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maybe but the truth is people who like being a loner literally don't do anything, all they do is work and rot at home. Special moments in your life only feel special if they are shared experiences with others, if you're alone all the time you have no special moments in your life. I remember reading a quote something like that
I'm in the camp where i think if you actually enjoy being alone all the time there is something wrong with your brain, maybe depression, self esteem issues idk
I'm in the camp where i think if you actually enjoy being alone all the time there is something wrong with your brain, maybe depression, self esteem issues idk
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12-23-2023, 09:52 PM
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Originally Posted By PowerPal⏩
As someone who spends a lot of time alone, but obviously would go crazy if I didn't do social things every couple weeks, I understand why people like it, especially if you're intelligent.maybe but the truth is people who like being a loner literally don't do anything, all they do is work and rot at home. Special moments in your life only count if they are shared experiences with others, if you're alone all the time you have no special moments in your life.
I'm in the camp where if you actually enjoy being alone all the time there is something wrong with your brain, maybe depression idk
I'm in the camp where if you actually enjoy being alone all the time there is something wrong with your brain, maybe depression idk
There are a lot of low IQ insecure people out there who pick little fights and things in order to feel good about themselves. Can be really fun to hang out with, but after a certain point you kinda do a cost/benefit analysis and realize that there isn't some huge benefit to spending time with these people and they tend to fill your head with a bunch of nonsense that throws you off.
Someone like myself can be very focused and productive in solitude, and I'll often accomplish more in a couple weeks of solitude than most people will in months.
12-23-2023, 09:54 PM
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You appreciate being alone if you've ever been in a bad relationship or grew up in a toxic household. Perspective is everything
Regardless you're the only person thats gonna be with you till you die, so being a better friend to yourself will make life alot easier.
I know people that bounce between relationships cause they can't stand their own company, thats a chitty place to be in
Regardless you're the only person thats gonna be with you till you die, so being a better friend to yourself will make life alot easier.
I know people that bounce between relationships cause they can't stand their own company, thats a chitty place to be in
12-23-2023, 09:56 PM
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Originally Posted By thursdayParty1⏩
Know a lot of sloots like that. They never seem to have any genuine hobbies or interests.You appreciate being alone if you've ever been in a bad relationship or grew up in a toxic household. Perspective is everything
Regardless you're the only person thats gonna be with you till you die, so being a better friend to yourself will make life alot easier.
I know people that bounce between relationships cause they can't stand their own company, thats a chitty place to be in
Regardless you're the only person thats gonna be with you till you die, so being a better friend to yourself will make life alot easier.
I know people that bounce between relationships cause they can't stand their own company, thats a chitty place to be in
12-23-2023, 10:12 PM
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I am perfectly comfortable in social situations but I prefer to be alone.
Its like I have to switch on when I am with others. I dont mind it, its just a different me than when I am by myself.
Its like I have to switch on when I am with others. I dont mind it, its just a different me than when I am by myself.
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12-23-2023, 10:18 PM
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I'm not a loner, but I've always really enjoyed my time alone, more so than the opposite I think I'd say at this point in my life
I've had a ton of fun with people, and enjoy all that still, but enjoy just doing things myself even more sometimes
I've had a ton of fun with people, and enjoy all that still, but enjoy just doing things myself even more sometimes
12-23-2023, 10:31 PM
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Originally Posted By LastNite⏩
ur also an alt with a cat profile thoYes I don't care if I have no friends.
12-23-2023, 10:58 PM
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Loved being a Loner in my 20's... For some reason, the loneliness would always hit me in the shower. Not sure why, but it was an awful feeling.
Even now, I like time to myself. There's nothing wrong with it, if you can handle not being Social.
Even now, I like time to myself. There's nothing wrong with it, if you can handle not being Social.
12-24-2023, 03:27 AM
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Great friends & great family is the best social situation but I would rather be alone than be stuck in a terrible relationship or hang out with friends I did not like.
Great relationships = 10
Alone but content = 5
Terrible relationships = 0
If you're alone you won't have the amazing highs that relationships bring but you also won't have the devastating lows that bad relationships can bring.
Great relationships = 10
Alone but content = 5
Terrible relationships = 0
If you're alone you won't have the amazing highs that relationships bring but you also won't have the devastating lows that bad relationships can bring.
12-24-2023, 03:55 AM
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Originally Posted By friesbruh⏩
I agree about larger social gatherings being annoying with people sticking to their cliques. That stuff happens even at family reunions, but it's usually not as bad, and I'm more willing to deal with it for the sake of seeing family. Around larger groups of "friends" and such? Eh...cant stand big *** social gatherings unless it's like a family reunion. everyone's too busy being in their own little ****g0ty cliques. i was TDY over the summer and its gotten bad. i mean you think millenials are a bunch of little pansies, ho lee fuk, even grown *** men have gotten that way.
only time im really glad af to be alone is when im working on the house or on a hiking trip especially in alaska.
society's forced it upon ppl
only time im really glad af to be alone is when im working on the house or on a hiking trip especially in alaska.
society's forced it upon ppl
12-24-2023, 07:27 AM
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Originally Posted By 4Bertuzzi4⏩
Should have pinned up a model on the outside of the shower door.Loved being a Loner in my 20's... For some reason, the loneliness would always hit me in the shower. Not sure why, but it was an awful feeling.
Even now, I like time to myself. There's nothing wrong with it, if you can handle not being Social.
Even now, I like time to myself. There's nothing wrong with it, if you can handle not being Social.
12-24-2023, 07:51 AM
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Originally Posted By BigGuyTruth⏩
in my profession, most people around me are like that. Some actually could be diagnosed being on spectrum. I myself long acknowledged being social retard. Engineers are like that.I guess I have autism or something, prefer to be alone and do things by myself. Feel uncomfortable around others in social settings. Like doing work though
When pump fail (for example), I change the seal, or bearings, and it becomes like new. When I say something and hurt someone's feelings, there is nothing I can do to repair the hurt feelings. And I say, fuск it.
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