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post 1704816531 08-09-2024, 09:53 PM
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If Someone's Kids are Wild, does that make them a bad parent?

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post 1704816591 08-09-2024, 09:55 PM
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I noticed if a kid doesn't get beat physically they run and act wild, I'm not for beating kids but it is something I noticed in my younger days.
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post 1704816631 08-09-2024, 09:56 PM
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not necessarily but its not a good look
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post 1704816681 08-09-2024, 09:56 PM
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Hard to say but posting sloot pics of themselves on the misc definitely does.
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It's really hard to say.

When I was a kid I was REALLY fooking bad. It was mostly mischievous stuff but never violence. It all died after sophomore year in highschool.

I think my parents only influenced maybe 20% of my behavior and the rest was really just me lol.
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Originally Posted By johnvee73
I noticed if a kid doesn't get beat physically they run and act wild, I'm not for beating kids but it is something I noticed in my younger days.
i used to get smacked around by my mom. not full on beatings, but some hard ass smacks. not more than two in a row ever. and never random. kept me in check srs. she is soviet and had holocaust survivor parents so i give her a pass for being fuked up. also she's enabled me my entire adult life so i'm willing to overlook things i didn't love about my childhood.
post 1704816771 08-09-2024, 09:58 PM
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Originally Posted By yieldtonothing
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YES.


Any other answer is wrong.
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Usually, yes.

Being the youngest on one side of my family (by 5-12 years) and seeing all of my cousins kids and how they act, you can easily tell who is the more "hands on" parent.

The wild kids are used to minimal rules, not strict behavioral guidelines, poor diet, way too much screen time and not enough positive attention. Sometimes it's just a kid having too much sugar or being bored, but most of the time it's just bad overall parenting tbh.
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Originally Posted By johnvee73
I noticed if a kid doesn't get beat physically they run and act wild, I'm not for beating kids but it is something I noticed in my younger days.
Did you get beaten?
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824
Did you get beaten?
Yes I did, and I'm prepared for any shyt you're going to give me, I noticed kids who got beat grow up to be timid and meek often seeing danger in situations when there is no danger present while being desensitized to violent situations, same people also usually accept abuse from others.
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Originally Posted By johnvee73
Yes I did, and I'm prepared for any shyt you're going to give me, I noticed kids who got beat grow up to be timid and meek often seeing danger in situations when there is no danger present while being desensitized to violent situations, same people also usually accept abuse from others.
Would more, or less beatings, have made you into a productive member of society?
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824
Would more, or less beatings, have made you into a productive member of society?
No beatings at all, there was little rhyme nor reason to my parent's discipline, I "blame" my parents for most of my issues as an adult.

And don't bother saying anything more about me getting a job, I'm considered disabled, I feel much better since I stopped working and am taking steps to making myself feel even better by losing weight and getting my own place, the reality is some people are disabled and not fit to work 40 hours a week... There was no bartering with my parents, they often would give beatings based on their mood that day, like I said there was little rhyme nor reason to their discipline.
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Originally Posted By johnvee73
No beatings at all, there was little rhyme nor reason to my parent's discipline, I "blame" my parents for most of my issues as an adult.

And don't bother saying anything more about me getting a job, I'm considered disabled, I feel much better since I stopped working and am taking steps to making myself feel even better by losing weight and getting my own place, the reality is some people are disabled and not fit to work 40 hours a week... There was no bartering with my parents, they often would give beatings based on their mood that day, like I said there was little rhyme nor reason to their discipline.
I don't understand how you're not fit to work, but you are here 24/7 basically doing the same thing you would if you had a data entry job.

What would happen if everyone just gave up like you? Who would you love off then?
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