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post 1699147553 03-13-2024, 10:49 AM
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Originally Posted By 300Lane1
What's wrong with these UK guys? Ibby and Matt being absolute degenerates when it comes to females.
Kind of ironic
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Not sure why go went full nuclear op. Not LTR material but could have kept her as a fk buddy.
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LOL @ incels giving Matty advice

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Originally Posted By thursdayParty1
Everyone slips from time to time boyo
I don’t even think I’ve really slipped here, if anything, I’m just upholding my own standards and principles (even if I’m being hypocritical in the process). Okay I obviously misjudged this girl, but I’m hardly simping, if that was the case, I’d have disregarded everything I’ve seen and been prepared to welcome her back home with a red carpet, uggs and iPad.
Originally Posted By kingmanaverage
Not sure why go went full nuclear op. Not LTR material but could have kept her as a fk buddy.
As I said before, if I’d never met this girl before then yeh fine, but we’ve had 2 dates, where on the 2nd date in particular, we’d dug a little deeper and set out what we both wanted, I’d said I was looking to settle down soon and she said she was ready for a relationship again. To then go flaunt this behaviour, I’m just like nah, it is possible to go to Du bai and not be hoe. Girls use sex to get what they want and by going on to fuk her, will validate this behaviour in her mind.

I’ve got other options, I don’t need to indulge her.
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Originally Posted By Matty5RA
I don’t even think I’ve really slipped here, if anything I’m just upholding my own standards and principles (even if I’m being hypocritical in the process). Okay I obviously misjudged this girl, but I’m hardly simping, if that was the case, I’d have disregarded everything I’d seen and welcomed her back home with a red carpet, uggs and iPad.





As I said before, if I’d never met this girl before then yeh fine, but we’ve had 2 dates, where on the 2nd date in particular, we’d dug a little deeper and set out what we both wanted, I’d said I was looking to settle down soon and she said she was ready for a relationship again. To then go flaunt this behaviour, I’m just like nah, it is possible to go to Du bai and not be hoe. Girls use sex to get what they want and by going on to fuk her, will validate this behaviour in her mind.

I’ve got other options, I don’t need to indulge her.
So if the video you saw was just her taking care of a drunk guy(which seems like the case), you slipped. You jumped the gun on accusing her, and now she knows you are kind of a beta(hence why she mentioned her being unattached).

She clearly likes you, and is in the process of warming up. And honestly she could be dating material, but it's probably a lost cause at this point.

What was so bad about the video? Was she clearly being a hoe?
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not sure why you're copping so much flak (from misc incels, no less). Everyone has an off day - keep slayin' brah
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens
So if the video you saw was just her taking care of a drunk guy(which seems like the case), you slipped. You jumped the gun on accusing her, and now she knows you are kind of a beta(hence why she mentioned her being unattached).

She clearly likes you, and is in the process of warming up. And honestly she could be dating material, but it's probably a lost cause at this point.

What was so bad about the video? Was she clearly being a hoe?
I know it was hard to see from one screenshot, but she was laid on a guys lap, in what looked to be in a car, she was rubbing his forearm while he was stroking her head/hair.

Before I said anything, I called my mate as I knew he was with his girlfriend last night (the OP girl’s friend). My friend’s girlfriend (who we’ll call L) also saw the insta story and had messaged her as well asking who the guy was, OP girl replied instantly with a shush emoji. L then said ‘Du bai slice?’ in which OP girl replied with a wink face emoji. So that confirmed my own suspicion, which was very obvious without that added info anyway.
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Originally Posted By Matty5RA
Nah, if it was a case of that she’d gone away and been a hoe and then we first started talking after she got back, then fine. But it’s the fact that we had had 2 dates, established a mutual intention of further dates and then she’s showcased hoe behaviour, I think it’s reasonable to be slightly annoyed by that.

I know she doesn’t owe me anything in the bigger picture, we’re not exclusive and honestly, next Monday I’m going to Miami and have 2 girls lined up that I’m seeing there, so I’ll be doing the same, the difference is, she wouldn’t have had a clue about it.
So...you're not mad she did it, you're mad you found out about it?

lol bruh. You can't hold her to a diff standard than you hold yourself, and you certainly can't get upset about her showing you that hypocrisy. If you simply don't want to find out about it...that's a little cuckish.
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Originally Posted By Zackad
So...you're not mad she did it, you're mad you found out about it?

lol bruh. You can't hold her to a diff standard than you hold yourself, and you certainly can't get upset about her showing you that hypocrisy. If you simply don't want to find out about it...that's a little cuckish.
Let me address the first part, as someone else mentioned it and I brushed past it, of course it happening anyway bothers me.

Yes I’m an hypocrite and really can’t complain. My reasoning for myself is that I’ve put all my eggs in one basket before and got burned in a similar way, so I keep my options open until the last possible point before I accumulate enough confirmation in my mind to go exclusive. In this situation I couldn’t really go exclusive with a girl who was literally about to head out to Du bai, hence why I’ve been seeing other girls too. What has happened here has validated my own decision on this particular girl.
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Originally Posted By Matty5RA
Let me address the first part, as someone else mentioned it and I brushed past it, of course it happening anyway bothers me.

Yes I’m an hypocrite and really can’t complain. My reasoning for myself is that I’ve put all my eggs in one basket before and got burned in a similar way, so I keep my options open until the last possible point before I accumulate enough confirmation in my to go exclusive. In this situation I couldn’t rally go exclusive with a girl who was literally about to head out to Du bai, hence why I’ve been seeing other girls too. What has happened here has validated my own decision on this particular girl.
Fair, at least you're self aware. Just realize, that if you want something more serious (saw it mentioned in a previous post), you will have to behave accordingly. that will mean not being a hypocrite about your standards for yourself and others. Meaning you'll have to either get right with girls behaving like you do while taking them seriously, or change your behavior to be in line.

TBH, this thread should never have been made, as you should never have been invested in an insta-thot (because really that's all she ever was to you) about to go to DooBai, regardless what talks you have had. Anyone with half a brain knows that isn't conducive to starting a relationship.

Really, this thread just validates that you need to reframe/recalibrate one way or another. You can't continue to act this way, both in regards to girls your interested in, and in regards to safekeeping your emotions, and expect something different.
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Originally Posted By Matty5RA
I know it was hard to see from one screenshot, but she was laid on a guys lap, in what looked to be in a car, she was rubbing his forearm while he was stroking her head/hair.

Before I said anything, I called my mate as I knew he was with his girlfriend last night (the OP girl’s friend). My friend’s girlfriend (who we’ll call L) also saw the insta story and had messaged her as well asking who the guy was, OP girl replied instantly with a shush emoji. L then said ‘Du bai slice?’ in which OP girl replied with a wink face emoji. So that confirmed my own suspicion, which was very obvious without that added info anyway.
Ok, this makes a lot more sense then. She's just a moron then.
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Originally Posted By Zackad
Fair, at least you're self aware. Just realize, that if you want something more serious (saw it mentioned in a previous post), you will have to behave accordingly. that will mean not being a hypocrite about your standards for yourself and others. Meaning you'll have to either get right with girls behaving like you do while taking them seriously, or change your behavior to be in line.

TBH, this thread should never have been made, as you should never have been invested in an insta-thot (because really that's all she ever was to you) about to go to DooBai, regardless what talks you have had. Anyone with half a brain knows that isn't conducive to starting a relationship.

Really, this thread just validates that you need to reframe/recalibrate one way or another. You can't continue to act this way, both in regards to girls you’re interested in, and in regards to safekeeping your emotions, and expect something different.
Yeh I fully accept all of that, tbh, I have got dates with quality girls lined up, who probably fit more of what you’ve said and what I should be looking for.

The purpose of the thread wasn’t really to apply much advice to the situation (even though I did unsend the original message), more so just to try create something a little interesting and real life, on a forum starved of it.

However there’s been some good advice here, like yours.

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OP dun goofed hard lol
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OP dun goofed hard lol
On retrospect, I really didn’t
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Originally Posted By Matty5RA
Yeh I fully accept all of that, tbh, I have got dates with quality girls lined up, who probably fit more of what you’ve said and what I should be looking for.

The purpose of the thread wasn’t really to apply much advice to the situation (even though I did unsend the original message), more so just to try create something a little interesting and real life, on a forum starved of it.

However there’s been some good advice here, like yours.

Repped.
das it mane

FWIW, I don't really consider this an L lol. MAYBE if the first pic was accurate, but her story is much more close to what she prob looks like regularly. And you are dodging a bullet with that girl who has a "slice" in that part of the world lmao. Coulda handled it better, but such is life. End result is the same.
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Originally Posted By Matty5RA
I know it was hard to see from one screenshot, but she was laid on a guys lap, in what looked to be in a car, she was rubbing his forearm while he was stroking her head/hair.

Before I said anything, I called my mate as I knew he was with his girlfriend last night (the OP girl’s friend). My friend’s girlfriend (who we’ll call L) also saw the insta story and had messaged her as well asking who the guy was, OP girl replied instantly with a shush emoji. L then said ‘Du bai slice?’ in which OP girl replied with a wink face emoji. So that confirmed my own suspicion, which was very obvious without that added info anyway.
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Originally Posted By TheParish
I stopped reading at "she took a trip to "Dudebye".

This is not as big an L as you think, broseph
This.

How many arabs porter potty'd her OP?
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Bro, and I mean this sincerely.
She’s a sloot. Keep her in the sloot column. She’s not LTR material.

Also, for all you know, your buddy told his girl what you get up to when on vacation, and she told this girl. Don’t think that it can’t happen, I’ve had friends and family members dime me out.
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Originally Posted By MrSchons
This.

How many arabs porter potty'd her OP?
See FoulSmell's username
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it is a shame you removed her

is that on snapchat or something? i guess that means they can no longer message you?

you should have just gone AWOL until she reached out

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Originally Posted By AWillis
it is a shame you removed her

is that on snapchat or something? i guess that means they can no longer message you?

you should have just gone AWOL until she reached out

srs
Looks like IG

If they didn't block each other they could still message follow or not
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Unbelievable levels of cringe
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Originally Posted By FoulSmell
Bro, and I mean this sincerely.
She’s a sloot. Keep her in the sloot column. She’s not LTR material.

Also, for all you know, your buddy told his girl what you get up to when on vacation, and she told this girl. Don’t think that it can’t happen, I’ve had friends and family members dime me out.
Underrated comment. From my experience, girls who classify as "sloots" generally aren't trying to get involved with your typical guy who wants to be in a committed relationship. They're looking for other male "sloots". The only time these girls get involved with a guy who wants a committed monogamous relationship is when that guy is persistent about wanting her and tries to turn a hoe into a housewife.

My guess is that she pegged Matty as a "slooty" male, and figured they would be a good match. You know, the type where both people are committed to each other while together, but they also fuk other people on the side every so often.
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Originally Posted By mryamamoto
ALEX HAD TO BE CARRIED.

end of story.
Lol, she admitted to being a sloot right after that. Dodged a bullet.
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens
Ok, this makes a lot more sense then. She's just a moron then.
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inb4 "well this is gutting to say the least" is the new "this is unsettling"
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who gives a ****. beta vibes lol
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Originally Posted By Matty5RA
I know it was hard to see from one screenshot, but she was laid on a guys lap, in what looked to be in a car, she was rubbing his forearm while he was stroking her head/hair.

Before I said anything, I called my mate as I knew he was with his girlfriend last night (the OP girl’s friend). My friend’s girlfriend (who we’ll call L) also saw the insta story and had messaged her as well asking who the guy was, OP girl replied instantly with a shush emoji. L then said ‘Du bai slice?’ in which OP girl replied with a wink face emoji. So that confirmed my own suspicion, which was very obvious without that added info anyway.
yeah you cucked him hard. that cuck has to pay for her dinners, pay for her trips, listen to her bitch about the girls she hates at work ect. you got to fuk her in her prime and leave. you won.
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LOL you have the whole play boii persona yet you forgot the number one rule - sloots gonna sloot.

You could have contained your inner beta and smashed her for fun since you're already inclined towards that sort of behaviour, but now you've ruined it by looking weak to her.
Originally Posted By Matty5RA
I don’t even think I’ve really slipped here, if anything, I’m just upholding my own standards and principles (even if I’m being hypocritical in the process). Okay I obviously misjudged this girl, but I’m hardly simping, if that was the case, I’d have disregarded everything I’ve seen and been prepared to welcome her back home with a red carpet, uggs and iPad.





As I said before, if I’d never met this girl before then yeh fine, but we’ve had 2 dates, where on the 2nd date in particular, we’d dug a little deeper and set out what we both wanted, I’d said I was looking to settle down soon and she said she was ready for a relationship again. To then go flaunt this behaviour, I’m just like nah, it is possible to go to Du bai and not be hoe. Girls use sex to get what they want and by going on to fuk her, will validate this behaviour in her mind.

I’ve got other options, I don’t need to indulge her.
upholding your standards? She was a hoe from the start - perhaps you need to reassess your own life and find out what you want and go from there. LOL at getting surprised but hurt about this
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inb4 "well this is gutting to say the least" is the new "this is unsettling"
Lmao gonna use that 1 irl
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