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03-23-2024, 08:30 AM
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If you meet a girl in another country, how does that even work long-term?
Unless the girl speaks english well and can find a good job back in my home country (US in my case), she'll be doing crap menial job if you bring her back and you'll be financially supporting her.
And unless you speak the language of her country well and can get a working visa in her country, many job opportunities will be unavailable to you and you'll likely be forced to work chit tier jobs if you move abroad.
I was recently in France and talked to some French girls and Moroccan girls there through a dating app. They wanted to meet up but I was traveling with family so I decided not to meet any. I can easily find girls to smash in every country worldwide I go to and short-term fun is easy to do but I don't see how that would work long-term.
If you passportbromax, how does that even work long-term?
And unless you speak the language of her country well and can get a working visa in her country, many job opportunities will be unavailable to you and you'll likely be forced to work chit tier jobs if you move abroad.
I was recently in France and talked to some French girls and Moroccan girls there through a dating app. They wanted to meet up but I was traveling with family so I decided not to meet any. I can easily find girls to smash in every country worldwide I go to and short-term fun is easy to do but I don't see how that would work long-term.
If you passportbromax, how does that even work long-term?
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03-23-2024, 08:44 AM
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The only way I can see how being a passportbro works out over the long-term is if you're already financially set/almost retired so don't need to work abroad, have a fully remote job, or ok with financially supporting the girl long-term
03-23-2024, 09:11 AM
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PM MiscerLonely for an answer
03-23-2024, 09:19 AM
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get them pregnant and then apply for section 8 housing like ibby
03-23-2024, 09:26 AM
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In4 answer from MiscerLonely
03-23-2024, 09:27 AM
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What app?
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03-23-2024, 02:15 PM
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well, I was working in Saudi and met my wife through my best friends wife. I met her in Thailand, conversed through dictionaries, my bad Thai, and her bad English. Got married, brought her to Saudi. Of course she couldn't have a job there. It did give her time to learn English. Eventually move back to US, she was a stay at home mom until the kids were in HS. Then she started working. Works out well.
03-23-2024, 02:16 PM
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It doesn't. She sleeps around constantly and unless you're Matty from the UK going to different raves every month, GG well played. She's taking dink every night while you post on misc trying to figure out how to woo her
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03-23-2024, 02:46 PM
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Originally Posted By sowilson⏩
honestly boggles my mind how someone can fall in love without being able to communicate with 1 another
well, I was working in Saudi and met my wife through my best friends wife. I met her in Thailand, conversed through dictionaries, my bad Thai, and her bad English. Got married, brought her to Saudi. Of course she couldn't have a job there. It did give her time to learn English. Eventually move back to US, she was a stay at home mom until the kids were in HS. Then she started working. Works out well.
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03-23-2024, 03:33 PM
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Originally Posted By ithappenss⏩
With certain people, being unable to communicate makes them more likable lol
honestly boggles my mind how someone can fall in love without being able to communicate with 1 another
probably many many passport bros fall in that group.
03-23-2024, 03:39 PM
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The same as if she's down the block
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03-23-2024, 04:11 PM
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Originally Posted By sf813⏩
Dated one girl that was over here in the US for awhile, but I knew she would eventually have to go back (Ukraine before the war). Her touring with the ballet was why she was in the US for the year. Language was not a problem as she spoke 5 or 6 languages fluently. First time she went back for a few months, we did keep in good contact via phone and video chat, but when covid hit and it was obvious that she wouldn't be coming back for a long time, I just started contacting her less and less. I wasn't going to marry her, so eventually it would have had to end unless she decided to relocate here. She could have easily as she had money and could get a lot of good paying jobs in her field.
Unless the girl speaks english well and can find a good job back in my home country (US in my case), she'll be doing crap menial job if you bring her back and you'll be financially supporting her.
Originally Posted By ithappenss⏩
Dated two girls where the English wasn't great when we met (both recently came to the US), but the chemistry was there right away. Their English improved exponentially with a lot of conversation and in a short time, it wasn't really an issue anymore. One said that I was the only one who understood her broken English, and she said that was because I could see into her heart and mind. haha
honestly boggles my mind how someone can fall in love without being able to communicate with 1 another
03-23-2024, 04:27 PM
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Originally Posted By TomPaine⏩
but how can you've chemistry if you cant relate to one another due to dif cultures? i understand it's a thing but to me as soon as a girl is not relatable no matter how hot she is it's a turn off that nothing can reverse
Dated one girl that was over here in the US for awhile, but I knew she would eventually have to go back (Ukraine before the war). Her touring with the ballet was why she was in the US for the year. Language was not a problem as she spoke 5 or 6 languages fluently. First time she went back for a few months, we did keep in good contact via phone and video chat, but when covid hit and it was obvious that she wouldn't be coming back for a long time, I just started contacting her less and less. I wasn't going to marry her, so eventually it would have had to end unless she decided to relocate here. She could have easily as she had money and could get a lot of good paying jobs in her field.
Dated two girls where the English wasn't great when we met (both recently came to the US), but the chemistry was there right away. Their English improved exponentially with a lot of conversation and in a short time, it wasn't really an issue anymore. One said that I was the only one who understood her broken English, and she said that was because I could see into her heart and mind. haha
Dated two girls where the English wasn't great when we met (both recently came to the US), but the chemistry was there right away. Their English improved exponentially with a lot of conversation and in a short time, it wasn't really an issue anymore. One said that I was the only one who understood her broken English, and she said that was because I could see into her heart and mind. haha
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03-23-2024, 04:31 PM
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Originally Posted By ithappenss⏩
Yeah, at that point you have about as much "connection" as a john and a hooker.
honestly boggles my mind how someone can fall in love without being able to communicate with 1 another
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03-23-2024, 04:37 PM
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You send her money for her and Juan to enjoy
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03-23-2024, 04:51 PM
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Originally Posted By ithappenss⏩
Real chemistry is something that two people either have the moment that they meet, or they don't. It can be noticeable with that first look, gesture, or even a laugh. Of those two that I mentioned, they both spoke very rough broken English at first, but there was some. They both learned fast, partly because they didn't want me to lose interest in them. They were both hot, and of course I was instantly physically attracted to them, but that wasn't the connection. They were both feminine, sweet, affectionate, and eager to learn.
but how can you've chemistry if you cant relate to one another due to dif cultures? i understand it's a thing but to me as soon as a girl is not relatable no matter how hot she is it's a turn off that nothing can reverse
I think what that shows is that two people, from completely different cultures, can hit it off instantly and complement one another. It was fun learning about their cultures and customs, while seeing them so interested in mine. Much better than having only pop culture gossipy type conversations with shallow sloots. I also like being able to understand some basic conversation words and phrases in a lot of different languages. Its something so different from what people are taught here.
03-23-2024, 05:14 PM
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Originally Posted By TomPaine⏩
i've had "chemistry" as how you descirbe it with girls in a club for 1 night but after i sober up im like wth am i even doing here. how can you possibly know a person and fall in love with them if you can't communicate… it's purely attraction at that point. i cant wrap my head around it. idk why you passport bros always go to western girls are shallow or slts arguments. there are plenty of decent western girls that still have good morals and are feminine
Real chemistry is something that two people either have the moment that they meet, or they don't. It can be noticeable with that first look, gesture, or even a laugh. Of those two that I mentioned, they both spoke very rough broken English at first, but there was some. They both learned fast, partly because they didn't want me to lose interest in them. They were both hot, and of course I was instantly physically attracted to them, but that wasn't the connection. They were both feminine, sweet, affectionate, and eager to learn.
I think what that shows is that two people, from completely different cultures, can hit it off instantly and complement one another. It was fun learning about their cultures and customs, while seeing them so interested in mine. Much better than having only pop culture gossipy type conversations with shallow sloots. I also like being able to understand some basic conversation words and phrases in a lot of different languages. Its something so different from what people are taught here.
I think what that shows is that two people, from completely different cultures, can hit it off instantly and complement one another. It was fun learning about their cultures and customs, while seeing them so interested in mine. Much better than having only pop culture gossipy type conversations with shallow sloots. I also like being able to understand some basic conversation words and phrases in a lot of different languages. Its something so different from what people are taught here.
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03-23-2024, 05:26 PM
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Originally Posted By ithappenss⏩
Yes, sometimes that chemistry doesn't lead anywhere. But for me, it is a must to have before I will ever pursue. I'm pretty picky in that way. I've never grown to be into someone, its either there right away or never.
i've had "chemistry" as how you descirbe it with girls in a club for 1 night but after i sober up im like wth am i even doing here. how can you possibly know a person and fall in love with them if you can't communicate… it's purely attraction at that point. i cant wrap my head around it. idk why you passport bros always go to western girls are shallow or slts arguments. there are plenty of decent western girls that still have good morals and are feminine
With both of them, that spark was there immediately for both sides, so I asked and took them out. After spending some time together, both sides enjoyed and wanted to be around each other more. Words are not the only way to communicate. Body language, gestures, looking up words on google translate, etc. all are a part. Again, they had some English to start. Admitted not great, but there are some people here who have vocabularies not much larger.
Not a passport bro here at all. I've never left our continent. These are ones that came here. Of course, there are some Western girls that are still great, but that % is going down every day.
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