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post 1621622581 11-05-2020, 04:19 PM
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Met up with an ex.. pretty sure I made her cry (srs)

Update to my last thread.. cliffs op dated girl for 2 yrs, ended due to op constantly pushing her away due to substance abuse later finding out I have bpd.. met up last night for the first time in 1 year

Found out beforehand she’s been dating someone for a month.. an hour or so into meeting up I brought up the fact I dated a girl for a few months and it only ended due to her planning on moving and at same time as lockdowns (op Is an ******* and mainly did this due to finding out she had a bf beforehand) her demeanour completely changed and a few mins later she went to the washroom.. I’m no makeup expert but that chit looked smeared when she got back

I realized quickly anyway that I don’t want to get back together and would rather keep her as a close friend so friendzoning her I guess.. she wants to go see a movie next week but op isn’t very eager but will do it anyway.. I tried to make it obvious I’m not looking to get back together by saying I’m focused on self improvement etc (our dinner lasted 6hrs before we got kicked out srs)

Think I’m only posting this as I stopped seeing my therapist but I am feeling like I’m on the verge of ruining my social life again Srs

Not posting pics of her so I’ll post the same pic of ex I dated after her again..



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-op meets up with ex for the first time in a year
-finds out she has a bf beforehand, is an ******* and makes her jealous by mentioning a girl I dated recently first.. pretty sure she went to cry
-op just wants to be friends but don’t think she got the message.. wants to see a movie next week
-what do?

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post 1621622981 11-05-2020, 04:23 PM
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Srs thread? Why would you ever waste time with an ex lol. You’re begrudgingly going to a movie with her when you admitted you don’t want to? Brah wtf lol find a better use of your time, what are you trying to accomplish here?
post 1621623041 11-05-2020, 04:24 PM
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no pics.. negged
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post 1621623201 11-05-2020, 04:26 PM
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post 1621623341 11-05-2020, 04:27 PM
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brb make her jealous
brb gonna friendzone her
brb going to the movies next week

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post 1621623451 11-05-2020, 04:28 PM
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Originally Posted By justgenetics⏩
I tried to make it obvious I’m not looking to get back together by saying I’m focused on self improvement etc (our dinner lasted 6hrs before we got kicked out srs
That's some phucking sloot logic if I've heard it. BRB "I don't want to be with you", BRB take her to dinner and entertain her for 6 hours, like wtf you doing brah?
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post 1621623471 11-05-2020, 04:29 PM
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Originally Posted By Sevenlionz⏩
Srs thread? Why would you ever waste time with an ex lol. You’re begrudgingly going to a movie with her when you admitted you don’t want to? Brah wtf lol find a better use of your time, what are you trying to accomplish here?
Yes srs.. we were friends for a bit before we dated and realized I’d rather go back to that as we have a ton of chemistry I do care about her a lot etc

I didn’t admit I didn’t want to but I’m indifferent to it.. I don’t want her to get the wrong idea even tho I mentioned more than once I’m staying single for a while which is true
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post 1621623611 11-05-2020, 04:30 PM
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post 1621623901 11-05-2020, 04:32 PM
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Originally Posted By FA*******⏩
That's some phucking sloot logic if I've heard it. BRB "I don't want to be with you", BRB take her to dinner and entertain her for 6 hours, like wtf you doing brah?
I want to be friends with her as I care about her a lot but I don’t have any feelings anymore.. I enjoyed seeing her which is why it lasted 6hrs.. we have a ton of chemistry so yeah
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post 1621624521 11-05-2020, 04:37 PM
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Originally Posted By justgenetics⏩
I want to be friends with her as I care about her a lot but I don’t have any feelings anymore.. I enjoyed seeing her which is why it lasted 6hrs.. we have a ton of chemistry so yeah
Put your best valley girl voice on and say that again to yourself.

"We used to bang for two years, and I hang out with her all the time because we just have this AMAZING chemistry, just so much in common, but no we're just friends!" If some sloot told you that, you'd be packing your bags for North Carolina.

Like brah, why u playing. You want to bang, you're just doing this "friend" chit cause she's got a rebound BF in the way. That rebound BF will be gone soon enough, don't sweat it, but you can be honest with yourself.
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post 1621625061 11-05-2020, 04:41 PM
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Originally Posted By FA*******⏩
Put your best valley girl voice on and say that again to yourself.

"We used to bang for two years, and I hang out with her all the time because we just have this AMAZING chemistry, just so much in common, but no we're just friends!" If some sloot told you that, you'd be packing your bags for North Carolina.

Like brah, why u playing. You want to bang, you're just doing this "friend" chit cause she's got a rebound BF in the way. That rebound BF will be gone soon enough, don't sweat it, but you can be honest with yourself.
I’m dead srs when I say I don’t feel any feelings towards her but maybe that will change I’d hope not..

Long story short as well as breaking up with her I lost a bunch of friends at the same time too and still feels pretty bad.. so that’s partly why too I guess idk
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post 1621625441 11-05-2020, 04:44 PM
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post 1621625521 11-05-2020, 04:45 PM
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Originally Posted By justgenetics⏩
I want to be friends with her as I care about her a lot but I don’t have any feelings anymore.. I enjoyed seeing her which is why it lasted 6hrs.. we have a ton of chemistry so yeah
Why are you lying to your misc brothers? It's very obvious you still want her despite knowing once you've broken up there's no mending. Forget and move on, there's better ones out there.
post 1621626081 11-05-2020, 04:49 PM
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if you didnt plan on fukking her or getting back together with her you are wasting both of your time and being a mega douche by making her have hope and feelings again only to shut her down.
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post 1621626161 11-05-2020, 04:49 PM
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Originally Posted By p7nk⏩
no pics.. negged
Linked in op in bed wasn’t working maybe I’m autism

Is ex I dated after her not girl mentioned in op
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post 1621626351 11-05-2020, 04:51 PM
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah⏩
if you didnt plan on fukking her or getting back together with her you are wasting both of your time and being a mega douche by making her have hope and feelings again only to shut her down.
Honestly before meeting up I didn’t know how I’d feel

But I literally mentioned multiple times I’m not looking to date rn and if I have to I’ll just tell her I want to be friends and see how she reacts.. despite being an irrational idiot I don’t want to hurt her at all as I genuinely care about her a lot
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post 1621626721 11-05-2020, 04:54 PM
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Originally Posted By Schnitzl⏩
Why are you lying to your misc brothers? It's very obvious you still want her despite knowing once you've broken up there's no mending. Forget and move on, there's better ones out there.
Got no reason to lie about my feels brah Srs.. I’m not naive tho ik that could change

Ideally yeah I’d want to date someone else and keep her as a friend as I could easily see us being very close friends for life if neither catches feels again (nohomo)
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post 1621627541 11-05-2020, 04:59 PM
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Originally Posted By justgenetics⏩
Honestly before meeting up I didn’t know how I’d feel

But I literally mentioned multiple times I’m not looking to date rn and if I have to I’ll just tell her I want to be friends and see how she reacts.. despite being an irrational idiot I don’t want to hurt her at all as I genuinely care about her a lot
you just need to get your estrogen checked. You are way too up in your feels. Shes an ex, you dont want to have sex with her, shes with someone else now, there is NO reason you should have any feelings or communication with her. Its the past and you have no future with her so you are just playing emotional masturbation games. Stop it.
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah⏩
you just need to get your estrogen checked. You are way too up in your feels. Shes an ex, you dont want to have sex with her, shes with someone else now, there is NO reason you should have any feelings or communication with her. Its the past and you have no future with her so you are just playing emotional masturbation games. Stop it.
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only reason you should be meeting up with an EX is for a quick ****, cause your a sick ****

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Originally Posted By Jestbrah⏩
you just need to get your estrogen checked. You are way too up in your feels. Shes an ex, you dont want to have sex with her, shes with someone else now, there is NO reason you should have any feelings or communication with her. Its the past and you have no future with her so you are just playing emotional masturbation games. Stop it.
Not going into detail or being too dramatic but been getting my life back on track past couple yrs. I got out of touch with my best friend for months when we’ve been friends for 10+ yrs. I see not getting back in touch with her as a similar thing as she means almost as much to me. I’m probably being selfish, but my intentions aren’t bad
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Originally Posted By justgenetics⏩
Not going into detail or being too dramatic but been getting my life back on track past couple yrs. I got out of touch with my best friend for months when we’ve been friends for 10+ yrs. I see not getting back in touch with her as a similar thing as she means almost as much to me. I’m probably being selfish, but my intentions aren’t bad
Yes they are, they are selfish. You are being selfish. You want a friendship with her, you want forgiveness, you want her to see you a different way. ITs all about you.
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you have borderline personality disorder? did you get an opinion from a second psychiatrist? It is very rare for a man to have that.
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