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03-22-2024, 03:20 PM
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Had 3 dates tonight, flaked on two. Going to starbucks for coffee

I had three dates lined up tonight. One girl wanted to meet me tonight, down the street from her house for drinks and then go back for Netflix. I flaked on her yesterday so i didn't leave her hanging. She was fukable.

The next girl is a wealthy, busy business owner who hinted to me numerous times that she is a millionaire, has a house near the ocean, etc. She is busty af and 100% Columbian. She asked me out on a date and invited me to come over and sleep at her place afterward. I flaked. Here is a pic and the convo where i flaked. I crushed her. I feel bad. She is sweet. I just don't think i like her.:



This girl asked me out last week. She is an introvert, smokes weed, likes to play Super Nintendo, and is some sort of engineer or something. She isn't even smoking hot. I initially flaked on her, and she sent me a frown face emoji afterwards. I felt really bad for her and I unflaked her and am going to see her tonight. I would have gone to some outdoor bar or something with her, but it is rainy and windy here. We are meeting up for a quick cup of coffee at starbucks


None of these dates matter to me. I'm going on a date tomorrow with a chick that I actually like. She is hot af. She is the only one i think about out of all the matches/dates/sex offers i have. She is the one. Hopefully, she doesn't flake, and the date goes well tomorrow.

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-OP flaked on 2 dates tonight. Both were pretty much-gaurteed shags.
-Op is going to starbucks for coffee with a nerdy average chick instead.
-OP doesn't care about any of these dates that much. Has date tomorrow he is looking forward to.
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03-22-2024, 03:25 PM
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Ibby and Miscerlonely seething right now
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03-22-2024, 03:53 PM
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You're very skatchy OP
FS = Full Sex
LFK = Light French Kissing
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03-22-2024, 03:57 PM
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These chicks don't appear to be that hot, so no great loss
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03-22-2024, 06:39 PM
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Just back from the quick coffee date with the nerdy stoner chick. She was cool. Kind of shy. She was cute. You could tell she was introverted but fun. Nothing life changing for me. Where were the chicks like this when I was in my 20 s?? I would have killed for someone like her. I d probably chill with her again why not ? I don’t think I d commit. She already texted me to hang out again. I knew she wanted to by the way she pressed her boobs on me with the good buy hug. Felt two perky tits straight on my chest.
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03-22-2024, 06:56 PM
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The skatchy one looks like thats a catfish myspace angle
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03-22-2024, 07:02 PM
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Do miscers understand the real prize women aren't matching with guys on dating apps? Seriously flip the perspective for a minute. If you're a girl and have to resort to dating apps, or choose to resort to them, you're not at the top of the desirable women food chain. The good ones are locked up and taken long before they even think about getting on a dating app.

So keep bragging on matching with the discard pile of women guys
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03-22-2024, 07:04 PM
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Do miscers understand the real prize women aren't matching with guys on dating apps? Seriously flip the perspective for a minute. If you're a girl and have to resort to dating apps, or choose to resort to them, you're not at the top of the desirable women food chain. The good ones are locked up and taken long before they even think about getting on a dating app.

So keep bragging on matching with the discard pile of women guys
Try men than? I don’t cold approach women. I ll settle for one that I actually like off of apps. I will keep this in mind and maybe try to approach a sloot in public one day if the opportunity is there. But honestly dating apps aren’t the bad. Can be a part time job at times. If chit don’t go well tomorrow with the chick I actually like, I m going to back off of the apps for a couple weeks and focus on myself. Honestly been killing it on hinge lately. I m burnt out. Have 100s of matches I don’t even talk to or respond too.. almost pointless.
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03-22-2024, 07:08 PM
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Try men than? I don’t cold approach women. I ll settle for one that I actually like off of apps. I will keep this in mind any maybe try to approach a sloot in public one day if the opportunity is there. But honestly dating apps aren’t the bad. Can be a part time job at times. Of chit don’t go well tomorrow with the chick I actually like, I m going to back off of the apps for a couple weeks and focus on myself. Honestly been killing it on hinge lately.
I'm just saying we're all losing here. Not sure why some of you make these "brag" threads that aren't even enviable. It's all just depressing as f*ck if this is the best that there is don't you think? Or are you actually satisfied with this situation?
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03-22-2024, 07:08 PM
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03-22-2024, 07:12 PM
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I'm just saying we're all losing here. Not sure why some of you make these "brag" threads that aren't even enviable. It's all just depressing as f*ck if this is the best that there is don't you think? Or are you actually satisfied with this situation?
This chick I m seeing tomorrow is hot af, conservative, and sweet. She is hard to come by. Out of 1000 matches she is the 1 worth it to me. So to answer your question it’s worth it but not for every match. The good fits come few far and in between, especially when you are not desperate.

I m not going to lie to you either. I had an aggressive sliding genioplasty done about 8 months ago. I posted about it here. It’s changed my life. Chicks like this nerdy stoner chick use to show little interest in me. Now she is showing open interest. My life has changed. This is a fairly new experience to me.
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03-22-2024, 07:13 PM
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Do miscers understand the real prize women aren't matching with guys on dating apps? Seriously flip the perspective for a minute. If you're a girl and have to resort to dating apps, or choose to resort to them, you're not at the top of the desirable women food chain. The good ones are locked up and taken long before they even think about getting on a dating app.

So keep bragging on matching with the discard pile of women guys

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03-22-2024, 07:24 PM
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This chick I m seeing tomorrow is hot af, conservative, and sweet. She is hard to come by. Out of 1000 matches she is the 1 worth it to me. So to answer your question it’s worth it but not for every match. The good fits come few far and in between, especially when you are not desperate.

I m not going to lie to you either. I had an aggressive sliding genioplasty done about 8 months ago. I posted about it here. It’s changed my life. Chicks like this nerdy stoner chick use to show little interest in me. Now she is showing open interest. My life has changed. This is a fairly new experience to me.
lmao this is cope my son

She's on a f*cking dating app bro. You think you're some unicorn compared to the 500 other men who matched to her this week? That she's never met up with any of the others? You're the kind of guy who believes them when they say they've never done something like this before while they blow you in the bathroom of the bar 30 minutes after meeting them. Yeah you're just THAT good and irresistible bro….. come on man…..
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03-22-2024, 07:25 PM
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I'm not even a badass I've lost this game too. If you didn't lock down a girl in undergrad (preferable freshman/sophomore year) then you're 100% with some broken skank. If you guys want to pretend these girls are different and you were the crown jewel that they've been waiting on all this time you go right ahead deceiving yourself. Whatever you gotta do to make it work I guess.
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03-22-2024, 07:27 PM
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lmao this is cope my son

She's on a f*cking dating app bro. You think you're some unicorn compared to the 500 other men who matched to her this week? That she's never met up with any of the others? You're the kind of guy who believes them when they say they've never done something like this before while they blow you in the bathroom of the bar 30 minutes after meeting them. Yeah you're just THAT good and irresistible bro….. come on man…..
I could care less man. My point is I now see how desperate some women are now. I never use to see this. If they blow a guy or not it’s irrelevant. They don’t blow guys they don’t want.

Instead of crying about it. Why not ask successful and semi successful miscrs what they are doing to get results.
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03-22-2024, 07:49 PM
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Do miscers understand the real prize women aren't matching with guys on dating apps? Seriously flip the perspective for a minute. If you're a girl and have to resort to dating apps, or choose to resort to them, you're not at the top of the desirable women food chain. The good ones are locked up and taken long before they even think about getting on a dating app.

So keep bragging on matching with the discard pile of women guys
That's why dating apps are 90% men. Women are rich in high quality suitors on Instagram and irl. No need for a dating app.
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That's why dating apps are 90% men. Women are rich in high quality suitors on Instagram and irl. No need for a dating app.
Ig or dating apps sloots gonna sloot so what is the difference really ? Ig is a dating app in disguise so it is no different then tinder sloots at the end of the day. Puzzy is puzzy my brotha, stick your penor in it when you have a nice one in front of ya.
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03-22-2024, 08:04 PM
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Ig or dating apps sloots gonna sloot so what is the difference really ? Ig is a dating app in disguise so it is no different then tinder sloots at the end of the day. Puzzy is puzzy my brotha, stick your penor in it when you have a nice one in front of ya.
Yeah fair enough. I suppose the sloots on Instagram are exposed to chads 24/7 which would be hard for me to compete against.
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both look like border line 4/10s just by their body fat percentages
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both look like border line 4/10s just by their body fat percentages
honestly bro, they are both at least a 6/10 fuk. i m not crazy about them. I said that from the get go.
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03-22-2024, 08:18 PM
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Aw fuk, here comes karma

Inb4 girl tomorrow flakes on you
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Why even make dates with them if you're not interested
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I thought you were getting married to that sloot you knew for like a month? What happened?
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Aw fuk, here comes karma

Inb4 girl tomorrow flakes on you
There is no karma at me man. I've been flaked on too. I hope she doesn't, but even if she did its not the end of the world. I went on a date tonight and the chick was cool. I d be ok with just staying in all night tomorrow. I don't think she will flake, she just sent me a cute video of herself a couple hours ago. I'm not responding to her video until tomorrow morning. I don't want to seem to available on a friday night. She probably thinks i m out getting my dink wet. That chit probably turning her on thinking about how unavailble i am or some chit. But i m def not responding to her on a friday night, she is way to hot.

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Why even make dates with them if you're not interested
The 3 chicks I had lined up for tonight were chicks that threw themselves at me. They were all at least average and above. All three were extremley fukable. I thought i'd give them a chance and i m glad i met the nerdy chick, she is honestly cool. If it was in my 20s i would have probably tried to tie her down… I never really had women ask me out on dates. All three of these women pushed hanging out with me this weekend. The chick i m seeing tomorrow, i asked out. I have other chicks too that have asked me out… I am overwhelmed with "dates". My dick cant handle the influx of women. There are plenty of desperate women out there. They never used to come to me. They are for sure reserving themselves for certain men…

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I thought you were getting married to that sloot you knew for like a month? What happened?
My x? I don't recall saying I would marry her. She was hot af, but i dumped her. She was a mess.
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03-22-2024, 08:39 PM
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Who cares? All that seems like a big waste of time and effort, you didn't get anything out of it.

Id go as far as to say flaking is a feminine trait
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Who cares? All that seems like a big waste of time and effort, you didn't get anything out of it.

Id go as far as to say flaking is a feminine trait
It isn't on purpose. It is really just a failure to juggle all these sloots at the same time. Bad time management or not enough time. They are all women I would have dated seriously years ago. I think i need to raise my standards now and be patient and only date women like the girl i m seeing tomorrow. Last saturday I went on a date with another hot sloot. But i fuked the date up. I posted it here.

I would secondly bring a point to misc. If you do not have average women, and above, throwing themselves at you stop right there. Get fukin leaner, make sure you have hair on your head, do whatever it takes. Because Average and above women ARE without a doubt desperate AF and throwing themselves at "certain" men. This is the take away of this thread. Become one of those "certain" men. It is real. It is happening.

I was not experiencing this to this extent years ago. Something changed. Is it because I'm leaner now? Is it the sliding genioplasty? I don't know what changed, but something did. Is 37 a prime age in the eyes of sloots? Am I in the dad bod of age ranges? Something is amiss here.
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03-22-2024, 09:11 PM
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It isn't on purpose. It is really just a failure to juggle all these sloots at the same time. Bad time management or not enough time. They are all women I would have dated seriously years ago. I think i need to raise my standards now and be patient and only date women like the girl i m seeing tomorrow. Last saturday I went on a date with another hot sloot. But i fuked the date up. I posted it here.

I would secondly bring a point to misc. If you do not have average women, and above, throwing themselves at you stop right there. Get fukin leaner, make sure you have hair on your head, do whatever it takes. Because Average and above women ARE without a doubt desperate AF and throwing themselves at "certain" men. This is the take away of this thread. Become one of those "certain" men. It is real. It is happening.

I was not experiencing this to this extent years ago. Something changed. Is it because I'm leaner now? Is it the sliding genioplasty? I don't know what changed, but something did. Is 37 a prime age in the eyes of sloots? Am I in the dad bod of age ranges? Something is amiss here.
OK your 2nd point makes this thread better. Dudes really need to work on themselves and approach
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03-22-2024, 09:56 PM
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Is it the sliding genioplasty?
Brah, did you have surgery done on your face?
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Brah, did you have surgery done on your face?
Yes. Sliding genioplasty. About 10mm horizontal and 5 mm vertical. I have several threads about it here on the misc.
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why wood you seek a whore to date ? try going outside and finding a good women in decent places…
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