass and mopping the floor, who cares. None of this even matters in 40-60 years when you're dead. American culture towards working and making money is so ass backwards and retarded. (Super Ded fkn Srs)
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this is more about time management than being frugal per se

being frugal is not overspending on things like brands, where there's a certain cutoff point for the quality of a good and the price you pay for it
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Originally Posted By Polaris
Aren't you a plumber?
Well technically, your mom said I was very skilled at laying the pipe

I can see how you got confused though, son
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra
Well technically, your mom said I was very skilled at laying the pipe

I can see how you got confused though, son
Mom jokes were edgy in 6th grade.

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Originally Posted By Anachron
So was your mom when you were in sixth grade.
I expect a little more wit from you, this reply was very lacking.
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Originally Posted By Polaris
Mom jokes were edgy in 6th grade.

Sorry to trigger you

Something tells me you’ve had more than your fair share of atomic wedgies in your time
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Originally Posted By outfoxxed
I'm in software engineering and this applies to me and probably applies to you somewhat

If i want to leverage my time i can

1) study
2) apply for more jobs, update my resume
3) pursue further education/part time education
4) put in extra hours at work with the goal of getting promoted earlier
5) networking... I.e. Getting drinks with coworkers etc
6) research your career, consume content on what direction to take... I.e. Visa planning, visiting forums for your career, discussions about advancements in your car

A lot of these do not give immediate benefits but the return is there.
lol if this is seriously what you are saying you are missing out on by doing your own housekeeping. Do you think keeping house is a full time job, or that any of these take any considerable amount of time out of your day to day? Here's a hot take - you can go get drinks with your co-workers, update your resume,andclean up after yourself all while holding a full time job.
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Originally Posted By Jacobcapra
lol if this is seriously what you are saying you are missing out on by doing your own housekeeping. Do you think keeping house is a full time job, or that any of these take any considerable amount of time out of your day to day? Here's a hot take - you can go get drinks with your co-workers, update your resume,andclean up after yourself all while holding a full time job.
-Full time job
-meal prep
-laundry
-house cleaning
-lifting (lmao ignore that one since this is misc)
-some time of hobby (lmao ignore that too I guess)
-yard maintenance
-kids? (Lmao all the incels ITT - probably not relevant)
-social life? (Lmao again)

Guess we can just give up sleeping lmao
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Originally Posted By skier!
This thread would make complete sense if you had the ability to work anytime you wanted to, for anytime duration, and at a fixed rate.

Unfortunately I don't know anyone in this situation.

And when you do work on your car or house, you are basically paying yourself. And if it's your house you are also investing.

There also comes a point in your career where learning more, the ROI curve flattens unfortunately. I don't need to learn anymore programming languages or more about math or finance, it's basically a waste of my time IMO unless you are doing it for enrichment.
The vast majority of people are too early to say the yield curve has flattened off in terms of investing in themselves. I see it a lot with highly technical people who have never worked on their management and team leadership capability.

And in any case, that doesn’t prevent you from taking all the capital you have accumulated from your years of labour and investing it into your next big venture.
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra
-Full time job
-meal prep
-laundry
-house cleaning
-lifting (lmao ignore that one since this is misc)
-some time of hobby (lmao ignore that too I guess)
-yard maintenance
-kids? (Lmao all the incels ITT - probably not relevant)
-social life? (Lmao again)

Guess we can just give up sleeping lmao
You can be doing laundry while you meal prep, cut grass or clean the house. If you have a SO, together you could be knocking out cleaning the house, laundry and cutting grass (and even changing oil in a car) all within 3 hours on a Saturday morning. If you don't have kids, a house shouldn't really be getting that untidy so you're talking a light cleaning.

Again, are you high?
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Originally Posted By mcdojo
Dropping clothes at a laundromat wastes time. I just put in my washer/dryer and clothes come out clean and dry.

You too poor to afford a washer dryer?
Not wearing a hoodie and shorts to board meetings champ
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra
Not wearing a hoodie and shorts to board meetings champ
It's time to start Fettermanmaxxing.

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