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Girl went NC after Vegas trip (wat do)
save your insults, just trying to understand what could have possibly happened
-OP gets introduced to girl thru a friend
-she's smoking hot and does modelling
-we live on different coasts of the country, invite her to vegas
-OP pays for flights, hotels (separate rooms), all activities, ubers and food during 2 day trip
-we have a good time, have some connection, make her laugh, get a kiss on last day too
-didn't try banging because weren't talking too much over text before, it was moreso a first date
-we make plans to meet again and to fly her out to my town
-following day I message her how great it was etc and no response. Usually she would respond to my texts within an hour
-friend that introduced me tells me the girl and her mom got mad because I Was telling my friend (the mutual friend) about everything and was messaging him during the trip. The mom said I was making a show of her daughter and was super pissed. I did message him because he's my friend and deserves to know
any point salvaging this? Did I read something wrong?
-OP gets introduced to girl thru a friend
-she's smoking hot and does modelling
-we live on different coasts of the country, invite her to vegas
-OP pays for flights, hotels (separate rooms), all activities, ubers and food during 2 day trip
-we have a good time, have some connection, make her laugh, get a kiss on last day too
-didn't try banging because weren't talking too much over text before, it was moreso a first date
-we make plans to meet again and to fly her out to my town
-following day I message her how great it was etc and no response. Usually she would respond to my texts within an hour
-friend that introduced me tells me the girl and her mom got mad because I Was telling my friend (the mutual friend) about everything and was messaging him during the trip. The mom said I was making a show of her daughter and was super pissed. I did message him because he's my friend and deserves to know
any point salvaging this? Did I read something wrong?
12-17-2023, 04:07 AM
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Originally Posted By Tunechii⏩
she's related to the guy that introduced us. Wanted this to be a long term thing, this was the first time meeting her as wellu flew a girl out and only kissed her bro u srs
12-17-2023, 04:11 AM
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Definitely should have tried to bang. This isn’t a “first date” scenario, you flew this chick across the country. That’s really big srs
I can’t know exactly where it went wrong because I don’t get to see into the actual interactions I’m only getting your interpretation of it which is likely not a fully accurate depiction (respectfully)
I can’t know exactly where it went wrong because I don’t get to see into the actual interactions I’m only getting your interpretation of it which is likely not a fully accurate depiction (respectfully)
12-17-2023, 04:12 AM
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Originally Posted By Sevenlionz⏩
she's related to the guy friend that I met her from so It was moreso a first date. I had been talking on and off for 4 months over text and one facetime callDefinitely should have tried to bang. This isn’t a “first date” scenario, you flew this chick across the country. That’s really big srs
I can’t know exactly where it went wrong because I don’t get to see into the actual interactions I’m only getting your interpretation of it which is likely not a fully accurate depiction (respectfully)
I can’t know exactly where it went wrong because I don’t get to see into the actual interactions I’m only getting your interpretation of it which is likely not a fully accurate depiction (respectfully)
I can't understand if me texting my friend is an excuse or actually the reason
12-17-2023, 04:20 AM
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make the ho say no
always try to bang, it confuses them if you don't. i've made this mistake too and it's brutal. i think it's probably over for you and her
always try to bang, it confuses them if you don't. i've made this mistake too and it's brutal. i think it's probably over for you and her
12-17-2023, 04:23 AM
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Originally Posted By ChinkWithDink⏩
we kissed the last day so It was obvious I want her. Didn't feel right to make a move to bang the first nightmake the ho say no
always try to bang, it confuses them if you don't. i've made this mistake too and it's brutal. i think it's probably over for you and her
always try to bang, it confuses them if you don't. i've made this mistake too and it's brutal. i think it's probably over for you and her
and yeah I agree its over, just trying to understand wtf happened or if there's any way I can salvage it. I actually really liked her
12-17-2023, 04:27 AM
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Originally Posted By SkiGains⏩
Every situation is different, maybe you can salvage but I wouldn't know how.we kissed the last day so It was obvious I want her. Didn't feel right to make a move to bang the first night
and yeah I agree its over, just trying to understand wtf happened or if there's any way I can salvage it. I actually really liked her
and yeah I agree its over, just trying to understand wtf happened or if there's any way I can salvage it. I actually really liked her
Always keep trying to move things towards sex until they express any kind of discomfort and then thoroughly respect any boundaries they put up (do not be autistic and ignore non verbals)
This is what they expect from Chad, it's a trust building exercise. If you do not act this way then guess what they assume you are not?
This is 100% necessary with the really hot ones. I learned this the hard way and it still burns sometimes. I feel for you, good luck.
12-17-2023, 04:52 AM
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12-17-2023, 04:56 AM
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Girls are like salesmen and will say whatever they can to get what they want. Who knows if her reason is valid, but just move on.
The next girl might like the fact that you talk about her to someone else. Girls are crazy, just keep looking for a sane one
The next girl might like the fact that you talk about her to someone else. Girls are crazy, just keep looking for a sane one
12-17-2023, 04:58 AM
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You need to call her and explain yourself and apologize. Chances are good she felt used and upset.
12-17-2023, 05:10 AM
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She saw me on Fremont St. and wanted to level up, sorry OP.
But on a serious note, it sounded like you didn't try to bang, and leaking like a ship to your boy on a play by play basis didn't sounded like it helped.
But on a serious note, it sounded like you didn't try to bang, and leaking like a ship to your boy on a play by play basis didn't sounded like it helped.
12-17-2023, 06:01 AM
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If this is true, I don't think there's any recovering. Look at it as an expensive lesson. Absolutely ridiculous to make that significant investment in a girl you're not even banging yet, come on. Def should have tried to smash on the trip at least.
Also your friend is ****ty for blowing you up like that, not that you needed any help.
Also your friend is ****ty for blowing you up like that, not that you needed any help.
12-17-2023, 06:06 AM
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Originally Posted By SkiGains⏩
did you really text that guy what was happening or is that something they made up?-friend that introduced me tells me the girl and her mom got mad because I Was telling my friend (the mutual friend) about everything and was messaging him during the trip. The mom said I was making a show of her daughter and was super pissed. I did message him because he's my friend and deserves to know
is opie really a blabbermouth?
say it ain't so, opie.
at least msg timothy from across the country about your escapades.
she basically thinks you're a female now.
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12-17-2023, 06:19 AM
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Originally Posted By SkiGains⏩
Jesus Christ, this is the state of the modern man ladies and gentlemen.save your insults, just trying to understand what could have possibly happened
-OP gets introduced to girl thru a friend
-she's smoking hot and does modelling
-we live on different coasts of the country, invite her to vegas
-OP pays for flights, hotels (separate rooms), all activities, ubers and food during 2 day trip
-we have a good time, have some connection, make her laugh, get a kiss on last day too
-didn't try banging because weren't talking too much over text before, it was moreso a first date
-we make plans to meet again and to fly her out to my town
-following day I message her how great it was etc and no response. Usually she would respond to my texts within an hour
-friend that introduced me tells me the girl and her mom got mad because I Was telling my friend (the mutual friend) about everything and was messaging him during the trip. The mom said I was making a show of her daughter and was super pissed. I did message him because he's my friend and deserves to know
any point salvaging this? Did I read something wrong?
-OP gets introduced to girl thru a friend
-she's smoking hot and does modelling
-we live on different coasts of the country, invite her to vegas
-OP pays for flights, hotels (separate rooms), all activities, ubers and food during 2 day trip
-we have a good time, have some connection, make her laugh, get a kiss on last day too
-didn't try banging because weren't talking too much over text before, it was moreso a first date
-we make plans to meet again and to fly her out to my town
-following day I message her how great it was etc and no response. Usually she would respond to my texts within an hour
-friend that introduced me tells me the girl and her mom got mad because I Was telling my friend (the mutual friend) about everything and was messaging him during the trip. The mom said I was making a show of her daughter and was super pissed. I did message him because he's my friend and deserves to know
any point salvaging this? Did I read something wrong?
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12-17-2023, 06:20 AM
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As usual, you tried to buy a girl instead of actually being attractive and got taken advantage of. She used you, because you're stupid enough to buy her a free trip to Vegas.
Don't EVER buy ANYTHING for a girl you're not banging already. Including dinner.
Don't EVER buy ANYTHING for a girl you're not banging already. Including dinner.
12-17-2023, 06:21 AM
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Originally Posted By SkiGains⏩
If you didn't smash while having fun in Vegas, she realizes on a primal level, that you're not manly enough for her. The texts to her relative/your friend is simply an excuse to Next you.we kissed the last day so It was obvious I want her. Didn't feel right to make a move to bang the first night
and yeah I agree its over, just trying to understand wtf happened or if there's any way I can salvage it. I actually really liked her
and yeah I agree its over, just trying to understand wtf happened or if there's any way I can salvage it. I actually really liked her
12-17-2023, 06:25 AM
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Is this srs?
Never spend for a girl esp first date that you havent banged. WTF.
But that is all in the past now.
For now, tell your friend(her relative) and explain all and you want to reconnect with her. BUT dont expect much, move on. If she comes back, good.
She throws away all that cuz you told your friend? Unless you added that you stretched her pussy and all, then it is an overreaction.
Hope for the best but expect the worst. Move on.
Never spend for a girl esp first date that you havent banged. WTF.
But that is all in the past now.
For now, tell your friend(her relative) and explain all and you want to reconnect with her. BUT dont expect much, move on. If she comes back, good.
She throws away all that cuz you told your friend? Unless you added that you stretched her pussy and all, then it is an overreaction.
Hope for the best but expect the worst. Move on.
12-17-2023, 06:25 AM
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Stop doing the typical simp chit like paying for a girl's vacation and flying them somewhere
Don't wanna get treated like a simp well stop acting like one then
Don't wanna get treated like a simp well stop acting like one then
12-17-2023, 07:30 AM
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i'm thinking her going nc is either because of something that happened during your visit together or from discussing you with her mom. sadly, the cliffnotes aren't enough to go by. this is as far as we go, and all we have are reliable(?) cliffnotes
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Originally Posted By Tuga88⏩
this. would have been better off going solo to Vegas, picking up a random at some sort of lounge, maybe hitting a club with her, going to poundtownLmao, you gotta be trolling
12-17-2023, 07:41 AM
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should have went on a coffee date instead. would have saved you thousands
12-17-2023, 07:48 AM
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pretty sure this IS NOT a troll...muh thoughts might explain
1. OP is asian/curry
2. femaloid is Asian/curry
3. mother of femaloid is asian/curry
so basically OP tried to forward a relationship respectfully. Girl probably didn't like him on the trip but made the best of it by being nice. calling girls relative may have had something to do with it but unlikely not much. IF she had been attracted to you she would be elated that you took her so seriously. However she wasn't attracted.
If she was attracted to you. she woulda tried to escalate. Don't worry about whether or not something you did was simp (it was). femaloids will THROW themselves at guys they are actually attracted to...and in a neutral territory like Vegas? cmon son!
1. OP is asian/curry
2. femaloid is Asian/curry
3. mother of femaloid is asian/curry
so basically OP tried to forward a relationship respectfully. Girl probably didn't like him on the trip but made the best of it by being nice. calling girls relative may have had something to do with it but unlikely not much. IF she had been attracted to you she would be elated that you took her so seriously. However she wasn't attracted.
If she was attracted to you. she woulda tried to escalate. Don't worry about whether or not something you did was simp (it was). femaloids will THROW themselves at guys they are actually attracted to...and in a neutral territory like Vegas? cmon son!
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She's waiting for the penicillin to do its job...then she'll call you
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