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post 1637965163 05-06-2021, 11:32 PM
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Pretty much everything was easier when I was a kid

Like in my 20s (1999/2000)
-a full family home in a working class suburb was like 3-4 times an entry level income
-if you had a university degree you were pretty much guaranteed to walk into a well paid job with good prospects
-uni share house cost literally a few dollars a week. House might be falling apart but it was cheap if you didn’t hassle the landlord.
-dating was fairly straightforward, walk up to girls and talk to them. No-one expected a 3 course meal at a hatted restaurant for a date. If you liked each other you smashed and there was no “me too” movement
-even little things like free parking and cheap beer would help if you were a student on a budget

Now everything requires you to be “on your grind” 24/7, careermaxxing, social media maxxing to get women, need to have a “strategy” just to get into the housing market. Everything seems overpriced, can’t even go into a pub to order a pint without it costing like $10 for some swill because it’s “microbrewed”

Current state of the world not even once

Oldmansimpsonyellsatcloud.jpg
post 1637965233 05-06-2021, 11:34 PM
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Girls are still the same. You don't actually need tinder, ig fame, any of that. You can literally just walk up and say hi. That's how I've met most of the girls I've phucked and all of the girls I've dated, outside 1

The economy is pretty phucked now yea
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post 1637965463 05-06-2021, 11:40 PM
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Originally Posted By RagnarChadbrok
Girls are still the same. You don't actually need tinder, ig fame, any of that. You can literally just walk up and say hi. That's how I've met most of the girls I've phucked and all of the girls I've dated, outside 1

The economy is pretty phucked now yea
Lmao

Mirin stats in sig

The way the misc tells it you shouldn’t bother talking to women unless you’re Bilzerian-lite
post 1637965653 05-06-2021, 11:44 PM
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Not only that but business and culture used to be better as well.
-Used to be able to return anything for a refund, no questions asked. Now because of *******s gaming the system I had to show them a copy of my driver's license to make an exchange on a pair of jeans that ripped after wearing twice
-Certain items at the grocery store are behind a locked case (razor blades, cough medicine, etc)
-Used to be able to go to the doctor's office and get a mole or skintag removed in minor surgery. Today's ******* doctors refuse to do it, will refer me to a dermatologist, still charge me $240 for teh visit. Fukc off.

probably a few other things I am forgetting as well.
post 1637965813 05-06-2021, 11:48 PM
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Omg can’t believe I forgot political correctness

For the first decade of my working life I don’t think we even had “trannies”

Maybe “transvestite” but that was it

If someone was gay you would not know about it in the office

If you made fun of alternative lifestyles it was fine

Even a certain amount of risque humour about race or religion was ok

Now being one of the alphabet people is a badge of pride, people are searching for an excuse to be outraged and if they pin it on you you’re sacked and can never be employed again

Also pre-September 11 nobody was on edge in airports etc
post 1637965833 05-06-2021, 11:48 PM
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Finally a boomer that admits things were easier lmfao
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post 1637965913 05-06-2021, 11:51 PM
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Originally Posted By Prolapse916
Finally a boomer that admits things were easier lmfao
Well I guess for guys with your lifestyle you would have found more acceptance in the current politically correct culture

20 years ago we just thought anyone over the age of 30 or so that wasn’t married or in a hetero relationship was a “confirmed bachelor” and left it at that

Don’t ask don’t tell
post 1637966033 05-06-2021, 11:53 PM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra
Lmao

Mirin stats in sig

The way the misc tells it you shouldn’t bother talking to women unless you’re Bilzerian-lite
Lmao I know, but ignore absolutely everything misc says about women. Bodybuilding attracts some of the most insecure and neurotic men on the planet. Is it any surprise that a forum about looks has a hyperfixation on looks? 90% of the guys here with women problems think it's their looks, but it's their neuroticism. Sure, easy for me to say being handsome, but I've known countless of unattractive guys with hot gfs/hookups. Maybe they're confident, funny, well connected, fun to be around, etc. It happens all the time. Just not to miscers

I've been reading this forum since I was a kid. Thank God I formed my opinions about women through personal experience and not listening to these guys, or I wouldn't have had one tenth the success and confidence I have now
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post 1637966103 05-06-2021, 11:56 PM
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Originally Posted By RagnarChadbrok
Lmao I know, but ignore absolutely everything misc says about women. Bodybuilding attracts some of the most insecure and neurotic men on the planet. Is it any surprise that a forum about looks has a hyperfixation on looks? 90% of the guys here with women problems think it's their looks, but it's their neuroticism. Sure, easy for me to say being handsome, but I've known countless of unattractive guys with hot gfs/hookups. Maybe they'reconfident, funny, well connected, fun to be around, etc. It happens all the time. Just not to miscers

I've been reading this forum since I was a kid. Thank God I formed my opinions about women through personal experience and not listening to these guys, or I wouldn't have had one tenth the success and confidence I have now
Lmao I was none of those things but still smashed. Must have been 175lb soaking wet (although shredded to the bone pre-fight).

Yeah maybe when it comes to difficulties with women misc is a bit of a negative echo chamber.
post 1637966243 05-07-2021, 12:00 AM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra
Lmao I was none of those things but still smashed. Must have been 175lb soaking wet (although shredded to the bone pre-fight).

Yeah maybe when it comes to difficulties with women misc is a bit of a negative echo chamber.
There you go. Lots of the time, you don't have to be any of that. You just have to put yourself out there. I had a little fat phase in college when I was 20. I quit lifting altogether, and was just partying 24/7. I looked pretty sh*tty. Still landed a 9/10 gf because I was outgoing with the girls

On the flip side, being handsome at home will get you nowhere
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post 1637974483 05-07-2021, 05:19 AM
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Pretty much everything was easier when I was a kid....

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post 1637975013 05-07-2021, 05:32 AM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra
Like in my 20s (1999/2000)
-a full family home in a working class suburb was like 3-4 times an entry level income
-if you had a university degree you were pretty much guaranteed to walk into a well paid job with good prospects
-uni share house cost literally a few dollars a week. House might be falling apart but it was cheap if you didn’t hassle the landlord.
-dating was fairly straightforward, walk up to girls and talk to them. No-one expected a 3 course meal at a hatted restaurant for a date. If you liked each other you smashed and there was no “me too” movement
-even little things like free parking and cheap beer would help if you were a student on a budget

Now everything requires you to be “on your grind” 24/7, careermaxxing, social media maxxing to get women, need to have a “strategy” just to get into the housing market. Everything seems overpriced, can’t even go into a pub to order a pint without it costing like $10 for some swill because it’s “microbrewed”

Current state of the world not even once

Oldmansimpsonyellsatcloud.jpg
I’ve heard it said by American guys that Australia is still better (ie, more friendly women, still some affordable places to live with nice weather, etc). Is Aussiemaxxing the way to go? Has your country gone full Clown World yet?
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post 1637977043 05-07-2021, 06:26 AM
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post 1637977443 05-07-2021, 06:34 AM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra
Like in my 20s (1999/2000)
-a full family home in a working class suburb was like 3-4 times an entry level income
-if you had a university degree you were pretty much guaranteed to walk into a well paid job with good prospects
-uni share house cost literally a few dollars a week. House might be falling apart but it was cheap if you didn’t hassle the landlord.
-dating was fairly straightforward, walk up to girls and talk to them. No-one expected a 3 course meal at a hatted restaurant for a date. If you liked each other you smashed and there was no “me too” movement
-even little things like free parking and cheap beer would help if you were a student on a budget

Now everything requires you to be “on your grind” 24/7, careermaxxing, social media maxxing to get women, need to have a “strategy” just to get into the housing market. Everything seems overpriced, can’t even go into a pub to order a pint without it costing like $10 for some swill because it’s “microbrewed”

Current state of the world not even once

Oldmansimpsonyellsatcloud.jpg
Depends a lot on where you live too, I live in the southeast and houses are still pretty affordable (although are certainly going up). Have to remember that when houses were cheaper, interest rates were significantly higher.

As far as jobs go, there’s tons of jobs around here , there’s really no excuse if you can’t find something decent. I hire interns and they make double hourly what I did 10 years ago.

Didn’t meet my wife via social media. If anything it’s wayyy easier to find an easy smash.

You don’t have to go to breweries and spend $10 a beer , but I like the options now. It’s nice to have places to drink that aren’t sketchy bars.

Consider moving to the southeast man it’s GOAT place to live in the US.
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post 1637977723 05-07-2021, 06:38 AM
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Human beings have always been spectacularly full of schit, but the internet gives people a direct platform to spew their vitriolic ignorance. That, I think, is the largest issue. Things in the 90s were generally laid back because, even if people with tribal/all or nothing beliefs were around, they couldn't regurgitate their nonsense to anyone besides who'd be within ear shot to actually hear their filth.

Internet = simultaneously the greatest and worse human invention.
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