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post 1690397313 09-20-2023, 06:39 PM
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Any of you gents still worry about your ex hoping she

Is being treated good and taken care of ?
"it takes a wise man to know when he is in error and a noble man to admit to it"
post 1690397373 09-20-2023, 06:40 PM
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Nope. I don't wish bad on them but really don't think about them
post 1690397853 09-20-2023, 06:49 PM
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Most of my exes are in miserable situations. Either chronically single, have cheated on their husbands (more than one of them with me) or they are pretending that they are happy when they are obviously settling to not be lonely.

So I don't worry about them at all, but occasionally it gives me a good chuckle to look them up.
post 1690397883 09-20-2023, 06:50 PM
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I'm still in touch with most of them. Hope the best for them
post 1690397933 09-20-2023, 06:51 PM
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Originally Posted By Cleveland33⏩
I'm still in touch with most of them. Hope the best for them
I can't comprehend keeping in touch with ex's
post 1690398273 09-20-2023, 06:56 PM
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Originally Posted By bsrkoacar2⏩
I can't comprehend keeping in touch with ex's
like on social media. none of them ended badly, they were awesome people just not the right one
post 1690398393 09-20-2023, 06:58 PM
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Originally Posted By bsrkoacar2⏩
I can't comprehend keeping in touch with ex's
Well I have to because we share a son together.. I use to try and reconcile not just because we share a son but necause I genuinely loved this person but after she made it perfectly clear she hated my guts I had no choice but to give up trying but I still worry about if she's being treated good. Because my son is around it and because I was always very protective of her anyways. Not possessive just protective. She has a history of letting men treat her really bad and now im.not there to male sure that never happens again.

It's a shifty feeling but one you must learn to accept
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post 1690398553 09-20-2023, 07:01 PM
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post 1690399563 09-20-2023, 07:22 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
No I hope mine dies or goes to prison.
Darn Holmes. What did she do to you that was so bad?
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post 1690400503 09-20-2023, 07:40 PM
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I mean kind of as my kids are involved, but for her... Nope.
post 1690400993 09-20-2023, 07:47 PM
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My ex will contact me from time to time, mainly if she's really having a hard time and needs a few bucks to get through the month. I can tell she wants to talk to me but I always remind her I'm married now and she stops messaging. I don't wish any bad intentions on her, just hope she finds the happiness I have.
post 1690401133 09-20-2023, 07:50 PM
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I don’t really care, we don’t talk and I don’t care if we never talk again. Dead srs. Wouldn’t wish anything bad to happen to her, just don’t have any feelings for her and honestly never did LOL
post 1690401263 09-20-2023, 07:52 PM
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Originally Posted By latverian41⏩
Is being treated good and taken care of ?
**** NO.. She made her Bed
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post 1690401393 09-20-2023, 07:54 PM
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Originally Posted By latverian41⏩
Well I have to because we share a son together.. I use to try and reconcile not just because we share a son but necause I genuinely loved this person but after she made it perfectly clear she hated my guts I had no choice but to give up trying but I still worry about if she's being treated good. Because my son is around it and because I was always very protective of her anyways. Not possessive just protective. She has a history of letting men treat her really bad and now im.not there to male sure that never happens again.

It's a shifty feeling but one you must learn to accept
Yeah for sure. If children are involved you should keep it on good terms.
post 1690401543 09-20-2023, 07:57 PM
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post 1690401553 09-20-2023, 07:57 PM
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Originally Posted By Aware88⏩
My ex will contact me from time to time, mainly if she's really having a hard time and needs a few bucks to get through the month. I can tell she wants to talk to me but I always remind her I'm married now and she stops messaging. I don't wish any bad intentions on her, just hope she finds the happiness I have.
My ex's consistently hit me up a few times a year and happened a couple months ago. I completely ignore them. I don't have kids with any of them so when I break up, it's a complete breakup. I don't want any contact at all and tell them that during the break up. They haven't all been bad breakups but that's what was agreed upon.
post 1690401923 09-20-2023, 08:04 PM
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Originally Posted By bsrkoacar2⏩
My ex's consistently hit me up a few times a year and happened a couple months ago. I completely ignore them. I don't have kids with any of them so when I break up, it's a complete breakup. I don't want any contact at all and tell them that during the break up. They haven't all been bad breakups but that's what was agreed upon.
I get that and with this particular ex I'm at that point, I've been married almost 3 years now next Feb. She's blocked everywhere except a yahoo email which is how she contacts me, I've been thinking it's time to close that line as well. I don't think she'll ever emotionally let go if I don't.
post 1690402243 09-20-2023, 08:11 PM
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Originally Posted By Aware88⏩
I get that and with this particular ex I'm at that point, I've been married almost 3 years now next Feb. She's blocked everywhere except a yahoo email which is how she contacts me, I've been thinking it's time to close that line as well. I don't think she'll ever emotionally let go if I don't.
Yeah it's for the best imo. The relationship didn't work out, go separate ways and move on. Especially since you are married, it's not right for her to be contacting you. I don't know your marriage but I doubt your wife would be impressed by that.
post 1690402363 09-20-2023, 08:14 PM
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Lol, at this point I have no feels or anything, so I wouldn't mind catching up. But she's just a really crappy person.
post 1690402483 09-20-2023, 08:17 PM
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Originally Posted By bsrkoacar2⏩
Yeah it's for the best imo. The relationship didn't work out, go separate ways and move on. Especially since you are married, it's not right for her to be contacting you. I don't know your marriage but I doubt your wife would be impressed by that.
My wife gets screen shots and the play by play everytime my ex does come around, I'm lucky enough to have someone that trusts me 100% so she doesn't care either way.
post 1690403043 09-20-2023, 08:34 PM
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I have 1 ex who I feel bad for and do hope things work out for. She is fundamentally broken, probably has BPD but tries to be a good person, she just can't be.

She can't ever be in my life, but I do hope she finds some way to be happy.
post 1690403363 09-20-2023, 08:41 PM
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Originally Posted By BalognaNbeans⏩
I hope she gets hit by a bus tbh
Dam she was not the best man
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post 1690404163 09-20-2023, 08:58 PM
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Yeah always boyo
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Yeah. She's the best man
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