gotta be better than seeing her ex husbands junk

I loved that show in the 80s and 90s.It's hard to leave an area that you absolutely love and is safe, at least for now in CA before the homeless move in here. They're starting to get closer.

What about me when he left me alone 6 nights a week and then sexless for 18 years?

Many people in the psych ward were there due to the pain of divorce and marriage problems.

People in the psych ward aren't that much more different than Miscers, other than they all were much nicer in there and no one was rude to me. The women didn't talk that much to me but the men did.Well that was his decision. He could have divorced me in 1995 when he smelled and had to listen to bulimia. Back then he had no wealth like he does now, either. We hadn't even had purchased a house together back then. The condo was his.

What made him stay married to me for 30 years?

He's actually a pretty successful guy at 60. He's done well at his career, made a lot more money than I did as I worked hourly as a consultant and he got lot of RSUs, which helped give me a very comfortable life.

He runs 5 miles in the hills and plays basketball 2x a week against guys in their 20s and 30s.

He's 6'1 and a good looking white guy so according to the Misc he has it made.

So why did he stay with me?

He didn't, thats why your shit is being thrown out.


















Now go tell your fukking psych this nonsense, not misc

What do you mean he didn't? No one held a gun to his head and said he had to stay married to me for 30 years.

I only see my therapist once every 2 weeks and my psychiatrist once a month. I had people in the psych ward to talk to 24/7--other patients mostly, plus therapists in group and we had daily visits with psychiatrists to adjust medication.

It was fun. I miss the karaoke, painting and art projects, plus lots of naps.

Can we get Dusty’s husband in here…

Dusty please tell your husband to make an account. Srs

one nutjob is enough, don't you think?

You're having a mental breakdown right now.



Get yourself to the psych ward and tell them you want 2 weeks this time.

He left you alone 6 nights a week and sexless 18 years. You were only married on paper

"Never stick your dick in crazy"


He is a smart man.

Too bad he was tricked into signing papers with a nutter. She musta hid it well until it was too late.

....Coming soon to Brazzers.

OMG Bae you get yours girl. Hope you get the house Bae.

Id give him a stern talking to

Kind of mad that in the cesspool that is the misc, Dusty still stands above all in terms of being one of the most self-centered narcisists the misc has ever seen.

Just lol that you think my personality is anywhere close to Trump’s or Musk’s. Would they volunteer at animal shelters, trap and spay/neuter feral cats, care for elderly relatives, and volunteer as the Room Parent and head of the Auction at my daughter’s schools?

I can list at least 5 Miscers who constantly create threads about themselves.

We talked about getting divorced in 1998 as I was so lonely but then his Mom got a great deal on a house in an affluent neighborhood. It was a dream house as my parents were poor and I played tennis on public courts.

Then in 2000 I was making $60 an hour so maybe he stayed married as he liked my money.

I moved out in 2002-3 but then we saw our baby niece and decided we could make a cute baby too, so we reconciled and the whole pregnancy and first year was amazing, but then he went back to neglect mode.

I get a lot of chit on here about hooking up with guys but imagine that loneliness?

Then I moved out again as I didn’t want to cheat on him but my daughter cried all night and I couldn’t sleep so I took her back home and saw her 2 nights a week. That was torture and the divorce attorney said I could lose custody for moving out with no parental agreement, so he suggested I move back home for 6 months to look like we tried a reconciliation and file again in 6 months.

Then we had problems with the nanny so I quit my job, the Great Recession hit, and life just went on and that’s when I started getting obsessed with young guys.

didn't you admit the only reason he stayed was because of your daughter?

strange situation you are in. in one you live in commiefornia so you could easily goto divorce court and get rewarded everything but then again you fkd up his life and marriage so you should just give it to him

California is community property so I wouldn’t get “everything”—I’d get half. Even a housewife could get half but I worked for 25 years. He did support me for 5 years when I took care of our daughter.

Yeah maybe he knew we would get joint custody and I know he was scared that one of my guys would molest our daughter so he wanted to supervise.

I don't think you are in postion to cry about loniless if you cheated and destroyed a marriage. I feel like you are leaving out major details on your husbands neglect happened after he found out you were cheating. Also, the fact you are complaining about not being able to sleep because your daughter crying as a baby is pathetic.They couldn't split the house. One person would get it. what ever else you guys own (finances, cars, other properties, etc.) would goto the other person

Does he know his family make these threats/comments to you?

What does he say?

He knows as I told him. I guess he talked to that person and then husband told me my stuff would be ok.

Still I’m taking photos and putting the valuables into my own safe deposit box.

What a disaster, as Trump would say.

I didn’t think it would be this ugly.

No. I did not sleep with other men for the first 12 years of our marriage. None of my friends went to bars, there was no social media or dating apps, so where would I meet men? I was cold approached in grocery stores but I told the men I was married and showed them my ring. My wedding ring was unconventional so men didn’t always get it. Plus they weren’t my type.

Then Ratemybody.com came out in gosh 2005 or 2006 and that’s when I got hooked as I was self conscious of my pregnancy weight gain but I had men around the world who wanted to talk on cam. The young guys were soooo hot and I was hooked so I moved out. Then MySpace appeared and it was nonstop young guys hitting me up.

Most likely he will buy me out of my share of the house and we’ll split the investments. It’s not like I’m getting everything.

Why is it pathetic that I couldn’t have joint custody of my daughter? She was obviously miserable and wanted to go back to her house. I worked full time so I didn’t know what to do other than take her back to the house. I couldn’t stand seeing her suffer but then I missed her like crazy.

At least this way I got to see her most every day for 18 years.

Bump

How about instead of dumping your mental trash here, you go talk to a PREOFESSIONAL about all this shit.

You made me legit lol.

Don’t fight him.

OP should have made amends with her husband and stopped banging strange men off of dating apps months ago like I suggested, srs

I do but it's only for 1 hour every 2 weeks. Plus I can talk to men on here without them sending nudes like they do on dating apps. I have no interest in seeing cawks.I meant fight in terms of standing up for myself in divorce proceedings. A week ago I felt overwhelmed at the thought of doing laundry and going to the grocery store. I just could barely function and the thought of dealing with attorneys was beyond overwhelming.He's not going to make amends with me after my past. I don't even know if I'm meant to be monogamous ever, unless the guy is a young HBB, but then he most likely would cheat on me so I would be miserable worrying about that all of the time as I was when I was seeing a young guy regularly. I would see a girl on his Instagram and get depressed.

Some people just aren't wired to be monogamous, or in my case I'm acting out since my Dad was a high school teacher and hooked up with his students. He ended up in jail for that.

Inb4 thread delete

Well wouldn't you? lol