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post 1611350101 07-22-2020, 11:30 AM
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Close friend asked for 700$ loan(srs)

Hey misc
already been through
this cycle, lost some
because of we will give it back
i dont like to leave my friends weak
but this guy seems fuked more than my own situation
he asked for it since his credits pile went from 15k to around 22k this year
and his job isnt that secure, i myself got fuked with the 50% paycutt since most of
our job depends mainly on finished work commision.

What is your advise?
thanks
your sincerely bastard
post 1611350221 07-22-2020, 11:32 AM
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i'd give him $100, tell him it's all you have. and tell yourself it's a gift and not a loan and don't expect it back.
post 1611350241 07-22-2020, 11:32 AM
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Nope.
Never lend.
Money for friend.
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post 1611350261 07-22-2020, 11:32 AM
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Tell him Mcdonald's is hiring and don't loan him any money.
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post 1611350321 07-22-2020, 11:32 AM
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If you give that to him expect to never get it back srs
post 1611350371 07-22-2020, 11:32 AM
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You're not gonna get it back.
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post 1611350511 07-22-2020, 11:34 AM
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Whatever you give him
treat it as a gift
not worth it
choose
friendship or getting paid back
You would be surprised just how much time I have to waste.
post 1611350551 07-22-2020, 11:35 AM
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Tell him to give you 500$ first then loan him the 700
post 1611350611 07-22-2020, 11:36 AM
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Originally Posted By Fang2⏩
Tell him Mcdonald's is hiring and don't loan him any money.
This. If people are that desperate there are always places to work.
post 1611350671 07-22-2020, 11:36 AM
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Don't. Only give the money away and expect it to be gone. Loans never work out. Small amounts like $20 have ruined year long friendships.
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post 1611350931 07-22-2020, 11:39 AM
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DO NOT LOAN HIM THE MONEY....JUST TELL HIM TIMES ARE TOUGH OR YOU HAVE AN UNEXPECTED EXPENSE OR TELL HIM TO PAWN/SELL STUFF.

My story:

Once i loaned $800 to a very close friend like immediately that day in cash. I thought nothing of it and assumed he would pay me back when he could. Well we continued to hang out and about 3 months in I asked him if he had the money to pay me back very politely. he gave me $100 and told me that the rest would be coming within a month. Well another 3 months go by and I ask him about the rest. He tells me he will get it for me but doesn't.

So once I am hanging out at his house and ask him about some computer stuff (new in amazon boxes) at his house that was sitting on the table. It was worth probably $1000. I assumed it was his roomates and then he told me he just bought it.

So I basically asked him for the the $700 he owed me and said I'm going to have to ask for the computer stuff as collateral. He said he would pay me immediately...we went to his bank and he paid me but wasn't happy about it. Remember I gave him that $800 within hours of him asking for it.

After I got the money...he never called again.


tl,dr: NO.
post 1611351931 07-22-2020, 11:48 AM
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If a friend asked for $700 I would know they sincerely needed it and give it to them. IDK what kind of friends you have though OP.
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Not no but hell no. Dude is irresponsible af racking up that type of debt. That money would be as good as gone.
Your schtick sucks and it screams insecurity.
post 1611352481 07-22-2020, 11:52 AM
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Does he have little kids that will be malnourished leading to further complications as they get older?

If yes, give him some grocery store vouchers.

If no, tell him you are a bastard.
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post 1611352561 07-22-2020, 11:53 AM
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All depends on level of trust and the person's ability to pay. If there is a good reason for the loan and they show evidence that they have a plan to pay it or a reason for why there is a timing gap on their income, go for it. I would also casually expect some sort of payment for the trouble, even if just some free drinks or a meal.

I occasionally lend money to a degenerate gambler who has a high income. He's good for it, he's just a degenerate. He always throws me a bone for doing so
post 1611353591 07-22-2020, 12:04 PM
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if he stacked up an extra 7k in debt this year alone, his money is clearly disappearing somewhere and all this loan is gonna do is make the creditors disappear for another 30 days. he has no intention of paying anyone involved, he just wants to float debt from person to person and he's already in way over his head

fuk that. that money is good as gone the second you hand it to him and so is that friendship
post 1611353681 07-22-2020, 12:05 PM
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If you give it to him, don't expect it back, cause you're not likely to see it any time soon.
22k credit card debt, the interest is going to be eating him alive. Stupid move on his part racking it up that far.
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post 1611354021 07-22-2020, 12:09 PM
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Originally Posted By Kiop⏩
Hey misc
already been through
this cycle, lost some
because of we will give it back
i dont like to leave my friends weak
but this guy seems fuked more than my own situation
he asked for it since his credits pile went from 15k to around 22k this year
and his job isnt that secure, i myself got fuked with the 50% paycutt since most of
our job depends mainly on finished work commision.

What is your advise?
thanks
your sincerely bastard
never loan anybody money
just give him what you can afford to give
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post 1611354091 07-22-2020, 12:09 PM
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Thats one way to lose money and friends at the same time.

Just tell him you are struggling as well and that you can give him 100-200 bucks but no need to pay it back, its just a gift. If he bitches or asks for more or whatever, then dont give him **** and cut him off your life already.
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post 1611354321 07-22-2020, 12:12 PM
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Originally Posted By Train57⏩
never loan anybody money
just give him what you can afford to give
Why? There's plenty of situations where money lending makes sense. When I got my first real job out of college after a long stretch of having nothing, one of my best friends let me live in his damn house on credit and I paid him back a month or two later

With my last roommate, he got a job at my firm but was short on the deposit money and everything else at the beginning. Just made a receivable tracker with a bit of interest and all worked out just fine.

Better rule is to not lend out what you can't afford to lose
post 1611370571 07-22-2020, 03:01 PM
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Thanks for the help guys
i knew most had the same problem

with few of positive good friends
who gave back the loan...

tough times.. stay safe
post 1611370901 07-22-2020, 03:05 PM
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Originally Posted By Drew23⏩
If a friend asked for $700 I would know they sincerely needed it and give it to them. IDK what kind of friends you have though OP.
I once had a friend stressing how he couldn't pay for his last college class.
I had $400 in my bank account which was everything i had, so i gave it to him and said i hope this will help you graduate.
3 weeks later he tells me all excited about this new playstation he bought...
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absolutely not
post 1611370991 07-22-2020, 03:07 PM
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Originally Posted By backinthegymbro⏩
I once had a friend stressing how he couldn't pay for his last college class.
I had $400 in my bank account which was everything i said, so i gave it to him and said i hope this will help you graduate.
3 weeks later he tells me all excited about this new playstation he bought...
Did he pay you back?
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Don't ever give $$ to friends or family with the thought process of them giving it back. I would give them whatever I could afford and tell em it's all you have and think of it as a gift
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Ask your friend to
put a fist up his ass to
look for 700 bucks
and if he does not
find it there
then proceed to
Fist yourself and
find 700 dollars up your
ass
post 1611371301 07-22-2020, 03:10 PM
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Originally Posted By NosyJossie⏩
Did he pay you back?
No but it was never a loan. I simply offered to give him the money as a gift and did what i could at that time to help him out. So i never asked for it back either.
It wasn't about the money even though i gave him everything i had. It just bothered me that he spent it on a gaming console so it wasn't an emergency.
And it's not like i couldn't have used that money for myself. But lesson learned.
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never.
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I rather live in my car or be homeless than asking a friend or family member to loan me a large sum of money (srs).

Real friends would never put you in that spot.
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if a friend really needs money and it wont hurt you then I say give it
BUT

not if it is a friend looking for a hand out, a friend who isnt trying to get money on their own, a friend who has already squandered money on stupid **** like expensive vehicles they could sell, gambling, drugs and alcohol, stock trading, etc....

If the friend legitimately is working or trying to work as much as possible, living within their means, has nothing to sell, and has bills needing to be paid, then yeah.
Originally Posted By Stephen109⏩
A true friend would never ask another for "a loan" in the first place.

OP tell your friend you can't lend him the cash & if he gets butt hurt about it then he is not worth your time, find another friend.
you have just never fallen on hard times. There are moments for some people where just a little help can go a LONG way in keeping them from spiraling downward and getting evicted, car repossessed, losing their job, etc...
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